Laughs, Giggles, Cackles, and Smiles

            One of my favorite songs is “Smile” by Charlie Chaplin. Ya, that Charlie Chaplin who, to people of a certain age, was known as the “Litte Tramp,” a character he portrayed in the movies.

            Chaplin wrote the music in 1936 for his film “Modern Times” (John Turner and Geoffrey Parsons added the lyrics in 1954). Despite the title, the tune is not a happy one. The first line is “Smile, though your heart is aching …” but goes on to advise that there will always be a better tomorrow if you just smile.

            It might be a good anthem for modern times. We certainly can use more smiles in the world, don’t you agree? Smiling has become an issue in our current election cycle with one candidate suggesting the other team smiles too much, and the other saying their opponent rarely smiles.

            There are many kinds of smiles. There are laughs, giggles, cackles, guffaws, smirks, sneers, chuckles and grins. Dr. Paul Ekman, a professor at the University of California, is an expert on smiles … er, nonverbal communication. (Why do we have to complicate everything?)

            He has determined that there are 18 different kinds of smiles. I won’t list them all, but some may be familiar to you, such as the sadistic smile which, he says, “exudes jealously.”   Another is the ecstatic smile, which says life is wonderful. There is the contemptuous smile, the worried smile and the fake smile. Dare I say we see the latter in all political campaigns.

            A real sense of humor used to be a prerequisite for running a successful campaign. Ronald Reagan smiled a lot and used it to his advantage. I recall when he told his opponent Walter Mondale in a debate he would not “exploit, for political purposes, my opponent’s youth and inexperience.” Reagan was 73 and Mondale was 56 years old. They both shared a hearty laugh as did the audience. Reagan won the election.

            Abraham Lincoln was known to tell homespun stories full of ribald humor during meetings to lighten the mood. He also claimed humor helped him to deal with the stress of the office.

            Some say President Jimmie Carter had the best smile. According to Dr. Jack Ragsdale, a dentist … naturally, who studies presidential smiles (really?), his toothy grin was genuine. (Imagine cooling your heels in the doctor’s office waiting for him while he studies all the presidents’ smiles.)

            Newer research at Aston University in the UK suggests that a smile can be contagious and has been linked to “higher levels of trust.” I don’t think it worked so well for old Jimmie while he was in office. He was not reelected.

            Harvey Ball, of Worcester, then a graphic designer at State Mutual Insurance, was asked to come up with a symbol that would raise the morale of the employees. (A pay raise might have worked.) Harvey drew the iconic happy face, now known as the Smiley Face. It took him 10 minutes and he received $45 for his efforts. (That would be $454.06 in today’s dollars. Not such a bad deal.) He never trademarked the symbol and never received another penny. Mr. Ball later started the nonprofit charity Harvey Ball World Smile Foundation to support children’s causes.

            Now that is something to smile about.

            Mattapoisett resident Dick Morgado is an artist and happily retired writer. His newspaper columns appeared for many years in daily newspapers around Boston.

Thoughts on…

By Dick Morgado

ZBA Approves Deck Construction

Rochester’s Zoning Board of Appeals approved the construction of a deck on an under-sized house lot at 560 Snipatuit Road in a swiftly moving meeting on August 22.

            In a meeting that took a mere 25 minutes, Walter and Doreen Gonet proposed a 9.5-foot deck extending 31 feet into the side setback of their 905 square-foot residential lot, a variance of town bylaw’s 40-foot setback limit.

            The zoning panel noted only one complication, that the extension into the side setback needed was larger than stated on the Gonets’ plans. The stairs make it a 28.5-foot encroachment on the setback, board member Jeffrey Costa said.

            ZBA Chairman David Arancio first reviewed the three points required to qualify for a variance: a unique circumstance to the topography that the applicant would otherwise suffer a substantial hardship, and that the plan would cause no harm to the public good. Gonet said his application met all three qualifiers.

            The board then unanimously approved the setback variance with the conditions that the deck stairs be no more than 28 feet into the side setback and the deck no more than 31 feet in the setback.

            The zoning panel opened its meeting at 7:15 pm and adjourned at 7:40 pm.

            The Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals’ next meeting will be held on Thursday, September 12, starting at 7:15 pm at Town Hall, 1 Constitution Way.

Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals

By Michael J. DeCicco

ORRSD Shares Back To School Safety Tips, Bus Routes

To coincide with the start of the new school year, Superintendent Michael S. Nelson would like to share back-to-school safety tips and important bus route information with families, residents and area motorists.

            The first day of school for grades 1-12 is Wednesday, August 28, and Kindergarten begins on Friday, August 30.

            “As the new school year begins, I want to extend a warm welcome back to all of our students and families,” said Superintendent Nelson. “We recommend that parents and guardians review the following safety tips with their children. This is an exciting time filled with new opportunities for learning and growth, and we are committed to ensuring the safety and success of all students as we approach the first day of school.”

            Traveling to school safely.

            The National Safety Council (NSC) provides the following tips for students and parents to safely get to school:

            Walking to school:

            Walk on the sidewalk, if one is available; when on a street with no sidewalk, walk facing the traffic

            -Before crossing the street, stop and look left, right and left again to see if cars are coming.

            -Make eye contact with drivers before crossing the street and always cross streets at crosswalks or intersections.

            -Stay alert and avoid distracted walking. Never walk while texting. If you need to respond to a text, move out of the way of others and stop on the sidewalk. Never cross the street while using an electronic device. Do not wear earbuds while walking across the street.

            Riding a bike to school:

            -Ride on the right side of the road, with traffic, and in single file.

            -Come to a complete stop before crossing the street; walk bikes across the street.

            -Stay alert and avoid distracted riding.

            -Make sure your child always wears a properly fitted helmet and bright clothing.

            -Helmets appropriate for bicycling should be worn by everyone – adults and children – on every bike ride, regardless of length of the ride.

            Riding the bus to school:

            -Go to the bus stop with your child to teach them the proper way to get on and off the bus.

            -Teach your children to stand six feet (or three giant steps) away from the curb.

            -If your child must cross the street in front of the bus, teach him or her to walk on the side of the road until they are 10 feet ahead of the bus; your child and the bus driver should always be able to see each other.

            Driving your child to school:

            -Stay alert and avoid distracted driving.

            -Obey school zone speed limits and follow your school’s drop-off procedure.

            -Make eye contact with children who are crossing the street.

            Safety tips for motorists:

            It is important that motorists be alert while driving, especially in school zones and residential neighborhoods. Children can be unpredictable and may ignore hazards and take risks. The NSC provides the following tips for motorists:

            -Don’t block the crosswalk when stopped at a red light or waiting to make a turn, forcing pedestrians to go around you; this could put them in the path of moving traffic.

            -In a school zone when flashers are blinking, stop and yield to pedestrians crossing the crosswalk or intersection. Always stop for a school patrol officer or crossing guard holding up a stop sign.

            -Take extra care to look out for children in school zones, near playgrounds and parks, and in all residential areas.

            -Don’t honk or rev your engine to scare a pedestrian, even if you have the right of way.

            -Never pass a vehicle stopped for pedestrians.

            -If you’re driving behind a bus, allow a greater following distance than if you were driving behind a car.

            -Never pass a bus from behind – or from either direction if you’re on an undivided road – if it is stopped to load or unload children. It is illegal in all 50 states to pass a school bus that is stopped to load or unload children.

            -If the yellow or red lights are flashing and the stop arm is

extended, traffic must stop.

            -The area 10 feet around a school bus is the most dangerous for children; stop far enough back to allow them space to safely enter and exit the bus.

            -When passing a bicyclist, proceed in the same direction slowly, and leave 3 feet between your car and the cyclist.

            -The most common cause of collision is a driver turning left in front of a bicyclist. Watch for bike riders turning in front of you without looking or signaling; children especially have a tendency to do this.

            -Watch for bikes coming from driveways or behind parked cars.

            As always, if there’s any emergency, call 9-1-1- immediately.

Mattapoisett Yacht Club Up Coming Events

September 14. MYC Phoenix Cup. A fun race any member with a sailboat can participate in.  There is no Fee for this race.  Check website under Racing, Phoenix Cup for details.

            September 14. Last race of the season. Open to all PHRF boats in Buzzards Bay. Check our website for entry details, under Racing, Fall RTB. www.mattapoisettyc.org

            October 19. MYC Annual Meeting and Awards.  All members are encouraged to attend. This is the Social Event of the season. Details on the website under Social Events.

Rochester Cultural Council

The Rochester Cultural Council (RCC) is now accepting online applications from organizations, schools and individuals for grants to support community-oriented arts, humanities and science programs. If you have a great idea for bringing culturally enriching programming to the Rochester area and need funding to make it a reality, we can help. The online application window will be open from September 1 to October 17.

            The Rochester Cultural Council is composed of a group of volunteers appointed by the Rochester Select Board. Our mission is to promote excellence, access, and diversity in the arts, humanities and sciences to richly enhance the quality of life in the Rochester community. The Council strives to achieve these goals through the funding of local programs with grants awarded by the Mass Cultural Council. Special priority is given to nonprofit applicants from the town of Rochester and to surrounding community projects that would substantially enrich Rochester and its residents. Proposals may include programs such as school field trips, afterschool programs, concerts, festivals, lectures, theater, dance, music, film and STEM projects. LCC programming may take place in schools, community centers, libraries, elder care facilities, town halls, parks or wherever communities come together.

            The RCC is a part of the Local Cultural Council (LCC) Program which is the largest grassroots cultural funding network in the nation supporting thousands of community-based projects in the arts, humanities and sciences annually. This program is supported by the Mass Cultural Council, massculturalcouncil.org, a state agency who yearly awards local councils more than $3 million in grants to more than 5,000 cultural programs statewide.

            Are you considering applying for RCC funding, but are a bit anxious about the process? Join us for an Applicant Support Workshop on Monday, September 16 from 6:30-7:30 pm. We will be available to answer your questions regarding the application process in person at the Joseph H. Plumb Memorial Library in Rochester, as well as via Zoom @ us04web.zoom.us/j/77615117509?pwd=ruMJTaYDafz42xrkLuquQknNKOeXfX.1 Meeting ID: 776 1511 7509, Passcode: 1D03ht. Quick links to tips for grant writing and the application process can also be found at bit.ly/RCCTips.

            Your RCC is always looking to welcome new members. To find out more about us, check us out at www.facebook.com/rochestermaculturalcouncil or feel free to attend one of our open meetings or email us directly at rochesterculturalcouncil@gmail.com. We would love to have you join us.

Mary (Ryan) Franklin

Mary (Ryan) Franklin, 90, of Bradenton, FL, formerly of Winchester, Mattapoisett, and Marion, MA died peacefully on Tuesday, August 27, 2024, after a brief illness. She was the wife of the late Lewis C. Franklin, Jr.

            Born in New Bedford, daughter of the late Dr. James and Helen (Toomey) Ryan, Mary lived in Winchester and Mattapoisett most of her life before retiring to Bradenton, FL.

            Mary’s greatest pleasure was spending time with her grandchildren, both in Mattapoisett and Florida, and attending all their milestone events. She loved shopping, dining and attending plays with her friends, participating in water aerobics with her Perico Bay Club neighbors, traveling with members of her Florida Parish community, and was an avid golfer and member of Reservation Golf Club in Mattapoisett. She loved going to the beach and never missed a chance to take a dip – harkening back to her swimming instructor roots. Mary will be remembered as a beautiful seamstress, talented cook and creative artist.

            Mary was a devout Catholic and longtime member of St. Anthony’s Church in Mattapoisett and Saints Peter and Paul the Apostles Church in Bradenton where she was a member of the Widows group.

            Mary was a Home Economics teacher in the Winchester Public Schools system for many years.

            Survivors include her children, Lewis Franklin III and his wife Irina of Wellesley, MA, Joanne Petrie and her husband Dr. Scott Petrie of Marion, MA, and James Franklin and his wife Emily of Pawleys Island, SC; her brother, Thomas Ryan; and her grandchildren, Nicole and Ashley Franklin, Andrew and Mark Hill, Carolyn, Robert and MaryGrace Petrie, and Joseph and Dr. Katherine Franklin.

            She is predeceased by her daughter Ellen Hill; and her siblings, Margaret Tweedie and Denis Ryan.

            Mary’s Memorial Mass will be held on Saturday, September 7th at 10:00 am at St. Anthony’s Church, 26 Hammond St., Mattapoisett, MA 02739. A Memorial Mass and burial of cremains will be held at Saints Peter and Paul the Apostles Catholic Church, 2850 75th Street West, Bradenton, FL 34209 at a later date. For online guestbook please visit www.saundersdwyer.com

Marian Braitmayer Howell

Marian Braitmayer Howell (she preferred “Marty” or “Tuna”), 75, of Marion died Thursday, August 15, 2024 unexpectedly at home.

            Marty was raised in Red Hook, New York, adopted daughter of the late William Henry Howell and the late Jane Braitmayer Howell. She resided in New York and various places in Massachusetts before moving to Marion full time in the early 1990s.

            She was a graduate of Emma Willard School and Vassar College.

            Marty was formerly employed as a broadcast audio producer for WCRB for many years until her retirement and was responsible for regular broadcasts of the Boston Symphony and the Boston Pops.

            She was a longtime supporter and former trustee of the Sippican Lands Trust and was a member of the Beverly Yacht Club.

            Marty loved photography and was an avid amateur landscape photographer who was inspired by the interplay of the natural light, color, and forms she saw in the local landscape. She was at her happiest tromping through a wetland or marsh capturing the fine detail of nature’s wonders through her camera lens.

            She is survived by her longtime partner, Paul McGalliard, her brother, David Howell, and various extended family members. She was predeceased by her dear sister Kath Howell.

            Arrangements were by the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals. No services are scheduled at this time. In lieu of flowers, donations in Marty’s memory may be made to the Sippican Lands Trust, P.O. Box 848, Marion, MA 02738.

Romantic Yarn Comes Full Circle

For Cecelia Hall, caring for her community has mainly come in the form of yarn. Operating out of her Chevy Silverado pick-up truck, she collects yarn and distributes yarn, the goal being 100% charity.

            On trips to and from Fairhaven, she recently had the back of her pick-up packed with yarn twice in the same week.

            “And then one of the families called me and said, ‘My aunt died in Rhode Island,’ and they brought me four SUV loads of black trash bags full of yarn. They were all one color – Country Blue – 96 skeins,” she said. “I get all this yarn, but I distribute it. I have people in Dartmouth, Freetown, New Bedford, Rochester, Wareham … they don’t have to donate it back to me, donate it wherever.”

            The sun barely sets on Hall’s empire of yarn, reaching over state lines. But her efforts emanate from her truck and begin at home.

            “People drop things off here, they drop things off at the Senior Center, (saying) ‘that’s for Celia,’” she said.

            Ending with successes like the $1,000 she raised at a Council on Aging craft sale, it’s been a steady flow of collection, creation and even recreation of clothing items and an ever-expanding network of likeminded collaborators. For this ongoing contribution for the betterment of her community, Cecelia Hall is being recognized with the 2024 Keel Award for the Town of Rochester.

            “People know that they can give her items they no longer use or need, and she will find a new home for them,” said Rochester COA member Pauline Munroe. “She had so many bins of items that she organized and managed a craft sale at the Rochester Council on Aging which raised over $1,000 for the Senior Center.”

            Hall’s activities in Rochester began modestly.

            Having belonged to three crochet groups in Rochester, Wareham and Acushnet when the COVID-19 pandemic hit the region, suddenly no groups of any kind were meeting out of an abundance of caution. But, when the Rochester group resumed, it drew attendees from Marion and Wareham.

            On her weekly trip to Acushnet-based Gifts to Give, Hall brought baby-related items but had yet to begin working there. She learned that the nonprofit was throwing out knitting hooks and crocheting needles because they had no outlet for the items.

            “So now they have an outlet for it: me,” said Hall, pointing to two bags in her living room given to her by a quilter that had to retired with failing vision. “Every week she comes to the COA and brings me two bags, so I have bags and bags of material.”

            Other items at Hall’s Rochester home are earmarked for Amy’s consignment shop in Westport. Hall also delivers items to Parting Ways Consignment Shop in Marion.

            “The money goes all to me, and then I buy clothes for the kids, whatever they needed,” she stated.

            When the Kids Echo in Freetown relayed that the business needed sizes 2 and 3, Hall spent $96 that she had collected on sales for that cause.

            Hall has conducted many yard sales at the Rochester Historical Society, and she’ll be back there next month for the Cranberry Festival where she will sell jewelry to “upcycle people,” artists who convert jewelry into other items. The money will buy oil for the Historical Society.

            Hall’s experience in the business world has helped her innovate and stay organized as her contacts multiply. Sometimes it’s about dolls, blankets or buntings for those dolls, sometimes summer dresses, and sometimes quilted lap robes for people in wheelchairs. Cecelia donates an afghan every year to the Rochester Memorial Day Boat Race.

            All the while Cecelia discussed the operation, her daughter Ann sat at her kitchen table knitting a large item.

            Hall organizes the weekly crafts group that meets at the Senior Center, and on Thursdays before heading off to Gifts to Gift in Acushnet, she will help serve breakfast. After learning that a lady who attends her church works in the Southeastern Massachusetts Educational Collaborative, SMEC regularly receives donations and so does a school in Rhode Island where that lady’s daughter teaches. Meanwhile, a colleague in Wareham fashions bags of different sizes to keep small toys.

            After it turned out that 2,000 facemasks that someone had fashioned from smooth-fabric football jerseys would not be needed toward the end of the pandemic, Hall reached out to a quilter who quickly figured out how to reshape the masks and instead manufacture bags.

            There seems to be no limit to the connections Hall is making, and yarn seems to be holding it all together.

            At the heart of it, Cecelia Hall is a caregiver from Rochester whose life has come full circle back to where it started and to a relationship she never expected.

            After spending 40 years of her life in Dayton, Ohio, Hall returned to Rochester 16 years ago. A community advocate in Ohio, Cecelia became a research advocate, the first in the United States. There, she lived in a 12-story building and volunteered at a thrift store. When the word got out, people in her residential building donated items.

            “I had one of those carts with the four wheels, it can hold a lot of stuff,” she said. “So when I got here, it was just a natural thing. I don’t know how I got into it, but it was natural.”

            Upon her return to Rochester 16 years ago, Cecelia crossed paths with someone she hadn’t laid eyes on in 60 years, longtime resident and one-time classmate Rick Hall. The two had attended Grades 1-5 together in the old schoolhouse now serving as Rochester’s Main Fire Station. Eleven months before they met, Rick’s wife passed away.

            Both understood the significance of the timing of their reunion. Cecelia the caregiver found the person she is meant to care for.

            “I walked in the Senior Center, and we’ve been together ever since,” she said.

Rochester Keel Award: Cecelia Hall

By Mick Colageo

Self-Storage Approved on County Road

Rochester’s Planning Board Tuesday approved the Site Plan Review draft decision for a four-building, self-storage facility off of County Road, one of which will be multistory.

            Board Chairman Arnold Johnson, however, was the lone negative vote, disagreeing that the draft decision should be endorsed so quickly.

            The meeting began with discussion of comments from the town’s consulting engineer, Ken Motta that requested manholes be part of the stormwater drainage system. Project engineer Phil Cordeiro disagreed, saying there will be a good, clean flow from the proposed drainage systems, with a 45-degree angle that will not impede water flow.

            Board members endorsed the project after agreeing with Cordeiro’s argument and reasoning this will be a private system; a clog or an overflow would not affect public groundwater.

            Johnson explained he was the lone dissenting vote simply because “I don’t like approving draft decisions without giving them time to be considered.”

            In other action, the board approved the Braley Hill North Solar amended draft decision, which will allow a one-year extension of the permit for a large-scale, photovoltaic installation in a Ground Water Protection District on a Scenic Highway (Route 105) on Braley Hill Road.

            The board continued until its September 10 meeting its hearing to amend and extend the special permits for a proposed solar-energy installation on 128 acres at 529, 523 and 0 Snipatuit Road and Featherbed Lane within the Mattapoisett River Valley Watershed and Groundwater Protection District.

            Johnson reported the board has received correspondence that the Zoning Board of Appeals has received a Use Variance petition for a plan to construct a multifamily unit on a lot barely more than an acre in size. Johnson proposed, and the board agreed, to send notice to the ZBA that the board opposes such a plan.

            Town Planner Nancy Durfee advised inviting Town Counsel to the board’s next meeting to discuss a state bylaw change and a proposed bylaw for the January 6, 2025, Special Town Meeting. The new stated law allows more accessory dwelling units. The town proposal is to eliminate use variances. Both items need Town Counsel’s input, Durfee said.

            The Rochester Planning Board’s next meeting will be held on Tuesday, September 10, at 7:00 pm at Town Hall, 1 Constitution Way.

Rochester Planning Board

By Michael J. DeCicco

Welcome Home

On Sunday, September 8 at 10 am, the Mattapoisett Congregational Church will hold its annual homecoming on the church lawn at 27 Church Street in Mattapoisett. Everyone in the Tri-Town area is invited to celebrate with us in worship with a Blessing of the Backpacks for students returning to school. The service will be followed by a BYO picnic lunch. Traditionally, representatives from the police and fire departments are recognized for their caring service to the people of Mattapoisett. Following worship at 10 am, there will be games for the children, registration for Sunday School plus ice cream. There will be fun and fellowship for all. We hope you’ll bring your lawn chair and join us at 10 am. Contact the church office with any questions at 508-758-2671 or mattcongchurch@gmail.com.