Pizza with Santa

The Marion Police Brotherhood will be hosting Pizza with Santa on Sunday, December 17 from 11:00 am to 1:00 pm at the Marion Community Center, 465 Mill Street (Route 6).

Once again, we will be accepting donations to help “fill a cruiser” with new unwrapped toys for The Justice Resources Institute, a local nonprofit organization providing intensive foster care and adoption programs for children and adolescents in our community.

Please register at the Marion Police Department, 550 Mill Street, Marion or email adicarlo@marionma.gov or acrosby@marionma.gov by December 13.

Ain’t Gonna Need This House No Longer

For many years, my parents’ house was a center of neighborhood activity. The kids would knock on the door to ask if my mother was coming outside or if the resident grandchild could come out and play. The neighboring ladies would stop in to borrow a stick of margarine or share a bit of gossip. During the daylight hours and especially on the weekends, the house was never still.

The front doorbell, reserved for Dad’s TV repair customers, would frequently ring followed by Ma calling to us to, “Go get the old man.”

During the week when the children of the neighborhood returned home from school or on fair-weather weekends, Ma would sit on her front stoop overseeing the children that almost always included a grandchild.

The children loved her. She bestowed upon them the time and attention their parents either were too hard pressed to give or simply didn’t have the capacity to share.

Next door in the rental home were Ma’s second and third cousins on her mother’s side. A family of six lived in the house that included four children, their mother, and occasionally their alcoholic father. When there was domestic chaos in that household, Ma would loop her soft, warm arm around their shoulders in silent comfort and compassion.

When my son and I moved in, taking over the upstairs front bedroom in 1973, the house was packed with a person sleeping in every room with the exception of the kitchen and bathroom.

In spite of the seams bursting, the interior of Ma’s house was always in order. There weren’t any dirty dishes in the sink. Floors were swept and washed with regularity, and dust was never allowed to collect on freshly polished surfaces. She would often say that being poor did not mean one had to be dirty. Her home smelled of Pledge and Red Cap Refresher. Her curtains were changed seasonally. Upholstered furniture was relentlessly vacuumed. The bathroom was hygienically clean and always fresh in spite of nearly constant use. Ma kept a very tight ship. We, the crew, ensured it stayed that way.

Yet the ambient sounds were constant. The telephone rang, TVs were on in at least three rooms, the teakettle whistled, the washing machine chugged, the back door snapped shut, the children’s voices squealed. It was a symphony that played in the background between 8:00 am and 9:00 pm for years.

After supper if the weather was agreeable, my son would return to the street games joined by the other kids. Taking up her post on the stoop, Ma would watch the children, refereeing their games and insisting that everyone get their turn. Cheating wasn’t tolerated.

For Ma, those were her glory years. She governed her home and the neighborhood like a benevolent dictator, one that everyone loved, paid attention to, and wanted to please.

The fact that Ma never stepped outside her property line was an open, unspoken secret we all shared. The world came to her. Confined as she was, it was easy to keep secrets that we thought might otherwise unsettle her emotional balance. She was insulated from life beyond that singular neighborhood.

But everything changes, and so too did Ma’s world.

With every year that passed, the house became increasingly quiet. The neighbors that had ebbed and flowed through the house either moved away or no longer took the time to stop by. Eventually Ma moved on, too. She found the internal wherewithal to break the bonds of severe panic attack disorder and get in a car.

She enjoyed a few years free to travel where wheels and a willing driver could take her. Those golden years were too few. Mobility issues would rob her of that hard-won freedom. Time was taking its toll.

Unable to sit on her stoop, she took to sitting on the front porch that had once been part of Dad’s shop. From this vantage point, she could survey the entire street from end to end. But there was nothing to see. The people she once knew seldom stopped by. All the neighborhood children were gone, the grandchildren grown. Ma’s season in the sun was ending.

When she first entered the nursing home, she believed it would provide her with the social interaction she had been missing at home. She came to realize, as humble as it might have been, there’s no place like home. The nursing facility became a new sort of confinement. With surprising grace she bore it.

Entering that house after Ma was moved into nursing care was extraordinarily difficult. I’d call to Dad from the side door. My voice seemed small, barely able to penetrate the years that hung as invisible doors through which I had to walk. Dad would call back, “I’m still here.”

The house, once so filled with sound and movement, so vital to the neighborhood and its inhabitants, now seemed to sigh, seemed to be exhausted, and was silent except for the clock measuring out the remaining hours.

By Marilou Newell

 

Quaker Open House

Mattapoisett Friends Meeting wants to thank the community for its support for renovations that were done to its 1827 building. Now that the rotting subfloor is replaced, the cellar shored up, and the cracking plaster fixed, an Open House has been scheduled for December 10. There will be a Quaker service from 9:30 to 10:00 am. Open House will be from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm with light refreshments served.

Elizabeth Taber Library

Annual Holiday Ornament Sale: The Elizabeth Taber Library is now selling their annual holiday ornament, a beautiful starfish, for only $25! Buy yours today. They will make the perfect holiday gift for friends and family. All proceeds directly benefit the library in order to enhance our programs and services. Previous years’ ornaments – a sailboat and a conch shell – are also on sale for $20 while supplies last. Ornaments are made by McDermott Glass Studio in Sandwich.

Holiday Cookie Swap: Come celebrate the holidays at the Elizabeth Taber Library with a cookie exchange on Tuesday, December 12, at 4:00 pm. Bring at least a dozen homemade cookies (and the recipe!) with you to swap with others. It’s a great time to share your love for baking and sweets! To register, please call the library at 508-748-1252.

Museum Passes: Looking for something fun to do indoors with friends and family this winter? Then come to the Elizabeth Taber Library to check out any of our museum passes with your SAILS library card! We currently offer discounted passes to the Museum of Fine Arts, Mystic Aquarium, New Bedford Whaling Museum, Plimoth Plantation, Roger Williams Zoo, Mass Parks Pass and NEW in 2018 – passes to the Institute of Contemporary Art, Boston. To reserve a pass or for more information, please call the library at 508-748-1252 or visit our website: www.elizabethtaberlibrary.org.

Mary Ellen (Garey) Cooper

Mary Ellen (Garey) Cooper, 86, of Mattapoisett, died November 30 at Brandon Woods Nursing Home in New Bedford. She was the wife of Frank E. Cooper, Sr.

Born in Flushing, NY, on June 15, 1931, Mary later moved with her parents, the late Mary (Malek) Garey and George Garey, to Somerville, MA, where she graduated from Somerville High School. Mary worked at John Hancock Insurance Company in Boston prior to marrying in 1951, having six children, and living all over the United States in her 23 years as a Marine Corps wife. She especially loved living in Hawaii, saying the saddest day of her life was when they had to leave that paradise. She moved to Mattapoisett village with her family in 1964 and fell in love with the town beach, the band concerts, and Center School playground, which served as her family’s front yard. She was a talented figure skater and taught her children and grandchildren how to skate on frozen cranberry bogs and local ice rinks.

Mary retired from the financial division at Compass Bank in New Bedford in 1993 after 18 years. She enjoyed an active retirement with her husband on trips to Europe, long cycling trips, attending Broadway musicals, picnicking at PawSox games, cooking with her grandchildren, and being inseparable from her beloved Jack Russell Terrier, Molly.

She is survived by her husband of 66 years, Frank E. Cooper, Sr., and her sons Frank E. Cooper, Jr. and his companion, Sue Brownell, of Mattapoisett, Timothy J. Cooper of Mattapoisett, Thomas M. Cooper, Sr. of Mattapoisett, Michael J. Cooper and his companion, Kim Faria, of New Bedford, and daughter, Christine A. Cooper, of Mattapoisett. She leaves behind three grandchildren: Christopher Cooper of FL, Thomas M. Cooper, Jr. of Mattapoisett, and Bridgette Cooper and her fiance Allen Ferreira of New Bedford. She also leaves two step-grandchildren, Jennifer Gill of Fairhaven and Robert Gill of New Hampshire. She was also great-grandmother to Lacey E. Cooper of Minot, N. Dakota and step-great grandmother to Chandra Perez-Gill and Mischa Tomasia , both of Fairhaven. Mary was predeceased by her son, Robert. G. Cooper of Tampa, FL, her daughter-in-law, Linda E. Cooper of Marion, and her grandson, Patrick J. Cooper of New Bedford.

Her visiting hours will be held on Tuesday Dec. 5th from 4-7 PM at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday Dec. 6th at 9:30 AM at St. Anthony’s Church in Mattapoisett. Burial will follow in the Massachusetts National Cemetery in Bourne. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation, in Mary’s name, to the Alzheimer’s Association at alz.org. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

 

Selectmen Settle Fairgrounds Use Policy

Kelly Morgado of the Rochester Country Fair Board of Directors and committee was present on November 27 as the Rochester Board of Selectmen reviewed and then asked questions on the proposed Rochester Country Fair grounds use policy the board had charged a policy committee to draft.

Town Counsel Blair Bailey was also present to answer questions, mostly which were asked by Selectman Greenwood Hartley as he reviewed the language and took issue with some phrases he thought would be confusing to others.

“I think that we need to help everybody with the neighborhood,” said Hartley. “What’s the ‘neighborhood’ and what’s the neighborhood notification process?”

“What we came up with was the abutters of the abutters,” said Chairman Brad Morse.

Hartley opposed granting RCF Committee members a vote on whether or not to allow a requested event, which was addressed by Town Administrator Suzanne Szyndlar, who said the process would begin with the application submission to the RCF Board of Directors. Committee members would vote on whether to recommend the event or not, and then that recommendation, along with the final vote, would be passed up to the Board of Selectmen.

Hartley commented that the language still sounded as though the RCF Committee had an actual say on the matter.

“I want them to vote … report that to you and then you have the final stamp on whether it gets approved or not,” said Bailey.

“You can override us, it doesn’t matter, but at least we have a say…” said Morgado. “At least we had our say…”

Morgado continued, “We work really hard to take care of those grounds, and I think it’s a common courtesy,” Morgado said.

“But you don’t own it; the Town owns it…” said Hartley. “I think it gives you a sense that you can deny it and you can’t.”

Morgado commented that it would be “rude” to simply pass over the RCF Committee in the process.

After further discussion, Hartley called the draft “comprehensive,” and aside from some minor language changes, the board was satisfied and voted to adopt the policy with the changes discussed at the meeting.

Of significance, the policy restricts use of the RCF grounds to six events per year, with the actual Rochester Country Fair being one of them. Another five one-day events of a town/fundraising nature would be considered.

Morse stated that the policy committee would remain intact and would not be dissolved in case issues arise in the future.

            In other matters, the board decided the Town will post the police chief position internally for two weeks, first offering the position to existing Rochester police officers. The selectmen will comprise the majority of the five-person hiring review committee. They will invite another police chief from another town who resides in Rochester and retiring Rochester Police Chief Paul Magee to also sit on the review committee.

“I’m willing to do whatever the board needs,” said Magee.

The internal posting will run until mid-December and any ensuing applications will be reviewed.

Magee will retire on September 16, 2018.

Also during the meeting, the board reviewed a draft social media policy for town employees and board and committee members at Szyndlar’s recommendation.

“There actually were some complaints of some board members posting on social media,” said Szyndlar. “That breaks the Open Meeting Law.”

Szyndlar said she had looked at other towns’ social media policies when crafting the draft policy, and the draft will be circulated to department heads before selectmen vote on adoption.

“We need to address this,” said Morse, with Hartley concurring.

The board also voted to accept the updated police chief job description as presented, which Magee and Szyndlar had both worked on since the last meeting when Szyndlar first presented the matter to the board.

Also during the meeting, the board approved another annual contract between Rochester and the Town of Lakeville Animal Shelter. The Lakeville Animal Shelter is a no-kill shelter, and Selectman Naida Parker praised the shelter for its service.

Szyndlar announced that the Rochester Police Department has received a payment of $2,642, which comes as a result of a traffic stop during which police officers discovered six pounds of marijuana plus $5,000 and some other drugs, all of which were seized and forfeited. Szyndlar said forfeited cash is split with the District Attorney’s Office who uses the rest of the funds to defray the costs of drug investigations.

The next meeting of the Rochester Board of Selectmen is scheduled for 5:30 pm on December 4 in the town administrator’s office at the Rochester Town Hall ahead of the tree lighting at 6:00 pm.

Good Art Comes in Small Packages…

During the Marion Art Center’s ongoing “Small Works on the Wall” exhibit, if you see a little something you like, you can buy it, take it right from the gallery wall, and carry it home with you. And although these small-size works of art can literally fit into the palm of your hand, that doesn’t mean the work is lacking in full-size talent.

It’s quite the contrary.

The 24 local artists represented on the gallery walls at the MAC this month until December 20 offer the beholder’s eye a fresh perspective on practical gift giving: small-scale, affordable, and the perfect alternative to the usual gift-giving.

As soon as one enters the main door, Christy Gunnels’ strikingly life-like painting of American crows, gold finches, and heron pulls you in and up close to admire the exquisite detail of the relatively commonplace crow. It might not be a partridge in a pear tree, but Gunnels’ birds – a collection of simple subjects with a density of detail – leave a lasting impression.

Ruth LaGue’s colorful acrylic paintings are fascinating impressions of nature – its colors, patterns, and three-dimensional texture. Her four paintings that hung on the wall on the night of November 24 – Clouds Over the River, Sunset, Distance, and Northeast Kingdom – mist in a field (VT) – capture the very titles of each piece, which likely will not hang long on the MAC walls before somebody captures them up.

The artists are all relatively local, meaning they were local enough to deliver their four works personally to the MAC and return Friday night for the opening reception.

The small works show is a new concept for the MAC’s annual December holiday show, with the key component being you see it, you like it, you take it off the wall, and you take it home.

MAC Exhibition Committee member Liz Howland said this particular show is that something “fresh” that the committee was looking for this year.

“All the artwork is small. People who love art can always find a spot to hang a little something,” said Howland. “This show has abstract, realism, abstract realism – the whole gamut.”

Each artist has four pieces hanging on the wall, and as the individual works sell, the artist will replace them with other similar works until they are all sold.

“It’s a really nice way to introduce people who really love art,” said Exhibition Committee member Alice Shire, given the relatively smaller size and the relatively smaller price tag. “Some people think, ‘Oh, I can’t own a piece of original art,’” Shire continued, “and now with small work shows, you can.”

“You can see the complexity, the difference between the artists’ styles, just in their four pieces,” said Howland as she admired the collection of four oil paintings by Susan Strauss.

The small works show isn’t about impulse buying. Rather, it’s more about finding something special that is suitable for wrapping – that is, if it actually makes it under the Christmas tree.

The show continues until December 20. Gallery hours are Tuesday through Friday, 1:00 to 5:00 pm, and Saturday from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm. For more information, visit www.marionartcenter.org.

By Jean Perry

Friends of Plumb Library Annual Holiday Fair

The Friends of Plumb Library will hold their annual Holiday Fair and Silent Auction on Saturday, December 2 from 10:00 am – 2:00 pm at the Plumb Library, 17 Constitution Way, Rochester.

Featured at the Fair will be a Bake Sale, Children’s Craft Table featuring “Make a Dog Ornament” with the Greyhound Pets of America from 10:00 – 11:00 am, Take a Picture with Amos from 10:00 am – noon, live music throughout the day, Historical Society table, and wreath pickup. Donations for the bake sale can be left at the library before 5:00 pm on Friday, December 1. Call the library at 508-763-8600 for more information.

Robert N. Lavallee

Robert N. Lavallee entered into the joy of the kingdom of God on Tuesday November 28, 2017. Bob died as a result of complications from metastatic lung cancer.

Bob was born in New Bedford in 1958. He graduated from St. Anthony’s High School. In his youth Bob was an avid dirt bike rider and motorcycle enthusiast. As he grew older he received and answered the call to duty to New Bedford as a firefighter and to the neighboring town of Rochester as a police officer. He was an active member of the Fire Fighter Honor Guard and a member of the Board of the Directors of the New Bedford Fire Museum.

Many people of the North End will remember him as the talented unicyclist who often rode his unicycle 3 to 4 times per week for 12 miles per day.

As a member of St. Joseph-St Therese Parish, Bob ministered to the sick and homebound as a Eucharistic Minister.

Bob was known as a person of integrity and service. His devotion and helpfulness to his family, friends, strangers and especially his fellow firefighters will always be remembered and greatly missed.

He leaves his mother, Therese Lavallee; his brothers, Donald and Maurice Lavallee and their wives Joyce and Diane; his sisters, Marie Bonneau and Diane Campeau and their husbands, Bruce and George. He also had several nieces, nephews, great nieces and a great nephew.

He was predeceased by his father, Deacon Maurice Lavallee.

His visitation will be held on Sunday December 3rd from 3-7 pm at the Saunders-Dwyer Home for Funerals, 495 Park St., New Bedford. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday December 4th at 10 AM at St. Joseph-St. Therese Church in New Bedford. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to the New Bedford Fire Museum, 51 Bedford St., New Bedford, MA 02740. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

 

The Native Cranberry

The cranberry is a native wetland fruit that was used here by local first Americans to cure their meat – known as pemmican – to preserve it for purposes of future sustenance during the winter.

The name ‘cranberry’ came from Dutch and German settlers calling it ‘crane berry’ because of the pink petals of blossoms that bloom in the spring and twist back resembling the head of a crane. They are illustrated by the five upright stems at the bottom of my drawing.

This likeness is possibly derived from the figure of a crane in their old world mythology as an ethereal symbol of earthly renewal in spring. The name was later shortened to cranberry.

            The vines of the plant between the blossoms, also in my drawing, thrive on trailing vines like those of a strawberry on a special combination of soils and water properties in beds layered with sand, peat, and gravel, known as bogs. They act as nature’s sponges to store and purify water and help maintain the water table.

Some of the bogs we see driving by in our travels actually evolved from deposits left by glaciers more than 10,000 years ago. These are known as impermeable kettle holes lined with clay that prevents materials from leaching into the groundwater.

            In their movement, glaciers scraped up rocks and other organic materials that, when they melted, left behind heavy formations of molten metals on top of the clay. Some were islands of iron which had to be removed but could be melted down for making tools or other implements. This left a fertile combination of soils and water properties layered in beds.

Years ago on Cape Cod, growers noted that sand blown in from nearby dunes helped the vines grow faster by controlling weeds and insects. Today, many growers spread an inch or two of sand every three years. Healthy vines may survive almost indefinitely, some a hundred years or more.

The autumn harvest began in mid-September by flooding the bogs with water so the berries float to the surface to be scooped up by mechanized moving machines. When finished, the water can be re-cycled to other bogs with a purifying effect. New bogs are shaped in more rectangular dimensions of straight lines for efficient routing of harvesters.

In Southern Massachusetts there are some 14,000 acres of bogs, which are workplaces of nearly 400 families, many going back as occupations of several or more generations to colonial origins.

They have nurtured and cultured their wetlands while contributing to their communities and providing habitat and shelter for hundreds of plants and species. So doing, they preserve and beautify nearly 63,000 acres of New England countryside.

Now the harvest is all but complete, just in time to provide fresh fruit for the ceremonial holidays as we give thanks for all the blessings of a bountiful harvest as well as the economic and environmental benefits of a local industry.

By George B. Emmons