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Steven Johnston Tower
Nov 15, 2023 |
Steven Johnston Tower of Hingham, Massachusetts, died suddenly on November 15 at his home in Hingham.
Starting his life in Hingham, Massachusetts, in 1960, he was the second son of Arthur Tower and Betty (Johnston) Tower. He attended North Adams State College but eventually graduated from Northeastern University. He would go on to spend the majority of his career as an insurance investigator.
He found a sense of calm and excitement on two wheels, whether he was pedaling one of his many bikes or pushing the throttle as hard as it could go on his motorcycle. When not on a bike, he loved to spend time digging up quahogs near the family home in Mattapoisett and assisting with any project the community needed. Throughout his life, he also liked to channel his inner Herb Brooks as a longtime coach and administrator of Braintree Youth Hockey. He could also often be found volunteering his time at the Old Colony Lodge in Hingham, where he was a devoted Masonic member.
He leaves behind his only son, Steven Jr., of Rockland, Massachusetts, and former wife and friend Catherine Nelligan of Venice, Florida. He is also survived by his many cousins with whom he shared many memories in Mattapoisett. He has now joined his late brother Putt Jr. of Fairhaven and his mother and father.
Visiting hours were held at Downing Cottage Funeral Chapel, 21 Pond St., Hingham, on Monday, November 20th. Relatives and friends were invited to attend a memorial service at Second Parish, 685 Main St. in Hingham on Tuesday, November 21st. Burial was a private ceremony. For additional information and online guestbook please go to www.downingchapel.com
Starting his life in Hingham, Massachusetts, in 1960, he was the second son of Arthur Tower and Betty (Johnston) Tower. He attended North Adams State College but eventually graduated from Northeastern University. He would go on to spend the majority of his career as an insurance investigator.
He found a sense of calm and excitement on two wheels, whether he was pedaling one of his many bikes or pushing the throttle as hard as it could go on his motorcycle. When not on a bike, he loved to spend time digging up quahogs near the family home in Mattapoisett and assisting with any project the community needed. Throughout his life, he also liked to channel his inner Herb Brooks as a longtime coach and administrator of Braintree Youth Hockey. He could also often be found volunteering his time at the Old Colony Lodge in Hingham, where he was a devoted Masonic member.
He leaves behind his only son, Steven Jr., of Rockland, Massachusetts, and former wife and friend Catherine Nelligan of Venice, Florida. He is also survived by his many cousins with whom he shared many memories in Mattapoisett. He has now joined his late brother Putt Jr. of Fairhaven and his mother and father.
Visiting hours were held at Downing Cottage Funeral Chapel, 21 Pond St., Hingham, on Monday, November 20th. Relatives and friends were invited to attend a memorial service at Second Parish, 685 Main St. in Hingham on Tuesday, November 21st. Burial was a private ceremony. For additional information and online guestbook please go to www.downingchapel.com
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William "Bill" Standish Bradford
Nov 09, 2023 |
William "Bill" Standish Bradford passed away peacefully in his 90th year in Marion Massachusetts. He was the loving father of three children, Laura, Stan and Jamie.
Born on December 29, 1933, in Hampstead Heath, England to American parents William and Helen Bradford. Bill spent his childhood on Cape Cod and in southern Massachusetts. He attended the Taft School and graduated from Tabor Academy. At Boston University he received a degree in English. Bill was an avid athlete, excelling in wrestling, sailing and football while in prep school. In his later years, he loved tennis, road races, water skiing and most outdoor activities. As a young father, his favorite activity was playing "Roof-Ball" with his children. As he got older, he could be found hiking, jogging on the beach with his beloved dog Jasper or riding his bike around Ocean Drive in Newport.
As a child, Bill's summers were often spent with his grandfather (writer Thornton Burgess) at Laughing Brook in Hamden, Massachusetts. It was here that Bill discovered his passion for the natural environment, and perhaps where he began his absolute love of dogs. Bill enjoyed acting and was involved with the Marion Art Center and the Newport Playhouse where he honed his skills. Bill had a unique ability to connect with people, he was loved by those around him.
Bill was predeceased by his brother and his three sisters, Robert, Frannie, Rosemary and Jeannie. He was cared for by his daughter Laura Zell and leaves behind two beloved grandchildren Alexa and Will. Bill also leaves behind two sons, Stan and Jamie Bradford of Marion.
A private memorial service will be held in Marion. In lieu of flowers the family is asking for donations to the Thornton Burgess Society in Sandwich Massachusetts (www.thorntonburgess.org/donate) or the Mass Audubon Society - Laughing Brook Wildlife Sanctuary (www.massaudubon.org)
Arrangements by Chapman Funerals & Cremations - Wareham. To leave a message of condolence visit: www.chapmanfuneral.com
Born on December 29, 1933, in Hampstead Heath, England to American parents William and Helen Bradford. Bill spent his childhood on Cape Cod and in southern Massachusetts. He attended the Taft School and graduated from Tabor Academy. At Boston University he received a degree in English. Bill was an avid athlete, excelling in wrestling, sailing and football while in prep school. In his later years, he loved tennis, road races, water skiing and most outdoor activities. As a young father, his favorite activity was playing "Roof-Ball" with his children. As he got older, he could be found hiking, jogging on the beach with his beloved dog Jasper or riding his bike around Ocean Drive in Newport.
As a child, Bill's summers were often spent with his grandfather (writer Thornton Burgess) at Laughing Brook in Hamden, Massachusetts. It was here that Bill discovered his passion for the natural environment, and perhaps where he began his absolute love of dogs. Bill enjoyed acting and was involved with the Marion Art Center and the Newport Playhouse where he honed his skills. Bill had a unique ability to connect with people, he was loved by those around him.
Bill was predeceased by his brother and his three sisters, Robert, Frannie, Rosemary and Jeannie. He was cared for by his daughter Laura Zell and leaves behind two beloved grandchildren Alexa and Will. Bill also leaves behind two sons, Stan and Jamie Bradford of Marion.
A private memorial service will be held in Marion. In lieu of flowers the family is asking for donations to the Thornton Burgess Society in Sandwich Massachusetts (www.thorntonburgess.org/donate) or the Mass Audubon Society - Laughing Brook Wildlife Sanctuary (www.massaudubon.org)
Arrangements by Chapman Funerals & Cremations - Wareham. To leave a message of condolence visit: www.chapmanfuneral.com
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James C. Holden
Nov 04, 2023 |
James C. Holden, age 86, of Mattapoisett died peacefully on Saturday November 4, 2023, in his home alongside his loving wife of 63 years Patricia (Fielding) Holden whom he completely adored.
He was born in New Bedford, MA on July 26, 1937, to Gardner and Hilda (Viera) Holden. He was raised in the West End of New Bedford where he later raised his own family. Jim often told his grandchildren stories of hunting with his best friend George just steps from where they both lived. From 1956 -1958, Jim served in the Army Airborne Division as a Paratrooper. He kept his service private for most of his life, but Jim shared his experiences more often during his later years.
Jim spent his life tirelessly working on the shoreside of the fishing industry where he made many memories and close friends. He retired as General Manager of Hathaway Braley Wharf Co. and President of Nice Ice, following a career working for his family business, Holden and Padelford Ice Co. Jim was known as a hardworking, trustworthy and savvy business man, unafraid to say what he believed. Whether by the pool or over a cup of coffee, he enjoyed sharing stories of New Bedford's waterfront. Jim was an avid golfer, outdoorsman, and a friend of Bill W.
Jim's greatest achievement was his family. He was a dedicated husband to his wife, Pat, who cared for him until the moment that he passed. Jim and Pat enjoyed hosting friends and family, dining out, and spending the colder months in Florida. Jim's toughness was only rivaled by his love for his children and their children. He cherished the relationships that he had with each of his daughters. Jim was most proud of his grandchildren. Among the greatest gifts he gave to his family was time - being ever present in moments of need and celebration.
James Holden is survived by his loving wife Patricia; his sister Carolyn (Holden) and her husband Gardner Greany; his children Karen (Holden) Nitsche and Debra (Holden) and husband Robert Gomes; three grandchildren, James Gomes, Justin and his wife Katie Gomes, and Jonathan Gomes; and great-grandchildren, Greyson Ellis Gomes and Josephine Day Gomes. He was predeceased by his son-in-law Craig Nitsche; his brother Richard and his wife Barbara Holden; his sister Constance; and his parents, Gardner and Hilda Holden.
At Jim's request, his services will be private. His family is especially grateful to his care teams at Tufts Medical Center and the Providence VA Medical Center. In lieu of flowers, memorials in his name may be made to the Veterans Transition House, 1297 Purchase St., New Bedford, MA 02740. Arrangements are by the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Mattapoisett. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
He was born in New Bedford, MA on July 26, 1937, to Gardner and Hilda (Viera) Holden. He was raised in the West End of New Bedford where he later raised his own family. Jim often told his grandchildren stories of hunting with his best friend George just steps from where they both lived. From 1956 -1958, Jim served in the Army Airborne Division as a Paratrooper. He kept his service private for most of his life, but Jim shared his experiences more often during his later years.
Jim spent his life tirelessly working on the shoreside of the fishing industry where he made many memories and close friends. He retired as General Manager of Hathaway Braley Wharf Co. and President of Nice Ice, following a career working for his family business, Holden and Padelford Ice Co. Jim was known as a hardworking, trustworthy and savvy business man, unafraid to say what he believed. Whether by the pool or over a cup of coffee, he enjoyed sharing stories of New Bedford's waterfront. Jim was an avid golfer, outdoorsman, and a friend of Bill W.
Jim's greatest achievement was his family. He was a dedicated husband to his wife, Pat, who cared for him until the moment that he passed. Jim and Pat enjoyed hosting friends and family, dining out, and spending the colder months in Florida. Jim's toughness was only rivaled by his love for his children and their children. He cherished the relationships that he had with each of his daughters. Jim was most proud of his grandchildren. Among the greatest gifts he gave to his family was time - being ever present in moments of need and celebration.
James Holden is survived by his loving wife Patricia; his sister Carolyn (Holden) and her husband Gardner Greany; his children Karen (Holden) Nitsche and Debra (Holden) and husband Robert Gomes; three grandchildren, James Gomes, Justin and his wife Katie Gomes, and Jonathan Gomes; and great-grandchildren, Greyson Ellis Gomes and Josephine Day Gomes. He was predeceased by his son-in-law Craig Nitsche; his brother Richard and his wife Barbara Holden; his sister Constance; and his parents, Gardner and Hilda Holden.
At Jim's request, his services will be private. His family is especially grateful to his care teams at Tufts Medical Center and the Providence VA Medical Center. In lieu of flowers, memorials in his name may be made to the Veterans Transition House, 1297 Purchase St., New Bedford, MA 02740. Arrangements are by the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Mattapoisett. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
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Dr. Clarence John Myatt
Nov 04, 2023 |
Dr. Clarence John Myatt, known to all as Ben, passed away peacefully on November 4, 2023. He was a dedicated dentist, a proud Air Force veteran, and an accomplished athlete. Ben's journey through life was marked by resilience, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to family and community.
Born on June 16, 1935, Ben was the son of Clarence Benson (CB) Myatt and Margaret (Marge) Doyle Myatt. His siblings include his late brother, Paul Myatt, of Orange, CT. He is survived by his loving sister, Anne Myatt Tetreault, and her husband Tom Tetreault, of Hanover, NH; and his brother Steve Myatt, of San Diego, CA; both of whom shared a special bond of siblinghood that lasted throughout their lives.
Ben was married to his beloved wife, Katherine "Kathy" Salter Myatt, for 59 years. Together, they raised a loving family, including their children, Chris Myatt, and his wife Sarah Hatcher, their children Elena Myatt and Annalise Myatt, all of Boulder, CO; and Janine Myatt, of Bristol VA and her son, Benson Hazelwood, of Memphis, TN.
Ben grew up in Belmont, MA, and Quincy, MA. He graduated from Archbishop Williams Highschool in Braintree, MA, in 1953. He then attended Saint Michael's College in Winooski, VT, and graduated in 1957. He graduated from the University of Maryland Dental School in 1961 followed by a year's residency in oral surgery at Mercy Hospital in Baltimore, MD. Ben and Kathy raised their family in Bridgewater, MA, and in their later years split their time between a summer house at Harbor Beach, Mattapoisett, MA and The Villages, FL.
Ben was an accomplished athlete. He was an exceptional hockey player and even played semi-pro hockey while attending dental school. His talent and determination on the ice inspired many and left an enduring legacy. He was also passionate about golf and tennis, which he could play well into his '80s. He took up sailing in his 30s, and became a lifelong sailor. He was particularly attached to his 25' sailboat, the Never Again, often seen with a passel of kids from the neighborhood dangling their feet over the gunwale as he buried the bow into the waves.
Ben's passion for service led him to be a dentist in the United States Air Force, where he proudly served his country at the Lajes Air Force Base on Terceira Island, the Azores. His advanced training in oral surgery helped him in his service in the Azores. His dedication to duty and his commitment to his fellow servicemen and servicewomen left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing him.
After his service in the Air Force, Ben practiced dentistry for 37 years in the town of North Easton, MA. In particular, he was proud to serve the patients in the region with Down syndrome. His dedication to his patients was legendary, once even taking care of a late-night emergency while still dressed in his hockey gear.
In his last months and days, Ben was given wonderful care by Regan's Creative Homecare in Fairhaven, MA. Hospice care by Southcoast Visiting Nurses Association was also exceptional.
A Funeral Mass to honor Ben will be held on Saturday, January 6, 2024 at 12:30 pm at St Anthony's Church. Visiting hours will be on Saturday morning prior to his Mass from 10 am-noon at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals in Mattapoisett, and a celebration of life will follow the service. In lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital in Memphis TN www.stjude.org, a cause that was dear to Ben's heart. For on-line guestbook, visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
Born on June 16, 1935, Ben was the son of Clarence Benson (CB) Myatt and Margaret (Marge) Doyle Myatt. His siblings include his late brother, Paul Myatt, of Orange, CT. He is survived by his loving sister, Anne Myatt Tetreault, and her husband Tom Tetreault, of Hanover, NH; and his brother Steve Myatt, of San Diego, CA; both of whom shared a special bond of siblinghood that lasted throughout their lives.
Ben was married to his beloved wife, Katherine "Kathy" Salter Myatt, for 59 years. Together, they raised a loving family, including their children, Chris Myatt, and his wife Sarah Hatcher, their children Elena Myatt and Annalise Myatt, all of Boulder, CO; and Janine Myatt, of Bristol VA and her son, Benson Hazelwood, of Memphis, TN.
Ben grew up in Belmont, MA, and Quincy, MA. He graduated from Archbishop Williams Highschool in Braintree, MA, in 1953. He then attended Saint Michael's College in Winooski, VT, and graduated in 1957. He graduated from the University of Maryland Dental School in 1961 followed by a year's residency in oral surgery at Mercy Hospital in Baltimore, MD. Ben and Kathy raised their family in Bridgewater, MA, and in their later years split their time between a summer house at Harbor Beach, Mattapoisett, MA and The Villages, FL.
Ben was an accomplished athlete. He was an exceptional hockey player and even played semi-pro hockey while attending dental school. His talent and determination on the ice inspired many and left an enduring legacy. He was also passionate about golf and tennis, which he could play well into his '80s. He took up sailing in his 30s, and became a lifelong sailor. He was particularly attached to his 25' sailboat, the Never Again, often seen with a passel of kids from the neighborhood dangling their feet over the gunwale as he buried the bow into the waves.
Ben's passion for service led him to be a dentist in the United States Air Force, where he proudly served his country at the Lajes Air Force Base on Terceira Island, the Azores. His advanced training in oral surgery helped him in his service in the Azores. His dedication to duty and his commitment to his fellow servicemen and servicewomen left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing him.
After his service in the Air Force, Ben practiced dentistry for 37 years in the town of North Easton, MA. In particular, he was proud to serve the patients in the region with Down syndrome. His dedication to his patients was legendary, once even taking care of a late-night emergency while still dressed in his hockey gear.
In his last months and days, Ben was given wonderful care by Regan's Creative Homecare in Fairhaven, MA. Hospice care by Southcoast Visiting Nurses Association was also exceptional.
A Funeral Mass to honor Ben will be held on Saturday, January 6, 2024 at 12:30 pm at St Anthony's Church. Visiting hours will be on Saturday morning prior to his Mass from 10 am-noon at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals in Mattapoisett, and a celebration of life will follow the service. In lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital in Memphis TN www.stjude.org, a cause that was dear to Ben's heart. For on-line guestbook, visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
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Helen G. Johnston (Bettencourt, DeConinck)
Nov 03, 2023 |
Helen G. Johnston (Bettencourt, DeConinck) of Clayton NY passed away peacefully Friday, November 3rd at the Samaritan Keep Nursing Home in Watertown, NY.
She was born in Watertown on February 29th, 1932, to the late William and Helen (Dygert) Graf. She was a long-time resident of Mattapoisett, MA, where she raised her children and three of her grandchildren.
Helen served as a home health care aide and she loved riding Morgan horses and breeding St. Bernard dogs as well as watching football, basketball, Gunsmoke, and the Kentucky Derby.
Helen is survived by three of her children: Joseph Bettencourt Jr., Carol McCauslin and Katherine Bettencourt, two siblings: Phyllis Johnson and David Graf, six grandchildren: Joeseph Bettencourt III, Ronald Ewan, Carol Leigh Ewan Carvalho, Mike McCauslin, Jim McCauslin and Tony Dewitt, as well as eight great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.
Helen is predeceased by her parents, her brother William "Beano" Graf, two children Paul and Debra Bettencourt, one grandson Daniel Ewan, and her best-friend Bubba.
A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Anthony's Parish in Mattapoisett, MA on December 16th, 2023 at 10am. Helen will be laid to rest in St. Mary's Cemetery in New Bedford, MA.
She was born in Watertown on February 29th, 1932, to the late William and Helen (Dygert) Graf. She was a long-time resident of Mattapoisett, MA, where she raised her children and three of her grandchildren.
Helen served as a home health care aide and she loved riding Morgan horses and breeding St. Bernard dogs as well as watching football, basketball, Gunsmoke, and the Kentucky Derby.
Helen is survived by three of her children: Joseph Bettencourt Jr., Carol McCauslin and Katherine Bettencourt, two siblings: Phyllis Johnson and David Graf, six grandchildren: Joeseph Bettencourt III, Ronald Ewan, Carol Leigh Ewan Carvalho, Mike McCauslin, Jim McCauslin and Tony Dewitt, as well as eight great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.
Helen is predeceased by her parents, her brother William "Beano" Graf, two children Paul and Debra Bettencourt, one grandson Daniel Ewan, and her best-friend Bubba.
A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Anthony's Parish in Mattapoisett, MA on December 16th, 2023 at 10am. Helen will be laid to rest in St. Mary's Cemetery in New Bedford, MA.
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Captain Lawrence J. O'Pezio
Nov 01, 2023 |
Captain Lawrence J. O'Pezio, 89, of Melbourne, Florida passed away on November 1, 2023. He was born February 21, 1934 to the late Victor and Mary O'Pezio of Bay Shore, N.Y. He was predeceased by his wife of 60 years, Janice (Jan) Heintzelman O'Pezio. Larry attended Bay Shore High School and then went on to graduate from the U.S. Coast Guard Academy 1956. Captain O'Pezio had a distinguished career in the U. S. Coast Guard highlighted by a year of coastal patrols in Vietnam and as a "sailor's sailor" he was Commanding Officer of the USCGC Vigilant and then the USCGC Chase which at the time was the largest and newest vessel in the Coast Guard's fleet.
Upon retirement from the Coast Guard Larry found relaxation in listening to classical music and attending performances of the Brevard Symphony Orchestra. He also enjoyed building his model airplanes, doing jigsaw puzzles and attempting to finish the always difficult NY Times crossword puzzle. He was also a pretty decent pasta maker.
Larry is survived by two sons. Michael and his wife Kathy of Chesapeake, VA. Thomas and his partner Rosemarie Xavier of Mattapoisett, MA. Four granddaughters, Heather O'Pezio and her partner Colin Spencer of Norfolk, VA. Danielle del Rosario and her husband Brandon del Rosario of Chesapeake, VA. Elizabeth O'Pezio and her partner Ross Macedo of Fairhaven, MA and Caroline O'Pezio of Mattapoisett, MA. A great-grandson Glenn del Rosario and a great-granddaughter Charlie Rose Macedo. He is also survived by his brother Captain Robert and Sharron O'Pezio of Atlantic Beach, FL.
Contributions can be made in his memory to South Guild of Brevard Symphony Orchestra, PO Box 361965, Melbourne, Fl. 32936-1965.
Beckman-Williamson Funeral home of Rockledge, FL is assisting family with future arrangements.
Upon retirement from the Coast Guard Larry found relaxation in listening to classical music and attending performances of the Brevard Symphony Orchestra. He also enjoyed building his model airplanes, doing jigsaw puzzles and attempting to finish the always difficult NY Times crossword puzzle. He was also a pretty decent pasta maker.
Larry is survived by two sons. Michael and his wife Kathy of Chesapeake, VA. Thomas and his partner Rosemarie Xavier of Mattapoisett, MA. Four granddaughters, Heather O'Pezio and her partner Colin Spencer of Norfolk, VA. Danielle del Rosario and her husband Brandon del Rosario of Chesapeake, VA. Elizabeth O'Pezio and her partner Ross Macedo of Fairhaven, MA and Caroline O'Pezio of Mattapoisett, MA. A great-grandson Glenn del Rosario and a great-granddaughter Charlie Rose Macedo. He is also survived by his brother Captain Robert and Sharron O'Pezio of Atlantic Beach, FL.
Contributions can be made in his memory to South Guild of Brevard Symphony Orchestra, PO Box 361965, Melbourne, Fl. 32936-1965.
Beckman-Williamson Funeral home of Rockledge, FL is assisting family with future arrangements.
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Betsey June (Winslow) Converse
Oct 27, 2023 |
Betsey June (Winslow) Converse, 90, of Marion, died October 27, 2023 at home. She was the wife of the late Norman A. Converse, Jr.
Born in Fall River on February 3, 1933, she was the daughter of Edwin C. and Effie L. Winslow of Mattapoisett. She loved to tell the story of her adoption by the two best parents she could ever have dreamed of.
Growing up in Mattapoisett, Betsey attended Center School, and graduated from Fairhaven High School. She made life long friends during these years. Her cheerful and agreeable nature, humor, outgoing personality, winning smile, and bright blue eyes engaged her with everyone she met throughout her life.
She was drawn to a quiet and interesting young man named Norman Converse, who was the older brother of her "BFF", Muriel (Converse) Walker, and they were married in 1951. She was 18 years old when they embarked upon what would be a 70-year commitment to each other, and included many adventures of a simple life based upon raising a family, a love of nature, music, friends, camping, hiking, and sailing.
Together, they spent close to 40 summers on a tidal cove in downeast Maine, where they built a little cottage and created an off the grid lifestyle, making new friends, tending their garden, exploring Washington County's lakes, streams and ponds for fishing, swimming, and good picnic spots. Their family loved visiting, camping out with them, sitting around the campfire, star gazing, having great meals (yes, she made a good soup!) and listening to Betsey playing the piano.
Betsey was an accomplished pianist. She began taking lessons at an early age and quickly found a natural aptitude and talent. She studied throughout her teen years with renowned concert pianist and teacher, Madame Lily Dumont of New Bedford, MA, and became a popular teacher herself, giving lessons from home and also at Tabor Academy. Besides teaching piano, she taught for several years at The Loft School in Marion. Later in life, she returned to her studies with Madame Dumont, and her playing improved even more as she participated in Master classes at the Longy School of Music in Boston, and at SMU, and renewed her relationship with the teacher who adored her from her childhood.
Her family encouraged her to keep playing through her last few years as she struggled somewhat with dementia. She might not have been able to retrieve the words she wanted to say, but she could sit at the piano and decipher those "funny little black marks on the page" and express herself through her music.
We were able to bring her to Maine for one last visit to her camp this past August, and our pictures from that trip show her beaming with delight in every one. We are grateful that we were able to care for her in her own home, in familiar surroundings, with her piano, her loving neighbors, and with her daughters who were able to be by her side and share the last few years of her life with the mother who was a best friend to each one.
Betsey had "done all she wanted to do" in life, was happy and grateful for everything, and was loved by all. She was ready to go be with her parents, and Norman, and we can only imagine all the friends she made over her long life greeting her somewhere with joy. And if any of that is true, it's comforting to think of her greeting us again someday, too.
She is survived by three daughters, Sara C. Fraley (and spouse Frederick) of Mount Desert, Maine; Amy L. Converse of Ellsworth, Maine; and Pearl A. Converse of Wareham, MA; four grandchildren, Faith M. Penney of Charlotte, NC; Rowan C. Fraley of Mount Desert, Maine; Zephyr Converse (and spouse Al) of Fitchburg, MA, and Adam B. Fraley of Trenton, Maine; also her Converse brothers and sisters in law: Muriel C. Walker, Mark (and Hilary) Converse, Marshall (and Maria) Converse, Celeste (and Ray) Sylvia, Corinne Fisher, Christine Cummings, and Kent (and Nancy) Converse, and many nieces and nephews on this side of the family. She leaves behind a close-knit neighborhood of devoted friends (you know who you are!), and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your love of our mother, your friendships and your support.
Burial will be at Cushing Cemetery in Mattapoisett, and a private gathering will be held in Celebration of Betsey at a later date. Condolences and remembrances may be shared online at Donaghy-Hathaway Funeral Home, New Bedford, MA.
Born in Fall River on February 3, 1933, she was the daughter of Edwin C. and Effie L. Winslow of Mattapoisett. She loved to tell the story of her adoption by the two best parents she could ever have dreamed of.
Growing up in Mattapoisett, Betsey attended Center School, and graduated from Fairhaven High School. She made life long friends during these years. Her cheerful and agreeable nature, humor, outgoing personality, winning smile, and bright blue eyes engaged her with everyone she met throughout her life.
She was drawn to a quiet and interesting young man named Norman Converse, who was the older brother of her "BFF", Muriel (Converse) Walker, and they were married in 1951. She was 18 years old when they embarked upon what would be a 70-year commitment to each other, and included many adventures of a simple life based upon raising a family, a love of nature, music, friends, camping, hiking, and sailing.
Together, they spent close to 40 summers on a tidal cove in downeast Maine, where they built a little cottage and created an off the grid lifestyle, making new friends, tending their garden, exploring Washington County's lakes, streams and ponds for fishing, swimming, and good picnic spots. Their family loved visiting, camping out with them, sitting around the campfire, star gazing, having great meals (yes, she made a good soup!) and listening to Betsey playing the piano.
Betsey was an accomplished pianist. She began taking lessons at an early age and quickly found a natural aptitude and talent. She studied throughout her teen years with renowned concert pianist and teacher, Madame Lily Dumont of New Bedford, MA, and became a popular teacher herself, giving lessons from home and also at Tabor Academy. Besides teaching piano, she taught for several years at The Loft School in Marion. Later in life, she returned to her studies with Madame Dumont, and her playing improved even more as she participated in Master classes at the Longy School of Music in Boston, and at SMU, and renewed her relationship with the teacher who adored her from her childhood.
Her family encouraged her to keep playing through her last few years as she struggled somewhat with dementia. She might not have been able to retrieve the words she wanted to say, but she could sit at the piano and decipher those "funny little black marks on the page" and express herself through her music.
We were able to bring her to Maine for one last visit to her camp this past August, and our pictures from that trip show her beaming with delight in every one. We are grateful that we were able to care for her in her own home, in familiar surroundings, with her piano, her loving neighbors, and with her daughters who were able to be by her side and share the last few years of her life with the mother who was a best friend to each one.
Betsey had "done all she wanted to do" in life, was happy and grateful for everything, and was loved by all. She was ready to go be with her parents, and Norman, and we can only imagine all the friends she made over her long life greeting her somewhere with joy. And if any of that is true, it's comforting to think of her greeting us again someday, too.
She is survived by three daughters, Sara C. Fraley (and spouse Frederick) of Mount Desert, Maine; Amy L. Converse of Ellsworth, Maine; and Pearl A. Converse of Wareham, MA; four grandchildren, Faith M. Penney of Charlotte, NC; Rowan C. Fraley of Mount Desert, Maine; Zephyr Converse (and spouse Al) of Fitchburg, MA, and Adam B. Fraley of Trenton, Maine; also her Converse brothers and sisters in law: Muriel C. Walker, Mark (and Hilary) Converse, Marshall (and Maria) Converse, Celeste (and Ray) Sylvia, Corinne Fisher, Christine Cummings, and Kent (and Nancy) Converse, and many nieces and nephews on this side of the family. She leaves behind a close-knit neighborhood of devoted friends (you know who you are!), and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your love of our mother, your friendships and your support.
Burial will be at Cushing Cemetery in Mattapoisett, and a private gathering will be held in Celebration of Betsey at a later date. Condolences and remembrances may be shared online at Donaghy-Hathaway Funeral Home, New Bedford, MA.
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Virginia Cornelia de Ronde Becher
Oct 24, 2023 |
Virginia Cornelia de Ronde Becher, of Hamden, Connecticut and formerly of Marion, Massachusetts, passed away peacefully in her sleep at home in the early hours of Tuesday, October 24, 2023 at the age of 82 after a long illness.
Virginia was born in Manhattan, New York on February 17, 1941 to Marguerite Tansey de Ronde and Richard Peter de Ronde. She was raised in Bayport, New York alongside her younger siblings Richard and Denise. In her early teens, Virginia lived with extended family members in The Netherlands, learning Dutch, attending school and sparking a lifelong love for the country of her ancestors.
Following her return to the United States, Virginia graduated from Bayport High School in 1959 and subsequently obtained a Bachelor of Arts from Keuka College in 1963 and a Master of Library Science from Pratt Institute in 1964. She established a rewarding career as a librarian at American Education Publications, the publishers of My Weekly Reader, from 1965 to 1967 in Middletown, Connecticut.
In 1967, Virginia married Robert MacAdoo Becher at Saint Ann's Episcopal Church in Sayville, New York. Following a move to Massachusetts and Robert's establishment of a general surgical practice in southeastern Massachusetts, Virginia and Robert raised their children Katherine and Robert in Canton, Massachusetts, eventually moving full time to Marion, Massachusetts, where they had previously spent summers since 1984.
Virginia was an active member and leader of many charitable, community, educational and ecclesiastical organizations, including Saint Gabriel's Episcopal Church, The Fortnightly Club of Brockton, The Beverly Yacht Club, Blue Hill Montessori School, Noble & Greenough School, The Park School, Thayer Academy, Fuller Craft Museum, WGBH Boston, Faith in Serving Humanity and the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church.
Virginia loved to cook for her family and friends, needlepoint, read, travel, eat French Toast with real maple syrup, do water aerobics and yoga, go to the beach, host gracious Christmas gatherings, sing and meet new people. Her sense of direction and ability to navigate without a map are legendary. She avoided eating fruit at any cost.
Virginia is survived by her husband, children and siblings; son-in-law Marc de Mul and daughter-in-law Daniela Hochreiter; and grandchildren Willem and Eleonor de Mul and Franziska and Otto Becher.
A light has been extinguished with Virginia's passing, though her elegant spirit will undoubtedly live on in the hearts of all who knew her and seek to emulate her superior ability to listen, curiosity, warm kindness, open-mindedness, ability to see the best in people, patience, unwavering ethical bearing and ever-embracing love.
A memorial service celebrating Virginia's life is scheduled for Thursday, November 30, 2023 at 11:00 am at Saint Gabriel's Episcopal Church in Marion, MA. Condolences may be sent to The Whitney Center at 200 Leeder Hill Drive, Hamden, Connecticut, 06517, attention Robert Becher. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to a local public library in Virginia's name.
Virginia was born in Manhattan, New York on February 17, 1941 to Marguerite Tansey de Ronde and Richard Peter de Ronde. She was raised in Bayport, New York alongside her younger siblings Richard and Denise. In her early teens, Virginia lived with extended family members in The Netherlands, learning Dutch, attending school and sparking a lifelong love for the country of her ancestors.
Following her return to the United States, Virginia graduated from Bayport High School in 1959 and subsequently obtained a Bachelor of Arts from Keuka College in 1963 and a Master of Library Science from Pratt Institute in 1964. She established a rewarding career as a librarian at American Education Publications, the publishers of My Weekly Reader, from 1965 to 1967 in Middletown, Connecticut.
In 1967, Virginia married Robert MacAdoo Becher at Saint Ann's Episcopal Church in Sayville, New York. Following a move to Massachusetts and Robert's establishment of a general surgical practice in southeastern Massachusetts, Virginia and Robert raised their children Katherine and Robert in Canton, Massachusetts, eventually moving full time to Marion, Massachusetts, where they had previously spent summers since 1984.
Virginia was an active member and leader of many charitable, community, educational and ecclesiastical organizations, including Saint Gabriel's Episcopal Church, The Fortnightly Club of Brockton, The Beverly Yacht Club, Blue Hill Montessori School, Noble & Greenough School, The Park School, Thayer Academy, Fuller Craft Museum, WGBH Boston, Faith in Serving Humanity and the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church.
Virginia loved to cook for her family and friends, needlepoint, read, travel, eat French Toast with real maple syrup, do water aerobics and yoga, go to the beach, host gracious Christmas gatherings, sing and meet new people. Her sense of direction and ability to navigate without a map are legendary. She avoided eating fruit at any cost.
Virginia is survived by her husband, children and siblings; son-in-law Marc de Mul and daughter-in-law Daniela Hochreiter; and grandchildren Willem and Eleonor de Mul and Franziska and Otto Becher.
A light has been extinguished with Virginia's passing, though her elegant spirit will undoubtedly live on in the hearts of all who knew her and seek to emulate her superior ability to listen, curiosity, warm kindness, open-mindedness, ability to see the best in people, patience, unwavering ethical bearing and ever-embracing love.
A memorial service celebrating Virginia's life is scheduled for Thursday, November 30, 2023 at 11:00 am at Saint Gabriel's Episcopal Church in Marion, MA. Condolences may be sent to The Whitney Center at 200 Leeder Hill Drive, Hamden, Connecticut, 06517, attention Robert Becher. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to a local public library in Virginia's name.
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Conrad H. Roy
Oct 18, 2023 |
Conrad H. Roy, 75, of Mattapoisett died October 18, 2023 after a long illness at home.
He was married to Janice M. (Gaucher) Roy. Born in New Bedford, son of the late R. Marcel and C. Lorraine (Seguin) Roy, he lived in Mattapoisett most of his life.
Conrad's journey led him through various vocations, with each chapter contributing to a rich and fulfilling life. A proud veteran of the US Navy, he served aboard the USS Independence aircraft carrier. At Vaitses Boat Yard, he honed his craft, demonstrating a deep passion for the art of boatbuilding. In the role of carpenter at Sullivan and Foster Construction, he exhibited a keen eye for detail and a commitment to quality. He worked many years running the waterfront operations at Tabor Academy.
The pinnacle of his career was founding Tucker-Roy Marine Towing & Salvage Inc., an endeavor that reflected his love for the sea and maritime operations. Conrad took deep pride in his sons who continue to run the business, a testament to his enduring legacy.
In his later years, he found joy in devising salvage plans and closely monitoring the operation's progress, showcasing his unwavering dedication and passion for the maritime industry.
Conrad was an accomplished sailor, participating (and winning) many races in Buzzards Bay. He loved to sing, especially "Happy Birthday" and "You must have been a beautiful baby" among other show tunes. He had wicked sense of humor and enjoyed making people laugh or blush. He especially loved to dazzle family and neighbors with fireworks shows over Mattapoisett harbor.
Conrad leaves behind a remarkable legacy of service, craftsmanship, generosity and a deep love for his family. He will be remembered not only for his professional achievements but also for the lasting impact he had on the lives of those fortunate enough to know him. His memory will forever be cherished by all who had the privilege of sharing in his remarkable journey.
Survivors include his wife; 2 sons, Conrad Roy, Jr. of Wareham and Jonathan Roy and his wife Kristen of Rochester; a daughter, Rebecca (Roy) Maki and her husband Matthew of Marion; 3 sisters, Claudette Roy-Viall and her husband Philip of Glocester, RI, Michelle Letendre of New Bedford and Lorraine Roy-Hawkes of Naples, FL; 7 grandchildren, Camdyn Roy, Morgan Roy, Lillian Maki, Tucker Roy, Charles Maki, Ellsea Roy and Henri Roy; his mother-in-law, Constance Gaucher; and numerous nieces, nephews, in-laws and friends.
He was the grandfather of the late Conrad H. Roy III.
His visiting hours will be held on Sunday, October 22nd from 4-6 pm in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, October 23rd at 10 am in St. Anthony's Church. In lieu of flowers please make donations in memory of Conrad's grandson, Conrad H. Roy III, to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, 199 Water Street, 11th Floor, New York, NY 10038.
He was married to Janice M. (Gaucher) Roy. Born in New Bedford, son of the late R. Marcel and C. Lorraine (Seguin) Roy, he lived in Mattapoisett most of his life.
Conrad's journey led him through various vocations, with each chapter contributing to a rich and fulfilling life. A proud veteran of the US Navy, he served aboard the USS Independence aircraft carrier. At Vaitses Boat Yard, he honed his craft, demonstrating a deep passion for the art of boatbuilding. In the role of carpenter at Sullivan and Foster Construction, he exhibited a keen eye for detail and a commitment to quality. He worked many years running the waterfront operations at Tabor Academy.
The pinnacle of his career was founding Tucker-Roy Marine Towing & Salvage Inc., an endeavor that reflected his love for the sea and maritime operations. Conrad took deep pride in his sons who continue to run the business, a testament to his enduring legacy.
In his later years, he found joy in devising salvage plans and closely monitoring the operation's progress, showcasing his unwavering dedication and passion for the maritime industry.
Conrad was an accomplished sailor, participating (and winning) many races in Buzzards Bay. He loved to sing, especially "Happy Birthday" and "You must have been a beautiful baby" among other show tunes. He had wicked sense of humor and enjoyed making people laugh or blush. He especially loved to dazzle family and neighbors with fireworks shows over Mattapoisett harbor.
Conrad leaves behind a remarkable legacy of service, craftsmanship, generosity and a deep love for his family. He will be remembered not only for his professional achievements but also for the lasting impact he had on the lives of those fortunate enough to know him. His memory will forever be cherished by all who had the privilege of sharing in his remarkable journey.
Survivors include his wife; 2 sons, Conrad Roy, Jr. of Wareham and Jonathan Roy and his wife Kristen of Rochester; a daughter, Rebecca (Roy) Maki and her husband Matthew of Marion; 3 sisters, Claudette Roy-Viall and her husband Philip of Glocester, RI, Michelle Letendre of New Bedford and Lorraine Roy-Hawkes of Naples, FL; 7 grandchildren, Camdyn Roy, Morgan Roy, Lillian Maki, Tucker Roy, Charles Maki, Ellsea Roy and Henri Roy; his mother-in-law, Constance Gaucher; and numerous nieces, nephews, in-laws and friends.
He was the grandfather of the late Conrad H. Roy III.
His visiting hours will be held on Sunday, October 22nd from 4-6 pm in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, October 23rd at 10 am in St. Anthony's Church. In lieu of flowers please make donations in memory of Conrad's grandson, Conrad H. Roy III, to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, 199 Water Street, 11th Floor, New York, NY 10038.
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Stanley Thomas
Oct 15, 2023 |
Stanley Thomas, 95, formerly of Mattapoisett, MA, passed away peacefully on October 15, 2023. He was the son of the late Irving and Clara Thomas.
Stan grew up in southern New Jersey, where he developed a love for the outdoors through hunting and fishing with his family. He excelled in high school as a varsity athlete, playing basketball, baseball, and track.
Stan served in the United States Army as a Military Police Officer during the Korean War. Tall and smart in his uniform, he was featured in military training films. After his service, Stan worked at RCA as a draftsman and later in sales, where he met his wife Carolyn. Stan was actively involved in bowling leagues, golf, coaching school sports, and was a member of the Board of Education. He and his brother were part of a hunting group and they traveled to Maine every November for over fifty years.
After 25 years at RCA Stan moved his family to Maine and worked for Dielectric Communications as Vice President of Sales and Marketing. His love of the outdoors flourished there where he built a weekend ski chalet and spent many happy winters with his family. Stan was actively involved in his children's lives through coaching, participating in Indian Guides and Boy Scouts, and supporting all of their interests including attending their athletic events throughout their school years.
After retirement, Stan and Carolyn moved to Mattapoisett, MA to be closer to their grandchildren. He remained an avid golfer well into his 90's.
In his free time, Stan enjoyed reading, woodworking, and following sports. He initially cheered for his home team, the Phillies, but eventually switched allegiances to the Red Sox and Patriots after moving to Maine. He put his woodworking skills to good use, crafting furniture and frames for his daughter's photography business, and also spent many hours working on home improvement projects with his children.
Stan is survived by his wife Carolyn (Smith) Thomas and daughter Sandra Thomas (Kevin Brown) and son Jay (Kay) Thomas and grandchildren Nicole, Jack, Hallie, and Reilly. He is predeceased by his sister Dorothy Thomas and brother Richard Thomas.
The family would like to thank the caring staff at Newfield House, Plymouth, MA.
A celebration of his life is planned at The Village at Duxbury, 290 Kingstown Way, Duxbuy, MA on November 11 at 12 pm.
Stan grew up in southern New Jersey, where he developed a love for the outdoors through hunting and fishing with his family. He excelled in high school as a varsity athlete, playing basketball, baseball, and track.
Stan served in the United States Army as a Military Police Officer during the Korean War. Tall and smart in his uniform, he was featured in military training films. After his service, Stan worked at RCA as a draftsman and later in sales, where he met his wife Carolyn. Stan was actively involved in bowling leagues, golf, coaching school sports, and was a member of the Board of Education. He and his brother were part of a hunting group and they traveled to Maine every November for over fifty years.
After 25 years at RCA Stan moved his family to Maine and worked for Dielectric Communications as Vice President of Sales and Marketing. His love of the outdoors flourished there where he built a weekend ski chalet and spent many happy winters with his family. Stan was actively involved in his children's lives through coaching, participating in Indian Guides and Boy Scouts, and supporting all of their interests including attending their athletic events throughout their school years.
After retirement, Stan and Carolyn moved to Mattapoisett, MA to be closer to their grandchildren. He remained an avid golfer well into his 90's.
In his free time, Stan enjoyed reading, woodworking, and following sports. He initially cheered for his home team, the Phillies, but eventually switched allegiances to the Red Sox and Patriots after moving to Maine. He put his woodworking skills to good use, crafting furniture and frames for his daughter's photography business, and also spent many hours working on home improvement projects with his children.
Stan is survived by his wife Carolyn (Smith) Thomas and daughter Sandra Thomas (Kevin Brown) and son Jay (Kay) Thomas and grandchildren Nicole, Jack, Hallie, and Reilly. He is predeceased by his sister Dorothy Thomas and brother Richard Thomas.
The family would like to thank the caring staff at Newfield House, Plymouth, MA.
A celebration of his life is planned at The Village at Duxbury, 290 Kingstown Way, Duxbuy, MA on November 11 at 12 pm.