Mattapoisett Woman’s Club’s Greens Sale

The Fourth Annual Mattapoisett Woman’s Club’s Greens Sale will be held on Saturday, December 2 at the Old Fire Station on Route 6 at Barstow Street, from 9:00 am until we’re sold out or 1:00 pm, whichever comes first. Please note, last year everything was gone by 10:30 am.

            This year’s offerings include handmade fresh wreaths, beautiful swags, stunning table decorations, gorgeous post and note cards, and a singular array of homemade dated ornaments. The selection of greens items is amazing, more so because everything has been handcrafted under the guidance of this year’s Newport Floral Show’s award-winning designers Sharon Doyon and Susan Perkins.

            As if the show and sale are not enough, we may also have a visitor from the North Pole stopping by to pick up something to beautify his warm, comfy home for the holidays as well. Cash, checks, and credit cards will be accepted.

            We hope to see you at the warm, festive, and dry (in case of snow or rain) Old Fire Station on Route 6 on Saturday morning, December 2, from 9:00 till we’re sold out. There, members of the Mattapoisett Woman’s Club will be ready to help you choose your favorite greens and/or handmade ornaments from the dazzling array of items available at the Fourth Annual MWC’s Greens Sale.

            Profits from this and all fundraisers support the Mattapoisett Woman’s Club’s Scholarship Funds and other community endeavors.

Mattapoisett Town Meeting

To the Editor

            What a great ten days for the Town of Mattapoisett. At the November 6th Town Meeting we brought closure to matters surrounding Tinkham Forest – following twenty years of discussion, debate and votes dealing with the preservation of the Forest and access to the Forest. Town meeting also approved significant funds to finally begin to address in a major way the substantial work that needs occur at our Town Barn on Mendell Road. We have known for years of the hazards at this building from a public safety perspective and from an EPA regulatory viewpoint – and we are now on track for meaningful improvements. Bringing Old Slough Road up to acceptable, usable standards has been a topic of public safety conversation since at least Hurricane Bob in 1991 – and numerous times since when Point Connett and Crescent Beach have been cut off from Route 6 resulting from storm flooding and road damage – Town Meeting approval to proceed with this project is much appreciated by many. Eight years ago, the Town kicked off an effort to update the roads and sidewalks on Main Street, Water Street, Beacon Street and surrounding areas. At the most recent Select Board Meeting, the Board voted to proceed with the design offered by the Town Consultant – putting the Town on the path to secure $8 million of State funds towards this effort.

            Positive movement on all four projects is certainly good news for all of us. There is still lots of work to be done around Town – but getting four long-time lingering projects off the field is Big. It is important that we recognize the hard work done to get us to this point. In each case, our Town Administrator Mike Lorenco along with our Assistant Administrator Katie Stephanian picked the ball off the field and managed the plays to get the ball to the goal line – for Town Meeting and Select Board action to score the play. On top of this, Mike has given us a new look at Town Finances – not just a healthy Balance Sheet to look at, but a very clear understanding of the evolution of the dollars and cents that we look at and more importantly, Mikes financial presentations provides us all with a story of where we are and we’re going as a community – always with options to shift course if we all agree is the prudent thing to do. We are fortunate to have Mike Lorenco as the Town’s quarterback. (Mike is free on Sunday’s – could be an opportunity for Bill Belichick)

Chuck McCullough, Mattapoisett

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Bike Path Finds Traction

            Chairman John Rockwell reported Tuesday night that the Marion Pathway Committee has submitted its “100% plan” to the state on the Marion Shared Use Path that is intended to connect pieces of the South Coast Bikeway emanating from the Mattapoisett line and continuing to Point Road.

            Rockwell said detail work will be required during a vetting process that the state is required to respond with over a 60-day period. Those details include checking on easements for changes from two years ago and the refreshing of title searches.

            The last plan, he said, showed that some easements had been eliminated by the sloping of sidewalk areas and will need haybales and adequate room for them to be installed. The committee may need an easement just to install erosion-control devices.

            “But we can’t do anything in regard to acquiring easements until we have an approval layout plan,” said Rockwell. “If the appraisal is done too soon, it gets stale and needs to be done again.” A four or five-year easement costs more, said Rockwell. “All those things have to be balanced out.” Rockwell recommended waiting on the state’s response which he anticipates in January.

            The last schedule sent to the state was dated January 20, 2023, and the state will require submission of a new schedule.

            Former Pathway Committee Chairman Jeff Oakes attended the Zoom meeting and thanked the committee and other stakeholders for their work in getting through what he called Phase 1. Oakes said he will work on the Wareham end (Phase 2) to come up with a plan and seeks help from the committee or as individuals in completing the Marion portion of the South Coast Bikeway project end to end.

            Marion Town Administrator Geoff Gorman asked about the ramifications of the required Mandatory Environmental Impact statement. Rockwell said the state has hired a firm to conduct the MEPA process, which he described as a coordinated effort of state agencies to ensure projects needing permitting or funding that applicable state agencies are on the same page.

            “There’s triggers for that: wetlands impacts, traffic, water withdrawals, endangered species impacts,” said Rockwell. “Surpass any of the thresholds, you have to file an environmental notification form. … In this case, there’s nothing to worry about. The project is actually an enhancement for the quality of life.”

            Gorman asked where people can view the full plans. Rockwell said the file is too heavy to email but will send him a link.

            Shaun Walsh asked if the document is too technical to upload for public consumption. Gorman suggested the document can and soon will be uploaded to the Pathway Committee’s webpage at marionma.gov.

            Walsh’s candidacy for a seat on the Pathway Committee was not recommended to the Select Board in June by Rockwell, who reiterated his proposal to fill the committee’s vacancies with a former member and Dan Eling, who was also in attendance.

            It wasn’t clear if any official action took place in regards to the Pathway Committee’s vacancies, but the committee voted to recommend the reappointment of Lorraine Heffernan for one year to the Stewards of Community Open Space. The Select Board will hear and vote on that recommendation.

            It was noted that the Friends of the Marion Bike Path group will need to form and act to support its day-to-day operations, once it is constructed. Committee member John Menzel said that Pathway Committee member Sandria Parsons is looking to start up the friends group.

            Walsh then threw Rockwell’s way what he called “the five-and-a-half-million-dollar question,” asking for an idea on a timeline to begin construction. “Everybody wants to know,” said Walsh, citing that the 100% plan has been submitted and the state has 60 days to respond. Noting that Oakes’ original plan was to start construction a year ago, Walsh asked, “Do you anticipate a shovel in the ground a year from now?”

            Rockwell remained noncommittal.

            “I’ve learned one thing is don’t make any predictions with timing,” said Rockwell, noting that a previous timeline, which is more than a year old, predicted a 100% submittal in March. “We’re lined up for (FY)2025 money, which starts June of next year. That assignment was made by the state. They have some internal idea themselves how long things take. … When the state gets a new schedule, I’ll distribute it. Until then, I have no clue.”

            Even after state approval, said Rockwell, the committee still has to tackle permitting matters and right-of-way acquisition. He noted that a Notice of Intent with the Conservation Commission will address less than 500 square feet of wetland alteration with a plan to replicate it.

            “That’s the only permit,” he said, noting that there is also the MEPA process with uncertain timing.

            The 40-minute Zoom meeting cut off as Rockwell was trying to wrap up his timeline discussion. He said the Pathway Committee will set another public meeting in two weeks, presumably to complete the unfinished business of the November 14 agenda.

Marion Pathway Committee

By Mick Colageo

Sisters in Crime New England for Mystery Making

Avoid the post-Thanksgiving blues by joining four fantastic local mystery authors for Mystery Making on Saturday, November 25 at 2 pm. For this interactive presentation, Maureen Boyle, Sharon Healy-Yang, Stephen Rogers and Sharon Ward will brainstorm on their feet to create a brand new mystery, using suggestions from the audience. Come be part of the fun.

            Maureen Boyle is the author of two true-crime books, Shallow Graves: The Hunt for the New Bedford Highway Serial Killer and The Ghost: The Murder of Police Chief Greg Adams and the Hunt for His Killer. She has a bachelor’s degree in journalism and a master’s degree in criminal justice. She is now the journalism program director at Stonehill College in Easton, MA.

            Sharon Healy-Yang’s passion for films and books created during the 1930s-50s, with their blend of sharp wit, humor, and dark suspense inspired her to write, Bait and Switch, a mystery/romance set in 1943 and a finalist in the National Indie Excellence Awards, as well as its sequels: the noir-inflected Letter from a Dead Man and Always Play the Dark Horse.

            Stephen Rogers is the author of Shot to Death, Three-Minute Mysteries, and more than 900 shorter pieces. He is President of MWA/NE and Co-chair of the New England Crime Bake Committee.

            Sharon Ward is the author of the Fin Fleming Scuba Diving Mystery Series, which includes In Deep, Sunken Death, Dark Tide, Killer Storm, Hidden Depths and Sea Stars. Rip Current, the seventh book, will be released in late 2023. She lives near Cape Cod with her husband Jack and their miniature long-haired dachshund Molly, the actual head of the Ward household.

            No registration is required for this event, which is a Purrington Lecture Series program sponsored by the Mattapoisett Library Trust. Contact the library at (508) 758-4171 with any questions or email to mfpl@sailsinc.org to get more information.

RMS Talks MCAS

            MCAS testing and what to do with the information was on the table when the Rochester School Committee met on November 2.

            “We’re back at a place where MCAS data is starting to become more meaningful,” said Old Rochester Regional Superintendent of Schools Mike Nelson, qualifying the remark by noting that MCAS provides one data point among multiple ones. But the point was clear. “But I think the important piece for us to remember right now is that MCAS data, from a state standpoint and for us is a data point that we’re looking at a road to learning recovery.

            “We’re really looking at, ‘where were students in 2019 from a teaching-and-learning standpoint, and what is the data telling us now in terms of how students are performing … on MCAS?’ There’s a lot of points of pride, but there are some areas (needing improvement). … More importantly, do we have plans in place already or are there plans in place that we’re going to have to make to try to increase academic achievement?”

            Nelson pointed to statewide trends of concern for the earliest learners with literacy and science and math to some degree with Grade 3.

            “We share some of those, not all of them. We can certainly acknowledge those trends and feel them here at Rochester Memorial,” he said. “When you hear the data presented from our building principal and our assistant superintendent, you’re going to see we have a lot to be proud of. We have, again, some areas for opportunity, and what I’m most excited about I think that the work that this committee has done from a literacy standpoint in really the past two years to position ourselves for Year 1 of implementation, really supports the trend of data that the MCAS is showing.”

            Nelson said that the needs of the whole child remain the district’s focus, “and we are certainly seeing greater need from the whole child than we were seeing in 2019. … They’re learning much more than what the MCAS is asking, and that’s what we’re here for each and every day.”

            With that, Nelson handed the floor to Dr. Shari Fedorowicz, ORR’s assistant superintendent of Teaching and Learning.

            The summary of scores were as follows: 530-560 Exceeding Expectations; 500-529 Meeting Expectations; 470-499 Partially Meeting Expectations and 440-469 Not Meeting Expectations.

            Student Growth Percentiles (SGP’s) were issued to students having registered prior scores and having met current grade-level requirements on a 1-99 scale and are measured against the state’s mean SGP. English Language and Mathematics are counted but not Science.

            Summarizing that ORR students have tested in the normal range through 2019. MCAS took a year off for the COVID-19 pandemic in 2020. In 2021, Grades 3-8 experienced a partial return to MCAS testing. Since 2022, MCAS testing has been fully back.

            “One of the biggest things to keep in mind with this is that we’re not only looking at our achievement … scores, but … the scores aren’t necessarily where they were in 2019. A lot has happened in five years, so the state is calling that the recovery piece and recovery going back to what our scores were in 2019,” said Fedorowicz. “So we’re trending up, which is great.”

            The slide, said Fedorowicz, has stopped, and local students are now back on a recovery schedule with their test scores.

            At Rochester Memorial, Grades 3-6 performed better than they did last year and better than the state average in English Language Arts and in Mathematics. Grade 5 Science scores were lower than last year’s but better than the state average.

            Grade 3 across the state generally saw flat results (these students were in kindergarten during the pandemic.)

            Fedorowicz guided the committee through a graphics presentation of data for students across the ORR District in Grades 3-12 from 2019 to 2023. The information broke down to Grades 3-6, measuring ORR’s recovery to be above the state average in English Language Arts.

            She said that ORR’s acceleration in recovery “speaks volumes about our educators here at RMS.”

            Rochester Memorial School’s Interim Principal Heidi Letendre noted that students considered “proficient” are testing 7% above the state average, while the average ORR student is still testing 3% better than last year and 2% above the state average.

            Language/Writing was one of the rare cases in which local Grade 3 students tested below the state average. In several other ELA categories, the same students tested significantly above the state average.

            Grade 5 students ranked behind the state average in multiple ELA categories, but Grade 6 students ranked above the state average in those same ELA categories. Grade 5 was better in math but still with weak areas.

            “We definitely have some learning gaps,” said Letendre, expressing confidence in the district’s new Into Reading literacy program.

            The report identified highlights for different grade levels in ELA, Mathematics and Science and recommended action plans to shore up areas that have fallen behind.

            Expressing thanks on behalf of the committee and the community, Chairperson Sharon Hartley recognized the effort that went into analyzing the data and putting it to use in planning to support learning among all the students.

            “I have great confidence that knowing where we are situated right now with a strong, new science curriculum and a strong, new approach in reading and news materials and with the science of reading … it’s all worth it,” said Hartley. “When you look at the data, when you look at the performance and you look hard at what you need to improve on, we can do that.”

            Member Anne Fernandes noted that ORR’s writing program is embedded in Into Reading. Fedorowicz said the Hill is rolling the program out in steps to avoid overwhelming the students. She said teachers meet with the Hill on a monthly basis to analyze testing. She said there will be specific instruction in writing.

            Fernandes questioned if more dips in performance should be anticipated. Fedorowicz said the priority is to get the reading component solidly in place, then delve more heavily into writing.

            Member Robin Rounseville asked about what other assessments are saying about students’ performance. Nelson said the district has relied on Aimsweb but uses it more as a screener; therefore, scores look higher.

            The committee reviewed the draft school calendar for the 2024-25 academic year. Nelson said the Joint School Committee requested a draft sooner than it is typically received for its discussion and vote. Nelson said he would like to see the Rochester School Committee act on the calendar in January so as to allow for planning time for the students and professional development.

            The committee heard a report from Assistant Superintendent of Finance and Operations Howie Barber, who reported an unencumbered $625,000 remaining in the operations budget.

            In reporting on Food Services and Facilities, Barber noted that lunches are down. Rounseville said she has heard that some students find the lunch line to be too long. Nelson indicated that the factor is one administration will consider going forward.

            The white-colored overhang at RMS is starting to rust, and April vacation is being targeted as a repair date.

            In her Chairperson’s Report, Hartley expressed concern about “school culture and climate.” She identified three things that had happened over the past month. The Trunk & Treat (parking-lot) event was collaborative and was a success. She also noted Nature’s Classroom and the work of the Celebrations Committee as important factors in students’ well-being.

            The ORR Unified Basketball Team will play against Tri-Town Police on Tuesday, November 21, at 6:30 pm at the ORRHS gym.

            During Open Comment, Karen Thomas expressed concern over the committee’s support of the changing of pronouns in the Student Handbook from “she/her” to “they/them” and questioned whether the committee represents the community. She asked if a parent can just opt out and said she is “disgusted with the whole thing.”

            The committee entered executive session and only returned to adjourn the public meeting.

            The next meeting of the Rochester School Committee will be held on Thursday, December 14, at 6:30 pm at RMS, and the next meeting of the Joint School Committee is scheduled for Thursday, January 18, at 6:30 pm at ORR Junior High School media room.

Rochester School Committee

By Mick Colageo

Medical Bills: How to Fight Them

Years ago, when I would visit with my in-laws, after the initial pleasantries, my mother-in-law would bring out a shoebox full of paper and say, “Edward, do I owe anyone any money?” In the box were dozens of undecipherable pieces of paper, many of which were marked, “This is Not a Bill,” even though they looked like bills. Things have not gotten better.

            Medical billing is notorious for being very hard to understand and full of errors. The average person, faced with a gigantic bill, is likely to throw up their hands and pay it, but do not be in too much of a hurry to do so.

            The first step is to request an itemized bill, to which you are entitled. This will list all the things the doctor or hospital is charging you for. While the bill should list the items, sometimes you will just get a listing of CPT (Current Procedural Terminology) codes – 5-digit numbers that are medical shorthand for the things done. It is very easy to use Google to get the English translation of, say, 99285 into “Emergency Visit, high complexity.” Very often you will see things listed that were simply not done, and a call or letter should ask to have these removed.

            You should also use your common sense to evaluate how well the service for which you are billed matches the service you received. Using the same example, if you are being charged $800 for a 99285 and you went to the Emergency Department with a swollen ankle that was wrapped in an elastic bandage, you should insist the charge be reduced. A “high complexity” visit is meant to cover caring for a victim of a major auto accident or a patient in coma, not a 10-minute visit for a simple problem.

            If the billing department will not reduce the charge, demand a copy of your visit. If the notes reflect a simple visit, repeat your demand and threaten to take the issue to your insurance company or the state department of consumer affairs.

            Finally, it is always worth asking for a discount. Uninsured patients are usually charged the “list price” for a service while Medicare, Medicaid and every commercial insurance company gets a substantial discount off these prices. You will very often get a discount of 25% or more just by asking.

            It is your money. Don’t part with it without a fight.

            Dr. Ed Hoffer is the chairman of the Marion Board of Health, a graduate of MIT and Harvard Medical School. He is Associate Professor of Medicine, part-time, at Harvard and a Senior Scientist at the Massachusetts General Hospital.

What Does The Doctor Say?

By Dr. Ed Hoffer

Mattapoisett Library

Jim Parker, whose folk art watercolors are on display at the Mattapoisett Library during the month of November, will be providing instruction on how to paint a watercolor of the historic SouthCoast on Sunday, November 26. Parker has painted hundreds of paintings, and his goals and motivations for his folk art paintings are to recreate historic events, sites, and people’s activities. By illustrating the past, each painting supplements our history rather than just reading about it in a book. There will be two sessions: one for children from ages 6 – 12 (must be accompanied by an adult) from 1:15 pm – 2:15 pm and the other for teens and adults from 2:30 pm – 3:30 pm. Sketch pencils, erasers, and watercolor paper will be provided, and Parker’s expertise and suggestions will be available to all. Attendees can then bring their masterpieces home and paint their sketches. Suggestions for what paints and brushes to use will be offered. Free to all.

Ralph E. Parsons

Ralph E. Parsons, 75, aka “Rocky”, aka “Ralphy”, aka “Dad”, aka “Papa Ralph”, finally allowed his big, generous, fun loving heart to retire peacefully yesterday at his home at Dexter Beach in Marion.  Ralph’s heart had quite the amazing history.  It took its first marvelous thumps in New Haven, CT.  His mother Rita, his father Ralph, his brother Gary and his sister Barbara were the first to experience the joy in Ralphy’s heart.   It was then stolen early on by his beautiful wife of 57 years, Diana (Hedin) Parsons, in the classrooms and hallways of Natick High School. It entertained and delighted friends and family everywhere he took it.  Ralph’s heart loved to beat on the dance floor, and pumped laughs and frivolity from him at every party, gathering, cookout or dart night he ever attended.  Ralph’s heart had no boundaries, and allowed him to make friends wherever he went.  As a Purveyor of Pickles, a Package Store Proprietor, a Video Vendor, and an Ice Cream Creator, Ralph never let his heart get bored, as new adventures lay around every corner. 

            Ralph’s heart was broken more than once, especially with the passing of his two beautiful daughters, Lisa and Tracy.  But it swelled with pride often, over his son Ken and his wife Darla, Tracy’s husband Doug, and Ralph and Diana’s 6 wonderful grandchildren – Desera, Travis, Kassidy, Holden, Skyler and Kirsten.  Most recently, it nearly burst with love for his 4 great-grandchildren – Ryker, Emry, Everly and Mazen.

            Ralph was the man who taught other men how to be friends, husbands and fathers.  Suffice to say, if you were lucky enough to love or be loved by this man, then you know the world would be a much better placed if everyone was like him.  He (and his beautiful heart) will be missed, but never forgotten…

            Services will be private.  To leave a message of condolence for the family please visit www.warehamvillagefuneralhome.com

Dog Hearing Needs Larger Venue

            A Special Permit application for an in-house, dog-training business at 16 Bishop Road drew a standing-room-only crowd of concerned neighbors to Rochester Town Hall on November 9, forcing the Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals’ public hearing to be postponed.

            After noting that the meeting was no longer accessible to all who wanted to attend because of the overcrowding, Rochester ZBA Chairman David Arancio motioned to postpone the hearing to November 30 and to move it to the larger venue of the Rochester Senior Center (Council on Aging) on Dexter Lane. Arancio said the Town Hall meeting room’s posted occupancy limit is 32 people seated and 40 standing.

            Members of the crowd offered to whittle down its number in the interest of allowing the public hearing to move forward. Arancio invoked a 10-minute recess to allow time for this to occur. Ten minutes later, Arancio noted the Town Hall meeting room was still over capacity, and the board approved his motion to postpone.

            Later in the meeting, an application for a variance from the minimum required, 40-foot rear setback to build an above-ground pool at 142 Sarah Sherman Road also sparked a neighbor’s objections.

            Homeowner Luis Rivera said his plan is for a 15×30-foot pool for his two children, ages seven and eight. He said he has erected temporary pools and has taken them down every year. A single, permanent pool would be more cost-effective, he said, but it would only fit where he would need a 23.3-foot setback from the adjacent property for the space to build it.

            His next-door neighbor James Ruell said he “had issues” with the plan. He said he already hears a lot of noise from his neighbor. “It’s certainly not going to be quieter,” he said. “I am objecting to it, the noise and the setback.”

            Rivera said he plans to add more plantings as a noise and visual buffer. Where there are gaps in the existing buffer, he will fill them. The ZBA reinforced this promise when it approved the variance. The panel included the condition that Rivera will plant eight Leyland cypress trees at a minimum of 4 feet tall when the pool is installed.

            In other action, the board appointed three ZBA members to the new By-Law Review Committee. They will be Richard Cutler, Davis Sullivan and Jeffrey Costa. The ZBA also approved a new policy to recite the Pledge of Allegiance at the beginning of every meeting.

            The Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals will meet next on Thursday, November 30, at 7:15 pm at the Rochester Senior Center (Council on Aging), 67 Dexter Lane.

Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals

By Michael J. DeCicco

Thanksgiving Lives On

Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday. Even as a little boy when you’d think it would be just like any other day, just me and my mother and father at the dinner table, it was special.

            Instead of the usual meatloaf or tuna casserole, or “potato bargain” … a concoction of sliced potatoes and ketchup (we were poor), Mom would cook up a big turkey with all the trimmings: stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy, peas, brown bread and cranberry sauce. The whole caboodle. That was the only time of the year when they allowed me to sip a glass of Madeira wine. Since there were only the three of us, we would have turkey leftovers … turkey sandwiches, turkey soup or turkey salad for days afterward.

            After dinner, we would go to my grandmother’s house where there would be a nice warm fire in a giant pot-bellied stove. Kale soup might be cooking on the kitchen stove for supper.

            It always seemed to be cold, and snow would cover the ground in those days. In high school, when Old Rochester was brand new, everyone would bundle up and go to the football game, even my parents who could not have cared less about sports. It was all about starting new traditions. My wife’s brother, who is in his sixties now, still plays touch football with his friends from school every Thanksgiving morning. Now they play with their own kids and grandkids. There’s a tradition!

            One Thanksgiving, my uncle Marno was in the hospital in Boston. Dad and his brother Robbie drove up to visit him. Not being familiar with the city, they promptly got lost. To add insult to injury, the car broke down on Storrow Drive! Repairs made, they found their way to the hospital, saw uncle Marno and made it home by supper time. We were thankful for that. Uncle Marno recovered and even made history. He had his larynx removed due to cancer and learned to talk within a week. Doctors from as far away as California came to see him because they couldn’t believe it. Even more to be thankful for.

            After marriage and our kids came along, Thanksgiving dinner was always at my bride’s parents’ house. With her six siblings, and as the family grew with assorted spouses and children, it became pretty crowded. When preparing dinner for such a large brood got too much for my mother-in-law, we celebrated the holiday at my in-laws’ country club where my father-in-law was president. A step up for a poor barber’s son from little old Mattapoisett. On the drive to the club, we would sing the old Thanksgiving chestnut, Over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s … club!

            Everyone is older now and living far apart. The extended family doesn’t get together for dinner anymore. Some have passed away.

            Our kids are grown, living in different places, but they still come home for Thanksgiving. There are just the four of us, no grandkids, but we still have days’ worth of leftovers, though my son takes a drumstick home with him.

            Thanksgiving is still special and still my favorite holiday. This year marks my 10th year living with cancer. What more can one be thankful for?

            Happy Thanksgiving.

            Editor’s note: Mattapoisett resident Dick Morgado is an artist and retired newspaper columnist whose musings are, after some years, back in The Wanderer under the subtitle “Thoughts on ….” Morgado’s opinions have also appeared for many years in daily newspapers around Boston.

Thoughts on…

By Dick Morgado