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Ronald McDonald, Sr.
Aug 29, 2026 |
Ronald McDonald, Sr., 85, passed away peacefully on Saturday August 29, 2026 after a brief illness.
He was born on October 23, 1940 in Nantucket, MA, to the late John J and Mary Genevieve (Davis) McDonald. He graduated from Nantucket High School and Dean Junior College. Soon after, he married the love of his life, Joan Davis, and they shared 53 years of marriage, side by side, raising five children. After moving from Nantucket, they lived many years in Marion and Fairhaven, where they were communicants of St. Rita's/St. Anthony's and St. Joseph's Churches.
Ronald worked as a mason early in his career, but spent most of his working life in commercial fishing, with years as a respected captain of commercial scallop vessels, including the Guardian, for a time with his sons beside him. Being handed down a strong work ethic, when able, Ronald would work beside his crewmen on deck, in harsh conditions, repairing gear or assisting where needed, and was considered a valuable mentor. He made lifelong friendships and bonds, with some crew becoming like additional sons. After retiring from commercial fishing, he returned to masonry for a period, later working on the grounds keeping crew at Tabor Academy, and at the Marion Department of Public Works, where patrons enjoyed his friendly greeting, conversation, and some favorite jokes. He made lasting friendships wherever he worked, including with Tabor co-workers, staff and faculty and their families.
Ronald was a member of the Knights of Columbus, New Bedford Fishermen's Union, and the Marion Social Club. He enjoyed gardening alongside his wife, maintaining many gardens, a fish pond, and vegetable garden. Ronald enjoyed singing and was a member of his high school glee club and the church choir. He would often sing around the house, at work in the pilot house, and sang the Irish Wedding song at some family weddings. He always loved dancing, playing cribbage and whist, and time at the beach. A good cook, his fried dough was always a special family favorite.
Ronald was a devoted family man, with caring for his family always his greatest priority. His greatest joy came from spending time with his children and grandchildren. Attending activities and sports and always supportive behind the scenes. He shared in their accomplishments and milestones, filled with pride, and his eyes often welled with tears. He beamed at the birth of each new great-grandchild.
Ronald lived a life of friendship, kindness, and love. He cherished his family, time with friends and extended family, always genuine and making every holiday and gathering more special. To many who knew him, Ronald was a friendly, caring, and hard-working man, always with a smile and sharing his sense of humor, and always willing to lend a helping hand. He will be missed by many.
He is survived by his children, Ronald (Patricia) McDonald of Bridgewater, Kevin (Elizabeth) McDonald of Framingham, Cheryl (James) Morrell and Deborah (Stephen) Gonsalves, all of Marion, and Brian (Katie) McDonald of Clarence Center, NY; his 16 grandchildren, Patrick (Hillary), Brendan (Taylor), David, and Mary McDonald, Shannon (Daren) Tucker, Matthew (Ntanga) McDonald, Timothy (Madeline) McDonald, Colleen and Bridget McDonald, Lucas Morrell, Trevor McDonald, Toby and Hunter (Alisha Papadakis) Gonsalves, Alex and Emma Dunn, and Regan McDonald; and his 11 great-grandchildren, Elizabeth, Evelyn, Mia, Liam, Owen, Molly, Maanda, William, Finley, Theo, and Rowen. In addition, Ronald is survived by his special companion, Sally Govoni, his brother Robert (Karen) McDonald, sister Genevieve (Reginald) Harmon, sisters-in-law Roberta McDonald, Nancy McDonald, Eleanor Davis, brother-in-law Raymond Novak, and many nieces, nephews, and special lifelong friends.
Ronald was predeceased by his wife, Joan, siblings and in-laws Mary and Jack Fee, Helen and James Cranston, Jeanette and Jackie Topham, John McDonald, Michael McDonald, and in-laws Margaret and Nelson Duarte, Elmer Davis, Edward and Sally Davis, Shirley Novak, and Robert Davis.
His funeral will be held on Saturday September 5th at 9 am from the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett, followed by his Funeral Mass at St. Anthony's Church, Mattapoisett at 10 AM. Burial will be in Evergreen Cemetery, Marion. Visiting hours will be on Friday September 4th from 4-8 pm.
He was born on October 23, 1940 in Nantucket, MA, to the late John J and Mary Genevieve (Davis) McDonald. He graduated from Nantucket High School and Dean Junior College. Soon after, he married the love of his life, Joan Davis, and they shared 53 years of marriage, side by side, raising five children. After moving from Nantucket, they lived many years in Marion and Fairhaven, where they were communicants of St. Rita's/St. Anthony's and St. Joseph's Churches.
Ronald worked as a mason early in his career, but spent most of his working life in commercial fishing, with years as a respected captain of commercial scallop vessels, including the Guardian, for a time with his sons beside him. Being handed down a strong work ethic, when able, Ronald would work beside his crewmen on deck, in harsh conditions, repairing gear or assisting where needed, and was considered a valuable mentor. He made lifelong friendships and bonds, with some crew becoming like additional sons. After retiring from commercial fishing, he returned to masonry for a period, later working on the grounds keeping crew at Tabor Academy, and at the Marion Department of Public Works, where patrons enjoyed his friendly greeting, conversation, and some favorite jokes. He made lasting friendships wherever he worked, including with Tabor co-workers, staff and faculty and their families.
Ronald was a member of the Knights of Columbus, New Bedford Fishermen's Union, and the Marion Social Club. He enjoyed gardening alongside his wife, maintaining many gardens, a fish pond, and vegetable garden. Ronald enjoyed singing and was a member of his high school glee club and the church choir. He would often sing around the house, at work in the pilot house, and sang the Irish Wedding song at some family weddings. He always loved dancing, playing cribbage and whist, and time at the beach. A good cook, his fried dough was always a special family favorite.
Ronald was a devoted family man, with caring for his family always his greatest priority. His greatest joy came from spending time with his children and grandchildren. Attending activities and sports and always supportive behind the scenes. He shared in their accomplishments and milestones, filled with pride, and his eyes often welled with tears. He beamed at the birth of each new great-grandchild.
Ronald lived a life of friendship, kindness, and love. He cherished his family, time with friends and extended family, always genuine and making every holiday and gathering more special. To many who knew him, Ronald was a friendly, caring, and hard-working man, always with a smile and sharing his sense of humor, and always willing to lend a helping hand. He will be missed by many.
He is survived by his children, Ronald (Patricia) McDonald of Bridgewater, Kevin (Elizabeth) McDonald of Framingham, Cheryl (James) Morrell and Deborah (Stephen) Gonsalves, all of Marion, and Brian (Katie) McDonald of Clarence Center, NY; his 16 grandchildren, Patrick (Hillary), Brendan (Taylor), David, and Mary McDonald, Shannon (Daren) Tucker, Matthew (Ntanga) McDonald, Timothy (Madeline) McDonald, Colleen and Bridget McDonald, Lucas Morrell, Trevor McDonald, Toby and Hunter (Alisha Papadakis) Gonsalves, Alex and Emma Dunn, and Regan McDonald; and his 11 great-grandchildren, Elizabeth, Evelyn, Mia, Liam, Owen, Molly, Maanda, William, Finley, Theo, and Rowen. In addition, Ronald is survived by his special companion, Sally Govoni, his brother Robert (Karen) McDonald, sister Genevieve (Reginald) Harmon, sisters-in-law Roberta McDonald, Nancy McDonald, Eleanor Davis, brother-in-law Raymond Novak, and many nieces, nephews, and special lifelong friends.
Ronald was predeceased by his wife, Joan, siblings and in-laws Mary and Jack Fee, Helen and James Cranston, Jeanette and Jackie Topham, John McDonald, Michael McDonald, and in-laws Margaret and Nelson Duarte, Elmer Davis, Edward and Sally Davis, Shirley Novak, and Robert Davis.
His funeral will be held on Saturday September 5th at 9 am from the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett, followed by his Funeral Mass at St. Anthony's Church, Mattapoisett at 10 AM. Burial will be in Evergreen Cemetery, Marion. Visiting hours will be on Friday September 4th from 4-8 pm.
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Freda Evelyn Hall Ruel
Aug 24, 2026 |
80 year old Freda Evelyn Hall Ruel came into this world the same way she would live life, on her own terms. Born in an elevator at Windham Hospital, in Connecticut, she didn't have the patience to wait for everyone else.
Growing up in Willington, CT, her parents were Freda and Gardiner Hall. Named after her mother, Freda was the youngest of six children, with beloved twin sisters and three brothers. Her father bestowed her the nickname "Sugar." It was a nickname that would last a lifetime, although anyone who knew Freda knows that "Sugar" was usually followed by a little spice.
After graduating high school, Freda attended Chandler School for Women in Boston. While living there, she met Edward J. Ruel Jr. In 1969, they got married in Willington, then returned to Boston, settling in Roslindale to start a family. Freda loved being a mother to her three children. Especially being able to tell them stories and share experiences, one of them being her love for Lake George, NY in which she spent summers of her own childhood. After her divorce from Edward, Freda moved to Mattapoisett, another cherished summer destination. The both of them remained steadfast in their love and commitment to their kids.
Freda lived by the saying, "Pull up your bootstraps and keep going." Throughout the years, she proved her resilience, independence, and ingenuity. Even at one point, building her own shed all on her own. For 26 years, Freda worked as a Transit Bus Driver for SRTA. If she was your driver, your ride would've been more of an experience than a service. Through examples like customers hand-making gifts or becoming family, she built relationships that lasted long after the bus route ended.
Holidays were a huge part of Freda's life. From Thanksgiving to Christmas, she fully committed. Thanksgiving was celebrated amongst family, friends, and occasionally a complete stranger with nowhere else to go. For Christmas, her fresh tree was covered with unique handmade ornaments, always finding room for just one more. The familiar smell of her famous homemade apple pie filled the house on these special days, care and hard work going into the details down to the crust. At the end of the day, what mattered most to her wasn't a perfect table but a full one.
In late 2024, Freda suffered a massive stroke. Once again showing her personality, she pulled up those bootstraps. She fought her way through recovery, starting at Brigham and Women's Hospital, moving to Spaulding Rehabilitation, then settling at Nemasket Healthcare Center. We are extremely thankful for everyone who had a part in caring for Freda, with special mention to the staff at Nemasket for their dedication to her care.
She is survived by her son, Edward J. Ruel III, and his wife, Rosemary; her daughters, Heather M. Ruel, and Rachel E. Hall-Ruel and Rachel's husband, Cornelius "Madee" Fedee.
She is also survived by her grandchildren Edward J. Ruel IV, his wife, Jessica, Jillian Ruel, Jenna Ruel, Mali Ruel-Fedee, and Marcus Ruel-Fedee, as well as Edward IV and Jessica's two sons, Freda's beloved great-grandchildren, Greyson Ruel and Easton Ruel.
She is predeceased by her brothers Clyde, Gregory, and Gerald, and is survived by her sisters Alice Cassells and Francis Jenner as well as several nieces and nephews.
More than anything, Freda loved her family, including her two granddogs.
Freda passed away peacefully in her sleep on August 24, 2026. Freda's life will be remembered by the depth of who she was as a human being. Freda "Sugar" Ruel was funny, tough, generous, stubborn, and loved fiercely. A storyteller at heart, she would often speak about her life. Sharing the stories, one could tell she was a whole person filled with compassion. People will continue speaking of her apple pies, Thanksgiving tables, Christmas trees, trips to Lake George, her witty comebacks, peculiar advice, and much more, but most of all, the way she approached life. By pulling up her bootstraps.
A graveside service for Freda will be held on Saturday, September 12, 2026 at 2:00 pm at the Willington Hill Cemetery, 171 Tolland Tpke, Willington, CT. All are welcome.
Growing up in Willington, CT, her parents were Freda and Gardiner Hall. Named after her mother, Freda was the youngest of six children, with beloved twin sisters and three brothers. Her father bestowed her the nickname "Sugar." It was a nickname that would last a lifetime, although anyone who knew Freda knows that "Sugar" was usually followed by a little spice.
After graduating high school, Freda attended Chandler School for Women in Boston. While living there, she met Edward J. Ruel Jr. In 1969, they got married in Willington, then returned to Boston, settling in Roslindale to start a family. Freda loved being a mother to her three children. Especially being able to tell them stories and share experiences, one of them being her love for Lake George, NY in which she spent summers of her own childhood. After her divorce from Edward, Freda moved to Mattapoisett, another cherished summer destination. The both of them remained steadfast in their love and commitment to their kids.
Freda lived by the saying, "Pull up your bootstraps and keep going." Throughout the years, she proved her resilience, independence, and ingenuity. Even at one point, building her own shed all on her own. For 26 years, Freda worked as a Transit Bus Driver for SRTA. If she was your driver, your ride would've been more of an experience than a service. Through examples like customers hand-making gifts or becoming family, she built relationships that lasted long after the bus route ended.
Holidays were a huge part of Freda's life. From Thanksgiving to Christmas, she fully committed. Thanksgiving was celebrated amongst family, friends, and occasionally a complete stranger with nowhere else to go. For Christmas, her fresh tree was covered with unique handmade ornaments, always finding room for just one more. The familiar smell of her famous homemade apple pie filled the house on these special days, care and hard work going into the details down to the crust. At the end of the day, what mattered most to her wasn't a perfect table but a full one.
In late 2024, Freda suffered a massive stroke. Once again showing her personality, she pulled up those bootstraps. She fought her way through recovery, starting at Brigham and Women's Hospital, moving to Spaulding Rehabilitation, then settling at Nemasket Healthcare Center. We are extremely thankful for everyone who had a part in caring for Freda, with special mention to the staff at Nemasket for their dedication to her care.
She is survived by her son, Edward J. Ruel III, and his wife, Rosemary; her daughters, Heather M. Ruel, and Rachel E. Hall-Ruel and Rachel's husband, Cornelius "Madee" Fedee.
She is also survived by her grandchildren Edward J. Ruel IV, his wife, Jessica, Jillian Ruel, Jenna Ruel, Mali Ruel-Fedee, and Marcus Ruel-Fedee, as well as Edward IV and Jessica's two sons, Freda's beloved great-grandchildren, Greyson Ruel and Easton Ruel.
She is predeceased by her brothers Clyde, Gregory, and Gerald, and is survived by her sisters Alice Cassells and Francis Jenner as well as several nieces and nephews.
More than anything, Freda loved her family, including her two granddogs.
Freda passed away peacefully in her sleep on August 24, 2026. Freda's life will be remembered by the depth of who she was as a human being. Freda "Sugar" Ruel was funny, tough, generous, stubborn, and loved fiercely. A storyteller at heart, she would often speak about her life. Sharing the stories, one could tell she was a whole person filled with compassion. People will continue speaking of her apple pies, Thanksgiving tables, Christmas trees, trips to Lake George, her witty comebacks, peculiar advice, and much more, but most of all, the way she approached life. By pulling up her bootstraps.
A graveside service for Freda will be held on Saturday, September 12, 2026 at 2:00 pm at the Willington Hill Cemetery, 171 Tolland Tpke, Willington, CT. All are welcome.
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George M. Graham Jr.
Aug 23, 2026 |
George M. Graham Jr., "Jock," 91, of Mattapoisett, Massachusetts, passed away peacefully after a brief illness on August 23, 2026, at Parlin Hospice in Wayland, Massachusetts.
Born June 30, 1935, in Malden, Massachusetts, he was the son of the late George M. Graham Sr. and Helen Knowlton Whedon Graham. He was the brother of the late Robert W. Graham and William F. Graham.
Jock graduated from St. Paul's School and attended Yale University before graduating from Boston University. Above all else, he dedicated his life to his family. He spent his entire career with The First National Bank of Boston, which later became Bank of Boston and BankBoston, working in the Personal Trust Division and later with The Private Bank. He made his home in Mattapoisett, Massachusetts.
He was the husband of the late Judith Gay Graham. He is survived by his sons, Andrew D. Graham of Quincy, Massachusetts, and George M. Graham III, MD, of Boston, Massachusetts; his nephews, Robert F. Graham of Melrose, Massachusetts, and John K. Graham of Mechanicsburg, Virginia; and his nieces, Martha G. Kirkpatrick of Boothbay Harbor, Maine, and Alice B. Kirkpatrick of Pownal, Maine.
A private family service will be held at a later date.
Born June 30, 1935, in Malden, Massachusetts, he was the son of the late George M. Graham Sr. and Helen Knowlton Whedon Graham. He was the brother of the late Robert W. Graham and William F. Graham.
Jock graduated from St. Paul's School and attended Yale University before graduating from Boston University. Above all else, he dedicated his life to his family. He spent his entire career with The First National Bank of Boston, which later became Bank of Boston and BankBoston, working in the Personal Trust Division and later with The Private Bank. He made his home in Mattapoisett, Massachusetts.
He was the husband of the late Judith Gay Graham. He is survived by his sons, Andrew D. Graham of Quincy, Massachusetts, and George M. Graham III, MD, of Boston, Massachusetts; his nephews, Robert F. Graham of Melrose, Massachusetts, and John K. Graham of Mechanicsburg, Virginia; and his nieces, Martha G. Kirkpatrick of Boothbay Harbor, Maine, and Alice B. Kirkpatrick of Pownal, Maine.
A private family service will be held at a later date.
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Neil J. Graner
Aug 11, 2026 |
Neil J. Graner, 85, passed away peacefully on August 11, 2026, at the McCarthy Care Center in Sandwich, Massachusetts, surrounded by his loving family after a long and courageous battle with cancer.
Born on December 13, 1940, Neil was raised in Yonkers, New York, where he attended Commerce High School. Growing up, Neil held a variety of jobs, including working as a messenger for Tom Carvel, a soda jerk at Urich's, and a longtime golf caddie. It was while in high school that he met the love of his life, Janet Della Rocca. They married in June 1962 and went on to build a beautiful life together.
Neil and Janet raised their five children in Yonkers and later in Chappaqua, New York, where Neil was an active member of the community and a member of Mt. Kisco Country Club. Neil and Janet loved traveling the world together and spending time at their homes in Nantucket, Massachusetts, and Palm Beach Gardens, Florida. Never a dull moment, the two shared a lifetime of laughter, adventure, and love, right up until the end.
After high school, Neil proudly served in the United States Navy aboard the USS Lake Champlain (CVS-39). While aboard, Neil was involved in taking pictures of the ship, crew and documenting the recovery of the Project Mercury. After being honorably discharged in 1961, Neil remained close with many of his fellow crewmates, gathering regularly over the decades to share stories and reminisce about their time together.
Following his military service, Neil attended Daytona State College and later earned his degree from Westchester Community College. While pursuing his education, he began his career as a business owner in the office equipment industry. Through discipline, hard work, determination, and a natural gift for selling, Neil built an extremely successful company with territories spanning New York, Philadelphia, Indianapolis, and Los Angeles. Even while battling cancer and other health setbacks, Neil continued to actively manage his final business in Los Angeles until the very end, checking in with employees and making sales calls from his hospital bed.
Of all the places Neil loved, Nantucket was truly where he felt most at peace. Neil and Janet purchased a home on the island in 1982 and aptly named it Happy Hummock. Neil loved driving his red Jeep, affectionately known as "Little Red," to Wharf Rat Club meetings, the Anglers Club, Miacomet Golf Course, and Cisco Beach. He was always easy to spot riding his bike around the island in his Nantucket reds and docksiders.
Despite his most recent battle with cancer, Neil remained positive and kept his humor about him. He will always be remembered for his quick wit, sarcasm and ability to light up the room.
Neil is survived by his beloved wife of 64 years, Janet; his children, Neil Graner Jr., Judy Connal (Allan), Jill Graner, and Lynn Sanders (Jeffrey); his grandchildren, Zion Graner, Caroline, Alexander, Christopher, Luke, and Madeleine Connal, and William and Teddy Sanders; his great-grandchildren, Alex and Gabriella Graner; and his siblings, Louis (Sue), Regina Faia (Tom), Kathleen Schwabe (Paul), and Michael (Debby). As well as numerous other nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was predeceased by his beloved son, Kevin Graner.
His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, August 17th at 11 am in St. Anthony's Church, 26 Hammond St. Mattapoisett. Please meet directly at church. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday, August 16th from 2-5 pm in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett, www.saundersdwyer.com
Born on December 13, 1940, Neil was raised in Yonkers, New York, where he attended Commerce High School. Growing up, Neil held a variety of jobs, including working as a messenger for Tom Carvel, a soda jerk at Urich's, and a longtime golf caddie. It was while in high school that he met the love of his life, Janet Della Rocca. They married in June 1962 and went on to build a beautiful life together.
Neil and Janet raised their five children in Yonkers and later in Chappaqua, New York, where Neil was an active member of the community and a member of Mt. Kisco Country Club. Neil and Janet loved traveling the world together and spending time at their homes in Nantucket, Massachusetts, and Palm Beach Gardens, Florida. Never a dull moment, the two shared a lifetime of laughter, adventure, and love, right up until the end.
After high school, Neil proudly served in the United States Navy aboard the USS Lake Champlain (CVS-39). While aboard, Neil was involved in taking pictures of the ship, crew and documenting the recovery of the Project Mercury. After being honorably discharged in 1961, Neil remained close with many of his fellow crewmates, gathering regularly over the decades to share stories and reminisce about their time together.
Following his military service, Neil attended Daytona State College and later earned his degree from Westchester Community College. While pursuing his education, he began his career as a business owner in the office equipment industry. Through discipline, hard work, determination, and a natural gift for selling, Neil built an extremely successful company with territories spanning New York, Philadelphia, Indianapolis, and Los Angeles. Even while battling cancer and other health setbacks, Neil continued to actively manage his final business in Los Angeles until the very end, checking in with employees and making sales calls from his hospital bed.
Of all the places Neil loved, Nantucket was truly where he felt most at peace. Neil and Janet purchased a home on the island in 1982 and aptly named it Happy Hummock. Neil loved driving his red Jeep, affectionately known as "Little Red," to Wharf Rat Club meetings, the Anglers Club, Miacomet Golf Course, and Cisco Beach. He was always easy to spot riding his bike around the island in his Nantucket reds and docksiders.
Despite his most recent battle with cancer, Neil remained positive and kept his humor about him. He will always be remembered for his quick wit, sarcasm and ability to light up the room.
Neil is survived by his beloved wife of 64 years, Janet; his children, Neil Graner Jr., Judy Connal (Allan), Jill Graner, and Lynn Sanders (Jeffrey); his grandchildren, Zion Graner, Caroline, Alexander, Christopher, Luke, and Madeleine Connal, and William and Teddy Sanders; his great-grandchildren, Alex and Gabriella Graner; and his siblings, Louis (Sue), Regina Faia (Tom), Kathleen Schwabe (Paul), and Michael (Debby). As well as numerous other nieces, nephews and cousins.
He was predeceased by his beloved son, Kevin Graner.
His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, August 17th at 11 am in St. Anthony's Church, 26 Hammond St. Mattapoisett. Please meet directly at church. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday, August 16th from 2-5 pm in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett, www.saundersdwyer.com
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Jason "Jake" Jacobsen
Aug 11, 2026 |
Jason "Jake" Jacobsen, 56, of Daytona Beach, Florida, passed away peacefully at AdventHealth hospice in Altamonte Springs following a long illness.
Born to the late Reidun T. (Mannes) Jacobsen and Capt. Peder "Pete" U. Jacobsen, both originally of Karmoy, Norway, Jake grew up on Poverty Point in Fairhaven, Massachusetts. His early years were highlighted by playing ball in "the field" behind his childhood home with fellow neighborhood kids, swimming at West Island Beach, spending time with Norwegian relatives, and working summers during high school in his family's commercial fishing business.
Playing organized local sports, including football, basketball, and baseball, helped shape Jake into a gifted athlete. He played on the Fairhaven High School basketball team from 1984 to 1988. He emerged as a dominant center, joining the school's 1,000-point club and helping lead the Blue Devils to an Eastern Massachusetts championship and a state title game appearance in 1987. His athletic and academic drive earned him a full Division II basketball scholarship to Stonehill College, where he graduated in 1992.
Drawn to sunshine and ocean air, Jake moved to Daytona Beach in 1993. A talented craftsman, he worked in commercial renovation and became especially skilled in plastering and other specialized trades. He loved being outdoors, biking, going to the beach, tending his garden, and fishing from local docks.
His Southern Baptist faith, which became an important part of his life later on, gave him strength, direction, and hope.
Jake faced significant health challenges throughout his life. Those close to him remember his sharp wit, biting sarcasm, and generous spirit, qualities that inspired loyal friendships. Although he made Daytona Beach his home for more than three decades, he remained a die-hard New England sports fan.
Jason is survived by his sister, Noelle Jacobsen, and brother-in-law, Vincent "Vince" L. Stellato, of Greater Orlando, Florida, along with extended family and friends throughout Massachusetts, Florida, and Norway.
Honoring the family's preference to mourn privately, no public service will be held. Those who would like to remember Jake in a tangible way are invited to support the Volusia-Flagler County Coalition for the Homeless, Inc., P.O. Box 309, Daytona Beach, FL 32115-0309.
Born to the late Reidun T. (Mannes) Jacobsen and Capt. Peder "Pete" U. Jacobsen, both originally of Karmoy, Norway, Jake grew up on Poverty Point in Fairhaven, Massachusetts. His early years were highlighted by playing ball in "the field" behind his childhood home with fellow neighborhood kids, swimming at West Island Beach, spending time with Norwegian relatives, and working summers during high school in his family's commercial fishing business.
Playing organized local sports, including football, basketball, and baseball, helped shape Jake into a gifted athlete. He played on the Fairhaven High School basketball team from 1984 to 1988. He emerged as a dominant center, joining the school's 1,000-point club and helping lead the Blue Devils to an Eastern Massachusetts championship and a state title game appearance in 1987. His athletic and academic drive earned him a full Division II basketball scholarship to Stonehill College, where he graduated in 1992.
Drawn to sunshine and ocean air, Jake moved to Daytona Beach in 1993. A talented craftsman, he worked in commercial renovation and became especially skilled in plastering and other specialized trades. He loved being outdoors, biking, going to the beach, tending his garden, and fishing from local docks.
His Southern Baptist faith, which became an important part of his life later on, gave him strength, direction, and hope.
Jake faced significant health challenges throughout his life. Those close to him remember his sharp wit, biting sarcasm, and generous spirit, qualities that inspired loyal friendships. Although he made Daytona Beach his home for more than three decades, he remained a die-hard New England sports fan.
Jason is survived by his sister, Noelle Jacobsen, and brother-in-law, Vincent "Vince" L. Stellato, of Greater Orlando, Florida, along with extended family and friends throughout Massachusetts, Florida, and Norway.
Honoring the family's preference to mourn privately, no public service will be held. Those who would like to remember Jake in a tangible way are invited to support the Volusia-Flagler County Coalition for the Homeless, Inc., P.O. Box 309, Daytona Beach, FL 32115-0309.
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Marilyn Louise Kruger
Aug 06, 2026 |
Marilyn Louise Kruger of Rochester, MA, a retired teacher and former longtime resident of Hamilton, MA passed away peacefully on August 6, 2026 surrounded by her family after a brief illness.
She was born September 5, 1934 in Lynn, MA to Thomas Gilmore and Dorothy Craven Gilmore. She is preceded in death by her parents, sister and beloved husband of 58 years Rayford Kruger. Marilyn graduated from Marblehead High School and received her BS and Masters Degrees from Salem State Teachers College.
For most of her teaching career she taught business education at Beverly High School. She was known for her kindness, dedication and generosity to her students and peers.
She leaves behind many friends both on the North and South Shores of Massachusetts. She loved the ocean, traveling and was an avid bridge player. She so enjoyed summers at Good Harbor Beach, sailing in Neptune Suites on Holland America, gaming and dining at Mohegan Sun, and escapes to The Beauport Hotel in Gloucester.
She is survived by her three children: Dr. Rayford Kruger (Tracey) of Rochester, MA, Karen Cannell (Gary) of Rockport, MA and Julia Badlato (Charles) of Greenlawn, NY. She is also survived by her five treasured grandchildren: Amanda Kruger (Kamy Bruder), Kaitlyn Badlato Adams (Oscar), Jillian Badlato, Joseph Badlato and John Badlato, many nieces and nephews, and one precious great grandson Remi Ray Bruder.
A memorial service will be held at a future date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to South Coast Health, https://www.southcoast.org/giving/, or a charity of your choice.
Arrangements by Chapman Funerals & Cremations - Wareham, 2599 Cranberry Hwy Wareham, MA.
She was born September 5, 1934 in Lynn, MA to Thomas Gilmore and Dorothy Craven Gilmore. She is preceded in death by her parents, sister and beloved husband of 58 years Rayford Kruger. Marilyn graduated from Marblehead High School and received her BS and Masters Degrees from Salem State Teachers College.
For most of her teaching career she taught business education at Beverly High School. She was known for her kindness, dedication and generosity to her students and peers.
She leaves behind many friends both on the North and South Shores of Massachusetts. She loved the ocean, traveling and was an avid bridge player. She so enjoyed summers at Good Harbor Beach, sailing in Neptune Suites on Holland America, gaming and dining at Mohegan Sun, and escapes to The Beauport Hotel in Gloucester.
She is survived by her three children: Dr. Rayford Kruger (Tracey) of Rochester, MA, Karen Cannell (Gary) of Rockport, MA and Julia Badlato (Charles) of Greenlawn, NY. She is also survived by her five treasured grandchildren: Amanda Kruger (Kamy Bruder), Kaitlyn Badlato Adams (Oscar), Jillian Badlato, Joseph Badlato and John Badlato, many nieces and nephews, and one precious great grandson Remi Ray Bruder.
A memorial service will be held at a future date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to South Coast Health, https://www.southcoast.org/giving/, or a charity of your choice.
Arrangements by Chapman Funerals & Cremations - Wareham, 2599 Cranberry Hwy Wareham, MA.
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Peter E. Sowden
Aug 06, 2026 |
It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Peter E. Sowden, age 83, on August 6, 2026.
Peter was born on April 25th, 1943 in Lexington, Massachusetts, and grew up in Wilmington. In 1964, he married his high school sweetheart, Lorraine (Zuccola) Sowden, and together the family spent more than 60 years in Marion.
Peter proudly served his country in the United States Navy, entering service in 1960 at Little Creek, Virginia. After completing his military service, he began an electrical career in 1964 that spanned many decades. During the 1970s, he also served as a Marion Police Officer.
Peter embraced life outdoors and found great joy in skiing, boating, fishing, lobstering, scalloping, and, of course, clamming in the harbors of Marion. He was actively involved in the Boy Scouts, Marion Lions Club, the O.R.R.H.S Ski Club, and the Middleboro Ski Club. Alongside Lorraine, he enjoyed skiing throughout Europe, creating treasured memories together. Summers often found them traveling and canoeing the Saco River in New Hampshire and Maine or traveling throughout the United States.
A longtime member of the First Congregational Church of Fairhaven, Peter's faith was a guiding force throughout his life. He generously gave both his time and resources, especially through the church's thrift store ministry. He was always willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need and was known for his kindness, generosity, and quiet acts of service.
Peter is survived by his loving children, Christine Sowden, P.J. Sowden (Sarah Valentini), and Mark Sowden (Melissa). He will be dearly missed by his cherished grandchildren, Justin and Sofia Sowden, P.J. and Owen Sowden-Moore, and Jacob Sowden. He is also survived by his sister, Robin Sowden-Carter, as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, extended family members, and many dear friends.
He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Lorraine; his mother, Barbara (Trundy) Sowden, later Sell and Anderson; his father, Milton Sowden; his longtime stepfather, Norbert Sell; and his brothers, Paul Sowden, Norbert Sell, Barry Sell, and Bradley Sell.
While we mourn Peter's passing, we find comfort in knowing that his spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved him. He will be remembered not only for what he accomplished, but for the kindness he showed, the wisdom he shared, and the love he gave so freely. His legacy will continue through his family, friends, and all whose lives he touched.
Private family services will be held at a later date at Evergreen Cemetery, Marion, MA.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to SouthCoast Health at Home 200 Mill St Fairhaven, MA 02719 or Care One at New Bedford 221 Fitzgerald Dr, New Bedford, MA 02745.
Peter was born on April 25th, 1943 in Lexington, Massachusetts, and grew up in Wilmington. In 1964, he married his high school sweetheart, Lorraine (Zuccola) Sowden, and together the family spent more than 60 years in Marion.
Peter proudly served his country in the United States Navy, entering service in 1960 at Little Creek, Virginia. After completing his military service, he began an electrical career in 1964 that spanned many decades. During the 1970s, he also served as a Marion Police Officer.
Peter embraced life outdoors and found great joy in skiing, boating, fishing, lobstering, scalloping, and, of course, clamming in the harbors of Marion. He was actively involved in the Boy Scouts, Marion Lions Club, the O.R.R.H.S Ski Club, and the Middleboro Ski Club. Alongside Lorraine, he enjoyed skiing throughout Europe, creating treasured memories together. Summers often found them traveling and canoeing the Saco River in New Hampshire and Maine or traveling throughout the United States.
A longtime member of the First Congregational Church of Fairhaven, Peter's faith was a guiding force throughout his life. He generously gave both his time and resources, especially through the church's thrift store ministry. He was always willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need and was known for his kindness, generosity, and quiet acts of service.
Peter is survived by his loving children, Christine Sowden, P.J. Sowden (Sarah Valentini), and Mark Sowden (Melissa). He will be dearly missed by his cherished grandchildren, Justin and Sofia Sowden, P.J. and Owen Sowden-Moore, and Jacob Sowden. He is also survived by his sister, Robin Sowden-Carter, as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, extended family members, and many dear friends.
He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Lorraine; his mother, Barbara (Trundy) Sowden, later Sell and Anderson; his father, Milton Sowden; his longtime stepfather, Norbert Sell; and his brothers, Paul Sowden, Norbert Sell, Barry Sell, and Bradley Sell.
While we mourn Peter's passing, we find comfort in knowing that his spirit lives on in the hearts of those who loved him. He will be remembered not only for what he accomplished, but for the kindness he showed, the wisdom he shared, and the love he gave so freely. His legacy will continue through his family, friends, and all whose lives he touched.
Private family services will be held at a later date at Evergreen Cemetery, Marion, MA.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to SouthCoast Health at Home 200 Mill St Fairhaven, MA 02719 or Care One at New Bedford 221 Fitzgerald Dr, New Bedford, MA 02745.
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Richard "Ricky" Alan Bono
Aug 04, 2026 |
Richard "Ricky" Alan Bono, 72, of Mattapoisett, Massachusetts, passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday August 4, 2026, after a long and courageous battle with Parkinson's disease. He was surrounded by the love of his family and close friends.
Born on October 30, 1953, in New Bedford, Richard was immersed in the South Coast where spent his entire life. His roots in the community ran deep, and the friendships he built over a lifetime were among his greatest treasures. Whether through his work, his love of golf, or simply sharing stories with friends, Ricky had a way of making people feel welcome. He will be remembered for his generous heart, infectious spirit, kindness, and his quiet willingness to help others.
As the president and owner of State Road Cement Block Company, Ricky proudly ran the business alongside his brother Paul with integrity and dedication gaining the respect and admiration of all his loyal customers.
Known for embracing life to the fullest, Rick loved cars, motorcycles, and even his plane. Golf was one of his greatest passions. For over 50 years, he was a devoted member of the Country Club of New Bedford, where he could often be found enjoying countless rounds of golf ending at the 19th hole sharing drinks and laughs with friends who knew him by many nick names. Rick, Slick Rick, Chud, RB, Hollywood, Wood, Woody, and others.
Deeply proud of his Italian heritage, Ricky was an active member of the Italian Literary and Mutual Aid Society in New Bedford. His generosity extended beyond his own family through the establishment of a scholarship for children of Italian descent.
Above all, Ricky's greatest joy was his family. He is survived by his beloved wife of 45 years, Mary Anne Brogan, whose love and devotion were the foundation of their life together; his cherished children, Kyle Bono, Courtney Bono, Colin Bono, and Casey Bono; and his brothers, Paul Bono and Mark Bono.
Ricky lived a life defined by hard work, loyalty, generosity, and enduring friendships. His smile, warm spirit, and genuine kindness touched countless lives. While his family mourns the loss of a devoted husband, father, brother they find comfort in knowing that his legacy lives on. He will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever held in the hearts of those who loved him.
His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday August 12th at 11 am at St. Anthony's Church, Mattapoisett. Burial will follow in Cushing Cemetery. Visiting hours will be on Tuesday August 11th from 4-8 pm at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
Born on October 30, 1953, in New Bedford, Richard was immersed in the South Coast where spent his entire life. His roots in the community ran deep, and the friendships he built over a lifetime were among his greatest treasures. Whether through his work, his love of golf, or simply sharing stories with friends, Ricky had a way of making people feel welcome. He will be remembered for his generous heart, infectious spirit, kindness, and his quiet willingness to help others.
As the president and owner of State Road Cement Block Company, Ricky proudly ran the business alongside his brother Paul with integrity and dedication gaining the respect and admiration of all his loyal customers.
Known for embracing life to the fullest, Rick loved cars, motorcycles, and even his plane. Golf was one of his greatest passions. For over 50 years, he was a devoted member of the Country Club of New Bedford, where he could often be found enjoying countless rounds of golf ending at the 19th hole sharing drinks and laughs with friends who knew him by many nick names. Rick, Slick Rick, Chud, RB, Hollywood, Wood, Woody, and others.
Deeply proud of his Italian heritage, Ricky was an active member of the Italian Literary and Mutual Aid Society in New Bedford. His generosity extended beyond his own family through the establishment of a scholarship for children of Italian descent.
Above all, Ricky's greatest joy was his family. He is survived by his beloved wife of 45 years, Mary Anne Brogan, whose love and devotion were the foundation of their life together; his cherished children, Kyle Bono, Courtney Bono, Colin Bono, and Casey Bono; and his brothers, Paul Bono and Mark Bono.
Ricky lived a life defined by hard work, loyalty, generosity, and enduring friendships. His smile, warm spirit, and genuine kindness touched countless lives. While his family mourns the loss of a devoted husband, father, brother they find comfort in knowing that his legacy lives on. He will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever held in the hearts of those who loved him.
His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday August 12th at 11 am at St. Anthony's Church, Mattapoisett. Burial will follow in Cushing Cemetery. Visiting hours will be on Tuesday August 11th from 4-8 pm at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
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Bradford N. Eames
Jul 31, 2026 |
Brad Eames never did anything halfway.
Born in Attleboro, MA on August 6, 1943 to Newell Taft Eames and Margery Louise (Bessom) Eames, Brad was raised in his parents' hometown of Mansfield. Soon after he was born, his father left to serve in Germany during WWII. At age 2 ¾ Brad was sent out to help with the family's shopping for the first time: Hoodsie cups for him and his mother, a piece of gum for his aunt Janet, and bread. His mother noted at the time, "He took no note on this errand, got everything perfectly, and came back with change in his pocket."
By 3 ½ he was walking his little sister to their grandmother's house, making sure he was holding her with his left hand. As he explained to his mother, "then Carolyn won't be on the side where the cars can bump her."
When he started school in Mansfield, there were three boxes teachers could check on report cards: good, fair, and poor. Brad's teacher handwrote and underlined "very" in front of "good," and checked that box.
Halfway through second grade, Brad and his family moved to Marion, a town he would serve for decades. He immediately showed there was a new athlete in town by winning the three-legged race at Marion's centennial celebration in 1952. By 1957 he was a strong junior tennis player, playing in the New England Junior Grass Court Championships, and was described by the local paper as "angling cross-court volleys with the precision of a tennis robot."
At the age of 11 he began working at Browne's Pharmacy in Marion, and later at Petersen's Ice cream, where one of his jobs was to use tweezers to select only the most perfect walnuts for Mr. Petersen's maple walnut ice cream. He kept bees for Mr. Hathaway of Marion's General Store, once betting a friend he could put a bee in his mouth without being stung. Skillfully selecting a male drone, knowing they could not sting, he won the bet.
Brad was an Elizabeth Taber Scholar at Tabor Academy and graduated as one of the top students in his class of 1961. Although an excellent tennis player, he chose to play baseball at Tabor, and is the only player for the school to play all nine positions in a season. He was inducted into Tabor's Hall of Fame as a member of their undefeated 1961 basketball team. He hit his first hole-in-one while at Tabor on his sister's birthday. For the rest of their lives, when he called her on her birthday, he wished her a happy anniversary of his hole-in-one.
At Bowdoin College, Brad played baseball and golf, competing on Bowdoin's golf team in the Maine College Championships his senior year. He was a member of the Delta Kappa Epsilon fraternity where he served as treasurer, secretary, and vice president. He became lifelong friends with his roommates from the "Deek House," where a piano may or may not have been rolled off a balcony during their time there.
Also at Bowdoin, he was the top ROTC cadet in his class and named commanding officer of Bowdoin's company. He was a finalist in the Hiland Lockwood Fairbanks public speaking contest.
Brad was commissioned as a lieutenant in the US Army upon graduation. His company disembarked from California headed for Japan in the fall of 1966, but was re-routed to a new conflict that was brewing in Vietnam. Upon arrival, Brad was sent on a reconnaissance mission and became the first American soldier to cross into North Vietnam.
He received two bronze stars while in Vietnam. The first was for heroic service, saving American lives. His company was under heavy mortar fire. To defend their position, Brad calculated the precise trajectory and direction for the American howitzers, then sprinted up an unprotected hill, mortar fire falling around him. He would yell out the coordinates, dive back into a bunker to calculate for the next gun, and then charge back out. He executed this time and again, each calculation perfect, his communication clear, until the enemy guns stopped.
His second bronze star was for meritorious service for the incredible accuracy of his A Battery, 1st Battalion, 40th Field Artillery. They fired over 20,000 rounds for a year without an error. He was proud that marine units fighting in the field specifically requested his company for support. Upon learning of his death, his captain Luis Lopez, who Brad held in the highest regard, called him his brother in arms, and a "soldier's soldier."
In 2022, Brad was honored for his service in Vietnam with a Quilt of Valor by the national Quilt of Valor Foundation through its local chapter in Ft. Myers, FL, the Seven Lakes Piecemakers.
Returning to Marion after the war, he now could serve his community. He volunteered as the scout master for Marion's Boy Scouts Troop 32, mentoring several boys to become Eagle Scouts. He coached baseball, served on several local bank boards, marched in the town's Fourth of July parades, was a deacon at the Congregational Church, and was a founding board member of the Wareham YMCA. When the Y first opened, he shot 100 basketball free throws daily and within months he was shooting the 80% he did in high school. When he retired after 41 years as an assessor for the town of Marion, he was the longest continuously elected official in Massachusetts.
He was the owner of Eames Insurance, where he prioritized finding fair prices for policies that matched his clients' needs. He raised money for Tabor Academy, engaging the highest percentage of his classmates of any class for many years. He taught classes at Tabor about his time in Vietnam, sharing his experience with a new generation.
He served in every possible volunteer role at the Kittansett Club, including president. He hit a few more holes-in-one (totalling 5 in his lifetime), won several tournaments, represented Kittansett at tournaments at other clubs, played in parent-child tournaments with his children, was named Golf Digest Magazine's most improved golfer in Massachusetts twice, and in 2025 was honored with the club's first Stackpole Award for exemplary and longstanding lifetime service, the club's highest honor.
He taught his two children how to throw a baseball, dig quahogs with their feet, and why compound interest was important. He loved watching his children's and grandchildren's sports, rarely missing a game.
A true patriot, he erected a flagpole at each house his family lived in, and taught his children how to properly raise and lower a flag. When the Vietnam Veterans Memorial first opened in Washington DC, he took his family to see it. Following his wedding in December of 1971, he took his new wife to our nation's capital for their honeymoon. He always wore a pin of the American flag on his lapel.
Once they had children, he wanted to show them the United States, and they took family vacations, largely driving, with down-to-the-minute itineraries. Vacations were about squeezing in as many sites as possible. One time the family visited Devil's Tower in northeastern Wyoming, which was several hours out of the way. His kids took pictures with their film cameras, and it was time to get back in the car. But they have those pictures to this day.
With a quirky sense of humor, he once built a giant snow sculpture of Auguste Rodin's The Thinker in their front yard, but instead of The Thinker sitting on a rock, he sat on a giant snow toilet. His children thought this was hilarious, but they were not sure what their mother thought of the spectacle in their yard.
A Red Sox fan, he held season tickets for many years, and once took his teenage son and his son's friend on a trip throughout the US to watch games in different ballparks. A Celtics fan, when the family helped nurse an injured robin back to health, they named it Larry Bird.
Brad Eames passed away on July 31, 2026. He leaves a rare legacy of service and dedication. He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Lorna (Waddington) Eames of Marion, MA and Ft. Myers, FL; his daughter Jennifer Eames and her partner Ashley Sadler of Marion; his son Tristan Bradford Eames of Talkeetna, Alaska; his sister, Carolyn Margery Eames of Marion; and his grandsons, Grayson Bradford Eames and Beckham Leo Sadler of Marion. He was predeceased by his parents and his brother Kendall Edward Eames, whose ring Brad wore until his death.
Brad was a true lover of books, once having a golden retriever he named Call Me Ishmael. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory can be made to the Elizabeth Taber Library, 8 Spring Street, Marion, MA 02738 with Friends Donation for Brad in the memo line.
A celebration of his life will be held at the Kittansett Club, 11 Point Road in Marion, on Sunday, October 4th from 2-4 PM that all are welcome to attend. Interment at Old Landing Cemetery in Marion will be private. Arrangements are with the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett. For online guestbook, visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
Born in Attleboro, MA on August 6, 1943 to Newell Taft Eames and Margery Louise (Bessom) Eames, Brad was raised in his parents' hometown of Mansfield. Soon after he was born, his father left to serve in Germany during WWII. At age 2 ¾ Brad was sent out to help with the family's shopping for the first time: Hoodsie cups for him and his mother, a piece of gum for his aunt Janet, and bread. His mother noted at the time, "He took no note on this errand, got everything perfectly, and came back with change in his pocket."
By 3 ½ he was walking his little sister to their grandmother's house, making sure he was holding her with his left hand. As he explained to his mother, "then Carolyn won't be on the side where the cars can bump her."
When he started school in Mansfield, there were three boxes teachers could check on report cards: good, fair, and poor. Brad's teacher handwrote and underlined "very" in front of "good," and checked that box.
Halfway through second grade, Brad and his family moved to Marion, a town he would serve for decades. He immediately showed there was a new athlete in town by winning the three-legged race at Marion's centennial celebration in 1952. By 1957 he was a strong junior tennis player, playing in the New England Junior Grass Court Championships, and was described by the local paper as "angling cross-court volleys with the precision of a tennis robot."
At the age of 11 he began working at Browne's Pharmacy in Marion, and later at Petersen's Ice cream, where one of his jobs was to use tweezers to select only the most perfect walnuts for Mr. Petersen's maple walnut ice cream. He kept bees for Mr. Hathaway of Marion's General Store, once betting a friend he could put a bee in his mouth without being stung. Skillfully selecting a male drone, knowing they could not sting, he won the bet.
Brad was an Elizabeth Taber Scholar at Tabor Academy and graduated as one of the top students in his class of 1961. Although an excellent tennis player, he chose to play baseball at Tabor, and is the only player for the school to play all nine positions in a season. He was inducted into Tabor's Hall of Fame as a member of their undefeated 1961 basketball team. He hit his first hole-in-one while at Tabor on his sister's birthday. For the rest of their lives, when he called her on her birthday, he wished her a happy anniversary of his hole-in-one.
At Bowdoin College, Brad played baseball and golf, competing on Bowdoin's golf team in the Maine College Championships his senior year. He was a member of the Delta Kappa Epsilon fraternity where he served as treasurer, secretary, and vice president. He became lifelong friends with his roommates from the "Deek House," where a piano may or may not have been rolled off a balcony during their time there.
Also at Bowdoin, he was the top ROTC cadet in his class and named commanding officer of Bowdoin's company. He was a finalist in the Hiland Lockwood Fairbanks public speaking contest.
Brad was commissioned as a lieutenant in the US Army upon graduation. His company disembarked from California headed for Japan in the fall of 1966, but was re-routed to a new conflict that was brewing in Vietnam. Upon arrival, Brad was sent on a reconnaissance mission and became the first American soldier to cross into North Vietnam.
He received two bronze stars while in Vietnam. The first was for heroic service, saving American lives. His company was under heavy mortar fire. To defend their position, Brad calculated the precise trajectory and direction for the American howitzers, then sprinted up an unprotected hill, mortar fire falling around him. He would yell out the coordinates, dive back into a bunker to calculate for the next gun, and then charge back out. He executed this time and again, each calculation perfect, his communication clear, until the enemy guns stopped.
His second bronze star was for meritorious service for the incredible accuracy of his A Battery, 1st Battalion, 40th Field Artillery. They fired over 20,000 rounds for a year without an error. He was proud that marine units fighting in the field specifically requested his company for support. Upon learning of his death, his captain Luis Lopez, who Brad held in the highest regard, called him his brother in arms, and a "soldier's soldier."
In 2022, Brad was honored for his service in Vietnam with a Quilt of Valor by the national Quilt of Valor Foundation through its local chapter in Ft. Myers, FL, the Seven Lakes Piecemakers.
Returning to Marion after the war, he now could serve his community. He volunteered as the scout master for Marion's Boy Scouts Troop 32, mentoring several boys to become Eagle Scouts. He coached baseball, served on several local bank boards, marched in the town's Fourth of July parades, was a deacon at the Congregational Church, and was a founding board member of the Wareham YMCA. When the Y first opened, he shot 100 basketball free throws daily and within months he was shooting the 80% he did in high school. When he retired after 41 years as an assessor for the town of Marion, he was the longest continuously elected official in Massachusetts.
He was the owner of Eames Insurance, where he prioritized finding fair prices for policies that matched his clients' needs. He raised money for Tabor Academy, engaging the highest percentage of his classmates of any class for many years. He taught classes at Tabor about his time in Vietnam, sharing his experience with a new generation.
He served in every possible volunteer role at the Kittansett Club, including president. He hit a few more holes-in-one (totalling 5 in his lifetime), won several tournaments, represented Kittansett at tournaments at other clubs, played in parent-child tournaments with his children, was named Golf Digest Magazine's most improved golfer in Massachusetts twice, and in 2025 was honored with the club's first Stackpole Award for exemplary and longstanding lifetime service, the club's highest honor.
He taught his two children how to throw a baseball, dig quahogs with their feet, and why compound interest was important. He loved watching his children's and grandchildren's sports, rarely missing a game.
A true patriot, he erected a flagpole at each house his family lived in, and taught his children how to properly raise and lower a flag. When the Vietnam Veterans Memorial first opened in Washington DC, he took his family to see it. Following his wedding in December of 1971, he took his new wife to our nation's capital for their honeymoon. He always wore a pin of the American flag on his lapel.
Once they had children, he wanted to show them the United States, and they took family vacations, largely driving, with down-to-the-minute itineraries. Vacations were about squeezing in as many sites as possible. One time the family visited Devil's Tower in northeastern Wyoming, which was several hours out of the way. His kids took pictures with their film cameras, and it was time to get back in the car. But they have those pictures to this day.
With a quirky sense of humor, he once built a giant snow sculpture of Auguste Rodin's The Thinker in their front yard, but instead of The Thinker sitting on a rock, he sat on a giant snow toilet. His children thought this was hilarious, but they were not sure what their mother thought of the spectacle in their yard.
A Red Sox fan, he held season tickets for many years, and once took his teenage son and his son's friend on a trip throughout the US to watch games in different ballparks. A Celtics fan, when the family helped nurse an injured robin back to health, they named it Larry Bird.
Brad Eames passed away on July 31, 2026. He leaves a rare legacy of service and dedication. He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Lorna (Waddington) Eames of Marion, MA and Ft. Myers, FL; his daughter Jennifer Eames and her partner Ashley Sadler of Marion; his son Tristan Bradford Eames of Talkeetna, Alaska; his sister, Carolyn Margery Eames of Marion; and his grandsons, Grayson Bradford Eames and Beckham Leo Sadler of Marion. He was predeceased by his parents and his brother Kendall Edward Eames, whose ring Brad wore until his death.
Brad was a true lover of books, once having a golden retriever he named Call Me Ishmael. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory can be made to the Elizabeth Taber Library, 8 Spring Street, Marion, MA 02738 with Friends Donation for Brad in the memo line.
A celebration of his life will be held at the Kittansett Club, 11 Point Road in Marion, on Sunday, October 4th from 2-4 PM that all are welcome to attend. Interment at Old Landing Cemetery in Marion will be private. Arrangements are with the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett. For online guestbook, visit www.saundersdwyer.com.
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Nancy "Nora Beth" Horrocks Chrzanowski
Jul 28, 2026 |
Nancy "Nora Beth" Horrocks Chrzanowski passed away on July 28, 2026, in Austin, TX after a long illness. Born on January 1, 1951, Nancy lived a life full of devotion to her faith, family and church at Mount Sinai Baptist Church (the Mount).
Nancy was a lifelong learner and avid reader. She graduated from Old Rochester Regional High School in 1968 and the Chandler School for Women in Boston in 1970. She completed graduate studies at Rutgers University and City College of San Francisco, CA. She is a proud graduate from Our Lady of the Lake University in San Antonio TX in 1998.
Nancy was a deeply spiritual person, guided by faith and acts of service throughout her life. She worked as a Street Evangelist Missionary for the Mount. From 1991 to 2001, she was involved in and served as president of the Houston, TX chapter of the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI).
Nancy was preceded in death by her parents, the Honorable Judge Ernest T. Horrocks and Mary, and her sister, Rosemary Cookson. She is survived by her devoted and dear friend, Joseph Sean Cotton, her children, Mary Ellen Chrzanowski and Peter Chrzanowski, her 3 grandsons, Miles, Graham and Emmett Chrzanowski, and her sisters Ellen Horrocks, Patricia Horrocks Apperson and Betsy DiVeglia. Nancy also had a very special relationship with her cousin and God Son, Ben Loughlin, and his children, Jak and Charlotte, whom she also considered her special grandchildren.
In memory of Nancy, donations can be made in her name to The Mount Sinai Baptist Church, 8500 Cameron Road, Austin , Texas 78754
Nancy was a lifelong learner and avid reader. She graduated from Old Rochester Regional High School in 1968 and the Chandler School for Women in Boston in 1970. She completed graduate studies at Rutgers University and City College of San Francisco, CA. She is a proud graduate from Our Lady of the Lake University in San Antonio TX in 1998.
Nancy was a deeply spiritual person, guided by faith and acts of service throughout her life. She worked as a Street Evangelist Missionary for the Mount. From 1991 to 2001, she was involved in and served as president of the Houston, TX chapter of the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI).
Nancy was preceded in death by her parents, the Honorable Judge Ernest T. Horrocks and Mary, and her sister, Rosemary Cookson. She is survived by her devoted and dear friend, Joseph Sean Cotton, her children, Mary Ellen Chrzanowski and Peter Chrzanowski, her 3 grandsons, Miles, Graham and Emmett Chrzanowski, and her sisters Ellen Horrocks, Patricia Horrocks Apperson and Betsy DiVeglia. Nancy also had a very special relationship with her cousin and God Son, Ben Loughlin, and his children, Jak and Charlotte, whom she also considered her special grandchildren.
In memory of Nancy, donations can be made in her name to The Mount Sinai Baptist Church, 8500 Cameron Road, Austin , Texas 78754