Medical Bills: How to Fight Them

Years ago, when I would visit with my in-laws, after the initial pleasantries, my mother-in-law would bring out a shoebox full of paper and say, “Edward, do I owe anyone any money?” In the box were dozens of undecipherable pieces of paper, many of which were marked, “This is Not a Bill,” even though they looked like bills. Things have not gotten better.

            Medical billing is notorious for being very hard to understand and full of errors. The average person, faced with a gigantic bill, is likely to throw up their hands and pay it, but do not be in too much of a hurry to do so.

            The first step is to request an itemized bill, to which you are entitled. This will list all the things the doctor or hospital is charging you for. While the bill should list the items, sometimes you will just get a listing of CPT (Current Procedural Terminology) codes – 5-digit numbers that are medical shorthand for the things done. It is very easy to use Google to get the English translation of, say, 99285 into “Emergency Visit, high complexity.” Very often you will see things listed that were simply not done, and a call or letter should ask to have these removed.

            You should also use your common sense to evaluate how well the service for which you are billed matches the service you received. Using the same example, if you are being charged $800 for a 99285 and you went to the Emergency Department with a swollen ankle that was wrapped in an elastic bandage, you should insist the charge be reduced. A “high complexity” visit is meant to cover caring for a victim of a major auto accident or a patient in coma, not a 10-minute visit for a simple problem.

            If the billing department will not reduce the charge, demand a copy of your visit. If the notes reflect a simple visit, repeat your demand and threaten to take the issue to your insurance company or the state department of consumer affairs.

            Finally, it is always worth asking for a discount. Uninsured patients are usually charged the “list price” for a service while Medicare, Medicaid and every commercial insurance company gets a substantial discount off these prices. You will very often get a discount of 25% or more just by asking.

            It is your money. Don’t part with it without a fight.

            Dr. Ed Hoffer is the chairman of the Marion Board of Health, a graduate of MIT and Harvard Medical School. He is Associate Professor of Medicine, part-time, at Harvard and a Senior Scientist at the Massachusetts General Hospital.

What Does The Doctor Say?

By Dr. Ed Hoffer

Mattapoisett Library

Jim Parker, whose folk art watercolors are on display at the Mattapoisett Library during the month of November, will be providing instruction on how to paint a watercolor of the historic SouthCoast on Sunday, November 26. Parker has painted hundreds of paintings, and his goals and motivations for his folk art paintings are to recreate historic events, sites, and people’s activities. By illustrating the past, each painting supplements our history rather than just reading about it in a book. There will be two sessions: one for children from ages 6 – 12 (must be accompanied by an adult) from 1:15 pm – 2:15 pm and the other for teens and adults from 2:30 pm – 3:30 pm. Sketch pencils, erasers, and watercolor paper will be provided, and Parker’s expertise and suggestions will be available to all. Attendees can then bring their masterpieces home and paint their sketches. Suggestions for what paints and brushes to use will be offered. Free to all.

Ralph E. Parsons

Ralph E. Parsons, 75, aka “Rocky”, aka “Ralphy”, aka “Dad”, aka “Papa Ralph”, finally allowed his big, generous, fun loving heart to retire peacefully yesterday at his home at Dexter Beach in Marion.  Ralph’s heart had quite the amazing history.  It took its first marvelous thumps in New Haven, CT.  His mother Rita, his father Ralph, his brother Gary and his sister Barbara were the first to experience the joy in Ralphy’s heart.   It was then stolen early on by his beautiful wife of 57 years, Diana (Hedin) Parsons, in the classrooms and hallways of Natick High School. It entertained and delighted friends and family everywhere he took it.  Ralph’s heart loved to beat on the dance floor, and pumped laughs and frivolity from him at every party, gathering, cookout or dart night he ever attended.  Ralph’s heart had no boundaries, and allowed him to make friends wherever he went.  As a Purveyor of Pickles, a Package Store Proprietor, a Video Vendor, and an Ice Cream Creator, Ralph never let his heart get bored, as new adventures lay around every corner. 

            Ralph’s heart was broken more than once, especially with the passing of his two beautiful daughters, Lisa and Tracy.  But it swelled with pride often, over his son Ken and his wife Darla, Tracy’s husband Doug, and Ralph and Diana’s 6 wonderful grandchildren – Desera, Travis, Kassidy, Holden, Skyler and Kirsten.  Most recently, it nearly burst with love for his 4 great-grandchildren – Ryker, Emry, Everly and Mazen.

            Ralph was the man who taught other men how to be friends, husbands and fathers.  Suffice to say, if you were lucky enough to love or be loved by this man, then you know the world would be a much better placed if everyone was like him.  He (and his beautiful heart) will be missed, but never forgotten…

            Services will be private.  To leave a message of condolence for the family please visit www.warehamvillagefuneralhome.com

Dog Hearing Needs Larger Venue

            A Special Permit application for an in-house, dog-training business at 16 Bishop Road drew a standing-room-only crowd of concerned neighbors to Rochester Town Hall on November 9, forcing the Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals’ public hearing to be postponed.

            After noting that the meeting was no longer accessible to all who wanted to attend because of the overcrowding, Rochester ZBA Chairman David Arancio motioned to postpone the hearing to November 30 and to move it to the larger venue of the Rochester Senior Center (Council on Aging) on Dexter Lane. Arancio said the Town Hall meeting room’s posted occupancy limit is 32 people seated and 40 standing.

            Members of the crowd offered to whittle down its number in the interest of allowing the public hearing to move forward. Arancio invoked a 10-minute recess to allow time for this to occur. Ten minutes later, Arancio noted the Town Hall meeting room was still over capacity, and the board approved his motion to postpone.

            Later in the meeting, an application for a variance from the minimum required, 40-foot rear setback to build an above-ground pool at 142 Sarah Sherman Road also sparked a neighbor’s objections.

            Homeowner Luis Rivera said his plan is for a 15×30-foot pool for his two children, ages seven and eight. He said he has erected temporary pools and has taken them down every year. A single, permanent pool would be more cost-effective, he said, but it would only fit where he would need a 23.3-foot setback from the adjacent property for the space to build it.

            His next-door neighbor James Ruell said he “had issues” with the plan. He said he already hears a lot of noise from his neighbor. “It’s certainly not going to be quieter,” he said. “I am objecting to it, the noise and the setback.”

            Rivera said he plans to add more plantings as a noise and visual buffer. Where there are gaps in the existing buffer, he will fill them. The ZBA reinforced this promise when it approved the variance. The panel included the condition that Rivera will plant eight Leyland cypress trees at a minimum of 4 feet tall when the pool is installed.

            In other action, the board appointed three ZBA members to the new By-Law Review Committee. They will be Richard Cutler, Davis Sullivan and Jeffrey Costa. The ZBA also approved a new policy to recite the Pledge of Allegiance at the beginning of every meeting.

            The Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals will meet next on Thursday, November 30, at 7:15 pm at the Rochester Senior Center (Council on Aging), 67 Dexter Lane.

Rochester Zoning Board of Appeals

By Michael J. DeCicco

Thanksgiving Lives On

Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday. Even as a little boy when you’d think it would be just like any other day, just me and my mother and father at the dinner table, it was special.

            Instead of the usual meatloaf or tuna casserole, or “potato bargain” … a concoction of sliced potatoes and ketchup (we were poor), Mom would cook up a big turkey with all the trimmings: stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy, peas, brown bread and cranberry sauce. The whole caboodle. That was the only time of the year when they allowed me to sip a glass of Madeira wine. Since there were only the three of us, we would have turkey leftovers … turkey sandwiches, turkey soup or turkey salad for days afterward.

            After dinner, we would go to my grandmother’s house where there would be a nice warm fire in a giant pot-bellied stove. Kale soup might be cooking on the kitchen stove for supper.

            It always seemed to be cold, and snow would cover the ground in those days. In high school, when Old Rochester was brand new, everyone would bundle up and go to the football game, even my parents who could not have cared less about sports. It was all about starting new traditions. My wife’s brother, who is in his sixties now, still plays touch football with his friends from school every Thanksgiving morning. Now they play with their own kids and grandkids. There’s a tradition!

            One Thanksgiving, my uncle Marno was in the hospital in Boston. Dad and his brother Robbie drove up to visit him. Not being familiar with the city, they promptly got lost. To add insult to injury, the car broke down on Storrow Drive! Repairs made, they found their way to the hospital, saw uncle Marno and made it home by supper time. We were thankful for that. Uncle Marno recovered and even made history. He had his larynx removed due to cancer and learned to talk within a week. Doctors from as far away as California came to see him because they couldn’t believe it. Even more to be thankful for.

            After marriage and our kids came along, Thanksgiving dinner was always at my bride’s parents’ house. With her six siblings, and as the family grew with assorted spouses and children, it became pretty crowded. When preparing dinner for such a large brood got too much for my mother-in-law, we celebrated the holiday at my in-laws’ country club where my father-in-law was president. A step up for a poor barber’s son from little old Mattapoisett. On the drive to the club, we would sing the old Thanksgiving chestnut, Over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s … club!

            Everyone is older now and living far apart. The extended family doesn’t get together for dinner anymore. Some have passed away.

            Our kids are grown, living in different places, but they still come home for Thanksgiving. There are just the four of us, no grandkids, but we still have days’ worth of leftovers, though my son takes a drumstick home with him.

            Thanksgiving is still special and still my favorite holiday. This year marks my 10th year living with cancer. What more can one be thankful for?

            Happy Thanksgiving.

            Editor’s note: Mattapoisett resident Dick Morgado is an artist and retired newspaper columnist whose musings are, after some years, back in The Wanderer under the subtitle “Thoughts on ….” Morgado’s opinions have also appeared for many years in daily newspapers around Boston.

Thoughts on…

By Dick Morgado

ORR Playoff Runs End

            The Old Rochester Regional High School football team got a touchdown from Gavin Martin and a two-point conversion from Devin St Germaine, but a stingy Shawsheen Tech defense ended the Bulldogs’ postseason run with a 28-8 victory in the teams’ MIAA Division 5 quarterfinal on November 10 in Billerica.

            “We had our chances twice with the ball inside the 20-yard line in the first half and came away with zero points. We are proud of the boys,” said ORR Head Coach Bryce Guilbeault. “They played hard and left everything on the field. At the end of the day, that’s all you can ask.”

            ORR (5-5) still has a big game on Thanksgiving Day, Thursday, November 23, against Apponequet (4-6) in Lakeville.

Girls Volleyball

            ORR’s girls’ volleyball team also advanced in the playoffs, but its season came to an end on November 9 with a 3-0 loss at third-seeded Weston (18-5) in the MIAA Division 3 state quarterfinals.

            “Although it was not the ending we hoped and planned for, there is a lot to be happy about,” said ORR coach James Oliveira. “This team improved tremendously throughout the season and truly seemed like one of the more close-knit groups I’ve coached at ORR.”

            The sixth-seeded Bulldogs finished the season at 17-5.

Cross Country

            The ORR boys and girls cross-country teams ran their respective, MIAA Division 2 state-meet qualifying races on November 11 at the Wrentham Developmental Center and came away with great performances.

            For ORR girls, Emily Abbott placed 24th in Wave C with a time of 20:56.3, while Hannah Whalley (21:10.5) and Aubrey Heise (21:11.1) finished 31st and 32nd. For the boys, Tyler Young finished fifth in Wave C in 16:11.6, and Aidan Silk finished 11th in 16:58.

            With these performances, the girls placed fourth in Wave C as a team and the boys finished sixth in Wave C, qualifying both teams for the All-State meet to be held on Saturday, November 18, at Fort Devens (Willard Field – intersection of Sherman Avenue and Antietam Street in Devens.)

Sports Roundup

By Aiden Comorosky

Black Bears in Massachusetts

On Friday, December 8, from 6:30 – 7:30, the Marion Natural History Museum will welcome Steven Wright and Jason Zimmer, wildlife biologists with the Massachusetts Division of Fisheries and Wildlife. They will be giving a presentation on the Black Bears in Massachusetts.

            Black bears are found throughout much of the state, including southeastern Massachusetts. Let’s learn what to do if you see a bear and what steps to take to protect your home and property. We’ll hear a little about the life history of the black bear and why they’re here.

            Let’s learn about our bear population so that we can be respectful toward our wild neighbors. We may need to learn to change our behavior, because bears aren’t going to change theirs.

            To RSVP, please go to the Marion Natural History Museum website: www.marionmuseum.org.

Academic Achievements

Sarah Sollauer of Rochester has made the Dean’s List at Wentworth Institute of Technology for the summer 2023 semester.

Conservation Agent to Assist in Office

            During Monday night’s meeting of the Mattapoisett Conservation Commission, it was announced that the commission’s agent, Brandon Faneuf, will be handling clerical duties in the absence of a clerk in the commission’s office.

            Faneuf asked for the community’s patience as he handles additional duties for the town and the commission and asked that those needing to reach him should send an email message to consagent@mattapoisett.net.

            Agenda items handled on this night included the continuance of SE44-1510, a Notice of Intent filing by Allan Pineda and Mary Manning for property located at 33 Church Street. The case was continued pending a Zoning Board of Appeals hearing scheduled for November 16 at 6:00 pm.

            Continued until November 27 was a NOI filed by Jay Dupont, 12 Old Mattapoisett Neck Road, for a septic-system replacement. The case is pending a NEP File Number.

            Also continued was a NOA filing from Stephen Schwartz, 48A Shore Drive, for the repair of an existing stone jetty.

            A Certificate of Compliance requested by Jessie Davidson Trust, 22 Pine Island Road, was issued.

            A COC requested by David Meeker, 93 Mattapoisett Neck Road, was tabled pending Faneuf’s confirmation that work was completed as permitted.

            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Conservation Commission is scheduled for Monday, November 27, at 6:30 pm.

Mattapoisett Conservation Commission

By Marilou Newell

Blending History with Art

James Parker likes to keep busy. After a very active life filled with military service and commercial business success, he turned to his love of painting and research of all things Americana.

            For many years now, Parker has been painting in the self-taught folk or primitive style. He has found that nearly every street, harbor, park, boatyard and more holds a rich history yet to be explored. It is as if these places have been waiting for someone like Parker. Some 30 or more of his paintings are now waiting for you to explore at the Mattapoisett Free Public Library, now through November 30.

            “When I paint a scene, everything in that scene is from the same era,” Parker said. Thus, when he painted antique cars, part of the Sandwich Heritage Museum collection, each vehicle was meticulously studied, and the people, their clothing and other objects were circa-specific. In some instances, he used antique postcards as reference material or visited museums to get the clothing as accurate as possible. The result is stunning.

            “I use the old English way of painting watercolors,” said Parker, explaining that this early method is achieved by layering the paint, applying color on top of color until the right intensity has been accomplished. The result is a painting with extremely complex hues and tones versus, say, what one might find in traditional watercolors.

            When listening to Parker, one gets a sense that the detective work he employs to best understand the subject of a painting is equally as interesting to him as the actual painting itself. “It’s like mixing history and art,” he said.

            The themes that interest this artist the most are those that give him a chance to learn and then, through the painting, tell and/or teach the viewer a bit of history.

            One example of his marrying art to history can be found at the Osterville Historical Museum. There, one of his pictures of a catboat accompanies a skeleton of one such marine vessel. He is quoted in the August 2021 issue of Cape Cod Life magazine as saying, “I’m creating something where kids can see the wreck but also an image of the way catboats were in their prime.”

            Long before finding his voice through painting, Parker was an entrepreneur owning a long list of successful businesses. And before that he served in the Navy during the second Suez (canal) war in the 1950s. One of his first forays into painting happened at this time. He was asked to paint the U.S. ship he was on to give as a gift, a tradition among ambassadors. That painting remains in royal custody somewhere in the Persian Gulf area.

            Parker remains curious with a very inquisitive mind. Age hasn’t slowed down this entrepreneur of all things historical and quintessentially New England. He proudly noted to us that he is 89 years of age. We can also say that listening to all his plans for future projects would exhaust someone decades younger.

            As he smiled at our photographer, the twinkle in his eyes shown like lasers – his mind is clearly supercharged with ideas waiting to appear for all to enjoy. To learn more, google watercoloristjamesparker.

Mattapoisett Library

By Marilou Newell