Rescheduled Stone Wall Building Workshop

Due to inclement weather last weekend, the Mattapoisett Land Trust has rescheduled our stone wall building workshop to Sunday November 20. We hope you will still be able to join us.

            This upcoming Sunday from 10-11 am, we are meeting at the Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr. Foundation parking area on Angelica Avenue in Mattapoisett. Please wear sturdy shoes and bring gloves; this will be hands-on. The workshop will be led by MLT’s Vice President of the Board, Peter Davies, who has been building and repairing stone walls for 40 years for friends and clients.

Winters Leads Candidates for Assessors Seat

            The Marion Board of Assessors joined the Select Board at the latter’s public meeting on Tuesday night to conduct joint interviews of three candidates for the opening on the Board of Assessors created by the loss of longtime member Catherine Gibbs.

            Gibbs passed away on September 28 at age 92.

            Peter Winters, Michael Pierre and Barry Gaffey each sat individually before the boards and fielded questions from Select Board members Toby Burr, Norm Hills and Randy Parker and Assessors Pat DeCosta and George “TJ” Walker.

            Voting on an appointment to the Board of Assessors will take place at the next regular meeting of the Select Board in joint session with the Assessors on Wednesday, December 7, at 5:00 pm at the Cushing Community Center. The meeting is being held there at that time as a prelude to the town’s annual holiday party.

            Appointment to the Board of Assessors will continue until the 2023 Town Election in May.

            “I’m always looking for a new challenge,” Winters told the boards in the second of the three interviews.

            Having served as chairman of both the Finance Committee, where he is still an elected member, and the Planning Board (serving as chair five of his seven years), Winters served on the bid-selection committee for Little Neck Village. He drafted decisions for the Planning Board and drafted the agenda for the Finance Committee on a 48-hour deadline.

            “I know the executive-sessions’ intentions. I’ve conducted a myriad of real-estate closings,” he added, referencing municipal-law research, public hearings and various types of tax law. Winters is a 30-year attorney with an interest in finance and law. He holds a master’s degree in Tax Law and Business Administration with a concentration in Finance.

            He told the boards he is familiar with various methods of property valuation, court involvement, including bankruptcy court, along with the state Open Meeting Law and Public Workers Law. He also served on the Town Party committee. As moderator of his church, Winters is familiar with “Robert’s Rules of Order.”

            Winters did not hesitate to launch into thorough answers to all the questions sent his way, starting with the responsibilities of the Board of Assessors, giving examples of the kind of work its members do at particular times on the calendar.

            “This is the main source of money for the town,” he said, estimating that between 60% and 70% of Marion’s revenue goes through the collection of the Assessors. “It’s important that we raise money for the town, but it’s important that we’re fair …”

            Winters’ only attendance limitations would be on Tuesday nights due to his law practice.

            Walker asked him how he would handle making unpopular decisions. Winters appealed to his experience on the Planning Board and the criteria necessary to qualify for a special permit. “Some people didn’t like that,” he said. “With regard to confidentiality, I take that and private communications very seriously as well. I think it’s important that people trust their public servants. … It’s also important that citizens have trust in their government.”

            Pierre interviewed first. A 21-year Marion resident and property owner, he also has a background that encompasses finance.

            “I’m here voluntarily as a demonstration to be engaged in the community, answering the call of civic obligation …,” he said, adding that he is in a “place in my business and personal life where I feel like I have the time.”

            Pierre served on Marion’s Affordable Housing Trust. “It opened my eyes to various other areas and issues that affect the town and how it’s managed,” he said, calling it a “very positive experience” that left him with a “positive opinion about how the town has been managed in the 21 years I’ve been here.”

            Pierre worked in investment management for 20 years in Boston, running his own business and working for a couple of asset-management firms. He told the boards he is “reasonably fluent in financial analysis and affairs” and can read a balance sheet.

            He candidly admitted he did not know the inner workings of the Board of Assessors but understands “the board is aiming to accomplish two things: equity across the tax base and supporting and enhancing the financial strength of the town.”

            Pierre also admitted to “some competing obligations” with attendance requirements.

            “I’ve made a lot of unpopular decisions in my adult life,” Pierre told Walker. “I understand the way the local municipality needs to accomplish in terms of budgeting and sources and uses of funds. I approach all kinds of controversial and contentious topics with a fair and balanced mindset. I think my views are centrist and moderate in nature. I don’t carry any extreme views on taxation … Do I have any personal or business conflicts that would interfere? I don’t think I do.”

            DeCosta asked about Pierre’s ability to maintain confidentiality.

            “That’s something that I have a sincere appreciation and respect for. Those same principles are in business management,” he said, referencing regulations and policies that are in place. “I think I’m well drilled in that aspect.”

            Pierre asked no questions of the boards. “If this doesn’t work out, I’ll raise my hand for something else down the road,” he said.

            Gaffey discussed the work that the late Catherine Gibbs did for so many years and noted that he had run against her and lost.

            “I’ve always felt that the job of the assessors is to bring money that the town needs to support (its many programs and tasks),” he said, noting “many facets” including personal exemptions, personal property, forestry and farming. “There’s a lot more complexity than people realize. What I found is there is a lot in terms of commercial properties.”

            In response to a question from Hills, Gaffey discussed the depth of town records. “I’m really impressed. It’s a very detailed job, huge in the sense that right down to easements and rights of way, what I’ve seen, looking at it, I am impressed. … It all affects property values,” he said.

            Burr told each candidate that the Board of Assessors meets two to four times per month at 3:00 pm on Wednesdays, but if a taxpayer cannot attend a regular session, the board will hold a special meeting at night. Gaffey indicated that attendance would be no problem.

            He also told the boards he would be able to take the eight-hour, state Department of Revenue course within one year of appointment.

            Asked by Walker about making unpopular decisions that involve people’s personal finance and the accompanying pressures, Gaffey said, “The onus is on the property owner to make their case.” In being fair and just and looking at the comparisons, Gaffey said there should not be any politics involved in the process. “We don’t really do anything other than make the money for the budget from the real-estate property.”

            Asked by DeCosta to comment on confidentiality, Gaffey talked about the vast personal information that the town receives. He talked about veterans who are disabled and the responsibility of the town to treat their personal information with great care.

            After considering what Hills called “lots of qualified people,” the Select Board voted to appoint a five-person search committee for a new town administrator. Parker will represent the Select Board on the committee, while Building Commissioner Bob Grillo will represent town staff, and three residents were appointed: Cynthia Callow, Jay Pateakos and Mike Sudofsky.

            The committee’s first meeting with consultant Bernie Lynch of Community Paradigm Associates will be held in the first week of December.

            The Select Board voted to appoint Susan Miller to the Affordable Housing Trust and Joe Rocha to the Fireworks Committee. They also voted to authorize Executive Assistant Donna Hemphill to act on the town’s behalf in matters pertaining to the American Rescue Plan Act (ARPA.)

            The board approved Water/Sewer commitments (final readings on November 8) of $9.879.97, $168.70 and $767.47.

            After a public hearing with Verizon/Eversource, a utility pole at a new location was approved that will service private property at 471 Point Road.

            The 6:15 pm Public Hearing with the Board of Assessors for the purpose of determining the tax classification of property was only opened to be continued to a special Select Board meeting on Tuesday, November 22, at 6:00 pm at the Police Station.

            Judy Mooney, the interim town administrator, announced a holiday schedule for town offices that will see the Town House, Cushing Community Center and Department of Public Works close at 12:00 pm on two Fridays, December 23 and December 30, the Transfer Station close on at 12:00 pm on two Fridays, December 24 and December 31, while the DPW ends its workday on Friday, December 23, at 11:00 am. All town offices will be closed on Mondays, December 26, and January 2, 2023.

            No vote was needed, as the aforementioned closures are written into town employees’ contracts.

            The holidays will pose no changes to the schedule for collections by Waste Management. The schedule will be posted at marionma.gov.

            License holders, who have not yet turned in their applications, have until Wednesday, November 30th, to get them in: Contact Donna Hemphill with any questions at dhemphill@marionma.gov.

            The next regular meeting of the Marion Select Board is scheduled for Wednesday, December 7, at 5:00 pm at the Cushing Community Center, after which the Town of Marion will hold its annual holiday party.

Marion Select Board/Board of Assessors

By Mick Colageo

‘Alice’ Tickets Are Available

            The Old Rochester Regional High School Drama Club’s production of “Alice in Wonderland” is set to premiere on Thursday, November 17, at 7:00 pm, with additional performances November 18 and 19 at 7:00 pm and November 20at 2:00 pm at Old Rochester Regional High School.

            Due to an editing error, The Wanderer print edition of this article mistakenly reported that tickets for all shows are sold out.

            Tickets for all shows are for sale at the Marion General Store, Isabelle’s in Mattapoisett, Friends Marketplace in Rochester, at the door and online for a small service fee through Eventbrite: https://bit.ly/orrhs-alice-tickets. General Admission tickets are $12, and students and senior citizens are admitted for $10. Reserve tickets by calling 508-863-0696.

            “There are plenty of laughs and references to pop culture, which make this a play which is best for older children (Grade 5 and up) and their grownups,” reads the ORR press release on the performance. They also note that the ORR High School is currently a latex-free building and ask that no flower bouquets be brought inside the school due to issues with latex elastics.

            Cattarinha Nunes, in her junior year, stars as the eponymous Alice, having also appeared in “Spoon River Anthology,” “Macbeth,” and “You Can’t Take It with You,” and has participated in the behind-the-scenes aspect as assistant stage manager of “Godspell.”

            “I especially enjoy getting to act out the discovery of each new trial Wonderland has to offer and therefore act rather moody when things don’t go Alice’s way,” wrote Nunes in an email correspondence with The Wanderer. “My absolute favorite part of the play is the last scene, with the trial case. I absolutely love that every actor gets to be on stage at the same time, no matter how big or small their role is. It all comes together nicely, and I’m happy that everyone can be featured one final time.”

            Cast members also cited the scene with the Tweedles and the Queen of Heart’s mood swings as favorite moments, but when asked about their struggles, seemed to come up short.

            “I cannot think of a part of being in the drama club (that is) challenging,” mused sophomore Calden Eaton, playing the Cheshire Cat. “Making friends and connecting with the characters are the best and easiest part of the process.”

            “I want to add a little thank you to a special soul that I know is watching over all of us and smiling so big,” said Kathleen Dunn, who plays the Queen of Hearts. “Nolan Gibbons unexpectedly passed away in August of 2020. In my class, now seniors, he was the brightest light and most talented human I ever got to know.

            “Any show you can imagine, he starred in. Talent shows, band, singing groups, camps – you name it, he did it. He was a nationally recognized artist and yet continued to walk into ORR every morning and be a regular student. He genuinely, so genuinely, had the brightest smile I have ever seen. I miss you every day, Nolan, and I know you’re watching over us, singing Lava with your ukulele. Thank you for being an angel before you passed and thank you for all the signs. I do this for you!”

            Maxx Domingos, the Drama Club director and advisor for Old Rochester Regional High School, sang the praises of both the story of “Alice in Wonderland” and the talented students in the cast and crew.

            “Some cast members have been in theater productions throughout their entire high school years, while others are performing with us for the first time. Despite this, all members of the cast are dedicated to producing a fantastic show for the Tri-Town community.”

            Students man the backstage as well as the front, with hands-on participation in lighting, sound, props and set design.

            “The best part about directing a show is seeing the seats in the auditorium fill up on performance nights. The students truly love performing for the community, and the Tri-Town support for the drama club has been incredible,” Domingos said. “The best way to support our students is by coming to see the shows.”

            By last weekend, tickets for “Alice in Wonderland” were gone, but Domingos told The Wanderer that the company will be announcing its Spring Musical during Thursday’s Opening Night performance, so particularly eager theatergoers may want to snag tickets ASAP! ORR thanks everyone who has bought tickets to support the show, students and staff involved.

By Jack MC Staier

Beatrice Anna Marie (Zinselmeier) Escalante

Beatrice Anna Marie (Zinselmeier) Escalante, 75, of New Bedford, formerly of Mattapoisett, died Monday, November 14, 2022 peacefully at St. Luke’s Hospital after a period of declining health.

            Born in St. Louis, Missouri, daughter of the late Albert and Beatrice (Kayser) Zinselmeier, she lived in Mattapoisett and New Bedford for most of her life.

            Beatrice was a graduate of Mount Saint Scholastica College with a Bachelor of Arts in Art and History.

            She was employed at Jonathan’s Sprouts for many years and later worked at Friendly Fruit until her retirement. In retirement, she volunteered at the Ocean Exploratorium and the Buttonwood Park Zoo.

            Beatrice enjoyed reading, cooking, dogs, and spending time with friends and growing things.

            She is survived by her daughter, Michelle Escalante; her brothers, Gregory Zinselmeier and his wife Christina and Albert Zinselmeier and his wife Melanie; and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews.

            Her Memorial Visitation will be held, Monday, November 21, 2022 from 4-6 pm in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Road, Mattapoisett. For directions and guestbook, visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Sippican Historical Society

Sippican Historical Society will present Gilded Age Speakers, December 3 at 2:00 pm at the Marion Art Center, 80 Pleasant Street.

            Reese Gilder-Palmer, great-grandson of American artist Helena de Kay and her husband, Century Illustrated Monthly Magazine editor Richard Watson Gilder, will speak on December 3 at 2:00 pm at the Marion Art Center.

            Reese and Linda Gilder-Palmer will present an illustrated talk on the influence of Helena de Kay and Richard Gilder, a dynamic power couple who founded an influential art colony in Marion in the late 19th century. The Gilder family summered in Marion from 1881 to 1893 during the height of their cultural influence in New York City. Members of their circle would go on to become giants in American art, music, literature, theater, sculpture, and architecture. Their presence in this little village would forever change Marion.

            Mr. and Mrs. Gilder-Palmer will endow the Sippican Historical Society with several of Helena de Kay Gilder’s artworks, as well as Gilder family memorabilia. Gilder family items will also be available for sale after the presentation. All proceeds of the sale will support the Gilder-Palmer Four Brooks Farm restoration project.

            The presentation is free, and the public is warmly welcome.

            The Metropolitan Museum of Art will feature the artwork of Helena de Kay and her circle of late nineteenth century American artists in their upcoming exhibition, “New York Art Worlds, 1870 -1890,” December 12 through October 29, 2023. More information is available at www.metmuseum.org.

Lack of Plan Nearly Foils Article 8

On November 14, registered voters in Mattapoisett met for a Special Fall Town Meeting featuring a warrant of which nine articles proposed expenditures from certified free cash. Some weeks prior to Town Meeting, Mattapoisett received certification from state auditors that the free-cash figure was $2,200,000.

            On Monday night, voters were poised to make decisions on how some of that money might be used. Things went along smoothly with little or no debate until Article 8: Holy Ghost Property Renovations.

            When the draft warrant was being discussed by the Finance Committee, two members wondered at the wisdom of moving ahead with $150,000 planned for the construction of outdoor, Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) sanitary facilities attached to the rear of the existing masonry block structure at the town-owned, former Holy Ghost Grounds.

            Member Colleen Trahan expressed her concerns at the Finance Committee meeting that spending money in the absence of a plan was ill conceived. That resulted in the Finance Committee voting 5-2 in favor of supporting the spending now.

            Town Administrator Mike Lorenco said that he discussed the possibility of bringing in the construction services of students from Old Colony Regional Vocational-Technical High School. He said that Mattapoisett is presently on the Rochester-based school’s schedule but needed to commit to the funding.

            Lorenco, along with the majority of the Finance Committee membership, believed that in order for the 2016 land purchase (a 7-acre parcel off Park Street) to be a viable, useful parcel for the community, ADA-compliant restroom facilities are necessary. But a fully developed plan has yet to be drafted.

            Russell Chase asked if the former Holy Ghost Grounds was being considered as a site for affordable housing as noted in the recently released 2022 Master Plan draft.

            Select Board member Jordan Collyer said the Master Plan is only a draft. “It’s what could be but doesn’t dictate what will be done.”

            In a follow-up, Collyer said that the Holy Ghost property was purchased in part by a grant from the Community Preservation Act for recreational land use. As such, it would be difficult to undo the intended use of the acreage. “When we were thinking about purchasing the land, we thought about ball fields, a dog park and the bike path,” Collyer said, noting that the bathrooms located inside the existing structure are not functional and would not serve cyclists using the bike path.

            Collyer also stated during the follow-up that a large portion of the Holy Ghost property is made up of wetlands or buffer zones and that there is a cemetery there as well.

            During Town Meeting, Liz DiCarlo rose to speak, saying that in 2016, voters were excited about the property and were told that a committee would be formed to study land use. She questioned if that scenario is still possible.

            Lisa Hill, whose home is situated near the intersection of Acushnet Road and Park Street, asked if a traffic study has been done, given that speeding cars are already a problem in that location. Lorenco confirmed that no study has yet taken place.

            Bonne DeSousa asked if a public hearing could be planned, but Collyer said without a plan, a public hearing cannot be held. He then said, “It’s the will of Town Meeting whether bathrooms go in or not.” Collyer confirmed in his follow-up comments that the Select Board will establish a committee to begin the work of crafting a plan.

            After all questions and comments had been rendered, Article 8 passed by 41 yes votes against 18 no votes.

            Quickly and easily passed were: Article 1, Appropriation to Reduce OPEB Liability, $125,000 from Free Cash; Article 2, Appropriation to Debt Stabilization Fund, $150,000 from Free Cash; Article 3, Appropriation to Capital Stabilization Fund, $500,000 from Certified Free Cash; Article 4, Rescind Bonds and Notes, $2,214,426; Article 5, Amend FY23 Annual Budget (13 line items) Certified Free Cash and remove School Transportation, $200,000 which will now appear on the school’s budget and represents monies already expended; Article 6, Office Hours on Saturday as necessitated by early voting and voter registration; Article 7, Pearl and Oakland Road Reconstruction, $250,000 from Free Cash and Article 9, Sewer Betterment Reserve Allocation, $337,000 from Sewer Betterment for FY23 budget.

Mattapoisett Special Fall Town Meeting

By Marilou Newell

‘See a Veteran, Thank a Veteran’

On November 11, 2022, at American Legion Florence Eastman Post 280, the Town of Mattapoisett once again invited residents to remember and celebrate military servicemen and women who have given their all, men and women who have sacrificed the comforts of family and home for a cause much greater than themselves – military service.

            The day’s program began as it always does with a prayer led by post Chaplain Langhoff, in which he beseeched the Lord to bring peace into the hearts of all and to protect all service personnel across the globe.

            Post Commander Rachel Perron, who said she had promised herself she would not tear up during the ceremony, indeed found herself moved to tears as the Showstoppers sang “Bless Our Troops,” written by Teresa Jennings. The hymn-like cadence of prayerful lyrics sung by the voices of youth was the perfect sentiment for the proceedings; likely there were others holding back tears.

            Tri-Town Veterans Agent Chris Gerrior welcomed the assembled and presented some facts on the growing needs of the aging veteran populations. He said that 7% of the total population are veterans, that in Mattapoisett, there are 351 veterans or 5% of the town’s population, of which two-thirds are over the age of 60, and that a third of all veterans in town are baby boomers and another third are made up of Generation-X and Millennials.

            Of the younger veterans, Gerrior noted that many served longer tours and multiple tours versus older generations who went to war and then returned home and that many more women have served in recent years versus in the past. “They need different support services.”

            Gerrior, a naval veteran who served for 24 years, has also been a member of the Rochester Conservation Commission for a number of years. He said he believes many veterans have continued to serve by volunteering at the local level and that younger veterans “should look and see where older veterans have stepped away and fill those openings.” Gerrior said community service is needed.

            Added to the thought that veterans can and do continue to serve their country through community-based service, Select Board member Tyler Macallister pointed out that Building Commissioner David Riquinha (Marines) and Building Inspector Stephane Brodo (Navy) are both veterans. He urged the public, “If you see a veteran, thank a veteran.”

            Representative William Straus said it was a day to remember those who came home and that we are obligated to take care of those veterans in need as we continue to pray for peace.

            Keynote speaker for the ceremony was Professor James Holmes of the Naval War College. He told the story mostly forgotten now of a Korean War battle that took the life of Ensign Jesse LeRoy Brown, the first African American aviator to complete the Navy’s flight-training program.

            Brown, along with Fall River’s Tom Hudner, flew into battle as teammates sworn to do their duty and sworn to never leave a fellow officer behind.

            During the Battle for Chosin Reservoir in North Korea in December 1950, Brown’s plane was shot down. He was still alive but trapped in the wreckage. Hudner went in to save his friend and fellow officer. It was not to be. Brown would perish and Hudner would go on, achieving the rank of captain and receiving the Medal of Honor for his effort to save Brown.

            As Holmes told the story of two men held together by honor and dedication to protect and defend, others in the room were perfectly still and held in that moment so long ago when two young aviators gave all that they had to give that day. “They were ordinary people doing unordinary things,” said Holmes.

            As the proceedings ended, the Mattapoisett Police and Mattapoisett Fire Department color guards stood at attention as the New Bedford High School ROTC color guard fell out and retreated the American flag until the next time.

Veterans Day 2022 in Mattapoisett

By Marilou Newell

Fall Bird Walk at Washburn Park

Join the Marion Natural History Museum and the Nasketucket Bird Club on Wednesday, November 23 at 8:00 am for a fall bird walk (Rain date Nov. 30.) The event is free. Great for new birders or those interested in learning more about birds. It will be an opportunity to see and hear local and migrating birds. Walk will be led by Justin Barrett, board member for the Marion Natural History Museum and president of the Nasketucket Bird Club. We will meet at Washburn Park. Go to www.marionmuseum.org to RSVP.

Mattapoisett Congregational Church Celebrates Advent

The Mattapoisett Congregational Church would like to invite the community to several special events to kick off the Advent season beginning with a beautiful Hanging of the Greens service on November 27 at 10 am where members present symbols of Advent such as a wreath and poinsettia onto the altar.  The Holiday Fair will be held on December 3 from 10 am-2 pm in Reynard Hall with baked goods, handmade craft items, including knitted hats and sweaters as well as handcrafted jewelry and other Christmas décor.  The White Gifts Pageant which celebrates the birth of Jesus will be held during worship on Sunday, December 11 beginning at 10 am with a donation of gift cards collected for needy families in our area.  A beautiful Christmas Cantata by the Mattapoisett Congregational Church choir and performers from Seaglass Theater will be held on December 18 at 10 am in the sanctuary.

            Every Sunday in Advent will be celebrated with lighting of the Advent candle with a culmination of all the candles being lit on Christmas Eve.  The Christmas Eve Family Service will be held at 5:00 pm and a Candlelight Service with a performance by the Harper and the Minstrel will be held at 10 pm.  Christmas Day, December 25, will be celebrated at Matt Congo with a “Carol Fest” at 10 am.

            Everyone is invited to celebrate the Advent season at Mattapoisett Congregational Church.  Please see the website at mattapoisettcongregationalchurch.org for more information!

Understanding Service

Good Morning Marion.

          It is my distinct pleasure as a Veteran and Service Member to recognize and honor our Nation’s Veterans. Today, we reflect on what it means to serve. We reflect on the driving factors to serve and the sacrifices that come with military service.

          Regardless of whether you served in the Marine Corp (to which I wish a Happy Belated 247th Birthday), or whether you served in the Army, Navy, Coast Guard, Air Force, or Space Force, the call to serve is the common denominator that fortifies the strength of our Armed Forces.

          Another commonality among Veterans is the Oath of Enlistment. The Oath of Enlistment is an oath that every service member must promise and adhere to for their entire military career. If entering as an officer, you would take the military Oath of Office.

          In recognition of our Veterans’ devotion to serve, I will now recite the Oath of Enlistment:

          “I … do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States and the orders of the officers appointed over me, according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice. So help me God.”

          To add to the commonalities that exist among our Veterans, it is important to reflect on who our Veterans were before committing to serve. They were recruits.

          The accepted ages of recruits into the Armed Forces range from 17 to 39 with the Air and Space Forces accepting the oldest recruits. For those of you old enough – and there are quite a few of you in the crowd – take a moment to reflect on who you were at 17, the age of our Country’s youngest recruits. What were your goals? Life experience? Influences? Had you already graduated high school? Were you submitting college applications? How were you spending your free time?

          Now think about your 20s and 30s. What are some of your most memorable moments? Did you earn your college degree or second degree? Did you earn a certificate or license from a technical school? Did you start your family? Were you able to negotiate your salary and start your career? Did you buy your first home? Did you get your first pet that was not the family pet? Did you welcome your first child? Did attend your 10th and or 20th year high school reunions? Did you lose loved ones or friends?

          Most folks can relate to these life experiences and goals, as they are not overly unique. Now think about coupling these life events with military service.

          So what does it mean to serve in the Armed Forces? The following is a brush stroke’s glimpse of what serve looks like.

          Service is sacrificing time with your loved ones, spending your weekends in support of base exercises and missions. Forgoing holiday rituals and dinners in order to deploy overseas. Missing birthdays and sometimes memorial services and funerals. Not having an opportunity to say goodbye or honor our loved ones. It means missing your child’s firsts … first words, laugh, crawling, or walking. For some, it means uprooting your family just when you started to lay down roots.

          Service also means exploring a new part of the world. Integrating into a new culture by eating foreign foods, listening to music, and observing culture and societal norms outside of your own. Having the chance to travel to other bases in order to receive additional training to further your professional development.

          Service is opportunity. Providing many the ability to earn a living, while learning a new skill that will benefit our country. Allowing folks to earn educational benefits for themselves or to transfer to their family.

          Service is belonging to a community of other servicemembers who often become an extended family member.

          As for me, service meant independence. I enlisted at the age of 18. I knew that I wanted an opportunity to go to college without incurring debt, and I wanted to live in my own space as I was living with my grandfather. And living with my grandfather, rest his soul, meant that I had a curfew and rules. I also wanted to travel the world, especially Spain. I took three years of Spanish in high school and daydreamed about eating paella in Spain. Regardless of the military benefits, I understood that I would need to adhere to a lifestyle that demanded selflessness and there was no way I could avoid adhering to rules … just my Grandpa’s.

          All this to say that today and all of the past Veterans Days I reflect on my reasons for reciting the Oath of Enlistment. I reflect on my commitment to serve and how those reasons evolved and change over the course of my first enlistment up to my current enlistment.

          So, whenever you go to thank a Veteran for their service, it is my hope that you feel a sense of connection to what it meant for that Vet to serve. It is also my hope that families can continue learning more about their loved one’s service, and that the familial bonds of service amongst brothers and sisters in arms continues to build lasting relationships.

          Thank you again for being here this morning to honor our Nation’s Vets. I want to take this opportunity to thank the Veterans present in the audience. Thank you for your service, as it my honor to serve.

Town of Marion Veterans Day 2022

By Mandy Givens

Editor’s note: The following is the keynote address shared by Marion resident and Technical Sergeant of the Massachusetts National Guard Mandy Givens during the town’s Veterans Day ceremony on November 11th at Old Landing.