Kenneth W. Stickney

Kenneth W. Stickney, 96, of Mattapoisett, died peacefully on Thursday, October 20, 2022. He was the husband of Olive M. (Anderson) Stickney.

            Born in Milford, MA raised in West Roxbury, son of the late Lloyd and Marion (Wheelock) Stickney, he lived in Fairhaven before moving to Mattapoisett in 1957.

            Kenneth worked as Chief Chemist for Fibre Leather Manufacturing for 43 years before retirement. He received the Keel Award, Zeimetz Award, a plaque from the Board of Selectmen, for 30 years of community service. He sang in the Wanderers, the Mattapoisett Congregational Church Choir, and the Sippican Choral Society. He volunteered for the New Bedford Soup Kitchen for many years. He enjoyed bowling in the league at Bowlmor where the Standard-Times featured him in 2 articles. He was the secretary treasurer for the MIT alumni club.

            Kenneth served proudly in the U.S. Army during WWII.

            Survivors include his wife Olive; and his children, Dana P. Stickney of Mattapoisett and Jill D. Stickney of Wolfeboro, NH.

            His Memorial Service will be held on Friday, October 28, 2022 at 2 pm in the Mattapoisett Congregational Church, 27 Church St., Mattapoisett. His burial will take place privately at a later date.

            In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to Market Ministries New Bedford.

Two-Lot Subdivision Drenched in Concern

            River Road abutters voiced their concerns over a proposed, two-lot subdivision located off Wareham Road adjacent to River Road when the Marion Planning Board met with Bob Rogers of G.A.F. Engineering on Monday night.

            Rogers, representing Danielle Realty Trust, detailed the drainage plan and pointed out that a nearly identical project had been planned in November 2012 after receiving conditions and waivers. That project never advanced beyond the planning stage, Rogers noted. Now armed with updated drainage plans, proposals were back on the drawing table.

            Rogers said that the basic, two-lot subdivision would now be connected to the municipal drainage system that the town installed in 2012. He said the project was pending new percolation testing being asked for by the Board of Health but that the original plan, other than stormwater drainage, was primarily the same.

            A cul-de-sac that will provide the necessary frontage for the residential lots was discussed. Rogers told the board that a letter to the Fire Department had been sent with no comments received to date.

            The roadway is planned to be 18-feet wide with two, 9-foot travel lanes. Planning Board member Andrew Daniel said that the requirement was for a total of 20 feet. Rogers responded that when a berm and swale were added to the 18-foot width proposed, the total exceeded 20 feet. He said there would be sufficient room for fire apparatus to maneuver.

            Addressing questions from the board regarding the stormwater drainage plans, Rogers said, “There are seven catch basins along the 250-foot road.” He also reminded the members that the road would remain a private way.

            When public comment was invited, several neighbors in the River Road area expressed their long-held concerns, centering primarily on stormwater potential to flood their established holdings.

            Jack Beck, 17 River Road, said that in the past, heavy rainfall unchecked created deep ruts in his driveway. Eric Bart, 24 River Road, said that his basement is regularly flooded and that the removal of trees to create the lots will further add to the problems associated with runoff.

            Rogers responded, “We have put extra effort into the design,” but that there may be a “couple of months” when the site is unstable that may be problematic. If weather comes into play, “…there may be sediment transfer,” he said. But Rogers also assured all that erosion controls would be in place.

            Also voicing similar concerns were Jeremy Hutton, 67 Wareham Road, and board member Chris Collings, who was speaking as a private citizen.

            The hearing was continued to Monday, November 21, at 7:05 pm.

            The board voted unanimously to make official its acceptance of the revision to Section 300-2.1 through 300-6.1 of Marion’s Subdivision Rules and Regulations as presented at the board’s last meeting. The revision ditched the previously proposed use of a Hybrid-Y dead-end-road design and instead will allow the use of an expanded-width cul-de-sac or hammerhead, the required dimensions of which accompany diagrams that are now included in those Rules and Regulations.

            As he had in the board’s last public meeting, local developer Sherman Briggs readdressed the matter of the Marion Village Overlay District, questioning the role of the Codification Committee as author of the document rather than the Planning Board.

            Board Chairman Norm Hills once again explained that the Codification Committee is a subcommittee of the Planning Board. Daniel and fellow Planning Board member Jon Henry agreed that the Planning Board should author the document, but Planning Board members are not allowed per state Open Meeting Law to attend a Codification Committee meeting without turning it into a public meeting of the Planning Board requiring posting. Hills said that after the next meeting of the Codification Committee, he would bring the document to the Planning Board for its scrutiny.

            The next meeting of the Marion Planning Board is scheduled for Monday, November 7, at 7:00 pm.

Marion Planning Board

By Marilou Newell

Resolution Inspires Poetry

            “I just decided that I would like to be a person who has read all of Shakespeare’s plays and that was going to be my New Year’s resolution.” Elizabeth Sylvia, Mattapoisett resident and published poet, explained the impetus behind her work.

            Working as an English teacher meant she had more than a passing familiarity with the Bard of Avon, but she wanted to dig into his works, “completionist” style. Two years of work later, she has published her first book of poems titled “None but Witches,” itself a line from the play, “A Comedy of Errors.”

            “There wasn’t (initially) any writing component to that resolution, but once I started reading the plays …” recalled Sylvia.

            The first poem she was inspired to write came while reading “Titus Andronicus,” one of Shakespeare’s bloodier tragedies.

            “It’s about the corrosive nature of vengeance and about how good it feels when you’re thinking about revenge but how bad it really is for you in the end. How you destroy the things you love,” explained Sylvia.

            Vengeance is certainly a powerful notion and one worth putting pen to paper for. But as Sylvia continued through Shakespeare’s works, the urge to write only grew. Finally, after realizing she had 28 poems from the catalog already, she decided to go all in.

            “It morphed into a writing project because I was so … not even necessarily inspired. Sometimes I was inspired, but other times I was actually kind of irritated or frustrated or angry with the situations Shakespeare created, especially for a lot of his female characters.”

            Overall, Sylvia wanted to pay more attention to the women in Shakespeare’s plays, whether that be the popularly mourned figures like Juliet and Ophelia, those strong-willed and outspoken types like Beatrice or the outright schemers like Lady Macbeth. When it comes to her style, Sylvia noted that while she was inspired by Shakespeare’s works, she didn’t want to try to sound like him.

            “A lot of the poems inhabit… not a world of Shakespeare, but a contemporary world that’s influenced by the things I read,” Sylvia said. “Some of the poems are about my own experience, some of them are more ideas driven, some of them are really about the plays. So there’s really a range there.”

            Using her own voice and style meant eschewing iambic pentameter. “I deliberately said when I was working on this project that I was not going to write any sonnets… because I know that I can’t write Shakespeare better than Shakespeare could write himself. But I don’t think any writer could spend two years reading Shakespeare, who was so inventive with language and so complex with language and so free to move the pieces of language around without being influenced by that kind of… diversity and seniority of language.”

            Still, when it comes to the Bard, she was emphatic that his works were for everyone.

            “If you want to read Shakespeare, I would say just do it,” said Sylvia. “And especially since the pandemic, there have been some fantastic kind of… mostly audio with a little bit of video presentations on YouTube, where wonderful stage actors have staged sort of ‘Zoom Shakespeares.’ So if you don’t want to read, be a listener.”

            Much like poetry, hearing Shakespeare perform rather than reading it off the page can be an entirely new experience, bringing depth to words a reader might otherwise have glanced over.

            “I think the misconception of Shakespeare is that you have to be really smart to enjoy Shakespeare,” said Sylvia. “Shakespeare, especially when performed, was by intention made to appeal to a wide variety of audiences. And sometimes that is fat jokes and sexual innuendos and ridiculous things happening.”

            Some of his fat jokes were in fact the inspiration for one of her poems called “Nell’s Own.”

            “I think (“Nell’s Own” is) one of my favorites, and it’s been a crowd favorite too,” she said.

            The eponymous Nell is a character from “A Comedy of Errors.” She never actually appears on stage; instead, her appearance is described as a source of mockery. “Basically, there’s almost two entire pages of the play in which two characters laugh about how fat she is,” said Sylvia. Unsatisfied with Shakespeare’s attempt at getting a cheap laugh, Sylvia took a crack at reclaiming the narrative.

            “I wrote a poem from her perspective… turning all that mockery around into a source of power.”

            The offhanded body shaming isn’t the only critique she levels against the full folio.

            “Shakespeare was a product of his time,” she noted, for better or for worse. “As much as he transcended his time, which I think he also did, I think the idea of personal will, especially when it came to young women, was not something that he espoused.”

            Certainly, social attitudes have changed since Shakespeare’s time, though many of his works and characters continue to be thematically relevant and emotionally relatable.

            For Sylvia, the character closest to her heart is Audrey, a simple goatherd from “As You Like It.” While much of the play is about nobility fleeing their riches to live in the woods, Audrey regards her farm life as something to escape from. When the opportunity presents itself, Audrey marries the royal clown – yes, clown – without hesitation, moving into the ranks of minor nobility and leaving behind her role as a goatherd.

            “I always think of her as a character Shakespeare would have written for people like him, who moved to London from the countryside and were really excited to be… exposed to all of these experiences that they wouldn’t otherwise have had,” Sylvia explained.

            Small-town life might be charming in our current digital age, but back before indoor plumbing one could understand the appeal of a metropolitan lifestyle.

            When asked what other characters struck a particular chord with her, she named various mothers from Shakespeare’s early historical plays due to their repeated and inevitable loss.

            “(They’re) trying to ensure the safety of their children in a world where everything is so much out of their control,” she explained, noting that if there was a mother present, one or more of her children were bound to come to a grisly end, and how that impacted her. “I think when you’re a mom you feel that way. Like you want everything to go right for your kids and you just… like there are so many things that you don’t have any power over.

            “My kids are not in any danger of being beheaded, but I think that feeling of ‘How can I keep them safe when I just don’t have the power to be able to do that?’ is something that any mom can connect to.”

            Sylvia’s connection occurred at the same time as the separation of families at the U.S.-Mexican border. The televised mourning of mothers trying to find their children, she felt, was reflected in the stories she now read, further deepening the emotion she found in them, something she attempted to capture in her anthology.

            Those interested in hearing more of Sylvia’s work can attend the reading at the Mattapoisett Public Library on Saturday, October 22, at 2:00 pm. Author Wendy Drexler will also be reading poems from her work “Notes from the Column of Memory,” which should please fans of sonnets, as it contains several around the central themes of time, family and memory.

            In closing, Sylvia offered this bit of simple advice to aspiring bards.

            “If you want to write poetry, then I would say write poetry.” She also mentioned her own poetry group, which she cited as a huge source of support and encouragement through her writing process. “I think the number-one thing people interested in writing poetry should do is find other people to write with.”

By Jack MC Staier

ORRHS Drama Club to Present “Alice in Wonderland”

The Old Rochester Regional High School Drama Club’s Fall production of Alice In Wonderland will be staged on November 17, 18, 19 at 7 pm and November 20 at 2 pm. Director Maxx Domingos and Assistant Director Sarah Whinnem are celebrating their second year as directors for the Old Rochester Regional High School Drama Club. Principal cast members are Cattarinha Nunes as Alice, Calder Eaton as the Cheshire Cat, Kathleen Dunn as the Queen of Hearts and Jorge Carrillo as the Mad Hatter. There are plenty of laughs and references to pop culture which make this a play which is best for older children (grade 5 and up) and their grownups. Note: The ORR High School is currently a latex-free building. Due to issues with latex elastics, we ask that no flower bouquets be brought inside the school. Thank you for your consideration. Tickets will be available at Marion General Store, Pen & Pendulum in Mattapoisett and Friends’ Marketplace in Rochester and also at the door. Students & Senior Citizens $12.00, General Admission $15.00.

            Show Summary: “Alice in Wonderland” by Anne Coulter Martens presents a quaint and simplistic version of Lewis Carroll’s timeless classic. As the curtain rises, Alice slides into view at the end of her long fall down the rabbit-hole. It is a more delightful place for the audience than for Alice, who is trying desperately to get back home. She tries to get help from Wonderland’s craziest neighbors, the Mad Hatter, the Rabbit and from the very nice Cheshire Cat. Throughout her exploration of Wonderland, Alice comes to realize that finding the door that matches her special key is a more dangerous adventure than she thought.”

Heron Cove Finally Gets Go-Ahead

            The public hearing having been closed at its last meeting, the Marion Zoning Board of Appeals was eager on October 13 to vote accept Ken Steen’s application for a comprehensive permit as amended, corrected and encased in Town Counsel Jon Witten’s revised draft decision approving the site plan dated October 6 to build Heron Cove Estates.

            Steen’s 120-unit, affordable-housing development planned off Route 6 near the Wareham town line is a Local Initiative Program (LIP) 670CMR negotiated with and approved by the Marion Select Board. The public hearing was opened on January 30, 2020, according to Witten.

            Steen’s representatives indicated agreement with all requests, and the revisions were acceptable.

            The ZBA was especially eager to vote in part because it was down to three eligible voting members, the bare minimum allowed and even then necessitating unanimity.

            With the vote of approval, Steen is required to start construction three years from October 12, 2022 and required to complete the project five years from the date he files an occupancy permit.

            Steen originally sought a 10-year limit, according to ZBA Chair Cynthia Callow, but member Will Tifft said there was discussion, and five years was the board’s consensus.

            Callow instructed the members that now that the decision is approved, the ZBA has until November 8 to get the decision written and signed and stamped. She hopes that happens sooner because it would allow Steen to pull his permit, triggering the state to put the planned 120 affordable units on Marion’s affordable-housing account.

            “Mr. Steen is eager to start breaking ground in 45 days from the day it’s stamped. If he can’t … he has a year to start,” said Callow.

            Steen confirmed Callow’s procedure, noting that the permit signifies Marion would then be over the state threshold of 10% in affordable housing, authorizing the town to reject future applications seeking permits to build such developments in favor of market-rate projects that would bring greater tax revenue to the town.

            Callow thanked the ZBA members for their due diligence. “I don’t think anyone in the town could question our devotion,” she said.

            Steen also thanked the board.

            Marion Building Commissioner Bob Grillo called Heron Cove Estates a “textbook LIP.”

            “Towns don’t like 40B’s,” he said. “The (Select Board) negotiated in good faith. They both got a little bit of what they wanted and a little bit of what they didn’t want, right? And it started out from there. Laborious as this procedure has been, it’s been pretty straightforward.”

            Callow told the membership that if as expected Steen returns to the ZBA per the agreement with issues that necessitate votes, the full membership would become eligible to vote on those follow-up matters.

            Grillo suggested facing three distinct stages of vetting before, during and after construction, there be an internal document for oversight. Determining ahead of time which departments are going to be involved would help identify and bring them into the loop so that the project has a central nervous system within town offices.

            “It’s nothing that has to be done tomorrow, but bring it back to the next meeting,” said Grillo. “Get a document that is easily manageable, but make sure our I’s are dotted … We want to dictate who’s going to be responsible for what.”

            With the Heron Cove decision rendered, the ZBA also voted to seek authorization to use the “Mullin Rule.” The board will ask the Select Board to sponsor an article in the Warrant for next spring’s Annual Town Meeting. Even with town vote, the attorney general still needs to approve the change.

            The article would read: To see if the Town will vote to accept for the following boards, committees or commissions holding adjudicatory hearings in the Town, the provisions of Massachusetts General Law Chapters 39 and 23D, which provide that a member of a board, committee or commission holding an adjudicatory hearing shall not be disqualified from voting in the matter solely due to the member’s absence from one session of such hearing, provided that certain conditions as established by said statute are met. Board & Committees Affected: Zoning Board of Appeals.

            On Grillo’s recommendation, the ZBA voted to continue to December 22 at 6:30 pm a case opened to hear an application for variances from Martha Collins-Gray and Robert Gray, who wish to add a nonconforming garage to their 114 Front Street residence.

            The next meeting of the Marion ZBA is scheduled for Thursday, November 10, at 6:00 pm at the Marion Police Station, also accessible via Zoom.

Marion Zoning Board of Appeals

By Mick Colageo

Coyotes on Edge of Suburbia

The neighborhood Coyote often visiting our backyards and seen running along country roads in the headlights of our cars has evolved in crossbreeding to be as large today as a German Shepard dog.

            The modern Coyote has become much bigger than the small, 25-pound western canine that we saw in a Walt Disney character cartoon. It was recently estimated to be 60% Coyote, 30% Canadian Brush Wolf and 10% dog and reclassified as a Coydog. Judging from the recent rate of growth, it soon will appear to be too close for comfort.

            At the drop of a hat, the Coyote can move around at 40 miles per hour, adding habitat to 11 square miles in just a short time to adapt its diet to include rabbits, woodchucks, wild turkeys and feral cats. Unfortunately, it often includes pet tabbies and small dogs let outside for a brief opportunity to relieve themselves, making Coyotes very unpopular anywhere. The last Coyote den I visited included a wide variety of bits of fir and feathers, including white-tail evidence of deer fawns.

            Just last week while looking out my back porch picture window on Little Bay in Fairhaven, I was astonished to see a very large Coyote looking back at me with a wild expression, not to be disturbed by his proximity. My illustration looking across at Ashley Island was also helped by my daughter Elizabeth, showing colorful deciduous autumn foliage of salty rust crimson and seaside burnt orange. Nearby is our wooden Osprey nest platform, abandoned last month to migrate south for the winter.

            My nearest neighbors along Indian Way leading down to our beach report hearing howling at night of a family of Coyotes, starting out with a blood-curdling howl followed by a wavering harmony to another den far off in the distance. They seem to be inspired by a full October Moon rising over the horizon. Although their reason to sing seems to be a primitive mindset of orchestration, Coyote attacks on people are historically very rare and preventable by human caution and remedial behavior.

            An angry, offended Coyote attack is often when being bitten by someone trying to rescue pets from attack or being fed by someone. Under no circumstance is the killing of wild species to reduce population somehow justified as an act of retribution.

            The Coyote is today thriving on the edges of suburbia, and people are only entitled to evaluate a specific situation before making a final judgment and acting.

By George B. Emmons

Nasketucket Bird Club October Meeting

Hummingbirds with Dana Duxbury-Fox and Bob Fox on Thursday, October 27 at 7:00 pm at the Mattapoisett Free Public Library and online. Email nbcbirdclub@gmail.com for information and the Zoom link.

            Dana and Bob have developed a new talk focusing on Hummingbirds, that spectacular bird family we love and think we know. They will begin by focusing on what is a hummingbird and their adventures with 10 different, remarkable species they have seen on their journeys in the Americas. Then they will share the results of recent research which has given us deeper insights into the wonders of this family – how they evolved, pollination through nectar gathering (including a comparison with bees and butterflies), their diet of insects and nectar, nectar feeding technique, use of torpor, how iridescence is produced and their courtship. Many spectacular pictures and videos will be included. Come and marvel at these little gems.

From the Files of the Rochester Historical Society

            Creating a town out of unsettled land was the Proprietors’, founders of Rochester, task. Deciding what a town would need most, led them in 1683 to give Joseph Burge land, materials and access to water on the condition that he would build and operate a gristmill. Fourteen years later, they offered land to Anthony Coombs, if he would come from Sandwich and build a blacksmith shop near the gristmill.

            In 1708, another man from Sandwich, Peter Blackmere, approached the proprietors and convinced them to grant him some large parcels of land next to and upstream of the gristmill. He purchased the gristmill and built his house on what is now Hiller Road. The picture shows what is left of his house’s foundation.

            A well-educated and intelligent man, he quickly became a valued citizen of the new town. He was a proprietor. He built the first church in Rochester Center. He was a surveyor and served as both the town clerk and as a selectman.

            Over time he formed a partnership with Coombs and between his mill and Coomb’s smithy and forge, they provided for many of the townspeoples’ needs. They would bring their corn and rye to grind into flour and the smithy and forge mended broken tools and sold items like nails, barrel hoops and horseshoes. Between them, they created an industrial center for early Rochester.

By Connie Eshbach

Rally for Rylie, the ‘Warrior Princess’

On Wednesday, October 26, the Wareham Police Association is holding a blood drive from 9:00 am to 3:00 pm at the Wareham Police Station. The event is in honor of two-year-old “Warrior Princess” Rylie Grace Dion.

            In June, Rylie was admitted to Boston’s Children’s Hospital due to swollen lymph nodes. The following month, she had several masses removed that were sent for testing, though one was too risky to remove due to nerve entanglement.

            Rylie’s mother, Kristi Weigel, works as a nurse, and is the daughter of Rochester Fire Chief Scott Weigel. The family is selling T-shirts to help raise money for Rylie’s treatments, which can be found at bonfire.com/rally-for-rylie/.

            “Rylie loves the color pink,” Kristi told The Wanderer in a written interview. “(Her) favorite things to do are play dolls and dress up as princesses!”

            The youngest of three children, Rylie has been diagnosed with Nontuberculous Mycobacteria (NTM), as well as Chronic Cervicofacial Lymphadenitis. It’s a rare disease and will require a year or more of treatments.

            The Wareham Police Association got involved since Wareham Police Officer Calib LaRue is a friend of the family, and his wife is a nurse at Wareham Pediatrics, where Rylie is also a patient.

            “(She) has given us so much support.” Kristi said gratefully. “We have had so much support from our community. (The) Friends of Jack Foundation has done so much for Rylie.”

            Officer LaRue reached out a few months before and asked if Kristi would be okay with honoring Rylie for the association’s annual blood drive. Kristi was more than happy to approve and support two great causes at the same time.

            “My hope for the fundraiser is to get blood donations for these kids who have no choice but to battle these illnesses like Rylie,” she stated. “Donating blood might seem like such a simple thing to do, but it truly is a priceless gift for so many kids. The blood and platelets help these sick kids make new cells to help them fight. Blood donors are true heroes.”

            Those who might be squeamish around a blood-donation site can still spread the word, as well as supporting the family through their Bonfire link or Rylie’s GoFundMe page that can be found by searching “Rylie Grace,” “Katelyn Weigel” or “Kristi Weigel” on the website.

            “Her mom and dad have not left their side and are grateful for the support they have received from family and friends with Braydon and Chase!” the description reads. “Rylie has amazing strength and will get through this unknown time!”

            The Wareham Police Station is located at 2515 Cranberry Highway. To make an appointment, donors can visit bostonchildrens.org/halfpints and use sponsor code WRHMPD. For more information, contact Officer LaRue at calib_larue@warehampolice.com. A post about the blood drive can also be found at wareham.ma.us.

By Jack MC Staier

Two Negatives Send Projects Forward

            The Rochester Conservation Commission Tuesday night said no twice, but in a very positive way.

            In two public hearings, the commission issued determinations that projects to build an agricultural storage shed at 0 Pierce Street and replace a failing septic system at 213 Walnut Plain Road will not impact nearby wetlands.

            The 96×60-foot agricultural building being planned for Pierce Street will be a metal structure constructed with slab-on grade, said Rick Charon of Charon Associates, representing petitioner Bayside Agricultural, Inc. Charon said the location is near the staging area for a proposed solar facility, so it is mainly sand and stone. The building will not need a water supply or septic system. It will be used to store bog-related equipment such as sand barges. Silt socks will be placed on one side at the limit of the buffer zone.

            A failing septic system and cesspool at 213 Walnut Plain Road is being replaced with a new system that will require a new leaching field, said George Ayoub of GTA Engineering, representing petitioner Jacob Galary of Fairhaven.

            The result will be a new system with 40 percent less of a leaching area, said Ayoub, who was appearing via Zoom. No work will happen within 100 feet of the wetlands buffer zone except minor grading, he said.

            For both projects, the commissioners’ questions were few and the Negative Determination votes unanimous.

            The brief meeting ended with a vote to set the Rochester Conservation Commission’s next meeting for Tuesday, November 1, at 7:00 pm at Old Colony Regional Vocational-Technical High School library, 476 North Avenue, Rochester, accessible remotely via Zoom.

Rochester Conservation Commission

By Michael J. DeCicco