“Get Back!”

(This story contains information on crimes. Some details may be too graphic for children under the age of 13.)

On May 10, a group of 20 women from all walks of life and all ages participated in a program that could very well end up saving their lives: self-defense training.

The free three-hour class was hosted by the Mattapoisett Recreation Department in partnership with the Plymouth County Sheriff’s Office.

Mattapoisett resident Tony Moniz, a supervisor in the sheriff’s office, coordinated the evening’s event, saying, “All the credit goes to Sheriff Joe McDonald.” He said that McDonald fully supported the training program, which was developed by two of his officers, Major Dwayne Fortes and Lieutenant Jennifer Keegan. Moniz said these officers were dedicated to helping women learn how to defend themselves – how to be empowered.

“It doesn’t matter how old you are or how weak you think you are, there is always something you can do to help yourself,” Fortes assured the women.

The self-defense system taught by Fortes and Keegan is a hybrid they have developed. It employs traditional boxing positions, evasive movements, and marshal arts moves.

Before getting into the physical techniques, he asked the group to think about how they conducted themselves when going about doing everyday things like shopping or pumping gas.

“What do most women do when they get back to their cars?” Fortes asked. “That’s right, you put your purse in the front passenger seat, leave the car unlocked and then load the groceries in the back.” He said that the “bad guys” are waiting and watching. “While you are putting things in the back, they are taking your purse from the front seat!” Fortes said the most important thing for women to remember is to be alert to their surroundings.

Fortes said that he and Keegan had developed the program after spending many hours talking to criminals asking them why they had raped, robbed, or committed other crimes against women. The majority of the time, the response was similar and shocking: “…because I could.”

“They don’t care about you. They want your stuff to sell for drugs,” said Fortes.

The course uses methods that incorporate moves that give women a brief but important opportunity to target the vulnerable body areas of an assailant such as eyes, nose, throat, neck, fingers, even toes before running away. “You’re not going to stand and fight – get your blows in and run,” Fortes instructed.

Fortes and Keegan demonstrated how to defend oneself against rape, being grabbed from behind, front and rear choke holds, and hair pulls. With each elbow thrust, knee jerk to the groin, and extended arm, the women were told to shout out “Get back!” or “No!” and to flee to a safe area making as much noise as possible.

The women were shown how to make a proper fist and deliver an effective punch. Fortes and Keegan also demonstrated how to use the hand as a tool for delivering a forceful palm to the nose and even a quick knife-like chop to the neck called “knife hand.” These exercises provided hands-on experiences that the instructors believed created muscle memory during an attack.

The participants were given plenty of time to learn correct balanced stances that provide a solid foundation during an attack, and then how to deploy an amazing variety of moves. And then the officers talked about rape.

Keegan laid on a mat while Fortes hovered over her. He said squeezing thighs and knees tightly together while screaming and keeping one’s hands up over the face and head area makes it very difficult for the crime to occur. Keegan showed the women how to crab crawl while on their back putting distance – even a few feet – between them and the attacker.

Fortes said the rapist is trying to get clothing off. “Kick him in the face, chest, stomach. Fight!” He explained that criminals are looking for the easiest targets, not fighting screaming women. The comment broke the tension in the room.

Keegan and Fortes also demonstrated how to use the small metallic rod called a kubaton to strike at eyes or neck areas and even to jab at toes if the victim is on the ground. They showed how to use a set of keys by striking a criminal’s face. The women took turns punching holes in cardboard panels with the kubotan, clearly feeling stronger with every blow.

Joanne Dunn of Mattapoisett remarked, “I can get pretty saucy with my Italian attitude if anyone bothers me … but, that might not work on everyone.” Dunn, whose petite frame belies a lion’s heart, said she really enjoyed learning how to be prepared if necessary. By throwing punches into mitts worn by her partner, Dunn learned she is stronger than she realized prior to the class.

Robin Shufelt, also from Mattapoisett, said, “What a good class. So many different moves, choices…. I learned a lot about situations that can arise, like when you are pumping gas.” She felt it was important that women young and old learn how to protect themselves.

Certified fitness instructor Ellie Mae Higgins, who has spent years teaching women how to stay strong, said, “This was excellent. It empowered me with effective skills to be able to fend off an attacker in various situations using elbows, knees, fists, feet, in order to free myself and escape.”

The message was clear: if you find yourself in a compromised position, “Fight as if your very life depended on it.” Thanks to these officers from the sheriff’s department, there are now 20 more women ready to scream, “Get back!” and deliver a powerful response if threatened.

If you’d like more information on the sheriff’s department self-defense program, contact Major Fortes at 508-830-6348 or visit www.pcsdma.org.

By Marilou Newell

Women in Waders

Join the Buzzards Bay Coalition for a three-week series of free adventures for women who love the outdoors beginning May 30. During these fun outdoor activities, we will explore ways to get up close and personal with nature in a safe and supportive all-female environment.

Female children aged 8 and older (accompanied by an adult) are welcome. We encourage you to attend all three programs, but it isn’t required. All programs are on Tuesday evenings from 6:00 to 7:30 pm.

On May 30, don a pair of waders and learn how to dig for quahogs during “Seeking Shellfish” at Silvershell Beach (1 Front Street, Marion). On June 6, discover the diversity of aquatic life at the edge of the Acushnet River during “Buggin’ Out” at The Sawmill (32 Mill Road, Acushnet). And on June 13, master the art of catching feisty blue crabs during “Crazy About Crabs” at Shining Tides Beach (99 Reservation Road, Mattapoisett).

To RSVP, visit www.savebuzzardsbay.org/events/ or contact the Buzzards Bay Coalition at 508-999-6363 ext. 219 or bayadventures@savebuzzardsbay.org.

Women in Waders is part of Discover Buzzards Bay, an initiative to help people across the Buzzards Bay region find unique and exciting ways to explore the outdoors, get some exercise and connect with nature. Local residents can use Discover Buzzards Bay to get outside and discover woods, wetlands and waterways from Fall River to Falmouth. To learn more, visit savebuzzardsbay.org/discover.

Town of Marion Spending is Uncontrolled

To the Editor:

Town of Marion spending is uncontrolled.

The town of Marion has an addiction to unfettered spending. It has become addicted to “free cash” spending and, as a result, many expenses that should be planned and budgeted for inside the town’s operating budget get paid for with “free cash.”

What is Free Cash? It is money left over when the town spends less for something than the money that was approved. As an example, in this week’s warrant a free cash request for $54,000 was for a new vehicle. Such a round number – why? The answer is either the department manager responsible was simply too lazy to correctly research the need OR it was written with the intention to ask for too much – leaving some “extra” for the next year.

The damage caused by this undisciplined behavior comes with the loss of understanding of the value of money and the tax rates that react to such casual spending. The spiral continues as a town with 2400 homes ends up with dozens of “free cash” spending requests on a town warrant that drives meetings that last until nearly midnight. Hey folks – we just ain’t that big a town…

This behavior needs to stop!

I suggest:

1) Most of the “free cash” requests belong inside the town budget – these are not “extra” and “unplanned” needs. It’s way past time for Marion department managers to do a better job and budget for these – just like nearly every family in Marion plans for their own needs and expenses.

2) When a “free cash” request is made, it should be accompanied with no less than three bids, with the free cash request for the lowest bid. Simple enough. Basically, if you can’t research your need beyond round numbers, don’t ask for money.

Regardless if you agree with me or not, the reality is the town of Marion is spending far more $$$ every year than they should. The result is higher and higher taxes. It’s way past time for the town to stay within its means.

The Finance Committee has done a fabulous job balancing the real and unqualified spending needs; they have also done a great job managing our growing indebtedness (currently about $30 million). But they need the help of its citizens to curtail sloppy spending so that we can direct more to paying the bills we have already.

Chris Collings, Marion

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Netflix Prompts Suicide Awareness at ORRHS

Every other Thursday at Old Rochester Regional High School, a certain amount of time at the beginning of the day is reserved for an advisory period. These times allow for homeroom groups to address ongoing aspects and obstacles of teenage life that affect any number of students. Under the guidance of their homeroom teacher and an additional staff member, advisories discuss topics ranging from test preparation to college admissions, depending on their grade.

One issue that has become more open to discussion in the recent years is mental health and illness, something that can affect individuals of all ages.

A current Netflix series, “13 Reasons Why,” has particularly caused a surge in this conversation as the show revolves around a girl’s suicide, the factors that led up to it, and the after-effects her death had on her community.

The show has been praised for highlighting the struggles of depression and causing many to talk about mental health, but it has also been criticized as its story and images can be triggering for those suffering in similar situations. In the naturally stressful environment school can become, it is important to talk about these issues.

The night before advisory, Principal Michael Devoll sent out a school-wide email to students with a document listing various sources where individuals can seek help and a link to an article that chronicled one school’s response to the themes presented in the television show. This message acted as both a way to help any struggling students and to start a conversation amongst the student body.

During advisory the next day, this course of action was expanded as each homeroom began the session by playing a version of “Jeopardy” that focused on the different supportive resources offered to them at school. The method engaged students as they were tasked with naming certain staff members, including the school nurse (Nurse Corazzini), social worker (Mrs. Dowdall), and psychologist (Mr. Allessi). In addition to identifying students’ support systems, the game also brought up mental illness rates and the fact that they are curable and not something to be ashamed of.

This awareness campaign does not just stop at the student level. Parents of junior high and high school students recently received a correspondence from Principals Devoll and Kevin Brogioli that informed guardians of the themes in “13 Reasons Why” and safe ways to approach discussing the series with their family.

Some of these suggestions were: “What are three situations from the series when young people acted in heroic or empathetic ways? If you were Hannah (the girl who committed suicide), what words or actions might have helped you survive?” The email also contained a link to the Massachusetts Department of Health and Human Services to inform about warning signs of suicide.

The staff at the high school is also receiving an opportunity to become more familiar in dealing with mental health and mental illnesses. A workshop titled QPR Suicide Prevention Training is being offered in the oncoming weeks to the staff with the goal of instructing individuals on how to recognize someone at risk of suicide. With this lesson, the support system available to those at ORRHS will only become stronger.

If you or someone you know is having thoughts of self-harm or suicide, reach out and call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK) or any other group aimed at helping those in need.

By Jo Caynon

 

ConCom Member Goes ‘On the Record’

Marion Conservation Commission associate member Shaun Walsh said on May 10 that he wanted to go on the record in response to what he said were allegations of a conflict of interest.

Walsh, an attorney for the Massachusetts Department of Environmental Protection, wanted all residents of Marion to know that whenever a denial for an application is made by the Marion Conservation Commission and appealed to the DEP, another DEP attorney is assigned the case – not Walsh.

“To the world,” Walsh stated, “I have nothing to do with any appeal from any decision that this board makes. And that has been discussed with the state ethics commission as well.”

Also during the meeting, the commission issued an Order of Conditions for Notice of Intent applicants Nancy Edmonds and William Murphy to raze an existing single-family house and build a four-bedroom single-family house at 296 Delano Road. The proposed house is in the ten-year flood plain and within the buffer zone of a coastal bank.

The commission also issued a Certificate of Compliance to George Silvestri of Seaside Lane for vista pruning. The pruning was rather “aggressive,” the commission noted, pointing out that underbrush clearing was too rigorous and too close to the 15-foot no work zone. Chairman Cynthia Callow said she blamed herself for not articulating any limits of underbrush clearing while she was on the site consulting with the property owner. The commission was concerned about any future buyers of the property not understanding that future vista pruning would have to again go before the commission, since Silvestri is currently trying to sell the undeveloped property.

The commission continued the public hearing for Virginia and Barrett Levensen of Cross Neck Road at the request of the applicant until the next meeting.

The commission will also request that an employee from the Town of Marion appear before the commission for an update on the Enforcement Order issued for unpermitted work at Washburn Park roughly two years ago.

“I think they’re waiting for us to go away,” said commission member Jeffrey Doubrava. “It’s probably the most egregious thing that’s been done in the town since I’ve been on the board.”

The next meeting of the Marion Conservation Commission is scheduled for May 24 at 7:00 pm at the Marion Town House.

Marion Conservation Commission

By Jean Perry

 

Sippican Lands Trust Hires New Executive Director

Jim Bride has joined the Sippican Lands Trust (SLT) as its new full-time Executive Director this month.

“We are very excited that Jim will be joining the SLT as Executive Director and bringing his wealth of knowledge and experience to our organization. This is an exciting time for the Lands Trust as we continue to focus on growing our property’s accessibility to the public and officially launching our campaign to build an all-access boardwalk at our Osprey Marsh property on Point Rd” says Kate Ross, SLT Board President. “I’m looking forward to working with Jim in getting more people outside and enjoying all the benefits of nature.”

Bride brings his background in development, community engagement and land conservation to SLT, having served most recently as the Development & Outreach Coordinator at Dartmouth Natural Resources Trust (DNRT) in Dartmouth, MA. Bride helped coordinate a $1.2 million capital campaign for the new DNRT Center at Helfand Farm. From 2012-2014, Bride served as the first-ever Development Director at the Monadnock Conservancy in Keene, NH.

At SLT, Bride will lead all facets of day-to-day operations. “I am excited about the opportunity to lead the next chapter of Sippican Lands Trust, and look forward to working with the community to advance land conservation in Marion,” said Bride.

A native of Dedham, MA, Bride holds a Bachelor of Science in environmental conservation from the University of New Hampshire, a Master of Education from Wilmington University and a Master of Business Administration from Marlboro College Graduate School. He has been an active member of the community currently serving as a member of Marion’s Energy Management Committee. Bride lives in Marion with his family.

Frogs at The Bogs

Explore the wetlands and vernal pools at The Bogs (138 Acushnet Road, Mattapoisett) to find frogs on a fun, family-friendly evening walk with the Buzzards Bay Coalition on Friday, May 26 at 6:30 pm.

During the walk, we’ll listen for the melodic sounds of frogs and use nets and buckets to safely catch a few amphibian friends to see up-close. Participants will also learn a few fun facts about the frogs and other special species that live in the Mattapoisett River valley.

This walk is free and open to all. Pre-registration is required. To RSVP or to get more information, visit www.savebuzzardsbay.org/events/frogs-at-the-bogs-may-26-2017/ or contact the Buzzards Bay Coalition at 508-999-6363 ext. 219 or bayadventures@savebuzzardsbay.org.

Mattapoisett Votes ‘No’ On School Choice

Mattapoisett elementary schools will not increase School Choice participation next year, now that the Mattapoisett School Committee on May 15 took Superintendent Doug White’s recommendation to refrain from offering any further slots for the upcoming school year.

“Currently, we have a few students who are participating in School Choice,” said White, “but over the last few years, we have continued not to open up new slots.”

White cited limited resources and class sizes as the main reasons for keeping a lid on School Choice at this time.

In other matters, the committee accepted a donation of $80 to go towards a “buddy bench” at Center School.

Principal Rose Bowman said a few years ago, Business Administrator Patrick Spencer shared with her a story of a student in the North Shore who suggested that her school install a buddy bench for students who need a playmate at recess time.

“So if you’re outside and you don’t have somebody to play with, you sit on this bench and that’s the message to the others to come,” said Bowman. “And the only requirement is that whoever comes to invite you to play, you don’t turn them away.”

Bowman shared this story with her first and second grade students a while back, and on that Thursday, she said, she found a card in her mailbox from a first-grader with a check for $80 inside. The card read, “Dear Mrs. Bowman, I really want Center School to have a buddy bench…” Bowman said the student shared the buddy bench story with her parent who offered to match whatever she was able to fundraise for the bench. Having raised $40, her parent matched that $40.

Bowman said she has some funds set aside donated from Lifetouch to cover the remaining cost.

“So in September, if you will accept this donation, we will have a buddy bench at Center School.”

The committee accepted the donation unanimously.

“This shows the difference that one person can make … and how it’s rippled out into many schools and to makes a difference,” said. “Her caring and empathy toward others just really moved me tremendously.”

Also during the meeting, administration said farewell and expressed gratitude to School Committee members Carter Hunt and Jim Higgins during their final meeting as committee members.

The next meeting of the Mattapoisett School Committee is scheduled for June 12 at 6:30 pm in the Center School cafeteria.

Mattapoisett School Committee

By Jean Perry

 

Water/Sewer Rates Increased in Marion

The Marion Board of Selectmen on May 16 approved the water and sewer rate increases recommended by Finance Director Judy Mooney and the Water/Sewer Rate Study Committee.

“This is probably one of the things I don’t like to come to,” said Mooney, fixing to present the data gathered over the last few months.

Mooney gave some brief history of the water and sewer rates for perspective, starting with 2007 when Marion had its first significant water and sewer combined rate increase of 70% across the board, she said. At that time, the base rate was established and then the three tiers for consumption.

Mooney said the Town, at that time, did not anticipate any further rate increases for at least five years as reserves were established and built up over time to keep rates low.

In 2015, billing went from semi-annually to quarterly, and it was not until 2016 that the town faced its next increase with 2.5% on the water rate base charge and a 10% sewer rate increase on all tiers.

“We couldn’t avoid it,” said Mooney. “It was the only way we could spread it out … in 2016.”

Last year, water rates increased 2.5%, but the three tiers stayed the same. Sewer rates went up 2.5% on the base rate, with a 0% increase on tier 1, 10% on tier 2, and 15% on tier 3.

Mooney stressed that data is collected by looking at “actuals” as opposed to estimates, but she emphasized, “Water and sewer is not like your tax rate. It’s very easy to give an estimate on what the estimated tax rate will be because it’s very fixed. It’s based on our property value.” Factors with water, Mooney said, include dry seasons when users conserve more. “So it’s not that easy to just come up with, hey! This is what the increase is going to be. We try our best to come up with what we consider the average house based on usage.”

For 2018, there will be modest rate increases on water – 1% on the base rate, with a .5% increase on tier 1, a 1% increase on tier 2, and 1.5% increase on tier 3.

“This is based on what we’ve had for historical data,” said Mooney. “That’s the good news on water,” she added.

Breaking it down, Mooney said the average tier 1 (one-person) home will see an annual water increase of $2.20, a tier 2 (2.5 people) home will see a $4.76 increase, and a tier 3 (five-plus household) will increase, on average, $16.60 annually.

For sewer, there will be a 2.5% base rate increase.

“We’re trying to keep that base charge as low as possible,” said Mooney.

Tier 1 sewer users will see a 3% increase ($15.60) annually, tier 2 will see 4% ($32.44), and tier 3 will see 5% ($96.96).

“We tried to level it off, but last year we didn’t hit the first tier at all and we just couldn’t eliminate that again this year,” said Mooney.

Also during the meeting, the selectmen sat through a presentation from members of T.U.R.F. regarding the proposed overhaul of the athletic fields at Old Rochester Regional.

With an over $7 million price tag, offset by revenue, the three towns’ contributions would be $1.67 million per town. Revenue potential stands at $206,000 annually and $3.9 million over 15 years.

Gonsalves expressed a concern over geese droppings on the synthetic fields, but he said he is “totally in favor of it.”

Hills suggested the group contact the Marion Capital Improvement Committee about the project. “We need to get this into the [Capital Improvement] plan,” said Hills.

Dickerson’s main concern was maintenance of the fields.

“With all due respect to the high school,” said Dickerson, “they’re not known for maintaining things. I’d hate to go forward with this if there isn’t a maintenance plan.” Dickerson said a commitment from the school to maintain the fields would be critical.

More information is available at www.ORRturf.com.

In other matters, the Marion Historical Commission had expressed a concern that the Civil War Monument located at the Marion Music Hall is about to topple over.

Dawson said he reached out to Facilities Director Shawn Cormier who said the statue had been knocked down in the 1970s during an act of vandalism and since then the statue has been slightly bent. Dawson said the monument itself is completely intact and level, although the illusion is that it could topple over.

“It’s a pretty sound structure and it’s going nowhere,” said Dawson.

The next meeting of the Marion Board of Selectmen is scheduled for June 6 at 7:00 pm at the Marion Town House.

Marion Board of Selectmen

By Jean Perry

 

Touch-A-Truck

Saturday, May 13, was the rescheduled rain date for the Marion Recreation Department’s annual Touch-A-Truck event at Washburn Park. The weather wasn’t ideal, but it stayed dry long enough for kids to get in some climbing and crawling time with the big machines. Photos by Felix Perez