St. Philip’s Episcopal Church

For 135 years, St. Philip’s Episcopal Church in Mattapoisett has held summer only services for parishioners.

            Each Sunday through Labor Day, visiting clergy from Massachusetts and beyond conduct services, using the 1928 Book of Common Prayer, at 8:00 am and 10:00 am.

            On Sunday, August 11, the Rev. Robert Malm, Rector, Grace Church, Alexandria, VA will be officiating.

            All are welcome at our historic church next to the Town Beach in Mattapoisett.

Susan (Silloway) Hottel

Susan (Silloway) Hottel, 80 of Mattapoisett died August 5, 2019 at home. 

            She was the wife of the late Hoyt Clarke Hottel, Jr. 

            Born in Englewood, NJ, daughter of the late Stuart F. and Marion (Adrience) Silloway, she was raised in Ossining, NY and lived in Mattapoisett most of her life. 

            She was a proprietor of No Kidding Toy Store in Mattapoisett. Her involvement in the community as a volunteer for the Golf Committee and the Board of Directors of The Nemasket Group was appreciated by many. Sue enjoyed playing golf with her Bay Club circle of friends and cherished her daily morning tea with her besties; “The Coffee Ladies”. 

            Mrs. Hottel was an avid Boston Red Sox and New England Patriots fan. 

            Survivors include her brother, Stuart F. Silloway, Jr. of Salt Lake City, UT; her son, Hoyt Hottel III and his wife Patricia of South Dartmouth; her daughter, Lois Davis and her husband Steve of Bow, NH; 3 grandchildren, Hoyt Hottel IV, Lindsey and Sarah Davis; and her granddogs, Koa and Bode. 

            Her Memorial Service will be held on Wednesday, August 14th at 11 AM in the Mattapoisett Congregational Church, followed by a Celebration of Life at the family home in Mattapoisett. Visiting hours are omitted. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to The Nemasket Group. Inc. 109 Fairhaven Rd. The Pines, Mattapoisett, MA 02739 or visit www.nemasketgroup.com For online guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

A Journey into the Drum Circle

            Drum circles have been a social and cultural form of communication and expression almost since the beginning of humankind. It can be theorized that the beating of the human heart once discovered by homosapiens inspired them to replicate that rhythmic sound. We’ll never know for sure when, where, or how drums and their verb ‘drumming’ first began. What we do know is that drumming is a universal language.

            It won’t be surprising then to learn that drum circles are alive and well today. In modern cities and towns around the globe, in villages deep inside a jungle, or in yurts on isolated windswept plains, drum circles can be found.

            In Mattapoisett, one resident has found a way to bring together her background as a professional musician, a trained dancer, and a fitness trainer – to become a drum circle facilitator.

            Ellie Mae Higgins, well known in the Tri-Town area and beyond for her many years as an instructor of movement classes for senior women, classes that incorporate Higgins’ training as a fitness instructor as well as a dancer. Those classes employ music that naturally aids in movement, especially for women who are taking exercise classes for the first time. Higgins’ knowledge of the body and the impact of aging, illness, and injury on the body has been instrumental in the healing process many have sought and found in her classes. With drumming she brings another realm of healing and human connection to the fore. By combining all those elements and exploring how drumming can be used to help senior citizens awaken from within, as well as engaging children to express themselves, Higgins embarked on her latest journey.

            “I’ve always been drawn more to the rhythm than the melody,” Higgins says of music in general, “… my ear hears it more.” Over the years, one form of dance and the music associated with it excited Higgins’ imagination. Traditional Middle Eastern dance, “please don’t call it belly dancing,” she pleads, is a form of physical expression Higgins has studied for a long time, “That’s my biggest passion. … I had to learn the various rhythms associated with Middle Eastern dance, so yes, I’m drawn to dance through the various rhythms.”

            Another aspect of drumming that fascinates her is that historically drumming is not an exclusively male activity; in fact, in some cultures women were the drummers. That further strengthened Higgins resolve to study the art of the science of drum circles.

            Call it an evolutionary arc from those tribal musical elements that caused Higgins to consider exploring drum circles not only as a way to express herself and learn more drumming techniques, but as a way to explore her spiritual connections with the universe. “It relieves stress, lowers blood pressure, lessens pain, aids the immune system …” continuing in this vein Higgins added, “it alters states of consciousness; it releases what’s locked up.” She has learned that drumming can help manage and decrease anxiety and negative habits of thought “… better than pills and alcohol.”

            Currently Higgins has been contracted to work with seniors who live in residential assisted living facilities as well as with local counsels on aging who hold Memory Cafes. In spite of the care and attention received, seniors may slowly wilt away when no longer living in their own homes. They may begin to demonstrate a loss of mental agility. Higgins has found a way to bring them back to the here and now, if only for brief periods of time.

            Arriving at a facility, Higgins, dressed in colorful flowing skirts and vibrant blouses, stimulates  visual abilities the seniors still possess. Then she plays music from the 40’s or 50’s, “songs they will remember.” The residents are given the opportunity to shake a tambourine or tap a small drum in time to the music. “They all want to play along!” She said she has witnessed non-verbal seniors singing again, while others who usually won’t engage hold an instrument and make sounds. “It’s magical,” she shared. “People who have shut-down from the outside world awaken; it’s the most rewarding work I’ve ever done in my life,” she said.

            Children are fully unabashed when it comes to having fun, but even more so on the days when Higgins arrives at their daycare center with her instruments of mass entertainment – drums. “I’ve worked with children on and off for years,” she said. At one time she produced a CD of children songs. Today she gets to share her esprit de corps with small children showing them how different sounds can be made from different things, like pencils drumming on a box. “It’s a universal language that creates spontaneous outbursts of joy.” Of course, the use of a small hand puppet named “Fred” after the esteemed master of children’s television programing Fred Rogers, helps Higgins connect with the children while demonstrating how to produce sounds from a drum.

            As for the drum circles, Higgins is studying methods and techniques to develop her own style of facilitating. No small task given that drumming and drum circles are as diverse as the humans holding the instrument. But complicated, multi-layered practices have never deterred Higgins from pursuing something once she has her heart set to try.

            Her dance and exercise classes allowed women to move and be more accepting of their bodies. Now with drum circles the same thing can be accomplished through drumming for both men and women. As she continues to increase her skills in leading drum circles, Higgins is also sharing what she knows through a program she calls Rhythm Express Drumming. “It’s drumming for wellness,” she explained. She says that drumming links people together in a synchronized flow that also connects both hemispheres of the brain. She explained it this way, “When the facilitator stops guiding the circle the group may achieve entrainment, the external rhythms synchronize their brains, they self-facilitate. … That’s when the real magic happens. … The circle is about connection and entrainment.”

            To learn more about Higgins’ program you may visit www.rhythmexpressdrumming.com or connect your local COA to learn when she’ll be offering the program.

By Marilou Newell

The Rochester Country Fair will go On

It is with a heavy heart that we notify you that The Rochester Country Fair was notified by the Rochester Board of Health on Monday afternoon of a dusk to dawn curfew.

            Due to the High Risk of EEE in our area, this curfew has been implemented for all Town events, the Fair being one of them.

            Our main concern is for the public.

            Acknowledging that the Fair’s busiest time revolved around many of our highly popular evening events, saying this will have a huge financial impact upon the Fair is an understatement.

            Over the past 24 hours, we have made some pretty tough decisions on what we can do to keep fairgoers safe and continue the tradition of the Fair.

            We decided to cancel Thursday and Friday as well as the evening portion of Saturday and Sunday.

            Saturday we will be open from 9:00 am to 6:00 pm with antique tractor pulls, antique tractor show, food and craft vendors, a children’s static play area and corn box, live music by The Strangers at 1:00 pm and Kendra and Jake at 4:00 pm.

            Sunday we will be open from 9:00 am – 6:00 pm with Smoke & Speed Modified Truck & Tractor Pulls, Slab Pulls, HOT LOUD and FAST, Ice Cream Eating Contest sponsored by Captain Bonney’s, Horseshoe Contest as well as the children’s static play area and corn box.

            Admission to the Fair will be free to the public.  Donations are gratefully appreciated.

Healthy Tri-Town Coalition

To the Editor:

            On behalf of the Healthy Tri-Town Coalition, I would like to sincerely thank the Guides and attendees for their enthusiastic participation in the Tri-Town History Walking Tour Series which took place earlier this summer. In Marion, Judy Rosbe of the Marion Historical Society combined her knowledge of the town’s rich history with an appreciation for its homes, gardens, and the way Marion continues to evolve. For the second tour, Jennifer McIntire, Mattapoisett Historical Society President, led participants on a relaxing walk along the picturesque waterfront ending in Shipyard Park. Rochester’s Walking Tour was led by a dynamic duo – Rochester Historical Society’s Vice President, Connie Eshbach, and Secretary, Susan LaFleur. Many thanks to Sue’s husband, Herb LaFleur for adding another dimension of Rochester history and for helping to set up the HTTC refreshment tent and table.

            We offer special thanks to Elise Frangos, Co-Founder of the Healthy Tri-Town Coalition, for her inspired leadership and coordination of the volunteers and guides. The Historic Tri-Town Walking Tour series was created to foster a sense of connectedness for community members of all ages. We look forward to another series of tours in the Fall of 2019. Registration is recommended and dates will be announced in early September. 

            Thank you!

Erin O. Bednarczyk, Rochester

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August Programs at Plumb Library

Space-Themed Yoga for kids ages 5-9, Thursday, August 8, 11:00 am – The Last Class in the Series – Yogi Lisa is the owner of Sonshine Yoga. She has many different classes available to meet a variety of learning styles. To complement the summer library program theme, Yogi Lisa has created Space Themed Yoga. In this 4-week series, children will blast off into outer space with this fun and engaging yoga class. Be ready to greet the sun, breathe, and stretch as we take a journey through the universe with songs, games, and stories. Children will work on strength, flexibility, balance, coordination, and cooperation during this energizing, yet relaxing, yoga practice. It is recommended that children bring a yoga mat or towel and a water bottle to each session. 

            Space Painting Workshop for ages 6-11, Thursday, August 8, 3:30 pm – Join Ms. Kelly, of Kelly Smith Studios, for a fun paint-along instructional class where you will get step-by-step instructions on creating your own space-themed painting. All materials will be provided, but feel free to bring your own apron or old paint shirt! No painting experience necessary! Registration required. Space is limited to 10 children. 

            Space Painting Workshop for Adults/ Young Adults (ages 12 and up), Thursday, August 8, 5:00 pm – Join Ms. Kelly, of Kelly Smith Studios, for a fun paint-along instructional class where you will get step-by-step instructions on creating your own space-themed painting. All materials will be provided, but feel free to bring your own apron or old paint shirt! No painting experience necessary! Registration required. Space is limited to 10 adults/young adults. 

            Amos’ Birthday and Retirement Party, Saturday, August 10, 10:30 am – 12:00 Noon – Drop-In to celebrate Amos and Holly! Amos, our Reading Dog, is turning 10, and will be retiring from Therapy Dogs International (TDI). Amos and Holly have been with us since January 2017 and have completed almost 70 visits for Plumb. Amos will be receiving a special certificate from TDI for this accomplishment! Please bring a thank you note or drawing reflecting a happy memory of your time with Amos to add to our collection. Gifts are welcome – for both Amos and Ms. Holly. If you were part of Amos’ BookClub, or met Amos and Holly at the many events in which they participated, please stop by! Photos will be taken, happy times will be shared, and cupcakes and lemonade will be served (while supplies last!) Please register if you think you can attend! 

Buzzards Bay Coalition Golf Tournament

Golfers of all abilities can enjoy a unique afternoon at a championship golf course while supporting clean water at the Buzzards Bay Coalition’s annual Golf Tournament on Friday, October 25at The Bay Club in Mattapoisett.

            All proceeds from the Tournament go into a dedicated fund to support the cleanup of nitrogen pollution – Buzzards Bay’s largest pollutant – in New Bedford Harbor. Bring business associates and friends out to enjoy a day of good cheer on the golf course for a great cause.

            For golfers, this event is a rare opportunity to enjoy the private Bay Club’s parkland-style 7,000-yard course, designed by PGA Tour professional Brad Faxon in conjunction with golf course architect Brad Booth. With 88 percent of its 625 forested acres preserved, The Bay Club is the only Certified Silver Audubon Signature Sanctuary in Massachusetts.

            Scott Zeien, owner of Kingman Yacht Center in Bourne, is returning to the Golf Tournament for the seventh time this year. “This is a wonderful opportunity to play a beautiful, private course of the highest caliber,” he said. “When you add that all the players are united in purpose to help preserve our Bay, it adds a level of camaraderie and community to the event.”

            The tournament is a scramble format with registration and practice at 10:00 am and a shotgun start at 12:00 pm. Registration is $250 for individuals or $1,000 for a foursome. Registration includes 18 holes of golf, greens fees, cart rental, tournament gift, boxed lunches, beer, and snacks on the course, and a lively after-party at the renowned Golf House Restaurant with cocktails, light fare, and awards and prizes, including an opportunity to putt for the chance to win $5,000.

            Not a golfer? You can still enjoy the festivities and support for clean water by purchasing a $35 ticket to the cocktail party reception, which begins at 5:00 pm.

            Register online to secure your spot in the Tournament via www.savebuzzardsbay.org/golf or at the Buzzards Bay Coalition office at 114 Front Street, New Bedford.

            Tournament and tee sponsorship opportunities are also available for companies who want to show their support for our local environment. For more information or to register by phone, contact events@savebuzzardsbay.org or 508-999-6363.

Rochester Historical Society 50th Celebration

What were you doing 50 years ago? Seems just like yesterday that the Rochester Historical Society (RHS) was incorporated in 1969 with the help and guidance of a number of Rochester residents who wanted to preserve its history.

            Now 50 years later, we are celebrating this event with a fund raising 50th celebration on Saturday, September 14at the Rochester COA on 67 Dexter lane from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm.         Agenda for the day: a walk down memory lane, a delicious lunch, display of historical items, a raffle with some great items, RHS items for sale, lots of stories, and more. Did you know that in the beginning, potential new members for the RHS were voted on before they could become members; there is a Time Capsule buried in town; or that there was a Craft Store on Rounsville Road? There are lots more great stories to be told.

            Admission is $20 (includes lunch) and all reservations must be received by August 19. Please send checks made out and mailed to RHS, P.O. Box 322, Rochester, MA, 02770. The event is open to the public. Get your friends, neighbors, classmates, and relatives together and make it special. Call 508-961-7401 with any questions.

FinCom Wraps Up FY 2019

            The Finance Committee on July 25 came together to discuss and vote on inter-departmental money transfers to pay for budgetary overages that require balancing as the fiscal year draws to a close. Town Administrator Michael Gagne asked the FinCom to move $128,388 from the health insurance account to cover other municipal expenses.

            From the documented list, Gagne asked for $2,060 for clerical assistance to the Board of Selectmen, $14,253 to pay for additional staffing hired to cover the Building Department due to illness of staff member, an additional $7,179 was needed for electrical expenses incurred for street lighting when fees changed, and hydrant rentals from the Town of Fairhaven was an additional $1,715.

            The veterans benefits line item saw an overage of $17,603, but Gagne clarified that 75 percent of the total $117,603, of which only $100,000 had been budgeted, was reimbursed by the state, leaving the smaller sum pending.

            Parks, which Gagne said included property known as the Holy Ghost Grounds on Park Street and now owned by the town, required repairs and improvements. These repairs mean that the main building may now be used by groups wanting to hold events or by the town itself such as the Recreation Department. The amounted needed to balance and close out the books was $7,400.

            Additional and unplanned expenses associated with employment benefits were $20,200, which Gagne described as sick time and vacation buy-outs.

            Vehicle lease obligations amounted to $3,168 for the Animal Control Department and the Council on Aging. And, the last sum being transferred from the health insurance account was $54,062 needed to cover health insurance deductible fees outside of health insurance coverage.

            The committee moved to transfer the monies.

            Requested transfers from the Reserve Fund in the amount of $81,537 covered such line items as $18,830 for legal costs, $20,870 for computer system upgrades, and $37,702 for sufficient repairs to keep the current town hall “livable”.

            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Finance Committee will be scheduled soon.

Mattapoisett Finance Committee

By Marilou Newell

Rochester Grange Fair

August 17is coming fast. Rochester Grange invites all gardeners to come and enter your fruits, flowers, and vegetables. Get your friends and neighbors to enter for some friendly competition and bragging rights. Entries can be brought in Friday, August 16from 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm and 7:00 pm to 8:30 pm. Judging will begin as soon as all entries are in place. Anyone may enter from the age of 5 years and up from not just Rochester, but surrounding towns as well. Fair books with all rules and information are out and can be found throughout the Tri-Town area. For information on the fair, contact Sue or Herb at 508-295-8908 or at sash48@comcast.net.