Mattapoisett Free Public Library

On Saturday, November 16 at 10:30 am, author Wendy O’Neal will be presenting a mindfulness program for children and parents. Children will be invited to participate in mindfulness activities followed by a small snack. Parents are welcome to find out more and ask questions at the end. Copies of Wendy O’Neal’s book, Breathing Makes it Better will be available.  Registration is required.

            On Fridays in November at 3:15 pm, the library will host a fall crafts workshop series for children. This series includes a CD Disc Suncatcher on December 15 for all ages and a Simple Fall Wreath for ages 8 and up on December 22. Registration is required.

            Finally, on Thursday, November 21 at 3:15 pm, the library’s monthly STEAM session will be about teepees and wigwams. Celebrate the Native American culture and make your own dwelling. This event includes a snack and is recommended for ages 5 and up. Registration is required.

            The library also has “Read to Breton”, the library dog on every other Tuesday afternoon at 3:30 pm; Chess Lessons with Coach Jim on Wednesday nights from 5:00 to 7:00 pm and Sunday afternoons, 1:00 to 3:00 pm and our monthly Kids Yoga Class on Wednesday, November 13 at 1:30 pm. All of these programs require registration, so please contact the library to sign up. 

            Don’t forget to visit the library on Tuesday or Friday mornings at 10:30 am for our ongoing storytimes. 

            Look for our special programs in December with a Winter Holiday Sing-a-long, Celebration of the Nutcracker with Kay Alden, Edible Lighthouse Holiday Decorating, a visit with the “snow sisters”, Elsa and Anna and our monthly STEAM session which will focus on making your own toys.

            All programs are free and open to the public. If special accommodations are needed, please contact the library at 508-758-4171 for assistance. For more information on up-coming children’s programs, please visit: www.mattapoisettlibrary.org/childrens.

Rochester Women’s Club Holiday News

The ladies of the Rochester Women’s Club (RWC) are once again baking pies for Thanksgiving. The RWC has many new members who are very excited to bake this year. After a year off from pie-baking, we are back at it. Apple, squash and pumpkin pies will be available.  

The pies are $15 each and all funds raised from this event will help support the RWC scholarship fund. The Rochester Women’s Cub gives out three $1,000 scholarships to graduating high school seniors that live in Rochester. 

            The pies must be ordered by November 22. Pie pick up is at the clubhouse, located at 37 Marion Road in Rochester on November 27 from 4:30 to 5:30. To order your delicious homemade pie, call Marsha at 508 322 0998.

Not to Entangle a Right Whale

            The right whale is so named because it is the right one to hunt as it often swims close to shore and is quite docile, not afraid of approaching boats, and floats when killed. As such, right whales have been hunted nearly to extinction and are classified as endangered by the entanglement of fishing nets and lobster traps, as illustrated.

            The right whale is the second largest whale in the world, next to the blue whale in size, and both are on display at the New Bedford Whaling Museum. Right whales were first sighted along the New England coast by Pilgrims on the Mayflower, even before they landed at Plymouth in 1620. In the years to follow, the first settlers along the Long Island coastline reported Indians hunting right whales with harpoons made of whalebone and tied with a rope made of strips of tree bark.

            Native American Montauk and Shinnecock tribes both shared in the rise of so-called offshore whaling. The coastline industry peaked there in the year 1726 when 86 right whales were harvested in the sound and shipped to Boston.

            In Puritan religion, whaling on the Sabbath was not permitted and those sighted on Sunday could not be harvested.

            Right whales were often found beached after a storm, and one-third of the monetary take from such a find went to the person who found it; one-third went to the town, and one-third went to the church.

            When the Dutch took over New York from the English, the government decreed that the growing whaling income should be taxed and paid to the Chamber of Commerce. However, the whaler’s local representative, Samuel Mulford, strongly objected, and he went to London in both 1704 and 1706 to plead that King James give perpetual rights to fish coastal waters without interference.

            My wife, Jan, is descended from Mulford on her mother’s side of the family. Although he appeared before the House of Lords dressed as a humble plainspoken commoner, he won his case. The offshore industry continued to be lucrative for residents. However, in 1712, Captain Christopher Hussey, a whaler out of New Bedford, was blown far out to sea and discovered a pod of sperm whales, which would revolutionize and relocate the industry to the island of Nantucket.

            It also turns out that the first lighthouse keeper there was Richard Pinkham, my wife Jan’s paternal great, great, grandfather. Consequently, his name is mentioned amongst Nantucket’s history and heritage with other family names such as Coffin, Macy, Starbuck, and Folger.

            Richard Pinkham was also the first to chart Nantucket waters and mark the channels through shoals and sandbars that would allow ships to enter with barrels of spermaceti from the sperm whale, which was worth its weight in silver, and which would eventually light up the world as candlewax.

            Today only about 400 right whales are left in the world, and every year the number of right whales decreases from entanglements with fishing nets and lines from lobster traps. Right whales are dying faster than they can reproduce. A bipartisan bill just passed in Congress on October 18 entitled “Save Right Whales Act” that would provide funding for conservation and research, and a firm called Ashored Innovations in Nova Scotia has also devised a rope-less lobster trap. Both are steps in the right direction for the hope of the right whale, and hopefully will save it from extinction.

By George B. Emmons

Rochester Council on Aging

The full monthly newsletter and calendar are available on the Rochester COA website: www.rochestermaseniorcenter.com. Events and photographs are also posted on the Rochester COA Facebook page: www.facebook.com/Rochestercoa.  

            The Rochester Senior Center has several special luncheon’s coming up. A donation of $5 per luncheon is suggested. Please call the Senior Center at 508-763-8723, or stop in to make a reservation. Rides to and from events at the COA can be scheduled up to 24 hours in advance.  

            Monday, November 18 at 12:00 pm, Hanna Milhench and her talented team will prepare a delicious homemade lunch.  

            Monday, November 25 at 12:00 pm, the breakfast chef, Ken Vieira, and Outreach Worker, Lorraine Thompson, are cooking up a traditional “boiled dinner”.

            Chair Yoga follows Monday luncheons at 1:15 pm. Bring a friend and make an afternoon of it.

            Flu shots are available during the nursing hours/Blood Pressure Clinic while supplies last on Wednesdays from 10:00 am to 12:30 pm.  

            The Rochester Senior Center is closing at 2:00 pm on Wednesday, November 27. The Center will re-open on Monday, December 2. Happy Thanksgiving from the Rochester Senior Center and the Council on Aging Board.

            The Rochester Senior Center and seniors would like to offer a heartfelt thank you to the students and teachers at Old Colony Regional Vocational Technical High School and the Rochester Fire Department for your time and efforts supporting the Thanksgiving Dinner for Rochester Seniors. You are among our many blessings.  

Rochester Historical Society Potluck Supper

Join the Rochester Historical Society at their annual Potluck Supper at the Museum located at 355 County Road, Rochester. The potluck supper will be held on Wednesday, November 20 at 6:00 pm and it takes the place of the regular RHS speakers meeting; there is no cost to attend. If you can make it, please contact Connie Eshbach at 508-763-4932 and let her know what you will be bringing. Should you decide at the last minute to come, please do so; just bring a dish to share. It’s the perfect time to meet some new people and perhaps you’ll decide to attend RHS’s monthly Board of Directors meetings. We’d love to have some new people with new ideas. Go through your house and bring an item for our Yankee Swap. 

Sippican Historical Society

In 1998, the Sippican Historical Society commissioned an architectural survey of Marion’s historic homes and buildings. The survey was funded half by the Sippican Historical Society and half by the Massachusetts Historical Commission. Due to the limits of funding, not all of the historic buildings were surveyed, but over 100 were cataloged and photographed. The results of the survey are in digital form on the Massachusetts Historical Commission’s website and in four binders in the Sippican Historical Society’s office (and at the Marion Town Clerk’s office).

            Marion (Old Rochester) is one of the oldest towns in the United States, and the Sippican Historical Society maintains an extensive collection of documentation on its historic buildings. The Sippican Historical Society will preview one building a week so that the residents of Marion can understand more about its unique historical architecture.

            This installment features 43 Main Street. The residence at 43 Main Street, on the corner of School Street, was built in 1830 and was originally a primary schoolhouse for village children and the third public school in the town center. In 1855, a group of townspeople (including 21 captains) met in this schoolhouse to form the Library Association for Sippican Village. Each subscriber contributed $5 per year, and Mrs. Elizabeth Taber sent a donation of $200.

Nancy Stafford Boston

Nancy Stafford Boston, age 89, of East Falmouth, MA, passed peacefully in her home on Nov. 4, 2019 in the company of loving family. She was the daughter of Birtwell Stafford & Eleanor Davis (Lowe) Priest & stepdaughter of Hart Jarvis & Margery Worth Beach.

            Nancy was born in Fall River, MA. She grew up in Glastonbury, CT. She attended House in the Pines Boarding School in Norton, MA, a member of the Class of 1947. As much of her youth prior had been spent learning the art of horsemanship, there, she excelled as part of the Equestrian Team & won many awards in that field. She was also a member of the Ski Team at House in the Pines. She later attended Hillyer College at the University of Hartford.

            Nancy was the founder & operator of Twickenton Kennel. She was breeder & professional handler of her Champion line, Twickenton West Highland White Terriers for over 50 years. In 1965 she opened Twickenton Dog Grooming Shop in Dedham MA, which is still in operation today. Later she opened & operated another grooming shop, Nancy B’s Dog House, in Falmouth, MA. Nancy was a past Vice President of the West Highland White Terrier Club of New England.

            For over 30 years, Nancy was an active volunteer in & around the town of Falmouth. She volunteered in the Falmouth Chamber of Commerce. She worked tirelessly with & for the Falmouth Service Center, in the Food Pantry, as well as their Emerald House Thrift Shop. She participated in & helped to coordinate many events in support of the Service Ctr. She was a supporter & advocate for West Highland Rescue efforts nationally & locally, as well as an advocate for dog rescue & shelter animals everywhere. She was an avid birdwatcher who catered endlessly to flocks of her backyard birds. A lover of all animals, she also supported & advocated for Wildlife Preservation both nationally & internationally. Her love of horses continued when in later years she constructed a stable in Dover, MA where she owned, trained & boarded horses. There, she & her children rode & competed in clubs & shows & enjoyed endless trail riding.

            Nancy as well enjoyed world travel whenever she had the chance. Her travels brought her east to west in the US & from Alaska to Africa, to Europe. She was an avid fan of the Boston Red Sox, the NE Patriots & the Boston Bruins, rarely missing a game.

            Nancy enjoyed nothing more than spending time with her loving family & friends. She was blessed with many, who were so dear & so caring for her.

            Nancy is a descendant of Ann Marbury Hutchinson whose statue stands in front of the State House in Boston.

            Nancy is survived by her children, Stephen M. Boston & wife Susan of Medfield, MA & her daughter Gayle Boston Santello & husband Peter of Marion, MA., her sister Linda Harrop & husband Donald, of Westport, MA, her grandchildren Brianna Nancy H. Viera & husband Kenneth of Rochester, MA, Chad Boston Santello & wife Amber of Fayetteville, NC, Patricia Boston Poulson & husband Ben of Hudson, MA & Blake Boston of Marlborough, MA. & 2 great grandchildren Patrick & Gabriel Boston. She was predeceased by her brother, Pvt 1st Class USMC John E. Stafford 3rd & wife Barbara, & her sister Susan Stafford Perkins.

            A Memorial Service to which friends & relatives are welcome will be held Nov. 23 at 1:00 pm at Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home, 584 Rte 28A, West Falmouth, MA. A private burial service will be held at Evergreen Cemetery in Marion, MA at a later date.

            In lieu of flowers, donations in her name can be made to America’s VetDogs – The Veteran’s K-9 Corps, 371 East Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown, NY 11787.

Tri-Town Teen Nicotine Withdrawal Prompts Concern

            Marion Public Health Nurse Kathleen Downey says adults in the Tri-Town have begun to contact her concerned about Tri-Town teens presenting with signs of nicotine addiction.

            Downey initially introduced this topic to the Board of Health last week when she said, “I’ve had multiple conversations with parents at flu clinics and at my office concerned about kids in the school who they believe have exhibited addiction behaviors.”

            What these parents are seeing, Downey said, is a surge in cigarette use among Tri-Town teens and their friends – a consequence of the state’s September 24 ban on all e-cigarette and vaping products which cut off the steady supply of electronic nicotine products that were once relatively accessible to them.

            “They feel that the kids are substituting cigarettes for e-cigarettes,” said Downey, and she suggested that public health officials and school administrators should take action to help young people overcome a likely nicotine addiction.

            “Addiction needs to be treated, whether it’s cigarettes or opioids or alcohol,” said Downey, “and kids should be sent to their medical provider.”

            Downey said last week that she wasn’t making any demands of the board, but said, “Just know that we recognize that there may be some addiction issues among youth, and the strategies that the state had put in place for adults are not easily transferable to youths.”

            During a follow-up with The Wanderer this Tuesday, November 12, Downey said the preoccupation persists. She is pleased that, after reaching out to Superintendent of Schools Doug White, White had responded by assuring Downey that he would be contacting the school doctor on the matter.

            Downey’s main concern is that if kids are being affected by an abrupt discontinued use of e-cigarette and vaping products and exhibiting signs of nicotine addiction, the mitigating measures offered to adults over the age of 18 – nicotine patches, lozenges, and gum the state has ordered pharmacies to readily provide without a prescription – are less available to younger people. Kids would have to approach their parents for help in combatting nicotine withdrawal and visit their primary care physicians, something Downey recommends parents do so that kids can get the help they need.

            “Vaping has been going on quite a while, and the adolescent population of Tri-Town – many kids have at least tried [vaping] and many kids are regular users,” said Downey. “And to all of a sudden remove the substance – wondering if kids were addicted was becoming problematic, and kids were coming home and talking about their friends as being addicted.”

            The 2015 piloting of a risk survey completed by students at Old Rochester Regional Junior and Senior High Schools showed that just four years ago, 24 percent of ORR High students were vaping, and 7 percent in the junior high. A 2017 statewide youth survey showed 41 percent of high school students had at least tried vaping, along with 9.9 percent of junior high students.

            “The adults in the room should recognize – without judgment – that they’re dealing with addiction and get them to a primary care provider to help them with their addiction,” said Downey. Otherwise, she said she fears more kids will turn to cigarettes.

            “One mom told me she was concerned about her son, questioning whether or not he could be going through withdrawal,” said Downey. “She thought he was.”

            Two other parents who recently spoke with Downey are “concerned that nobody was paying attention to it,” she said.

            “Unfortunately, they (kids) can’t just walk away,” said Downey. Safe substitute nicotine products need to be made available, she added.

            Downey said anyone anywhere in the community with a concern about youth nicotine addiction may contact her by calling her office at 508-748-3507.

            Adults can encourage teens and adolescents to seek help with nicotine withdrawal on their own terms by utilizing a number of different services provided by the state. Young people can text “VapeFreeMass” to 88709 to get started, or call or text “Start My Quit” to 855-891-9989 for free confidential help. The same help is provided by signing up at www.mylifemyquit.com.

            Parents and adults can also text “QUIT” to 202-899-7550 to receive text messages specifically designed to help parents help their kids quit nicotine.

By Jean Perry

New American Legion Commander Leads Vets Day

            Mattapoisett’s Florence Eastman Post 280 of the American Legion has a new Commander.

            After many years of service as the local chapter’s guiding force, Michael Lamoureaux retired from those duties in October when Rachel Perron, Commander in the U.S. Navy Reserves, was elected.

            “Frankly, I’m terrified,” Perron said with a chuckle as she began the Veterans Day celebrations at Old Hammondtown School. But Perron is accustomed to taking on challenges and executing difficult duties.

            Perron has seen active duty, having been deployed to Afghanistan, and currently is a higher education instructor at the Northeast Maritime Institute in Fairhaven. 

            Perron asked the audience to seek out veterans, to ask them to tell their stories.

“Talk to these selfless Americans,” said Perron. “They have stories to tell.” She then invited Chaplain Richard Langhoff to lead the group in prayer. 

            Quoting from a poem written by John Maxwell Edmonds in 1944 and displayed at the military cemetery situated on the eastern frontier of the Himalayas in Kohima, India, Langhoff read “…We gave all our tomorrows that you might have today.” He said veterans represented the highest ideals of freedom, justice, and peace.

            Next came a tradition that many look forward to each year, the reciting of the Gettysburg Address by veteran George Randall. Continuing the tradition handed down through his family, Randall’s voice was clear as he spoke Lincoln’s words, “…That these dead shall not have died in vain – that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom – and that government of the people, by the people, and for the people, shall not perish from the earth.” He received a standing ovation.

            Local veterans’ agent and Post member Barry Denham said he hoped that one day the observation of Veterans Day would cease, but that would only happen if war would cease. He commended Perron on her election as Post Commander and also spoke to the beauty of the Star Spangled Banner, which had just been sung by The Showstoppers, whose voices rose throughout the ceremony singing several pieces. 

            Also adding elegance and meaning with patriotic music were performances by the Old Hammondtown School chorus led by Willow Dowling, and the school’s band under the direction of Christian Dow.

            At the commencement of his time at the podium, guest speaker Naval Captain Steven Gardiner shared that he was struggling a bit with his speech.

            “I don’t like talking about myself… [or] being in the limelight,” he confided. Gardiner, whose many achievements include senior staff positions in Iraq, Afghanistan, and Guantanamo Bay, has studied at both the U.S. Naval and Army War Colleges and has received the Meritorious Service Medal. He retired in 2018 after 31 years of service. Today, Gardiner serves as a member of the Massachusetts Marine Academy’s onboard operations program.

            “In thinking about a thirty-year career,” Gardiner said, and paused. “Well, it’s not about me: it’s about all the people who served with me.”

            He spoke to the courage so many demonstrated, like one rescue swimmer Gardiner said spent nine hours searching for a helicopter pilot.

            “As I reflected upon those faces from three decades worth of various crews… I came to realize that these people are the ones worthy to focus on here today – not me – because I served with great and memorable people,” said Gardiner.

            As a Naval Aviator and Vietnam veteran, Gardiner said he learned to “take care of my people” and a senior officer once taught him “how to constructively use mistakes as a positive teaching moment.”

            Gardiner also remembered the pain and sorrow of watching a wounded Kurdish security staff member perish from a chest wound, and the families of service personnel whose sacrifices should not be overlooked.

            “The common thread in all was that we raised our hands, sworn an oath, put on a uniform and stepped off… to serve something greater than ourselves,” said Gardiner. In a follow-up, he added words spoken by one of his current colleagues: “So, even though we sailed in harm’s way, I don’t need thanks because the world’s greatest Navy gave me more than I gave it.”

Adding to the solemnity of the event were Mattapoisett Police Officers Felix Perez and Jeremy Young who formed the color guard, balanced by the youthful exuberance of the Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts.

            Denham commented that the 2019 observances were enjoyed by a “record number of people,” and the crowd demonstrated their pleasure with rousing ending applause.

By Marilou Newell

Bulldogs One Football Game Away From Gillette

            Two seasons ago, Old Rochester Regional football came up short in the MIAA South Division 6 finals, losing 30-21 to Middleboro. In 2018, the Bulldogs made it back to the title game, knocked off Ashland 28-6 and, after a bye week, had a shot at the ultimate title: MIAA Division 6 Super Bowl champions.

            For the third year in a row, ORR is playing in the MIAA South Division 6 finals. The Bulldogs defeated No. 8 Norwell 22-15 in the South Sectional semi-finals to get there.

            As he has throughout much of the season, Jackson Cote paced the ORR offense on the ground. The running back scored the final Bulldogs touchdown – the game-winner – and finished with 117 yards on 25 rushes (4.68 yards per carry).

            Ryon Thomas continues to take advantage of his limited throwing opportunities. In the win over Norwell, he completed four of his six attempts to finish with 115 yards. Three of his completions went to Tommy Durocher, one of those being a 44-yard touchdown.

            Cam Brezinski also scored once for the Bulldogs, and Dylan DeWolfe forced a safety on defense.

            ORR will now face the same team they beat last season in the South Sectional finals: No. 3 Ashland.

            Ashland is only remaining team from the group that entered the tournament undefeated, with No. 1 Cardinal Spellman and No. 2 Rockland being the others. Cardinal Spellman was upset by Norwell in the opening round and Rockland lost 33-16 to Ashland.

            The game will be at Ashland High School on Friday at 7:00 pm.

            Over to Cross Country, Alex Craig finished second overall for ORR at the Div. 4 Eastern Cross Country Championship and has earned a place in the Div. 2 All-State Championship on Saturday. He ran the race in 16:13.53, trailing the leader by 16 seconds.

            ORR girls soccer came close at a perfect season, but finished just shy of the mark. After winning all 20 of their regular season games, the Bulldogs won their first-round matchup against No. 17 Hopkinton 3-1. But No. 1 Old Rochester’s run would come to an in the MIAA Div. 2 South Sectional quarter finals. No. 8 Medway worked its way to a 2-1 win. Medway also won in the semi-finals and is set to face No. 2 Holliston in the finals.

            Meg Hughes scored ORR’s lone goal in the loss to Medway. It came in the first two minutes of the game.

            Maddie Wright scored twice in ORR’s win over Hopkinton and assisted Jenn Williams’ goal.

Old Colony

            Old Colony football’s playoff push ended sooner than the Cougars would’ve liked. After earning a 22-21 win against a familiar foe in No. 7 Upper Cape in the opening round of the Div. 8 South Sectional tournament, the second-ranked Cougars had to get through the one team that beat them in the regular season: No. 3 South Shore.

            In their prior matchup, South Shore scored 14 points. They did so again in the South Sectional semi-finals, and, once again, the Cougars could not get past the Vikings, losing 14-8.

            Blake Dennison scored Old Colony’s lone touchdown on a 22-yard rush. He had 62 yards on 15 carries.

High School Sports Update

By Nick Friar