Controversial Books Approved

            After Old Rochester Regional School Committee member Matthew Monteiro explained his December, 2022, request for review of 10 controversial books currently accessible in local public school libraries was motivated by a desire to achieve transparency, he presented a 16-minute argument for their inclusion during the committee’s March 15 public meeting.

            Committee member Joseph Pires issued a brief rebuttal, followed by member Jason Chisholm’s comments confessing concern tempered by his recommendation that the vetting process remain in the hands of those selected to make such decisions.

            The outcome was a series of votes that approved all 10 books under review: “All Boys Aren’t Blue,” “Beyond Magenta,” “Flamer,” “Gender Queer,” “Lawn Boy,” “Let’s Talk About It,” “Out of Darkness,” “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian,” “The Bluest Eye,” and “The Hate U Give.”

            Chisholm, Monteiro, ORR School Committee Chairperson Michelle Smith, Vice Chairperson Frances-Feliz Kearns and members Rosemary Bowman, Margaret McSweeny and James Muse voted to approve all 10 books under review. Committee member April Nye voted to approve all, except “Gender Queer.” Pires voted no on eight of the 10 books, voting to approve “The Hate U Give” while abstaining from voting on “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian.”

            Before arguments were made and votes taken, Superintendent of Schools Mike Nelson summarized the process through which the School Committee’s previously adopted policies related to Policy I.J.R. “Reconsideration of Instructional Resources” was being challenged. The decisions, said Nelson, are good for three years before they become subject to further appeals.

            “I do not agree that these books are obscene or problematic, and I support the representation of marginalized communities,” said Monteiro, prefacing the explanation for his request. “But my opinions are those of one individual. It is time that these books go through the process of review so that all can be satisfied that they have been evaluated, and people’s concerns can be addressed. … And, I expect the review process will be fair.”

            Monteiro stressed that he was not part of the deliberation on the books by the Standards Committee but still sought further review by the School Committee at large for the sake of transparency.

            “These books are not pornography, they’re accurate depictions of sexual experiences,” said Monteiro, stating that the remedy to pornography’s harms is education and accurate information rather than shielding learners. He argued against the idea that the books under review present harm to students by noting how long each of them have been on school library shelves, one dating back to 2008.

            Referencing his master’s degree in clinical psychology, Monteiro said he has worked with children from ages 4-17 and adults of all ages but has never been sought for treatment of a person for exposure to a novel. Acknowledging people’s addiction to video games and/or pornography, Monteiro differentiated the books under review as novels with limited sexual content.

            Comparing exposure to sex in the novels under review to the dangers of eating meat or playing contact sports, Monteiro rhetorically asked if sports should be banned and only vegan meals served in the school cafeteria. He said no one is required to read the books under review and argued that making the books under review unavailable to all students is not giving parents control but rather taking it away.

            Monteiro also read passages from “The Canterbury Tales” and the Bible as examples of explicit, sexual content that has been in high school libraries for many years. He said that those books should be subjected to the same scrutiny as the novels up for committee review. He argued that other, more-modern books such as “Lady Chatterley’s Lover,” “Game of Thrones” and some Stephen King novels warrant the same attention. Monteiro concluded that opposing viewpoints are politically motivated.

            None of the books under review, he stated, were donated to the school libraries. Had any of them been donated, said Monteiro, it would have been vetted by the librarian. Monteiro’s final remarks drew applause from some audience members.

            Upon conclusion of Monteiro’s lengthy statement, Smith introduced the 10 votes, the first to see if a motion would be made to keep “All Boys Aren’t Blue” in the library. After the motion was seconded, Pires thanked Monteiro for laying out what he said is the thinking process of some members of the committee but not himself.

            “If you’re not horrified by what you just heard, I’m sorry. The majority does not feel the way Matt Monteiro feels,” said Pires, also drawing applause for his remarks. “I’m extremely disappointed because if you know me, I like to meet in the middle. I like to compromise, and the fact that no one on this board has even moved an inch … to adhere or understand or meet you halfway, how can we work this out? That’s never been on the table. It’s unfortunate that a parent’s rights are being superseded to protect their child’s innocence. That’s all I have to say.”

            Acknowledging that opposing opinions on the matter have been heard extensively for months, Chisholm told the committee he was conflicted.

            “Our society has become drastically oversexualized, and that’s not a new thing. I also recognize that we have people and a process in place, and we’ve selected the right people – one way or another these people have been selected based on credentials, experience and knowledge, and they are empowered to manage this process,” said Chisholm. “Now I can tell you as a parent, as a Christian, I do have some challenges with some of the content and some of the imagery within these books. But I can’t ignore that first point … we have people in place to manage the process.

            “I find comfort in allowing those people to do their job for one simple reason: The moral compass and the expectations of my children are set by myself and my wife, no one else. If I have an issue with any of the content or the materials presented in these books, what’s on TV, what’s on social media, what some neighbors may say, I deal with it with my wife and my children directly. And I believe in the power of that.”

            With that, Chisholm told the committee he would vote to approve.

            Smith thanked the Standards Committee for its work on 13 books, 10 of which were voted upon March 15.

            Pires told the School Committee, “We should raise some real concerns with the qualifications of the Standards Committee.” Smith asked for his suggestion in writing.

            During Open Comment toward meeting’s end, Thomas Kearns of Mattapoisett articulated support of Monteiro’s contentions that were expressed at length earlier. Pires, whose opposing viewpoints were referenced in Kearns’ remarks, responded at which point Smith interrupted to restore the prescribed order (Open Comment is not a dialogue, etc.)

            Vanessa Miller of Marion did not support the vote, saying her autistic son will repeat what he hears other students talking about and mimic the images in the books reviewed. She called the books amoral and disgusting and said common sense was lacking among the experts who managed the approval process.

            Karen Thomas of Rochester asked why the book “Beyond Magenta,” recommended for ages 14 and up, is accessible in the ORR Junior High library. By implication, she defended Pires, recalling his statement from months ago that he is not in favor of banning books. “What we wanted was concern for 400 parents,” she said, pointing to a possible survey. She accused the committee of shutting down Pires’ request that the community be involved in the process.

            Another resident asserted that the School Committee has willfully ignored its own policies that would vet book donations.

            A student from Rochester spoke in favor of the books and told meeting attendees that if they are not in favor of the books, to keep their children away from them, something Monteiro stressed remains within parental purview. In an emotional plea, the student asserted that there are many books in the school library that are not being debated but are far more sexually explicit and asked for consistency from the controversial books’ critics.

            In other business, the ORR School Committee unanimously voted to maintain the maximum allowable limit of 125 School Choice students for the 2023-24 academic year.

            There are 103 total School-Choice students in 2022-23. Nelson anticipates 19 will graduate this June from ORR. He recommended modifying two of the caps so that Grade 7 will be allowed a maximum of 20 new School Choice students and in Grade 8 no more than five. Preference will be given to Grades 7, 8 and 9. As of March 15, ORR had already received 25 applications to fill slots presumably available for the 2023-24 academic year.

            In separate votes, the School Committee approved a $75,468 grant from the Department of Early Education and Care for the ParentChild+ Program and a $10,000 Safe and Supportive Schools Grant for FY23. The ParentChild+ Program, done in collaboration with neighboring Wareham, brings literacy coaches into homes; the Safe and Supportive Schools Grant is a self-assessment tool that will identify needs and improve a particular area.

            The School Committee approved a $421,000 budget transfer for repairs to the high school track, which will remain closed during the spring season. Nelson told the committee that ORR’s spring track-and-field practice time and schedules have been arranged with the cooperation of other area school districts.

            Nelson also told the committee that Christine Gagnon, approved as ORR District treasurer in a prior meeting, has officially agreed to terms and has begun her employment.

            Assistant High School Principal Vanessa Harvey reported acknowledgments to ORR’s state-champion DECA and indoor-track teams.

            The School Committee approved a junior-class fundraiser to sell mattresses.

            New Marion Town Administrator Geoff Gorman greeted the committee at the start of its meeting.

            The Joint School Committee/Superintendents Union 55 is scheduled to meet on Thursday, March 30, at 6:30 pm at the ORR Junior High media room. The next meeting of the ORR School Committee is scheduled for Wednesday, April 26, at 6:30 pm.

ORR School Committee

By Mick Colageo

Warrant Closed in Mattapoisett

            The March 28 Mattapoisett Select Board meeting might have been the shortest yet, but it was filled with the business of managing the town.

            The board closed the FY24 Town Meeting warrant containing 29 articles. Town Administrator Mike Lorenco said that most of the articles are standard and primarily related to finances and spending. However, there may be several articles brought forward to the voters by voters touching on such issues as dog waste in public areas, the establishment of a cemetery commission, a solar bylaw and an article asking the voters to support via funding Old Colony Regional Vocational-Technical High School’s need for a master-plan study of the facility conditions and potential expansion. A copy of the warrant will be posted on the town’s website, Lorenco said.

            The board moved and approved use of American Rescue Plan Act funds in the amount of $510,000 for sewer and water-line replacement necessitated by the antiquity of the underground systems that failed on Oakland Street. Regulations on how ARPA funding may be used by municipalities allow for infrastructural projects. Lorenco said that while the street is open for the sewer work, water and gas piping will also be updated. Piping in this area dates back to the early 20th century, it was noted.

            Another much needed system repair and upgrade is that of a failing culvert on Pine Island Road. Highway Surveyor Garrett Bauer said that a grant in the amount of $200,000 (Mattapoisett to make a 10% match) is being sought and asked the board to approve a letter of endorsement for the project to be included with the grant documentation required. Lorenco said a stream is currently running freely under the roadway, highlighting the need to replace the crumbled box culvert.

            The board accepted the resignations of Trevor Francis from the Conservation Commission and E. Robert Garde as plumbing inspector, and the appointments of Christopher Brennan to the Cultural Council and Virginia Nelson to the Agricultural Commission.

            A public hearing was held for prescribed changes to the Waterfront Rules and Regulations. Lorenco said no public comments were received during the time the document was publicly posted. No comments were made during the public hearing. The hearing was closed and the updated document approved.

            Lorenco said that a public meeting will be held on Wednesday, April 12, to discuss Phase 2A of the Mattapoisett Bike Path. This section will take users from Depot Street to the entrance of Industrial Drive.

            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Select Board is planned for Tuesday, April 11, at 6:30 pm.

Mattapoisett Select Board

By Marilou Newell

Butterflies of Southeastern Mass and Cape

“Butterfly Man” Joe Dwelly, a Yarmouth resident, will be visiting the Marion Natural History Museum on Wednesday, April 5 from 10:30 to 11:30 to share what he knows about our local species. Mr. Dwelly will give advice about where certain species can be found and how we can attract them to our own backyards. To register for this program and others, please go to the museum’s website: www.marionmuseum.org.

Iconic Tour de Crème Bike Ride Returns

Clear your schedule and mark your calendars: on Sunday May 21 the Tour de Crème bike ride returns for its fifth year. After three years hiatus due to the pandemic, the Mattapoisett Land Trust and the Friends of the Mattapoisett Rail Trail are thrilled to run this event once again.

            Cycle from Mattapoisett through Fairhaven, Freetown, Rochester, Acushnet and Marion stopping for a free scoop of ice cream at creameries all along the routes. Register and choose between an 11-, 25-, and 42-mile ride; the longer you ride, the more ice cream you’ll eat. Afterwards, riders join the postride party at Munro Park in Mattapoisett for even more ice cream, food, live music and cold beverages. This is not a race, and riders of all ages and abilities are encouraged to participate.

            Registration is now open until May 15; and rides tend to fill up quickly, so visit tourdecreme.org to register and learn more.

            Not interested in riding? There are many different volunteer opportunities available; visit the volunteer page of the website to sign up. Fund-raising is also encouraged for riders and nonriders alike. This fantastically fun event is a fund-raiser for the Mattapoisett Land Trust and the Friends of the Mattapoisett Rail Trail who work to improve and expand hiking and biking trails throughout Mattapoisett.

Mattapoisett Woman’s Club Scholarship

The Mattapoisett Woman’s Club is pleased to host a competition offering two (2) $2,500 scholarships to any area high school senior, male or female, who is a resident of Mattapoisett and who will be graduating in June 2023.

            In addition, there will be a competition for one (1) $1,500.00 scholarship to be awarded to a Mattapoisett resident who is reentering the academic world after graduation and is in pursuit of a postsecondary degree or certificate.

            Scholarship applications are available at guidance offices of Old Rochester Regional High School, Bishop Stang High School, Tabor Academy, Old Colony Vocational Technical High School and Bristol County Agricultural High School as well as online at the Club’s website at www.mattapoisettwomansclub.org/.

            Final deadline for returning completed applications is Friday, March 31. Submissions received after the deadline will not be considered.

            The Mattapoisett Woman’s Club is a philanthropic organization that plans and executes fund-raising events to help generate the revenue for these scholarships and other charitable donations. In offering these scholarships, the club supports educational leadership and helps to support the community that has partnered with the club in its fund-raising efforts. Membership is open to any woman who is interested in the objectives of the organization via the club’s website at www.mattapoisettwomansclub.org/membership/.

Artificial Intelligence Solves Writer’s Block

            I’ve been thinking about writing an essay about all the dogs I encounter on my walks through Mattapoisett village.

            Unfortunately, a writer’s block has descended upon me, and I have been unable to come up with any good ideas. So, I decided to check out this “AI” thing I have been reading about … that would be “artificial intelligence,” which sounds like an oxymoron to me, but I digress.

            I thought it might spark an idea or two. So, I signed up on one of the popular, open-source chat bot sites. I asked it to offer some suggestions for some snappy thoughts on dogs I encounter on my daily walks around town. For the fun of it, I ask it to do it in my writing style. Here’s what it wrote: “As I strolled through the quaint streets of Mattapoisett, I couldn’t help but notice the abundance of wagging tails and friendly barks that fill the air. Yes, my dear reader, I’m talking about the dogs of Mattapoisett.”

            Yikes, that does sound like me. It went on: “I saw dogs being treated like family members. They were allowed to run free in the parks, play fetch on the beaches …”

            Well not likely! I’m sure people treat their dogs like family but walking free in the park? Doggone it, no! When we had a dog, poor old Daisy used to have to walk on the hot asphalt to get a biscuit at the Ice Cream Slip, while her canine cousins and their scofflaw owners pranced across Shipyard Park ignoring the signs that say no dogs allowed in the park.

            As far as “play fetch on the beaches,” forget about it. That was outlawed long ago. No dogs are allowed to have fun or get exercise in our village because too many owners don’t pick up after their precious pets. Some that do, leave the bag on the sidewalk! They apparently could use a good dose of artificial intelligence. But I digress, again.

            The bot seemed to know that I am a dog lover when it wrote: “I was thrilled to witness first-hand the strong bond between the people of this charming town and their four-legged companions from the tiny chihuahuas to the majestic great Danes. Every breed seems to have found a loving home here.”

            Every breed may have found a loving home, but I have not yet encountered a single Chihuahua or Great Dane on my walks. I’m sure I’d have recognized a Great Dane if I saw one. I have seen an assortment of mutts, collies of one version or another, black and yellow labs, Scottie dogs and golden retrievers … many of them.

            Once I was walking by the general store when three of them commanded the sidewalk while their owner casually perused the shop’s window, which required me to walk in the street. As I passed, one of the man’s furry friends reached out and sniffed my hand. Instantly, the owner barked “don’t touch my dog!” Holding my tongue, I declined to remind the man that I did not touch his precious pooch, the dog touched me. Avoiding a confrontation, I use my real intelligence to walk on.

            The AI bot was not so dumb, it continued: “All in all, I was thoroughly impressed by the dogs of Mattapoisett and the people that loved them.” Well, most of them. “If you’re a dog lover …” it wrote … “I can’t think of a better place than Mattapoisett to call home.” I agree.

            Editor’s note: Mattapoisett resident Dick Morgado is an artist and retired newspaper columnist whose musings are, after some years, back in The Wanderer under the subtitle “Thoughts on ….” Morgado’s opinions have also appeared for many years in daily newspapers around Boston.

Thoughts on …

By Dick Morgado

Robert Ellis Mower

Robert Ellis Mower born in Burlington, Vermont on May 12 1932, son of Edna Rush Mower and E. Curtiss Mower and grandson of his beloved Papa Rush, all of Braintree, Massachusetts. Grew up and lived in Braintree Massachusetts. He died in Charlottesville, Virginia on February 21, 2023.

            He was married for 51 years to his wife, Eleanor Sequeira Mower, who survives him.

            He graduated from Thayer Academy, Braintree in 1950 and was the recipient in 1949 of The Harvard Book prize from Thayer Academy. Class president, captain of football team, active in student government, sports, member of Braintree All Souls Unitarian Church.

            He attended Dartmouth College, member of Class of 1954 for three and a half years, transferred to Harvard University, graduated in 1955. He was a member of The Ripley Society of Dartmouth College until his death.

            After graduation he worked in Los Angeles, Ca. for Los Angeles Times. Then moved back to Massachusetts, and worked in advertising for Eddie, Rucker, Nichols in Cambridge.

            As he gravitated toward an appreciation for, and love of antiques and fine arts, which he was involved with for the rest of his life. Buying, selling, and appraising. He owned The Hobby Horse Antiques in Marion for close to 50 years, moving to Rochester, Mass. upon retirement. He created, owned and managed Compass Antiques Shows. Robert’s previous experience in the Communications and PR business with the Los Angeles Times, The Wrigley Company and clients such as The Harvard Trust Company was a factor in his success.

            He is also survived by his son, Marshall C. Mower and wife, Lila of Honolulu, Hawaii; daughter, Melissa B. Mower of Santa Rosa, Calif.; son-in-law, Richard B. Drumm of Barboursville, Va.; and daughter through marriage of 51 years, Lisa M. Hall, who he loved as his own and her husband, Jim.

            Predeceased by his parents; sister, Cynthia Mower Leggett; brother-in-law, Alan C.F. Leggett; daughter, Melinda A. Mower; stepdaughter, Susan B. Drumm; and stepson, Robert W. Bishop, III.

            Survived also by grandchildren, Victoria Drumm, Miranda Drumm Champlain, Robert Bishop, and Lee R. Hall; as well as five great-grandchildren; eight nieces and nephews.

            After graduating from college, the majority of his life was spent in Marion, Mass., where he was a long-time member of The Kittansett Club and St. Gabriels Episcopal Church. He moved to Rochester, Mass. upon retirement and the sale of The Hobby Horse.

            He was unfailingly kind, generous and counselor to many who sought his advice. He was widely known for unexpected gifts of local produce and homemade cookies and the unexpected cards and letters. He treasured his many friendships throughout his life. He loved the quote by Sam Walter Foss: “Let me live in a house by the side of the road and be a friend to man” and lived his life accordingly. He was a true friend and advisor to all who sought his company and advice. He was a true father to his stepchildren, who he never considered anything other than his own.

            He was a driving force at Thayer academy. Was manager of his Dartmouth football team, and was very active on in working on The Dartmouth, a daily newspaper for that community. He was proud of his work on the paper, and spoke of it often. He was editor of his class yearbook at Thayer Academy. He had many lifelong friends, and was predeceased by most of them.

            He was a true historian. Not only did he love discussing history, he loved reading and researching history. He was the same with family history, and loved to bring up old stories and events from his family’s history as well. He loved creating beautiful landscapes and maintaining his property like a park. This please both him, his family and passersby. He was a special man that won’t be forgotten.

            He was a member of the Zeta Psi fraternity. Besides history and gardening, his lifelong passion was jazz music, which he continued to listen to and learn about until his last months of life. He was known for “Unky’s Lessons” which he freely bestowed to any young people he connected with.

            Private services will be held at a later date. Condolences may be shared with the family on the Tribute Wall of the Hill and Wood Funeral Service.

“Wherever you go your shadow falls on others

And they are either better or worse

For your presence.” -Robert E. Mower

Charles C. Davis

Charles C. Davis, 55, of Marion passed away unexpectedly at home on March 23, 2023. He was the son of the late Charles R. and Lucia C. (Jenkins) Davis.

            He was born in Wareham and lived in Marion all of his life. He graduated from Upper Cape Cod Regional Vocational Technical High School with the class of 1985.

            Mr. Davis worked as a painting contractor in the area for many years and was known for his exceptional craftsmanship and attention to detail. He took great pride in all he did.

            Charlie especially enjoyed working on his Chevelle , turning wrenches, fishing, boating, working out at the gym as well as many other hobbies and passions. He was well known for helping others, playing practical jokes and having fun. His family mattered the very most to him, especially his children Erin and Ryan who meant everything to him.

            Survivors include his children Erin Davis and Ryan Davis both of Wareham: his brothers and sister, Robert S. Davis, Stephanie L. Davis, T. Scott Davis and Glenn A. Davis all of Marion: many cousins, nieces and nephews. He was the brother of the late Mark R. Davis.

            Visiting hours are from 4 to 7 pm on Friday, March 31, 2023 at Chapman Funerals & Cremations – Wareham, 2599 Cranberry Hwy. Wareham.

            His graveside service will be held at 11:00 am on Saturday, April 1, 2023 at Evergreen Cemetery, Rte. 6 & Converse Rd., Marion.

            In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 417005, Boston, MA 02241-7005 or to the American Cancer Society , 1324 Belmont St., Suite 204-101, Brockton, MA 02301

High Tea & Treasures Road Show

High Tea & Treasures Road Show, hosted by The First Congregational Church of Marion on Saturday May 6, 3:00 pm to 4:30 pm, will be held at the Community Center, 44 Front Street. Typical of the traditional English Afternoon Tea of fancy cakes, pastries, finger sandwiches and sweets; delicious, steeped tea will be served to enhance lively discussions of your rare, beautiful antiques and treasures.

            Marion’s local antique expert, Frank McNamee, along with a team of three specialized appraisers, will provide information and commentaries. Each guest is encouraged to bring one item of curiosity to be reviewed by our experts.

            Admission: $25 in advance, $30 at the door.  Additional items may be reviewed at $10 per item as time permits.

            Seating for tea is limited to 40 guests. Tickets may be purchased in advance at the Church Office located at the Community Center, Tuesday through Friday 9:00 am to 2:00 pm, at Penny Pinchers Exchange, 39 Main Street, Wednesday and Saturday, 10:00 am to 1:00 pm or online: www.marionfirstchurch.org/.

            Gallery seating is available for $10 per item being reviewed and may be purchased at the door the day of the event. 

            Additional information is available on the Church’s website: www.marionfirstchurch.org.

Auditions at the MAC

 The Marion Art Center (the MAC) Theater announces open auditions for the June 2023 production of Belles, written by Mark Dunn and directed by Kate Sorensen-Young. Told in “two acts and 45 phone calls,” Belles visits six southern sisters, who, over the course of an autumn weekend, seek to bridge the physical and emotional distance between them via the telephone, and in the process come to terms with their shattered family history. The gold standard among Mr. Dunn’s many plays about southern women and offering very strong roles for an ensemble of six actresses, Belles continues to pack an emotional punch after all these years.

            Auditions will be held in the MAC’s Anne Braitmayer Webb Theater on Saturday, April 1, 6:00-8:00 pm and Sunday, April 2, 1:00-3:00 pm. The MAC is located at 80 Pleasant Street in Marion. A total of eight performance dates are scheduled: June 9-11, 16-17, 23-25, 2023. Some dates may be subject to change. Evening shows begin at 7:30 pm, while Sunday matinees begin at 2:00 pm.

            Auditions will be from the script, and actors should contact the director for a copy of the sides pertinent to the role you are seeking. Anyone interested who cannot make it to audition on these dates may also contact the director to request an alternative time. For contact information and to view the announcement online, visit marionartcenter.org/auditions. Ages and genders are flexible at the discretion of the director and depending on the final ensemble. All races, colors, sizes, genders, gender-identities and experience levels welcome. Only fully vaccinated actors will be considered for roles.

            The cast of characters includes six sisters over varying ages as they explore themes of gender, sexuality, family, trauma, intimacy and what it means to be a woman. Available roles include: Peggy Reece (the eldest; Memphis, TN); Aneece Walker (second eldest sister; Philadelphia, PA); Audrey Hart (middle daughter, amateur ventriloquist; Collierstown, MS); Dust Walker (middle child, non-binary or trans; Elk Run, WA); Roseanne Johnson (2nd youngest, preacher’s wife; Atlanta, GA); Paige Walker (the baby; Austin, TX.)