Annual Plant Sale

Friends of the Mattapoisett Council on Aging, is excited to sponsor our Third Annual Plant Sale on Saturday,September 14from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm. Join us on the lawn of the Mattapoisett Library for great deals on perennials, houseplants, and small trees! Don’t miss out on this year’s new raffle.

Bridge Benefit

To the Editor:

            The Elizabeth Taber Library would like to thank all the companies and participants who helped make our August 2 Bridge Benefit so successful. All proceeds from the day’s event will go towards enhancing the programs, services, and collection materials offered by the Elizabeth Taber Library during the coming fiscal year. 

            Thank you to all the bridge players who came out with great enthusiasm to enjoy themselves while also supporting the library. 

            The event committee was chaired by Meg Steinberg and included CC Dyer, Kathy Feeney, Susan Mead, Connie Pierce, Kathy Reed, and Philip Tifft. Sincere thanks to the committee for their hard work in organizing, publicizing, and carrying out the event.

            Sincerely,

Elizabeth Sherry

Library Director, Elizabeth Taber Library

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South Coast Chamber Music Series

South Coast Chamber Music Series (SCCMS) Artistic Director Janice Weber is pleased to announce the full program for the 2019-2020 season. This season, musicians from the New Bedford Symphony Orchestra (NBSO) will perform in all of the chamber concerts, bringing their unique artistry and energy to the popular series. 

            On September 28 & 29, NBSO winds deliver “Wind City,” a bright, sophisticated, and sassy season opener. Next up, two enormous piano quintets probe the boundaries of Romantic in “Take Five” on November 23 & 24. We begin the new year on January 25 & 26with “Beethoven CCL,” a celebration of Beethoven’s 250th birthday. In “Three’s A Crowd” on March 28 & 29, two Baroque solos preface a staggering demonstration of trio power. The Chamber Series season closes with “Hopscotch” on May 16 & 17, a springtime bounce in the garden of musical delights.

            Saturday concerts will take place at 4:00 pm at St. Gabriel’s Episcopal Church, 124 Front Street, Marion. Sunday concerts will take place at 4:00 pm at St. Peter’s Episcopal Church, 351 Elm Street, South Dartmouth. Individual concert tickets are $20 at the door. Save 20% by subscribing to all 5 concerts for $80. Tickets and subscriptions are available online at www.nbsymphony.org or by calling the NBSO office: 508-999-6276.

            The SCCMS was formed to present high-quality classical chamber music for the communities of Southeastern Massachusetts. SCCMS held its first subscription series concert on October 20, 2001. We joined forces with the NBSO in 2014, giving both organizations an opportunity to expand in all directions – more concerts, more musicians, and more music.

Big Agenda, Easy Filings

            While it is true that wetland related rules and regulations are often complicated for residents, a packed conservation commission agenda doesn’t always mean complicated cases. That was the case when the Mattapoisett Conservation Commission met on August 12.

            The one filing that brought in a crowd that evening – a crowd that sat cheek to jowl in the Town Hall conference room – was a Notice of Intent submitted by the Angelica Point Improvement Association (APIA) and represented by Bob Field of Field Engineering.

            Field explained that a previously issued Order of Conditions pertaining to maintenance activities on Cove Street had expired. The association now sought permission to grade the unpaved roadway on an as-needed basis into perpetuity.

            All of that moved along quickly with no surprises. However, the hearing wasn’t without some complexity when abutter Bob Warren of the Point Connett Association said that the APIA did not own the entire roadway, but instead had a legal easement. He said he wasn’t against the repairs to Cove Street but simply wanted notification prior to the commencement of any work. He also asked about the appropriateness of a road grader currently parked on Cove Street.

            There was some discussion as to whether or not the commission had any authority to have the grader moved, given it posed no threat to the wetlands surrounding the barrier beach and that it was parked with permission on private property. When the discussion drew to a close, the commissioners were in agreement that the road grader was not a matter for them to take up.

            The association’s Notice of Intent filing was conditioned with the inclusion of notification to the Point Connett Association prior to commencing any work.

            A Notice of Intent filing by Arnold Cestari, trustee, 56 North Street Realty Trust, was filed in an effort to receive approval to convert three eutrophic pools into pools fed with flowing water from a perennial stream running through the property. The pools had been manmade some decades ago but were now filling with plant life that choked out any other living organisms or wildlife. They were described as full of slime.

            Representing the applicant was Evan Watson of Prime Engineering. Watson explained that the project would include the installation of a 10-inch pipe from the stream to the pool, allowing the naturally flowing stream to refresh the pools.

            Commission Chairman Mike King asked if other solutions had been considered such as aeration equipment. Watson said that aeration had been considered but that it required maintenance and had to be removed during the winter months. He said such a solution was less practical.

            While the issue of flooding on adjacent properties was discussed when questioned by Vera Gibbons, whose family owns adjacent property, the commission was united in agreement that the project would not create more water or more problems for neighboring lots.

            The project was approved with conditions.

            In other business, an After-The-Fact Request for Determination of Applicability filed by Tim Holt, 8 Howard Beach, for the replacement of a shed received a Negative 3 determination (no Notice of Intent required).

            Also receiving a Negative 3 determination was a Request for Determination of Applicability (RDA) filed by Michael Amaral, 3 Howard Beach, to pave an existing driveway, and an RDA filed by Karen Keenan, 63 Mattapoisett Neck Road, to remove a tennis court and replant the area with grasses and wildflowers.

            A Notice of Intent filed by Michelle Lacasse, 27 Fieldstone Drive, for tree clearing, stump removal, cutting of brush overgrowth, and additional driveway paving was approved with conditions.

            William Clark, 3 Oyster Lane, filed a Notice of Intent for the rebuilding of an existing deck and expansion of a deck. This project was also approved with conditions.

            A Request for an Amended Order of Conditions filed by Edwin Fernandes for a new residential structure was reviewed. Fernandes was represented by Jon Connell of SITEC, Inc. who explained that the new owners wanted to add a basement walk-out feature versus a crawl space and that the square-footage of the home would be slightly less than originally designed. The amended Order of Conditions was granted.

            Mike Huguenin of the Mattapoisett Land Trust met informally with the commission to review the MLT’s forestry plans on several properties. The selective cutting program will allow for sunlight to reach the forest floor, promoting growth of other plants and trees and improved food sources for birds, he explained.

            Earlier in the evening, Town Administrator Michael Gagne and Highway Surveyor Barry Denham met with the commission at the request of the chairman to discuss various municipal improvement projects that may require Conservation Commission oversight and permitting. A list of ongoing road grading projects was submitted by Denham. Gagne said, moving forward, town departments would submit filings as needed and that the grading list would be updated in compliance with the Wetlands Protection Act.            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Conservation Commission is scheduled for August 26 at 6:30 pm in the Town Hall conference room.

Mattapoisett Conservation Commission

By Marilou Newell

Mattapoisett Benefit Book Sale

Books about military campaigns from the Aztec Empire to Napoleon to the Vietnam War will be one highlight of a 2-day book sale August 23-24 at the Mattapoisett Quaker Meeting, 103 Marion Road (Rte. 6). 

            Hours are 2:00 pm – 5:00 pm on Friday, August 23and 9:00 am – noon on Saturday, August 24.

            On Friday, most hard cover books will be priced at $2.00 each, soft covers at two for $1.00. There will be a special table with about 50-100 higher priced books some with local connections. 

            Reduced prices will be in effect on all books on Saturday.

Upcoming Teen Events at the Mattapoisett Library

As the summer winds down, the fun continues at the Mattapoisett Free Public Library. Craft Tuesdays at our makerspace continues throughout August and September. Starting August 27, the start time will be 5:30 pm. Come by for a quick craft and some fun. No registration required. 

            We just added new dates for the Game Lounge. Come by and play some of your favorite games of all types, including Xbox 360- Kinect games on the big screen, on August 24at 2:30 pm, August 27at 4:00 pm, and September 7at 2:30 pm. All ages are welcome.

            On Saturday, August 31at 1:00 pm, we will be diving into the science of slime. Teens are invited to learn about and create Edible Slime. We encourage patrons to register by August 24. 

            On Thursday, September 12at 4:00 pm, students are invited to learn Lava Lamp Science. As the science around lava lamps is explained, patrons will have an opportunity to create their own. Recommended for ages 9 and up, we encourage patrons to register by September 5.

            On Saturday, September 21at 1:00 pm, our first teen cooking program, Teens Cook: Cheese, we’ll celebrate National Italian Cheese month. We will prepare a simple dish to eat and learn some tips and tricks for cooking with cheese. Patrons age 12 and up, please register by September 14. Space is limited.

            On Friday, September 27at 4:00 pm, students age 12 and up are welcome as we celebrate Banned Books Week by creating Banned Book Jewelry. We will make banned book pendants that can easily be made into necklaces or key chains. Please register by September 20. Space is limited. 

            We are also in the process of starting a book club for older teens and adults dedicated to Emma Watson’s Our Shared Shelf. If you are interested, please visit the reference desk to sign up or contact librarian Michelle Skaar at mskaar@sailsinc.org or by telephone at 508-758-4171. When you sign up, you will get an opportunity to vote for the first book and help us decide on the time we will meet.

            All programs are free and open to the public. If you have any questions or need special accommodations, please contact the library at 508-758-4171 or email the Adult Services/Reference Librarian, Michelle Skaar at mskaar@sailsinc.org.

Our Pal Harry

            When my husband retired more than ten years ago, I decided he needed a dog to keep him company. After some internet research, he selected a Cairns Terrier. Enter Max, the dog. For the next four years as I continued to work full-time, Paul and Max became pals through and through.

            When I retired, I joined the “boys” while looking for new ways to engage my brain. I had always enjoyed dogs and training them came naturally to me. I seized upon the idea of getting another dog, one that I could train exclusively for the purpose of bringing joy to those trapped by illness or old age, an emotional support dog – enter Harry. Max, however, was not amused.

            While not overly aggressive towards Harry, Max was not eager to engage in playful pursuits. Things were okay as long as Harry stayed out of Max’s way. I was hopeful that over time the two dogs would bond. 

            Meanwhile, our routine of sending Max to daycare twice a week continued, thus giving me exclusive time to train Harry, first in obedience then in other skills needed for outbound comfort activities as he matured.

            But life is never a straight line from point A to point B and we were about to suffer a heavy blow.

            Max returned home from daycare one day not long after Harry’s arrival displaying anxious behavior. I cannot and will not for my own sake describe what the next 36-hours were like. Suffice to say, by the end Max became a memory. He’s prognosis and rapid decline left us devasted in a way we could not have imagined.

            Returning home with one empty crate and the other holding a tiny creature somewhat bewildered by the sounds emanating from deep within my body, we entered the house. We closed the door, pulled the shades, barely ate, or spoke, and spent the next week isolated from the world as we mourned Max and tried to care for Harry.

            Harry’s presence those first few days after losing Max felt like a massive intrusion to our grieving. We provided food and a safe environment for the months old puppy. We gave him exercise and instruction. As for my forming an attachment, well, that seemed impossible. We just wanted Max back, alive and well and beside me.

            As the days passed and the demands of living drew our attention back to the present, we got on with it. Harry looked into my eyes as if saying, “Love me. I need you.” I let go of what I could no longer have and drew Harry close. 

            For his part, Harry had simply been waiting. That’s what dogs do, even puppies. He observed us and waited for us to realize he was there and more than ready to be our private emotional support dog.  As each hour passed, he found new ways to seduce me into not just taking good care of him, but loving him. Dogs can be great healers when they get the chance.

            And so everyday Harry proved himself capable of drawing me out of my self-imposed prison of grief and into the world of sunshine, ball tossing, walks, and lots of hugging and patting. Although I had brought Harry into our home to become a trained support dog to others, he hadn’t needed training to heal our wounded hearts.

            As if knowing I needed more attention than Paul, he followed me everywhere around the house, learned the rules of good housekeeping almost overnight, and was not overly demanding most of the time. But he was present and watching and ready.

            I would take him to the nursing home and place him in the laps of residents whose wilted spirits would brighten, if only for a moment. My mother in her diminished capability to enjoy life perked up when Harry laid beside her. He was a lover not a fighter for sure.

            Ma passed and Harry was once again pressed into the role of grief counselor. But as sure as I had been that he and I would continue to work towards providing joy to others, I couldn’t bring myself to continue visiting nursing homes. First Dad then Ma. It was too hard to consider and so I abandoned the idea of training Harry for the benefit of other people. Selfishly, he would be all mine.

            Harry is a joy and has completely filled our need to have a pet in our lives. I do share Harry with Paul and Harry knows the deal. He knows who is going to take him out at 8:00 pm or 3:00 am, and who is going to feed him breakfast. He knows who is truly in charge and who he can trick into passing down those cookies. 

            For the past six years, Harry has proven he belongs with us: we are a pack. So when he recently blew out his ACL chasing a ball in the backyard, we went to work reorganizing our lives to accommodate our Harry. 

            As I write, he is tucked beside my hip resting, occasionally looking up as if to say, “When will this be over?” The vet said it may heal, but that the knee will always be a weak spot now, “No more chasing a ball … he’s now a senior citizen in spite of his age.” It was like a hammer came down on us. 

            Paul and I are committed to do all we can to give Harry a long and comfortable life. You may see us soon in Mattapoisett village pushing a dog stroller with our Harry riding inside. He’s got 12 weeks of recovery, then a lifetime of low-key living nestled in our love. We’ve become his emotional support system in his time of need. Paul and I have overcome our ego driven sense of feeling ridiculous pushing a stroller holding a dog. We’ll get through this; Harry knows how to wait. 

This Mattapoisett Life

By Marilou Newell

Selectmen Set Special Town Meeting

The Rochester Board of Selectmen has set the date for the fall Special Town Meeting, settling on Monday, November 18.

            The deadline for warrant article submissions will be September 6.

            The board was originally looking at October 28 as a date, but the town clerk was unavailable for that date.

            The November 18 Special Town Meeting will be at 6:30 pm inside the Rochester Memorial School cafetorium.

            In other matters, during the short meeting on August 12, Town Administrator Suzanne Szyndlar reported that the town had received a significant check from Zero Waste, the parent company of the town’s curbside “pink bag” soft recycling program.

            For May, June, and July, Rochester residents recycled 2,085 tons of soft recyclable materials and small appliances, and at $1 a ton, that means a check for $2,085.

            In other business, Szyndlar made it a point to mention the cautionary signs that have been posted at Snipatuit Pond and now, more recently, at Mary’s Pond, warning people not to eat fish from the pond.

            According to Szyndlar, fish from the two ponds have tested positive for mercury levels that exceed the level deemed safe for consumption.

            The next meeting of the Rochester Board of Selectmen is scheduled for August 19 at 6:00 pm at the Rochester Town Hall.

Rochester Board of Selectmen

By Jean Perry

What’s Happening at the Elizabeth Taber Library

Thursday, September 12at 6:00 pm – Author Visit with Elizabeth Bear – The Elizabeth Taber Library presents Hugo Award winning author and futurist, Elizabeth Bear at the Marion Arts Center. Bear will talk about her recent work, writing process, and will answer your questions. Copies of her latest books will be available for purchase and checkout at the library prior to this event. Please sign up at the library.

            Tuesday, September 10from 11:00 am – 12:00 pm and Tuesday, September 17at 6:00 pm – The Come as you Are Book Club – Try our new low-stress book club! No required reading assignments! Come for refreshments and conversation about whatever you’re reading, no matter what you’re reading. Get author and title recommendations from fellow readers and 

share your honest opinions about the titles of your choice.

Rochester Cub Scout Car Wash

Show your car the extra love and attention it deserves after all your summer travels by visiting the Mattapoisett Fire Station, 26 County Rd, from 10:00 am to 2:00pm on Saturday, August 24. Cub Scouts from Rochester Pack 30 will be there, ready with suds, sponges, and hoses on hand to erase the pollen, dust, and beach sand from your car. Joined with their leaders, the cub scouts will show care as they clean your car while sharing their latest adventures.

            As an active pack, these cubs go on family camping trips, host fishing derbies, visit local historical sites, hike the local trails, attend scout camp, perform acts of community service, grow together through team building adventures, host the Regional Pinewood Derby, and practice the scout law daily. To offset the costs of their trips, campouts, hikes, and other activities, they hold fundraisers throughout the year.

            Their biggest fundraiser for the upcoming year will be the car wash on August 24 where they’re suggesting a $5.00 donation for each car to be washed. Please come to the fire station and meet the cub scouts to find out more about why they love scouting and leave with a clean car, ready for the new school year.  

            For more details, please visit www.facebook.com/events/741067492990849/