Barbara Whitehead Silva

Barbara Whitehead Silva, 93, of Mattapoisett, Massachusetts died peacefully at home on Monday, December 2, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Charles “Carlie” Whitehead and Blanche Whitehead of Dartmouth, MA, and mother of Lisa A. Grace, and grandmother of Matthew R. Grace.

Barbara was a graduate of Dartmouth High School. She was a devout Catholic and long-time parishioner of St. Anthony’s Church in Mattapoisett. She donated regularly to the Mattapoisett police and emergency services departments, as well as to United States Veterans. Barbara held her extended family and friends close to her heart. Referred to as Baba by her loved ones, she raised and impacted many generations amongst her family, friends, colleagues, and community.

Barbara was the former President/CEO of First Citizens’ Federal Credit Union, starting in the early 1950’s as Treasurer, she served the bank for 45 years. Barbara led their growth from a state-chartered credit union to a federally-chartered credit union in the 1980’s, as well as their expansion from their Bristol county headquarters in New Bedford to several branches and counties throughout Massachusetts.

Barbara was a committed member of the communities in the South Coast of Massachusetts, particularly New Bedford, and was a business leader at a time when women were in the extreme minority. Barbara served many area organizations, including as former Trustee of St. Luke’s Hospital; Board Member of the Massachusetts Small Business Loan Review Board, the United Way, and New Bedford Junior Achievement; Board Member and Chairperson of the New Bedford Area Chamber of Commerce, Director of the Credit Union National Association (CUNA) of Massachusetts, and Executive Committee Member of the Economic Development Corporation of Greater New Bedford. She was the first woman inducted into the New Bedford Area Business Hall of Fame in 1985 and received the Citation Award from the American Business Women’s Association in 1987.

A private Funeral Mass will be held for her family. A celebration of Barbara’s life will be held at the Country Club of New Bedford (where she was a member for over 30 years) on Saturday, December 14, from 11am to 2pm. The celebration is open to all who knew and loved Barbara.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations are made in Barbara’s name to St. Anthony’s Church of Mattapoisett, MA. (https://anthonyandrita.com). Arrangements are by the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Mattapoisett. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Notice of Intents Pushed Back

            Rochester’s Conservation Commission Tuesday re-opened its month-long review of four separate Notices of Intent to build single-family dwellings on two-acre lots at 0 High Street but ultimately continued all four hearings until its next meeting.

            Since early November, the project has drawn the attention of abutters who have raised concerns about its possible effect on flooding and natural resources in their neighborhood. Tuesday, the board continued to next meeting its review of three of the project’s lots because the Natural Heritage Foundation has yet to decide if its construction will affect endangered species. The board tabled a decision on a fourth lot to give an abutter’s engineer time to review how the construction will affect his client’s flooding problem.

            Project representative Chris Wallace reported that Natural Heritage’s latest correspondence says the construction on those lots will not affect habitat, but the organization needs to continue its review as to whether the project as a whole will affect habitat. Conservation Commission member Michael Gifford said he would be more comfortable waiting for the foundation’s full answer before approving any Order of Conditions endorsing that work can start. The commissioners unanimously agreed.

            When discussion turned to the fourth lot, its closest abutter, Jeremy Saccone, who previously said his property near County Road frequently floods because of the bog and will flood even more when a house lot is built near him, said his engineer has not had time to review the new mitigation measures Wallace has proposed, because that response was only issued a day before the meeting. Saccone wanted a two-week continuance to allow that review time. “This is new,” Saccone said. “The new road is now on top of the bog road. The water will come directly back to me.”

            The board ultimately granted the two-week continuance to allow time for Saccone’s engineer to respond even as it noted mitigating a flooding problem on upland is a little beyond its jurisdiction of protecting wetlands. “We have limited jurisdiction,” member Ben Bailey said. “This is on the razor’s edge of not our jurisdiction.” Board Chair Christopher Gerrior motioned the continuance after Wallace noted he will have to return in two weeks for the other three lots anyway.

            The commission began its meeting by approving a Request for Determination of applicability to the wetland’s protection bylaws for a plan to construct a 16×24-foot shed partially within the 100-foot wetlands buffer zone at 324 High St. Homeowner Stephen Cobb told the commission he had taken this plan to the Zoning Board of Appeals. That board objected to the shed being placed in the front of the yard, which is against town regulation, leading to his decision to move the building closer to his side setback and possibly wetlands. The commission unanimously granted the project a Negative Determination, i.e. that the plan will not affect a wetland area, after Conservation Agent Merilee Kelly reported the new location is a lawn area, 85 feet from wetlands.

            Next, the commission approved a request for a Certificate of Compliance of the Order of Conditions for a plan to build a new single-family home with driveway, septic system and associated grading at 127 Neck Road, after Kelly noted this construction had been successfully completed “a couple of years ago.”

            The board then granted a request for a three-year extension of the Order of Conditions filed by the MBTA for its property at 45 Kings Highway. Kelly reported that much of the construction project has finished. Project representative Jonathan Niro of BETA Group, Worcester, said the extension is being requested so project managers may continue monitoring the work and complete the parking lot.

            The next Conservation Commission meeting will be December 17 at 7:00 pm, at town hall, 1 Constitution Way.

Rochester Conservation Commission

by Michael J. DeCicco

The Memory that Keeps On Giving

Christmas. It doesn’t feel possible that it’s December and soon Christmas will be here. As a child, Christmas took so long to arrive. The anticipation would begin when the Christmas Edition of the Sears and Roebuck catalogs arrived. Ma had first dibs on thumbing through the pages. We knew she wasn’t looking through the toy section. We did receive toys but just one or two. What we did receive was new underwear and socks, PJs, and shoes or boots – stuff we needed but didn’t really appreciate at the time. Today, practical gifts are desired. Not that I want anyone to buy me underwear (they would probably think I wear granny panties. I’m not telling). But nice comfy fleece PJs from LL Bean might be nice. Hint, hint.

            Although we had lots of cousins, an aunt or two, and a couple of uncles, we were pretty isolated as a family. The grown-ups didn’t visit each other, taking their tribe of children along to spread holiday cheer. Ma’s older sister lived within walking distance of less than a mile, yet she sent one of her older children to our house with gifts and left with the ones designated for their family. “Bye! Thanks for stopping by.”  The cousins were friendly enough, but I wouldn’t say “jolly.” None of us, after a certain age, were jolly. Call it generational moodiness.

            Anyways, we could open one gift, a small one, on Christmas Eve. We were grateful for everything we received so if the gift we selected for this opening tradition was just a coloring book and new box of crayons or the aforementioned underwear, we were pleased. The main event the next day would make up for it.

            When my mind wanders through memories, sepia toned like old photographs, most just blend into a warm montage of homemade eggnog, not the mutinous mess in the local dairy case, bread pudding with raisins, sparkling metallic tinsel, and the smell of a real Christmas tree. Nothing smells better than pine-scented winter air trapped in the house for a few precious weeks. I remember that smell all these decades later.

            Yet there was that one Christmas when I was in the first grade that stands out over all the others. It was a Christmas of plenty. Apparently, my father’s little TV repair business had done well, because as she was one to do, Ma had with great care squirreled away crisp dollar bills to be used exclusively for Christmas gifts; and what a Christmas it was.

            I’ve always been a light sleeper and with the excitement of Christmas at hand, sleeping that night, that specific Christmas Eve, was impossible. I can see myself slowly, and with maximum stealth, descending down the stairs and into the dining room where the tree was set up. If I had a plan beyond poking around the tags on the wrapped gifts, it wasn’t much of a plan. I was only five after all. But as my vision cleared in the darkened house what came into view was spectacular – a toy kitchen!

            I had studied the catalog pages featuring toy refrigerators, sinks, cabinets, stoves, and washing machines. I was a domestic goddess even then! Ma must have taken notice. I could barely contain myself from making some loud yipping sounds. I carefully moved my head from side to side so I could more fully take it all in. Miniature pots and pans, tiny utensils, a serving set, and a dinner set. I knew then and there Santa was a myth. I’d thank my parents directly for this surprise.

            I don’t know how long I simply drooled over that tiny kitchen wishing the sun would come up like magic and chase night away. I had work to do, meals to prepare and dishes to wash.

            I did eventually go back up those stairs, back to bed, and back to sleep. But my dreams were not of sugar plums, they were of lining up my dolls and feeding them breakfast.

            If I could talk to Ma, I would tell her this story and say “thank you” again. Thank you, Ma and Dad, for the sacrifices you made. For never letting a holiday slide by without a celebration no matter how humble it was. Thank you for seven decades of feeling like a surprised and delighted little child finding what she wanted for Christmas at the bottom of the stairs every time I recall this memory. Merry Christmas to all and best wishes on creating happy holiday memories for your families to unwrap in coming years.

This Mattapoisett Life

By Marilou Newell

Warm Weather Donations for Veterans

The Mattapoisett Free Public Library’s Teen Advisory Board (TAB) requests your help collecting new hats, gloves, and white socks through January 15.

         TAB understands that winter can be especially tough for veterans, so our members have partnered with The Veterans Transition House in New Bedford to help. Your donations of NEW hats, gloves, and white socks will help provide much-needed warmth and comfort to those who have served our country. You can drop off your contributions in the bins at the Mattapoisett Library, 7 Barstow Street, Mattapoisett, until January 15.

         If you have any questions, please contact Amanda Lawrence, the Adult Services Librarian, at ALawrence@sailsinc.org or call the library at (508) 758-4171. Thank you for showing support and compassion for our veterans. The Teen Advisory Board and The Veterans Transition House appreciate your kindness.

Holiday happenings

Marion Village Stroll

            The Marion Village Stroll will take place on Sunday, December 8 from 3 to 5:30 pm. Coordinated by Angela Rossi and sponsored by The Marion Business Community Association, local merchants offer hospitality and treats; Santa arrives via boat at the Old Landing at 3:00 pm; Clydesdale horses pull wagons of happy guests. Added to this are crafts, games, and musical performances, and the Tree lighting at 5:30 pm at the Bandstand. During the Stroll, The Sippican Woman’s Club’s clubhouse, aka “The Tavern”, 152 Front Street will be open to sit, visit and enjoy warm wassail.

            With window boxes decorated by the Marion Garden Group and small lighted evergreen trees done by the Marion Business Community Association, Front Street in Marion Village is a winter fairyland on a cold December night.

Rochester Tree Lighting Ceremony

            The Rochester Tree Lighting Ceremony and the Rochester Memorial All School Sing Along will take place on Monday, December 9 at 5:00 pm at the Rochester Town Hall.

Mattapoisett Holiday in the Park

            Mattapoisett’s Holiday in the Park will take place on Saturday, December 14 from 3pm to 5pm in Shipyard Park. There will be a special appearance by Santa and Mrs. Clause who will be joined by Rudolph, Frosty, and the Elves. There will also be special performances by the ORRJH Band and Showstoppers as well as the Annual Tree Lighting. Sample foods from local restaurants and family crafts and activities will be featured.

ORRHS First Term Honor Roll

The following students have achieved honors for the first term at Old Rochester Regional High School:

         Highest Honors: Penelope Angeley, Nathanael Bushnell, Delaney Chase, Phoebe Cowles, Alexander Dai, Rafael Duarte, David Fredette, Katherine Guevara, Elizabeth Houdelette, Genevieve Kelly, Ella Milhench, Caitlin O’Donnell, Owen Osterday, Jiya Patel, Isabella Perez-Dormitzer, Grace Rousseau, Scarlett Sylvia, Ezra Thompson, Olivia Thompson, Hannah Thorell, Sasha Volkema, Emily Wyman.

         Honors: Caroline Achilles, Elizabeth Achilles, Henry Achilles, Jayden Aguiar, Logan Amaral, Gianna Annunziato, Seraphina Arruda, Georgia Bailey, Chloe Bairos, Abigail Balsis, Alexis Barber, Cody Barrows, Ella Bartholomew, Claire Bates, Malcolm Bean, Henry Becker, Hayden Belanger, Henry Berry, Alessandro Bike-Diaz, Ella Bishop, Nolan Blanchette, Allison Bodeau, John Bongiorno, Cadel Bosma, Rose Bouley, Caleb Bousquet, Makayla Brissette, Laila Brown, Drew Butler, Aiden Cabral, Brianna Cabral, Ethan Cabral, Lucas Cabral, Bobby Calder, Keira Canto, Cassidy Carroll, Eric Charron, Braeden Christopher, Joie Ciffolillo, Grace Clark, Rosemary Clark, Gavin Coffey, Alden Cole-Vieira, Aiden Comorosky, Belle Comorosky, Gabriel Connors, Ashton Cook, Taylor Cook, Tucker Cook, Owen Cooney, Bryan Correia, Nathan Correia, Bridget Coryer, Cannon Cosindas, Emma Costa, Cadogan Crete, Makenzie Crowley, Olivia Crowley, Rylee Cusick, Grace Custadio, Jack Czerkowicz, Jackson Daniel, Dannylynn DaPonte, Eleanor Dargelis, Matthew DaRosa, Gianna DeLeo, Jake Dellas, Chase DeMelo, Averee Depina, Abigail Desorcy, Luke DeVoe, Karen Dondyk, Mara Donnelly, Sara Duane, Gisele Duchaine, Jeannine Duchaine, Abbigail Dupont, Eden Dupre, Benjamin Durocher, Aidan Eagle, Noah Eagle, Calder Eaton, Neal Eddleston, Sage Elia, Parker Erickson, Margaret Ewing, Elizabeth Feeney, John Ferreira, Riley Ferreira, Alexandra Fiano, Michaela Fiano, Zachary Fiano, Ava Figueiredo, Katelyn Fisher, William Fortier, Brendan Fuller, John Galavotti, Jack Gallagher, Giada Gandolfi, Brandon Gates, Jacob Gear, Madeleine Gendreau, Daniel Giandomenico, Maya Giandomenico, Joshua Gifford, Emerson Gonet, Caden Gonsalves, Clara Gouveia-Silva, Isabel Govoni, Zadie Goyette, Benjamin Graham, Chloe Guttenberger, Lucas Hadley, Sebastian Harrigan, Logan Hart-Bonville, Sadie Hartley-Matteson, Ian Hartwig, Madalyn Haverty, Grace Hebert, Patrick Henry, August Herbert, Meredith Higgins, Brody Hiles, Logan Hiles, Lily Hinds, Estella Holbrook, Isabella Hollis, Hunter Horsey, Lyla Hotte, Emma Iappini, Jacob Iappini, Amanda Ignacio, Taryn Jackson, Emma Johnson, Jacob Jones, Emile Joseph, Chase Karo, Lanie Kazen, Jazmin Kearns, Kierra Keegan, Hazel Kelly, Andrew Kennefick, Elizabeth Kilpatrick, Hadley King, Leighton King, Olivia Kinney, Hadley Kuppens, Tenley Lane, Jack Langlais, Austin Lassiter, Seamus Leary, Mackenzie LeBlanc, Cormac LeClair, Bree LeFavor, Aubrie Letourneau, Lucy Lombard, Caitlyn Lund, Jenna Lynch, Aiden MacLeod, Logan Maher, Marley Mailloux, Abigail Mansfield, Hannah Mansfield, Joshua Marcolini, Paige Marotta, Gavin Martin, Isabel Marujo, Neva Matos, Faelyn McCarthy, Tiera McCarthy, Katherine McIlmail, Benjamin Meighan, Carly Mello, Colin Mello, Levi Mello, Ethan Miguel, Elise Modracek, Maiwenn Moisy, Xavier Monteiro, Aiden Moore, Miah Motta, Zack Mourao, Grady Muldoon, Caillaigh Mullen, Desmond Murphy, Mario Musto, James Noblet, Asher O’Brien-Nichols, Grady Oliveira, Luke Pacheco, Morgan Paiva, Angela Palmer, Zoe Papadakis, Xavier Pateakos, Krishi Patel, Scarlet Patnaude, Reilly Patraiko, Jayden Pedro, Eamon Perez, Marley Perry, Nathan Perry, Quinn Perry, Benino Petrone, Varunyu Phimolmas, Luke Pierre, Nina Pierre, Gabriela Pinhancos, Alexander Pither, Audrey Pither, Zoe Plante, Zachary Ponte, Harrison Porter, Tyler Porto, Delilah Post, Jake Proffit, Jasmyn Pumphery, Jordan Pumphery, Logan Ranney, Dimitri Raposo, Brady Reardon, Alexis Rezendes, Sophia Rider, Zachary Riggs, Tessa Ripley, Noah Robert-Howley, Noah Robitaille, Orion Rocci, Matthew Rock, Noah Rogers, Erin Root, Lazaro Rosa, Ava Ross-Sinkler, Sienna Roveda, Addison Roy, Maxwell Roy, Tucker Roy, Lucille Runyon, Julian Sanchez, Kaya Savaria, Rebecca Schaefer, Austin Scully, Christina Shultz, Ian Shultz, Benjamin Silva, Ella Silva, Eve Skomal, Kaelie Smalley, Chelsey Soltau, Addyson Spencer, Devin St Germaine, Alexa St Louis, Claudia Surace, Heather Surace, Avery Tavares, Audrey Thomas, Blair Thomas, Katherine Thomsen, Noah Thorell, Alexandra Tobin, Matthew Tobin, Amanda Tomasso, Bella Tourinho, Landis Treichler, Amelia Trout, Richard Troy, Nathaniel Tse, Rachel Tse, Lucia Valadao, Olivia Valentim, Deryn Veloso, Claire Vergoni, Grace Victoria, Nicholas Victorino, Nolin Vieira, Avery White, Linden White, Liam Whittaker, Matthew Williams, Caitlin Wilson, Tanner Wright-Texeira, Molly Wronski, Katherine Young, Dayvie Zuckerman, Kennedy Zussy.

Children’s Christmas Concert

‘Twas the night before Christmas, and all through the land, town folks were gathering, to hear the Tri-County Symphonic Band.

         The Tri-County Symphonic Band, under the direction of Philip Sanborn, celebrates the festive holiday season with its Annual Children’s Christmas Concert, on Sunday, December 8, 1:30 pm at the Sippican School, 16 Spring Street in Marion, in the Multi-Purpose Room. The concert is a wonderful family experience designed for all ages and is free of admission charge.

         The Tri-County Symphonic Band will perform seasonal favorites including “Holiday Emblem,” “Ding Dong. Merrily on High,” “Wassail,” “Frosty the Snowman,” “March of the Toys,” and “How the Grinch Stole Christmas.”

         A special part of this year’s concert will feature the Sippican School Concert Choir, under the direction of Patricia Richard, performing “Where Are You Christmas?” and “Do You Hear What I Hear?” The Concert Choir will also perform “The Christmas Song” with the Tri-County Symphonic Band.

         The youngsters in the audience will enter a drawing with the winners playing the sleigh bells with the Tri-County Symphonic Band in Leroy Anderson’s “Sleigh Ride.”

         The concert will conclude with a “Christmas Sing-along” featuring the Sippican School Concert Choir, followed by a volunteer community band called the “Cottage Street Jam Band,” under the direction of Hannah Moore, leading a march from the Sippican School to Island Wharf to greet Santa as he arrives via “water sleigh.”

         As the band rounds the corner and jolly Santa’s is in sight, he wishes peace to all and to all a good night.

Commission Treasurer and State Senator Present Check to Rochester

            Plymouth County Commission Treasurer Tom O’Brien and State Senator Michael J. Rodrigues came to Rochester Monday to present its Board of Selectmen a $413,605 check for new Police Department digital radios and new Fire Department turnout gear.

            The oversize cardboard check the pair came to town hall with represented two actual checks Rochester has been granted from county ARPA (American Rescue Plan Act) monies, O’Brien explained. One is a $234,000 check for the radios. The other is $189,520 for the firefighter gear.

            O’Brien boasted Plymouth County was the first county to spend every penny of the ARPA funds it had been allocated and at a lower operational cost than the other Massachusetts communities. “The average cost to administer is 7-8 percent,” he said. “We administered using 1.4 percent because other counties partnered with us to administer the funds.”

            Next, the board approved the placement of a new Eversource Energy ‘stub’ utility pole on the south side of Hartley Road as proposed by Verizon New England INC and NSTAR Electric Company. This approval came after objections from Highway Surveyor who said he would rather see the pole on the island there. Selectman Brad Morse agreed. “My concern is visibility of the road to motorists,” he said. The Verizon representative said the company had already answered Eldridge’s request to place the pole further off the road, as far as was possible.’

            In other action, the board approved placing a proposal to create a Town Administrator bylaw with a set of regulations for the position on the January 27, 2025 Special Town Meeting warrant. This vote came after Town Administrator Cameron Durant reported that he and the town’s labor counsel Jane Friedman had worked together to create the proposal. Both selectmen who were present, Brad Morse and Adam Murphy, said they were satisfied with the results and moved to place the measure on the warrant.  The board appointed six members to the new Events Committee who will serve three-year terms. They are Sarah Paiva, Kami Mederios, Renee Duffy, Maureen Viera, Sharon Hartley and Michelle Hamilton. Durant noted there is one spot open on the seven-member board and anyone who would like to join should send town hall a letter of interest.

            The board also appointed its first member to the Opioid Task Force, Michael Kovadevich, who will serve a three-year term.

            The selectmen continued until its next meeting discussion of increasing building increases proposed by Building Commissioner Paul Boucher and approving a new Police Department towing policy. Both issues had to be delayed because there was no third member; Paul Ciaburri was unable to attend.

            Murphy said he struggles with increasing building fees only because the town’s number of building permits went down this past year. “The cost of permit should meet the cost to administer it,” he said. “I struggle to pass a cost like that to the consumer.” Morse said he had no problem with increasing fees to align with surrounding communities’ fee rates and acknowledged a third board member is needed to break the tie.

            Police chief Michael A. Assad, Jr. explained the new towing policy would add regulation of the towing companies the town uses. Driver must look and act the part, Assad said. The policy requires proper licensing and insurance and bars use of any controlled substance, cannabis or alcohol on the job.

            The next meeting of the Rochester Select Board is scheduled for Monday, December 16 at 6:00 pm at 1 Constitution Way.

Rochester Select Board

By Michael J. DeCicco

Rochester Historical Society’s December

Join us from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm at the Plumb Memorial Library on Saturday, December 14. We will be selling hats, sweatshirts, tees, books, maps, denim shirts, and Rochester themed tic tac toes.

         Christmas comes to the Rochester Historical Museum at 355 County Road at 2:00 pm on December 15 when Organist Bruce Gadzina is back to play our rare Vocalion organ. While our organ looks like a pipe organ, it is a smaller size that was a perfect fit for a home and the pipes are just window dressing. The music, however, equals or surpasses that of a pipe organ. Watching Bruce play as he manipulates the pedals, keys and stops, is a unique experience. After the concert, we will have refreshments downstairs.

         On December 18 at 6:30 pm, we’re having a Christmas party upstairs among the Museum exhibit with its toys from the ages and before we have cookies and cocoa to celebrate, Tom and Sheila Perry will be leading us in singing holiday songs.

         We’re asking attendees to donate an unwrapped gift for a teen or child.

Lightning-Fast Select Board Meeting

The Marion Select Board met in a lighting fast meeting on Tuesday, December 3. The meeting began with the approval of minutes from three meetings, October 7, October 16, and November 6. Minutes were approved by unanimous vote.

            The next agenda item was approving liquor licenses. The board unanimously approved all outstanding requests, though the Board of Health will also need to comply with said approval.

            For the Alcohol Beverage Control Commission, the board unanimously approved the town’s estimated seasonal population, at 5,490 people. This is up from around 5,100 last year as stated by a board member.

            For next year’s meetings, the board unanimously approved the recommended meeting dates for 2025. No comments or adjustments were added with one board member saying, “we’re flexible.”

            In water and sewage commitments, the board unanimously approved $10,000 for West Drive sewage connections, now up to around 12 houses per a board member. It was stated the area should see more sewer tie-ins as West Drive is a “sensitive area” near the sea. They also approved $4745.90 in final readings.

            With that, the board convened with “Merry Christmas” and “Happy Holidays.”

Marion Select Board

By Sam Bishop