An Essay on Ego

            Our ego is an essential part of our nature. It is our persona, the way we present ourselves to others and the way we receive ourselves. But there are two sides to our ego: a positive and negative side.

            The negative side of our ego is a “me first” attitude. It has an insatiable need for attention and approval.

            It is where greed and selfishness come from. It feels anger when we think we have been misunderstood, cheated, ignored, or put down. It doesn’t care how other people feel, think, want: It is self-aggrandizing, self-serving, pouting, childish thinking.

            Now, the positive side of our ego is empowering.

            It is positive energy that tells us we can help. We can serve. We can strive to be the best at whatever we choose to do. It is a wholesome sense of self-worth and self-confidence. It attracts us to worthwhile things and people. It gives off a happy, loving energy that gives others confidence in us. It is an “I can do it” outlook.

            We are happier people when we live our lives in an unselfish, caring way. Being there for others with love and humility.

By Hope Bradley Finley

            Editor’s Note: Hope Bradley Finley passed away on January 13 at age 95. The Mattapoisett resident was thrilled to have The Wanderer publish her poems and essays, something we will continue to do this winter.

Upcoming Events at the Elizabeth Taber Library

New Banned Book Club, first meeting Tuesday March 21 at 6:30 pm. Learn about the history of attempts at banning books in American and international libraries and discuss books that have made the American Library Association’s Banned Book List.  This month we will be discussing Kurt Vonnegut’s Slaughterhouse Five. Pick up copies at the library throughout the month of March.

            The 2nd Annual Lizzy T Trivia Night Fundraiser, Friday, March 24 at 7 pm. Gather a team of 5-6 members and compete in a battle of wits to benefit the library. Topics include local history, sports, pop culture and more! Find registration forms at the library or on our website.  Event will be held at the Marion Music Hall. Refreshments, including beer and wine will be available. $200 team entry fee.

            Tables of Content Fundraising event May 7 & 19 at 6 pm – A fundraising event that pairs a delicious dinner in a Marion neighbor’s home with a lively book discussion! Find registration forms, including available titles at the library or on our website.  Tickets are $75 per person.

            Puzzle Swap March 16 from 6-8 pm – Exchange your gently used puzzle for a new challenge!  Puzzles will be available to swap or purchase, please only supply puzzles that are in good condition with all pieces included.  Puzzle donations welcome.

            Build a Leprechaun Trap, March 16 from 3-4 pm – Use recycled materials to build a leprechaun trap just in time for Saint Patrick’s Day. Donations of clean recycled materials welcome.

            Grow your first plant program March 29 at 4 pm – Celebrate the quick growing plant.

            Our seed library is now open – Check out fruit, vegetable, herb and flower seeds with your library card.  Share seeds with the library and help grow community gardens.

            Join us for story times every Wednesday (baby lap sit) and Friday (all ages) from 10:30-11:30.

            For more information on the Elizabeth Taber Library, visit us at www.ElizabethTaberLibrary.org or call us at 508-748-1252.

Marion Republican Town Committee

The Marion Republican Town Committee will conduct its next monthly meeting on Monday, March 13, 7:00 pm at the Marion Music Hall, 164 Front Street, Marion. The Public and new members are welcome.

Project Grow Application Priority Deadline

Children with the experience of high quality preschool are well prepared for their future learning. In an effort to provide this opportunity to more children, Project GROW was established to serve preschoolers in Marion, Mattapoisett and Rochester. The purpose of Project GROW is two-fold:

            -Provide a preschool experience to children whose families have been unable to enroll in another program and who desire a preschool experience.

            -Provide children with special needs the opportunity to receive services in an inclusive preschool learning environment.

            The program consists of two classes: Tuesday and Thursday, cost $2,520/year Monday, Wednesday, Friday Cost $3,780/year

-Marion – Sippican School (9:00 am – 1:00 pm)

-Rochester – Rochester Memorial School (9:00 am– 1:00 pm)

-Mattapoisett – Center School (8:45 am – 12:45 pm)

            Each Project GROW class is held at the elementary school of the town the family resides in, and all programs follow the public school calendar.

            Parents are responsible for providing transportation to and from school each day. Enrollment is open to all children residing in Marion, Mattapoisett, or Rochester and turn 3 years of age prior to September 1. Preference will be given to children who may be considered educationally at risk, children who have had no preschool experience and children of families that meet tuition assistance eligibility guidelines. In addition to family income, foster care and special needs, other child risk factors are also considered. Family risk factors considered are parent(s) with special needs/disability, homelessness, parent(s) in active military service, teen parent(s), and children cared for by a grandparent or guardian.

            The program is based on developmentally appropriate practices and follows the High/Scope curriculum as well as alignment with the Massachusetts Curriculum Frameworks and Early Learning Standards.

Mattapoisett Harbormaster

Dear Editor:

            I am writing to express my gratitude to the Mattapoisett community as I prepare to leave my post as Harbormaster.

            During the past three years, I’ve met so many wonderful people that listing each of their names to thank them personally would likely fill a page of this newspaper. Please know that your support was appreciated beyond measure.

            Additionally, I would be remiss if I did not extend my deep appreciation to my fellow department heads and staff for their assistance as we worked collectively to keep the community safe both on the water and off.

            Mattapoisett, thank you for the opportunity to expand my knowledge. Thank you, again, to the members of the community who graciously provided guidance along the way. And, finally, thank you for putting your trust in me to maintain the safety of the Town’s waterways.

            To say I’ve enjoyed my tenure in Mattapoisett would be an understatement. Simply put, it’s been great.

            Fair winds and following seas.

            Jamie McIntosh, Mattapoisett Harbormaster

The views expressed in the “Letters to the Editor” column are not necessarily those of The Wanderer, its staff or advertisers. The Wanderer will gladly accept any and all correspondence relating to timely and pertinent issues in the great Marion, Mattapoisett and Rochester area, provided they include the author’s name, address and phone number for verification. We cannot publish anonymous, unsigned or unconfirmed submissions. The Wanderer reserves the right to edit, condense and otherwise alter submissions for purposes of clarity and/or spacing considerations. The Wanderer may choose to not run letters that thank businesses, and The Wanderer has the right to edit letters to omit business names. The Wanderer also reserves the right to deny publication of any submitted correspondence.

Cell Tower Window Closed

            The Rochester Select Board Monday night told a group of residents who packed the Town Hall meeting room that the board could not help them with their concerns over a plan for a wireless communications tower on High Street.

            On the night’s agenda was the question of overturning the Select Board’s right to buy land at 0 High Street, being taken out of 61A agricultural protection land so the cellular tower may be built on a portion of the land. Newly appointed Town Counsel Jane Medeiros Friedman of Mead, Talerman & Costa, LLC said the deadline had passed to be able to do this because the town had 120 days to conduct a land survey to the purpose of such an acquisition.

            Chairman Woody Hartley said the land in question has no value to the town. The board agreed to take no new action on the property.

            This did not sit well with the residents crowding the room and their attorney Donald Nagle. Nagle said his clients want the town to reconsider acquiring the property under a “lease” that would put the parcel in the hands of a third-party, nonprofit, being organized by the residents themselves.

            Friedman quelled the possibility this could happen by noting, “I don’t see in the law the town has that option to convey the right to hold the property for this purpose.”

            The board said it doesn’t want to vote a new decision on the issue or further litigate the matter. This drew jeers from the crowd, which had sought the Select Board’s cooperation and help with keeping a wireless tower from the site. Hartley, nonetheless, closed the agenda item and moved on to the next item, even as residents tried to argue their case on their way out the door.

            Select Board member Brad Morse explained later that the Zoning Board had denied the tower proposal, but after the petitioner appealed the decision in Federal Court, a settlement was reached between the petitioner and the town, clearing the way for the tower to be built.

            Hartley said basically the entire matter is out of the town’s hands, and the neighbors’ own counsel should help them further.

            Elsewhere on Monday’s agenda, the board instructed Town Administrator Glenn Cannon to draft an article for the spring Annual Town Meeting to change the town clerk’s position from elected to appointed.

            Hartley said the proposal was first considered and voted down at Town Meeting three years ago. But it is time to try again because of current Town Clerk Paul Dawson’s announcement in February that he is not running for reelection this spring and is retiring.

            Hartley noted the effort this year will have to be two-fold. Changing the town clerk from elected to appointed will have to be approved at both Town Meeting and the Town Election. Cannon was directed to dust off the language of the previous article and submit it to town counsel first.

            Next, the board reviewed a change to the town’s agreement with the Bristol County Agricultural High School that will alter what bills from the school the town must pay.

            Cannon explained the school has been asking the town to pay two bills, its yearly per-student assessment and a “capital bill.” The latter is the one the town should not have to pay because it doesn’t have a fund for that cost, Cannon said, leading to the need to change the school agreement to reflect that.

            Under the new agreement, the town will only receive one bill to pay, he said. But the town will still have to pay the outstanding Capital bills for the last two years. The board agreed to table their final decision on the new pact until its next meeting.

            The board’s next lengthy discussion came with the topics of the new Access to Town Counsel Policy. Hartley admitted the rollout of this policy has not been smooth and its language is being “softened” in the face of town board members’ complaints.

            Sparking the new policy was the change from now-former Town Counsel Blair Bailey, who had an office in Town Hall, to a law firm without such an office in town.

            The original policy states that to better control how town departments and boards may access the town’s legal adviser, such requests must come in writing to the town administrator. A board’s request for opinion and/or use of Town Counsel must be approved by a majority vote of the board. Requests to initiate litigation or defense will require approval of the Select Board.

            Two Conservation Commission members expressed disagreement with aspects of policy. Chairman Christopher Gerrior said being able to contact Town Counsel directly will be more difficult now. Board member Ben Bailey said some decisions, such as where a waiver or continuation is legal, cannot wait for the time it takes to contact a town official for permission to speak to counsel.

            “We’d like to ask for a more liberal and trusting policy,” Ben Bailey said.

            “My goal is to take a couple of weeks to roll this around until it’s ready,” Hartley said.

            The next meeting of the Rochester Select Board will be held on Monday, March 20, at 6:00 pm at Town Hall, 1 Constitution Way.

Rochester Select Board

By Michael J. DeCicco

Printmakers Leave Universal Impression

            The Marion Art Center continues to reach new artistic heights with its latest exhibit titled, The New Printmakers, which opened on February 18. A reception was hosted on March 4 for artists Taylor Hickey and Janie Kinnane and some 21 students from Tabor Academy and Old Rochester Regional High School.

            Printmaking was first created in China as far back as 206 B.C. on silk. It wasn’t until the seventh century that printmaking on paper began. In the beginning, printmaking was used as a form of communication, such as the dissemination of Buddhist manuscripts.

            The MAC’s exhibit displays the exactitude of the ancient form using more contemporary materials and printmaking technology. And whereas the ancients used the process to communicate, so too have the artists of this exhibit, depicting celestial-spatial concepts as well as earth’s bounty in the natural world.

            Hickey, who calls herself an interdisciplinary visual artist, recently received a Master’s Degree in Fine Arts from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth. Presently, her work is focused on geometric designs from the universe and possibly beyond. The works on display are three-dimensional representations of celestial bodies and prints created from linoleum blocks. However, Hickey doesn’t want to be typecast into specific artistic categories. Like her work, she wants to explore the entire art universe.

            Inspired by the author Janna Levin’s book, “Black Hole Blues and Other Songs from Outer Space,” Hickey has created a universe we can get up close to and explore, if only in our minds. She speaks glowingly of a stellated octahedron, an eight-sided outcome of triangular polyhedrons joined on three sides or, more simply put, a star shape.

In one example in the first-floor gallery, Hickey has created a book-like form that seems to contain its own black hole, infinitely boring through the pages into the void of space and time. A second offering on the second floor is another three-dimensional work. This one is constructed to show two stars colliding, shattering the outer layers of each. The intricate cutting both on the surfaces and in simulating the crashing of two stars shows the intensity Hickey has employed to create events that could happen in space far beyond our ability to see. To learn more about Hickey’s work, visit taylorhickeyart.com.

            Jani Kinnane says she comes from a family of creative people, people who encouraged her from a young age to paint and draw. And while she liked it, Kinnane was not eager for a career in the arts. Eventually that would all change. She would come to believe that becoming an artist was not only her calling but a duty. “My grandfather told me that when God gives you a gift, it’s a sin not to use it.” And use it she has.

            Kinnane carves in cherrywood to create the blocks from which emerge her images of fish, seaweed, plants and even whales (not quite to scale but large at 8 feet in length.) She has partnered with a traveling printmaker who has the capacity to produce very large prints. Kinnane said that process is thrilling yet a bit unnerving; with printmaking, you are never really sure how a piece will come out. Based on what we witnessed: spectacular.

            In the first-floor gallery, you’ll find a print depicting the head of a woman adorned with what is clearly a folk-like headdress with cascading vines and flowers. But the woman herself seems very detached yet pensive. And then, we see her headdress has been tattered by unseen forces. Kinnane said it is a Ukrainian woman in traditional folk dress, but her headdress has been damaged by the war. With this work, Kinnane hopes to build awareness and funding for the people in this embattled country.

            Kinnane’s works are realistic, hyper-realistic images from the natural world here on earth and speak to her Rhode Island upbringing, her home and her desire to spread joy. Kinnane’s art may be viewed on Instagram @charlielouworks.

            The student submissions to the exhibit were created by Old Rochester Regional High School students Hannah Thorell, Abigail Paulette, Summer Williams, Kendell Hedges, Madeline Dugas, Hailee Duchane, Abigail Daniels, Emerson Femino, Elizabeth Higgins, Joseph Dupre, Ella Caesar, Shay-Ann Robertson and Aurora Hagden.

            Tabor Academy students who submitted works are Joanne Huang, Emily Kilpatrick, Brady Kidney, Marin Theis, Nonapun Habanananda, Peyton Wolfe and Tyler Kompsch.

            The Marion Art Center is open Thursday through Saturday from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm.

By Marilou Newell

Enjoy The Birds Year Round

The South Coast offers natural habitats for finding birds all year long – not just in the spring and fall when we see many birds migrating. Guests are welcome to join members of the Sippican Woman’s Club at our meeting on Friday, March 10 at 12:30 pm at our clubhouse. A lite lunch is offered followed by a short business meeting at 1:00 pm. Justin Barrett is a knowledgeable birder and is our speaker. Justin serves as President of the Nasketucket Bird Club located in Mattapoisett. During the day, Justin handles the day-to-day operations in Development at Manomet in Plymouth whose mission is to make a better world for birds.

            The day after the Sippican Woman’s Club meeting, the Nasketucket Bird Club is scheduled to hold a bird walk on Saturday, March 11 at 8:00 am at Silver Shell Beach and Grassi Bog. The walk will be led by Priscilla Bradley and is open to the public.

            The Sippican Woman’s Club is open to any woman whose interest is in Marion. Our meetings are normally held on the second Friday of the month, September through March followed by an Annual Meeting held on the last Friday in April. Unless we hold an off-site meeting, we normally meet at 12:30 pm at our clubhouse, “Handy’s Tavern”, 152 Front Street, Marion. Parking during meetings is available at the lot opposite the Music Hall off Island Wharf Road by the bandstand.

            Please visit our updated website: www.sippicanwomansclub.org.

Old Growth Forests of Massachusetts

Join the Marion Natural History Museum for a presentation by David Orwig, Senior Ecologist and Forest Ecologist with Harvard Forest on Friday, March 31 from 7 to 8 pm

            Orwig will share his research into the presence of old-growth forests in Massachusetts. The talk will include a broad discussion of old-growth forests in Massachusetts — what they are, where they are and what they can tell us.

            Through pictures and data from many old-growth forests in the state, Orwig will describe the many aspects of why these rare forest gems are so special and the many threats they face.

            Suggested donation to the museum is $10 per person. To register, visit www.marionmuseum.org.

ORRJH Students of the Month

Silas D. Coellner, Principal of Old Rochester Regional Jr. High School, announces the following Students of the Month for January, 2023

Green Team: Ty L. Marques & Miah D. Motta

Orange Team: Brendan P. Fuller & Kennedy M.C. Zussy

Blue Team: John P. Ferreira and Jessica N. Detrani

Red Team: Emma E. MacLeod & Bobby E. Calder

Exploratory Team: Nathan E. Dubuc & Madelyn A. McCarthy