Francesco W. Cervelli

Francesco W. Cervelli, 84, of Rochester died Saturday, October 26, 2019 in Tobey Hospital, after being stricken ill earlier in the day while delivering cranberries. He was the husband of Christine A. (Tanner) Cervelli and the son of the late John and Alice (Sinnot) Cervelli.

            He was born in Marshfield and lived in Rochester most of his life. He graduated from Marshfield High School where he excelled playing on the Basketball Team. He also attended the University of Connecticut on a basketball scholarship.

            Mr. Cervelli owned and operated Cervelli Farm first in Hanover at the age of 16 and then later moving to Rochester. He worked for many years and was well know for his quality produce, especially his sweet corn and cranberries. He was a dedicated farmer, working hard, long hours to assure the best crop possible.

            Survivors include his wife, Christine A. (Tanner) Cervelli of Rochester; 2 sons, Alan E. Cervelli of Rochester and Frank J. Cervelli of Hanover; a stepson, Scott Makowski of Rochester; a sister, Rosemary Smith of Columbus, OH; 2 grandsons, Philip and Thomas Cervelli; a step grandson, Dana Makowski.

            His services will be private.

Rochester Contests Legality of Mattapoisett’s Home Rule Petition

            October 21 was the night of the fall special town meetings for Marion and Mattapoisett, but that evening during the regular meeting of the Rochester Board of Selectmen, Rochester Town Administrator Suzanne Szyndlar called out an article on Mattapoisett’s warrant – a Home Rule Petition aimed at splitting the cost of a school resource officer at Old Rochester Regional – as irrelevant.

            Mattapoisett’s Home Rule Petition – a request from a city or town for a new type of power from the state legislature – sought to require Marion and Rochester to split the cost of an SRO three ways.

            “Mattapoisett wants Marion and Rochester to send payments for an SRO directly to Mattapoisett as part of an additional annual assessment,” explained Szyndlar. “They feel that having this spelled out in a new special law would make it clear for all towns to share in the cost.”

            According to Szyndlar, both Marion and Rochester believed that cost should be funded as part of each town’s annual assessment to be paid for as part of the ORR school budget.

            Szyndlar said she spoke with Rochester’s town counsel and with representatives from the Massachusetts Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (DESE) for clarification on the legality of Mattapoisett’s article.

            “They stated that there is no provision in the regional school agreement allowing for any operating costs to be approved or apportioned outside the budget process,” Szyndlar told the board. “The cost of an SRO may not be added or apportioned through a Home Rule Petition of a single member town or, for that matter, by all member towns, because that would be outside the statutory budget process.”

            “We told them we’d support it in the past,” said Selectman Brad Morse.

But forcing Rochester to pay through a Home Rule petition, said Selectman Greenwood “Woody” Hartley, “Mattapoisett doesn’t have the right to do that to us.”

            “If it’s against the rules, why would you want to do it?” asked Selectmen Chairman Paul Ciaburri.

            Szyndlar said she had only just received the correspondence from DESE that day and had spoken with Doug White, superintendent of schools, to inform him.

            That evening, Mattapoisett voters did approve the Home Rule petition article.

            In a follow-up email the next morning, Town Administrator Michael Gagne stated, “Regardless of the mechanism, the original agreement between the three town administrators and three police chiefs that the cost of the safety officer be shared should be honored.

            “Children from all three towns are being protected,” continued Gagne. “It is not unreasonable for the other towns to pony-up their share of the original agreement. Whatever documentation is necessary, home rule or otherwise, should be drafted.”

            Szyndlar stated during the meeting that Rochester would have no problem funding the SRO, but it must be done properly within the budget process.

            In other business, the board signed a letter in support of an updated version of the town’s Green Community Energy Reduction Plan to submit to the state after a couple changes needed to be made to the plan.

            Once Rochester is designated as a Green Community it will be eligible for up to $900,000 in grants over the next five years to help the town reduce its carbon footprint while spending less on energy.

            “That’s a great start for us,” said Hartley. “That’s wonderful. That’s what we were hoping for.”

            In related news, Szyndlar announced the Rochester had received $5,400 from the Sustainable Materials Recovery Program that will go toward a mattress collection container at the highway barn as part of the town’s recycling program.

            Also during the meeting, the board renewed its annual contract with the Lakeville Animal Shelter, and signed the warrant for the November 18 Fall Special Town Meeting scheduled for 7:00 pm at Rochester Memorial School.

            The Board of Assessors asked the selectmen to continue its tax classification hearing until November 4.

            The next meeting of the Rochester Board of Selectmen is scheduled for November 4 at 6:00 pm at the Rochester Town Hall.

By Jean Perry

ZBA Denies Special Permit

            On October 17, the Special Permit application filed by Robert Kirkland, 53 Main Street, appeared to be a rather routine application for a Special Permit to build a single stall garage; however, the public hearing resulted in the Mattapoisett Zoning Board of Appeals denying the request.

            Kirkland’s contractor, David Cabeceiras, explained that it was not really an application for the construction of a new single-stall garage, but instead a request to extend an existing shed by 25 feet. The extension would give Kirkland a place to put his new truck, especially during the winter. Cabeceiras said that given Kirkland’s advancing age and mobility issues, having the garage space would relieve the homeowner from having to clean snow off his truck.

            The existing structure is situated near a door to the residence, further granting Kirkland easy access to his truck.

            Cabeceiras noted that the application, if granted, would not make the shed structure or extension “less compliant.”

            But the plan brought out abutter Sarah Storer whose home is located in close proximity to Kirkland’s property.

            Storer said that Kirkland had not shared his plans with her prior to the filing, so she had not had time to discuss the matter outside the hearing. She said the extension as described would block sunlight from entering her kitchen.

            “The kitchen is the heart of our home,” Storer said, where her family spent all their time. She feared not only the blocking of sunlight through her kitchen windows, but a view that would now be the exterior wall of the garage. “Can’t we come up with an alternative?” she asked. Storer would ask for compromises several times during the hearing, while expressing her desire not to stop Kirkland from having a garage.

            ZBA members Mary Anne Borgan and Tony Tranfaglia reviewed the drawings and wondered if the garage could be placed somewhere else on the property, as ZBA member Colby Rottler wondered aloud if decreasing the length by five feet would work.

            Cabeceiras said that placing a garage somewhere else on the property would cost more than the plan he presented, but that he could “cut off five feet” of the extension. 

            ZBA member Kenneth Pacheco said, “He’s basically kind of handicapped… We have to weigh both sides.”

            Yet, Storer insisted that the shed extension would be detrimental to her family’s enjoyment of their kitchen and continued to ask for compromises.

            Tranfaglia suggested a continuance to give the two parties time to discuss matters privately and try to work out a plan that would satisfy both. He also said he was willing to make a site visit and help with that process if Kirkland would agree.

            But Cabeceiras said time was of the essence, given the coming winter season, prompting Brogan to respond, “You should have started sooner.”

            Andy Bobola, building inspector, asked the board to explain the ramifications of voting on the application versus continuing the hearing.

            After explaining that the denial of the Special Permit would mean that Kirkland could not return for two years, there was a silence; but he could file a Repetitive Petition with the Planning Board if he came up with a new plan.

            If the Planning Board agreed that the new plan was “substantially changed” from the original filing, Kirkland could return to the ZBA. Otherwise, it would be two years before the ZBA would entertain another filing.

            Kirkland, shook his head ‘no’ when asked if he wanted a continuance. The vote was called.

            Rottler voted to grant the Special Permit, contingent upon a 20-percent reduction in the extension, as requested. Akin and Pacheco also voted to approve. Brogan and Tranfaglia voted ‘no’. 

            There ensued some question as to whether or not the Special Permit had been approved with Akin asking, “So it passed, right?”

            Bobola said it had not, since it required at 4-1 vote to pass.

            As Storer left the meeting, she said to Kirkland, “I’m sorry, Bob.”

            Kirkland appeared stunned as he followed Cabeceiras out of the meeting room.

            The other hearing coming before the ZBA was for a Special Permit for the construction of a family-related apartment, filed by Craig and Julie Letourneau of 21 Driscoll Lane.

            After a brief description of the project, and with the stipulations that the addition be used solely by family members and that the Special Permit could not be conveyed to future new owners, the ZBA granted the Special Permit.

            The hearing for the Special Permit for the proposed construction of a solar array off Bowman Road filed by Next Grid Bowman of San Francisco, California was continued until November 21 at the applicant’s request

            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Zoning Board of Appeals is scheduled for November 21 at 6:00 pm in the Town Hall conference room.

Mattapoisett Zoning Board of Appeals

By Marilou Newell

Community Cannabis Education Panel

The Elizabeth Taber Library is bringing together a panel of experts from our community to offer their answers and insight on marijuana on November 7 from 6:00 to 8:00 pm at the Marion Music Hall. The panel will include representatives from Bask Medical Dispensary, Medwell Health and Wellness, and Lieutenant Nighelli from the Marion Police Department.  Library Director Elizabeth Sherry will be moderating. Please join us for an enlightening community conversation and education session on marijuana. Bring your questions regarding current laws, dispensary operations, CBD oil products, medical marijuana, and more. Ask our panel or anonymously submit your questions in advance via email: esherry@sailsinc.org.

Drop n Shop

Need some time alone to get some shopping and errands done? Want to have date night with your significant other without the kids? Marion Recreation will host “Drop and Shop” days! Led by trained First Aid/CPR Summer Program Counselors, these three-hour drop-in events will include games, crafts, movies, along with pizza and drinks. Drop-in events will take place on the following Saturday evenings: November 16, December 21, January 18, February 15, March 21, April 18, May 16 from 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm. Cost per participant $30, for Kindergarten – 6th grade only. Event is limited to 12 participants. Must register online five days prior to session. Register at: Marionma.gov/recreation. Location Benjamin D. Cushing Community Center, 465 Mill Street Marion.

The Gravitational Pull of The Moon

            There is one thought that sustains the winter-weary soul through darkness and cold – that summer will come again. But like a small child waiting from Christmas Day or birthday gifts, the wait can feel very long. Some of those gray cold days are eternities.

            But summer did come, and with it, my desire to get in the saltwater and paddle around doing my best imitation of a dog swimming. 

            Injuries and surgeries make swimming like a normal person impossible for me. Instead I’ve adapted a method for staying afloat with some forward propulsion. As advised by the surgeon, “You can do a modified version of the doggy paddle.” 

            My first attempt after back surgery in 2018 went surprisingly well. I felt comfortable, relatively pain-free and totally at peace being in the water. The second attempt was nearly a disaster, when I learned that my overall weakness – due to lack of muscle tone – made swimming at Ned’s Point “off limits”. The ebb and flow of the water there was much too strong. As I attempted to get up on the tiny beach from the water, I had to crawl on my hands and knees. Not pretty to say the least. Lesson learned; I’d have to stick with the calm waters of town beach.

            Studying the tide chart, I plan my day so that I can take advantage of the high tides. Since I was a little kid learning how to swim at Onset Beach, high tide draws me to the water like the gravitational pull of the moon on the earth’s oceans. In those early years, it was primarily because at low tide you could see and feel the huge patches of eel grass and other seaweeds swaying under the surface. I thought they were “icky.” Sad to report that by the time I was a grown woman taking my son there to swim, most of those important plants were gone. Human impact, no doubt.

            Nowadays I imagine I’m a bit of a sight. I’m that white-haired woman wearing a tattered lime green baseball cap and a wetsuit, supported by a walking stick. I hobble across the hot beach sand carefully placing one foot after the other until I reach a spot along the Barstow wharf stonewall where I can leave the stick and towel.

            Little children are great. They laugh and splash and basically ignore me as they cavort along the shoreline challenging their beseeching mother’s pleas: “Please don’t splash me!” If it were possible – if I could enter a time machine – I’d turn the dial to 1975 and let my precious little boy splash water on me to his heart’s content. He was never allowed to do so back in the day. More’s the pity.

            The ladies who take up their traditional sunbathing spots on the beach, some who have done so for decades, give me a small acknowledging smile as if to say, “Bless her heart – at least she’s trying.” But just about everyone else is caught up in the joy of the high tide at summertime as I am. There is joy in the air.

            Gliding out towards the raft where teenage boys and girls laugh and remind each other not to swear, “There’s a lady right there – she’ll hear you,” I slice along. Continuing on my way across I leave their sound bite and their youthful banter that holds them, for a moment, in suspended animation. The future doesn’t matter right now. My future is right over there, about 25 yards away. It’s my favorite buoy, one that helps to support the ropes denoting the swim area. I hang out there suspended in seawater, allowing the zero-gravity sensation to heal my body and soul. 

            It takes me a good ten minutes to cut across the water, slowly scissoring my legs sufficiently to stay above the waterline and make modest forward movement, while using my arms and hands to pull and push the water away from my torso. I look quite silly no doubt. But I feel so good.

            I drift for some minutes at my buoy, studying the relationship of cloud and sea, of how the moored boats seem to float above the waterline from this vantage point, of how voices carry across the water, across time. 

            I hear the voices of those who have left this mortal coil. Some were my contemporaries, some were family. They all take a turn at the beach with me. Fragments of conversations. I’m forgetting what some of their voices sounded like. Gone now, but they have left their lasting impressions. Yet the tone of their voices is becoming my voice. I’m not hearing them so much as remembering what they said. I wonder if they would be pleased to know what I remember and that it is, in fact, me who is holding their candle.

            The boatyard shuttles daytrippers to and from the wharf. They are burdened with pounds of supplies, towels and sandwiches. Our forefathers would have deemed their clobber enough for a week-long journey into the unknown wilds of the west. These folks are only going to Martha’s Vineyard or Wareham. “Heave ho matey!” 

            I think of the shoreline along Water Street where once the sounds were all of people beavering away at shipbuilding, shop keeping, fishing. Now we relax by those once industrious spaces with leisure time to burn.

              I side-slice my way towards the wharf as the high tide washes to the shoreline. The effort is my attempt to keep muscles and bones, ligaments and tendons expanding and contracting in a healthy manner forever. The reality of what my forever may really amount to isn’t part of my internal discussions, not now, not when I’m free and moving so effortlessly.

            Too soon my internal alarm clock says I’ve dallied in the water long enough. Climbing ever so slowly up the sandy slope back to the here and now, it’s like being pulled from a spacecraft and feeling the intense gravity of the earth for the first time in many days. I explore inner space however, a cerebral journey where reality is briefly suspended and weightlessness is a gift from the hightide by way of the moon.

This Mattapoisett Life

By Marilou Newell

FinCom Looks Ahead to Budget Season

            Town Administrator Jay McGrail on October 16 gave the Marion Finance Committee some hope for a smooth and sensible start to the fiscal year 2020 budget season.

            The greatest concern for the Finance Committee has always been the timeliness of the school budgets, specifically the Old Rochester Regional school budget since, as FinCom Chairman Peter Winters put it, “It’s hard to make decisions on the other items, you know, until you have those budgets in.”

            Winters said the Finance Committee usually receives its department budgets by the end of December, while ORR submits its later in February or March.

            McGrail said the timeline for his first ride at the Marion budget rodeo is for all departments to submit their budgets before Christmas, review them with the finance director, and then get them to the FinCom as soon as possible. The schools, he said, should have their budgets to him by February 1, he said.

            “That’s better than in the past from what I’ve been told,” said McGrail.

            McGrail said he would be a sitting member of the ORR budget subcommittee and work with them under the guidelines of the “two percent” increase.

            McGrail then advocated for an additional Department of Public Works position to assist DPW Director David Willet in the management of the roughly 20 capital projects slated for the next three years, representing a cumulative total of “upwards and over $200 million,” McGrail told the committee.

            The position would provide another level of management between Willet and the division foremen and the new hire would perform the majority of the project management that the town has historically outsourced to engineering consultants.

            “That’s what’s happened in Marion for decades,” said McGrail. “We depend on engineers and project managers… to oversee the projects, and what’s happened is… problems, constantly.”

            He described a recent blunder with the County Road water main project that was under the management of a consultant. According to McGrail, when the trenches were backfilled, care was not taken to ensure that the valves would align with the valve keys. The work had to be torn up and redone, he said.

            “We had no Town of Marion staff that oversees that project and manages staff,” said McGrail.

            Funding for the position could be split three ways among the three DPW departments through savings incurred from fewer staff members than the budget provided and “Water Department efficiencies,” McGrail said.

            The bottom line is, according to McGrail, the potential savings from this new position funded at $80,000 annually would be “ridiculous.”

            “Makes a lot of sense,” said Baldwin.

            McGrail said he also had a plan to save employees and the town 14 percent in healthcare costs by increasing the healthcare deductible from $0 to $250.

            “There’s more savings in that 14 percent than if they max out that deductible,” said McGrail.

            “Well, thanks for keeping us in the loop of things,” said Winters, “That’s something we haven’t had in the past.”

            “It’s refreshing,” said Baldwin.

            Also during the meeting, Winters stated that ORR was still running at a deficit of about $200,000, “And there may be a bigger deficit,” he said.

            Winters said School Choice numbers have decreased, resulting in a reduction of revenue. Chapter 70 funding has also gone down, he said, and more students are opting to attend private, vocational, or charter schools over ORR.

            Winters commented that the FY20 ORR budget should reflect no more than a two percent increase, “And no adds to staff,” he said.

            “The overall message,” said Finance Committee member Margie Baldwin, “is we want to keep things at the two percent… [but] we will listen to anybody who has a reasonable case to present otherwise.”

            The next meeting of the Marion Finance Committee is scheduled for November 20 at 7:00 pm at the Marion Police Station.

Marion Finance Committee

By Jean Perry

The Care You Are Giving

            It slowly sneaks up on you. Or maybe it doesn’t! The “how” of someone needing assistance could be many reasons; the fact is… you’re a Caregiver.

            The care you are giving is good, be it for your spouse, parent, other relative or even a friend or neighbor. Inasmuch as you are providing help, sometimes Caregivers forget to care for themselves. Over time, being a Caregiver can feel overwhelming. You feel torn. Sometimes, you feel alone (despite anyone being around you). You’re not alone! Here are some stories found on the internet:  

            Husband caring for wife.  

            My wife just 60 years old is terminally ill. I am her sole caregiver. I am feeling overwhelmed and guilty at same time. Overwhelmed because from morning to night always tending to her or the house or the dogs. Guilty cause I have no reason feeling sorry for myself when she is battling to live each day.

            Adult caring for their mother.

            I care for my 88-year-old mother who recently had a heart attack and has high blood pressure and several other medical conditions. Her health is declining and as time goes on, she goes from lying in bed watching TV to sitting on the rocking chair watching TV. I try to get her to go out to social situations but that is becoming more and more difficult. I need more time to myself because my anxiety and stress levels are higher. I find myself getting angry with her when she wants something and interrupts what I am doing. I feel guilty about this and regret it immediately. 

            Depressed wife caring for husband.

            I am sole caregiver for my husband for going on about six years now. My husband has become partially disabled, then a few years ago he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. Through all this, my depression is deepening as well as my frustration at having 95% of all duties and responsibilities on my shoulders — which I have been capable of doing throughout all of our marriage (20 years) and having all responsibility on my shoulders. 

While ultimately, I know I’m responsible for my own health I really do not know where to turn to get that help. My world revolves around him and his needs, but I can’t take care of my own needs without adding more medication which is not the healthy solution for me.  

            Blamed

            I am caregiver to my wife. As she has lost her independence (driving, going somewhere by herself, getting food, walking between rooms, etc.), she has become understandably upset. I am the target of much of the blame because I am the one who is in charge of meds, food, doctor appts, helping her walk, etc., and she feels I am making things worse because I am the one stealing her independence. I can see exactly how she feels, and I would probably feel the same. I want her to have her independence, but at the same time can see that without my caregiving she would be helpless and waste away. I accept the charge of “hovering” because I have had to rescue her from falls, etc., and I find it hard to switch gears between rescuing her and letting her do things that could lead to a fall.

            Burned Out with Guilt; “Sandwich” Generation

            My mom moved in with my family of five and myself seven years ago. I have two siblings who do not help with Mom; they are MIA! She is bipolar, negative, physically disabled, diabetic, thyroid issues, bigger woman, and very much needy. However, to me she is my sweet mom and I love her; but I am tired, grumpy and feel underappreciated. Not only do I do all mom’s caregiving, I also have two children.  I am so angry that my siblings think it’s OK to leave it all on me! I am resenting my mom sometimes because I can’t get a break! Whenever I try to get my sister to help with OUR mom there is always an excuse not to help me. When I try to get out of the house, my mom gets angry and treats me horribly. I am the only one here for her 24/7 and I am treated the worst! Then she plays a guilt trip on me! I love my mom so much, but my kids and my life matter, too! I will always be here for her, but I simply need to breathe. I can do this if I had more breaks and more time to be with my kids without being told that I am a horrible person for wanting to go out. I am lost, sad, angry, guilty, but I love my kids and my mom!

            Help is available

            Sometimes, you may just need someone to talk to and/or to brainstorm ideas as to what may be the best help for you, as a caregiver, and the person for whom you’re caring. There are many resources, including support services for people dealing with chronic health conditions, as well as dementia and Alzheimer’s.  

            Access to information and referral resources, such as meals, adult care, respite, programs, legal and financial services, and more are available by contacting your local Council on Aging /Senior Center, including the Tri-Town area:  Mattapoisett 508-758-4110 or coadirector@mattapoisett.net; Marion 508-748-3570; Rochester 508-763-8723. Also, the local Area Agency on Aging, Coastline Services, provides many programs and direct services. They can be reached at 508-999-6400. The care you are giving to someone is noble; but the care for yourself is just as important. Thank you for caring!  

by Jacqueline Coucci, Director, 

Mattapoisett Council on Aging

Haunted New England at the Mattapoisett Library

On Wednesday, October 30 at 6:30 pm, the Mattapoisett Free Public Library will be hosting Christopher Daley’s “Haunted New England” presentation. Melding historical fact together with legend and myth, Mr. Daley will present an interesting and fascinating new look at events that really happened and the stories of haunting that followed them.

            The topics addressed in his lecture will be “Mercy Brown: The Vampire of Exeter Rhode Island”, “the Cursed Freetown State Forest in Massachusetts”, “the Horrors of the Lizzie Borden House in Fall River Massachusetts”, “Nine Mens Misery in Cumberland Rhode Island”, a haunted forest in the wilds of Connecticut, and more! Join us for a night of mystery and wonder!

            The Mattapoisett Free Public Library continues to host Mad Scientist Laboratory for students ages 12 and up to perform ghoulish experiments in the name of science!  At the last session on Wednesday, October 30, we will learn some anatomy of the human heart before dissecting and manipulating a gelatin heart in Gelatin Heart Science!

            On Tuesday, October 29 at 6:00 pm, we invite students aged 12 and up to scare us at our “Young Adult Storytime: Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark”. Sign up to read your favorite scary story or one you have written. The best and scariest one will win a prize. Refreshments will be served. Please register for a 10-minute slot; registration will be open up until time of event. 

            All programs are free and open to the public. If you have any questions or need special accommodations, please contact the library at 508-758-4171 or email the Adult Services/Reference Librarian, Michelle Skaar at mskaar@sailsinc.org.

Mattapoisett Special Town Meeting

To the Editor:

            “A stitch in time saves nine” this is so very true! -very short notice?

            A special town meeting has been called for November 4th for a proposed By-law change on recreational marijuana.  This By-law passed at our Annual Town Meeting in May.  The call to duty is out. If you love your drug free town please don’t be a no-show on November 4th.

            Sincerely, 

George P. Randall, Mattapoisett

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