Autistic Achievers Thrive on Horseback

            Close to 30 years ago, Julie Craig and her husband bought a run-down, 5-acre farm in Mattapoisett.

            Fast forward to the present and not only did Craig and others transform the land, they used the farm to transform the lives of many families and people with autism-spectrum disorder and other disabilities. It didn’t take long for Craig and her friend Debbi Dyson to start the nonprofit Helping Hands and Hooves.

            Julie Craig’s son Ian, now 23, has autism and was nonverbal. Craig’s friend Dyson has a brother Brendan, now 55, who also was nonverbal and autistic. Now Brendan and Ian are Special Olympic medalists, thanks to their horse-riding skills.

            Ian earned two silver medals and Brendan earned a silver and a bronze medal at a September 30 equestrian Special Olympics competition at Briggs Stable in Hanover. Craig’s 12-year-old student Julia Cabralk won a gold and silver medal.

            Craig said, despite the Special Olympics being a platform for people with disabilities, the competition level is still high.

            A horseback rider and teacher originally from Atlanta, Craig began teaching horseback riding on her Mattapoisett farm shortly after buying it. Somewhere along the way, she and Dyson learned that horses have an almost magic effect on people with ASD and other disabilities.

            Dyson’s brother Brendan was one of Craig’s first students with a disability, and she said that Brendan’s balance, self-confidence and social skills, just to name a few, improved dramatically and almost immediately after riding a horse.

            Brendan’s horseback riding journey was not planned. He came to watch a family member and instead became quite the equestrian. Many nonverbal ASD kids, including Craig’s son Ian, became verbal once riding on a horse. Ian started at the age of five, and it has made a difference.

            “Ian is mostly nonverbal but not if you put him on a horse. He will count or sing a song,” Craig said. “It’s an interesting thing – riding a horse. You see some amazing things.”

            Craig had many more stories of people who were transformed on the backs of horses like Teddy, the farm’s gentle quarter horse. One 38-year-old man with balance challenges was soon standing up in the stirrups with his hands in the air.

            Craig recalls one nonverbal woman who would sing whatever song she last heard on the radio whenever she was riding a horse. The singing would go away once she was off the horse, but the awe of the bystanders would have a lasting effect.

            The decision to turn her farm and Helping Hands and Hooves into a nonprofit was to help people who cannot afford lessons, which can be expensive. Craig also said that developmentally delayed adults are not as supported by the state once they turn 22, another reason why she started the nonprofit.

            Developmentally delayed adults from different day programs in the area visit the farm. Not everyone rides a horse, but almost all enjoy the scenery. Craig says people from Fall River, New Bedford and other cities visit and always enjoy visiting the chickens, goats, and other farming activities.

            For more information, log onto Helpinghandsandhooves.org.

By Jeffrey D. Wagner

Alves-Bucciarelli Preserve Welcome Walk

Tune into the changing seasons and spend some meaningful time outdoors on Sunday, October 15. Mattapoisett Land Trust is hosting a Fall Mindfulness Walk, free and open to people of all ages and abilities, led by the wonderful Yoga and Mindfulness Instructor, Carly Baumann. The program will go from 10:00-11:00 am, beginning at the MLT parking lot on Prospect Road in Mattapoisett; look for the hanging yellow sign. We will take a short walk on the trail, and Carly will lead participants through mindfulness exercises.

            Come curious and leave refreshed. Email manager@mattlandtrust.org with any questions.

The Halloween Cover Contest

        Are you ready for some spooktacular fun? Dust off the cobwebs and sharpen those scary pencils! Your best Halloween artwork could be on the cover of The Wanderer and you could win a cash prize! Submit your best original Halloween drawing, photo, compilation, or artwork to enter for publication on our November 2 cover.

        Deadline for submitting artwork is Monday, October 23,at noon. Online voting will take place from October 25 to October 30. The cover winner will win $100 and his or her artwork will be on the November 2 cover of The Wanderer!

        All entries must be original; cover entries must contain completely original artwork and/or photos. No copied items, including traced clip art, will be considered for the contest. All entries must be accompanied by a completed and signed entry form, available in our office or on our website. A full list of rules and regulations can be found at www.wanderer.com. For more information, call our office at 508-758-9055.

Tri-County Symphonic Band Presents “Blue October”

On Sunday, October 22 at 3:00 pm, the Tri-County Symphonic Band, under the direction of Philip Sanborn, will perform their season opening concert; “Blue October.”  The program will be held in the Fireman Performing Arts Center at Tabor Academy in Marion, MA and will feature piano soloist Susan Saposnik. Ms. Saposnik will play the world premiere of “Blue Rhapsody,” a piece for solo piano and symphonic band by Cape Cod composer Michael Donovan. “Blue Rhapsody” was inspired by the exciting rhythms and soaring melodies of George Gershwin.

            The band will also perform Eric Whitacre’s “October”, “Our Own Red, White and Blue March” by Henry Fillmore, “Bonnie Blue” by Kelly Bennette, “Blue Mambo” by Michael Sweeney, “Blue Tango” by Leroy Anderson and “Blue Shades” by Frank Ticheli.  As a tribute and remembrance of the life of our recently departed friend, musical colleague and trumpeter Linsey Govoni, the band will perform “Perthshire Majesty” by Samuel Hazo.

            Tickets are $15 in advance and $20 at the door. Tickets can be purchased at the Marion General Store, the Symphony Music Shop in North Dartmouth and online at tricountysymphonicband.org

Marion Garden Group Tree Tagging

The Marion Garden Group partnering with the Tree Committee began a project of identifying and putting aluminum tags on the many species of trees around town last year. This monumental task continues again this year. Led by Sylvia Strand, volunteers will meet in Bicentennial Park on Friday and Saturday, October 13& 14 at 10:00 am. All are welcome. Come and help or spectate and encourage. For more information, check the MGG website.

Nancy D. (Coleman) Rodrigues

Nancy D. (Coleman) Rodrigues, 77, of Mattapoisett died October 10, 2023 at Sippican Healthcare Center.

            She was the wife of the late Paul W. Rodrigues.

            Born in Cambridge, daughter of the late Edmund F. and Dorothea (McPartlan) Coleman, she was raised in Dorchester and lived in Mattapoisett most of her life.

            She was a former member of the Jensen Beach American Legion Ladies Auxiliary. She enjoyed spending time with her family, painting, reading and watching TV.

            Her family would like to thank the staff at Fidelis Hospice and Sippican Healthcare Center for the care Nancy received.

            Survivors include her daughter, Michelle Bergeron and her husband Wayne of Dartmouth; 2 sons, Paul Rodrigues and his wife Kimberly of Carver and Todd Rodrigues and his wife Maurine of Fairhaven; a brother, Richard Coleman of Fairhaven; a sister, Donna Lopes of Stuart, FL; 6 grandchildren, Ashley, Michael, Corey, Kailee, Kamryn and Kaitlyn; 6 great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews.

            She was the sister of the late Paul Coleman and Edmund Coleman, Jr.

            Her Funeral Service will be held on Sunday, October 22nd at 12 Noon in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6), Mattapoisett. Her family will receive guests on Sunday from 10 AM – 12 Noon prior to her service. Burial will follow in St. Anthony’s Cemetery. For directions and guestbook, visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

ConCom Wants Help Fighting CR

Rochester’s Conservation Commission Tuesday took further action on the much-debated, 241-acre, regional Conservation Restriction that includes 13 acres at Red Brick Farm East but gives Rochester no rights to the water there. The commission decided to take its appeal to keep the town’s rights to that water local directly to the Select Board.

            When they first heard of the CR plan months ago, commission members complained that Rochester has lost the right to use its own water resources too many times over the decades. The regional CR agreement that nonetheless became reality proposed giving Mattapoisett the water rights to the Rochester parcel, including possibly digging up to four new wells under a co-ownership agreement with the Mattapoisett Water and Sewer Authority. However, the authority also agreed in writing it would “make every effort” to transfer the conservation land in Rochester to the town for $1.

            On Tuesday, Commissioner Ben Bailey said Town Counsel has told the panel that this plan cannot happen because the statement “will make every effort” is not legally enforceable.

            But Bailey said he has learned from researching state law and contacting other attorneys that the correspondence from the Mattapoisett Water and Sewer Authority stating the “make every effort” promise is a legally enforceable one.

            “Saying you will make every effort means you are not allowed to do nothing. It requires putting full muscle and energy” into the effort, he said.

            Bailey motioned to have a letter written to the Select Board to ask for its help in pressing the issue. The commission unanimously agreed to have that correspondence sent. “Ask the selectmen to do something about this,” he said. “Look at our correspondence and act on it.”

            The commission began its meeting by coming close to endorsing the first piece of a plan for a 15-acre, self-storage facility off of Cranberry Highway at Route 28 and Kings Highway.

            Under a request for an Abbreviated Notice of Resource Area Delineation (ANRAD) approval, the petitioner’s engineering consultant, Bob Rogers, told the commission that the developer needs to re-flag the parcel’s 2,700 linear feet of bordering vegetated wetlands. He noted that the ConCom approved the site’s wetlands delineation in 2015. Then a commercial development plan that did not survive for long was approved in 2017. Now, eight years later, Rogers said, the flags marking the wetlands are hard to find and just plain missing.

            “There’s a lot of growth. It’s thick out there,” Rogers said. “Our wetlands scientists will go out and nail down the Southern line.”

            The commission, as a result, granted Rogers’ request for a continuance until its next meeting on October 17 to give the scientists time to complete the work.

            Petitioner engineer Bill Madden recently told the Rochester Planning Board that the parcel will house a self-storage facility on a combination of four large lots, with 180 small, self-storage units and 64 smaller ones.

            In other action, the commission signed the latest Enforcement Order for 532 Snipatuit Road. The property was recently the site of a fire that damaged a houseboat in the pond. Conservation Agent Merilee Kelly has reported to the commission in past meetings that she has observed work being done there without a formal Notice of Intent that would signal the property owner’s intentions with that environmentally sensitive area of the pond.

            Now the work has stopped, Kelly said. But she has hesitated in the past to approach the workers there when visiting the site because she was alone. The commissioners need to know the property owner’s intent behind cleaning up near wetlands, hence the need for the new Enforcement Order. The commissioners instructed Kelly to bring another person with her, preferably a police officer, on her next visit.

            The Rochester Conservation Commission will meet next on Tuesday, October 17, at 7:00 pm at Town Hall, 1 Constitution Way.

Rochester Conservation Commission

By Michael J. DeCicco

Upcoming Events at the Elizabeth Taber Library

Banned Books: State of the Union. A Banned Book Week special presentation – Thursday, October 5 at 6 pm. Are you curious about the rise of book bans and book challenges across the country? Join us for a special presentation to discuss the most targeted books and the impact of book challenges on libraries and readers.

            Homeschool meet up – Thursday, October 5 at 1 pm. Meet other homeschoolers and learn about the resources the library has to offer.

            Paranormal New England – Thursday, October 19 at 6:30 pm. Learn about the paranormal world with the team that has investigated reportedly haunted locations throughout New England. Check out equipment and evidence with the crew from the Paranormal New England.

            Check out a pumpkin at the library all month long, return it decorated to enter our Great Pumpkin Contest on Thursday, October 26.

            For more information on the Elizabeth Taber Library, visit us at www.ElizabethTaberLibrary.org or call us at 508-748-1252.

Christmas by the Sea Bazaar

St. Anthony/St. Rita Parish will be holding its 56th Christmas by the Sea Bazaar on Saturday, December 2 from 9 am – 1 pm at St. Anthony’s Church Hall at 26 Hammond Street in Mattapoisett. This year’s event will include handmade gifts & items by local artisans, a grand raffle, gift basket raffles, holiday wreaths & greens arrangements, a toy shoppe, games and crafts for the kids, a visit by Santa Claus, our parishes’ annual ornament, malassadas, baked goods and beverages. All proceeds to benefit parish initiatives. For more information or to volunteer, please contact Linda Quinn at 508-758-8698.

Douglas A. Nye

Douglas A. Nye, 68, of Marion, passed away on Thursday, October 5, 2023, in Plymouth Rehabilitation & Health Care Center, Plymouth. He was the husband of the late Joanne M. (Boys) Nye.

            Dougie was born in Wareham on December 16, 1954, and lived in Marion all of his life. He graduated from Upper Cape Cod Regional Technical High School in 1973.

            Douglas worked as a Welder in the Facility Department at Tabor Academy for 30 years.

            He dedicated his life to public service and selflessly gave himself to the Marion Fire Department where he served for over 40 years and was Captain of Engine #1. His love for work and family was evident to anyone that knew him, always showing up for both whenever called.

            He was a member of the Marion Fire Association. He loved playing guitar, listening to music, and never missed a Nascar race. His fondest memories include these three loves, and spending time sitting on the back deck at his brother, Natie’s home.

            Survivors include his mother, Rosalind (Abreu) Nye of Marion; 2 sons, Douglas A. Nye, Jr. of ME and Ryan C. Nye of New Bedford; 3 brothers, Nate Nye and his wife, Jody, Steve Nye and his wife, Heidi and Chris Nye and his wife, April all of Marion; his step children, Christopher McCra, Robert McCra, Steven (McCra) Slater and his husband Sean Slater of E. Providence, RI, Angela Cathcart and Keith Cathcart; grandsons, Henry William Nye of New Bedford and Brandon Wilbur; granddaughters, McCayla Dupont and Destany Galary; several nephews and nieces. He was predeceased by his father, Nathan B. Nye, Sr.

            Visiting hours are from 4 to 7 pm on Thursday, October 19, 2023 at Chapman Funerals & Cremations – Wareham, 2599 Cranberry Hwy., Wareham.

            His graveside service will be held at 10:00 am on Friday, October 20, 2023 at Evergreen Cemetery, Marion.

            Donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Assoc., 480 Pleasant St., Watertown, MA 02472 or to the Dementia Society, P.O. Box 610, Doylestown, PA 18901.