Alexandria Mary Mohidin (Stylos)

Alexandria Mary Mohidin (Stylos) of Rochester passed away peacefully on Monday, December 23, 2013 at Tremont Nursing Home at the age of 95.  Born in Lowell Massachusetts in 1918, she was the daughter of Achilles and Marianthi (Kotarakos) Stylos. She was preceded in death by her husband Gulam Mohidin of Suffering Moses, Kashmir, India to whom she was married for 50 years.

She is survived by her two daughters, Dr. Mumtaz Mohidin m. to Dr. Shabeer Dar and COL (Ret) Halima Mohidin Tiffany, and two grandsons Sam Shabeer and Alexander Stylos. She was one of eight children, surviving her are her three brothers: Peter Stylos of Bridgeport CT, Paul Stylos m. to Ramona of Northampton MA, and William Stylos m. to Virginia of Fairhaven MA and one sister Eunice Hanson m. to C. Lee Hanson of Easton CT. and numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. She was preceded in death by her three sisters Helen Olympia Straley, Jennie Aphrodite Helmar, and Ann Anthoula Moser.

Mrs. Mohidin received her BA degree in Home Economics from Berea College, KY and her teachers training certification in Framingham State Teachers College. She was a teacher for a short period at New Bedford Vocational School, when she was recruited by the Board of Foreign Missions for a three year job in India teaching Home Science at a girl’s school. She met her husband there and after her job was over, she got married and remained there until his death. Together they ran an international handicraft business Suffering Moses where she was the creative force behind the successful business.

Besides being the creative force behind their business, Mrs. Mohidin loved to cook, knit, sew, bake, can, weave, carve wood, and spoil her two grandsons. She was a wonderful cook, and could cook Indian food better than the locals. There were always fresh flowers beautifully arranged around the home and the business.

Her funeral service was held on Thursday, December 26, at the Sherman Cemetery in Rochester. We will celebrate her life at a memorial service on Sunday, 29 December, at 1:00 PM at the Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home in Wareham, 2599 Cranberry Hwy, Wareham. Reception to follow.

In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be sent to her Alma Mater Berea College, Berea KY, 40404.

Family Bay Discovery Day

See what gifts Mother Nature left us this holiday season during a Family Bay Discovery Day program with the Buzzards Bay Coalition on Friday, December 27 and Saturday, December 28. Participants will embark on a scavenger hunt to find natural treasures in the forest or on the beach. At the end of each program, we will show you how your family can turn the treasures you find into a festive craft!

Programs offered are ‘Gifts from the Forest’ on Friday, December 27 from 10:00 – 11:00 am at the Trustees of Reservations Lyman Reserve (110 Red Brook Road, Plymouth) and ‘Gifts from the Bay’ on Saturday, December 28 from 10:00 – 11:00 am at Planting Island Causeway (Planting Island Road, Marion).

While there is no cost to attend, registration is required for all Bay Adventures. To RSVP, email bayadventures@savebuzzardsbay.org or call 508-999-6363 ext. 219.

This program is part of the Coalition’s Bay Adventures series, which are programs designed for explorers of all ages to get outside and discover Buzzards Bay. To learn more about all our upcoming Bay Adventures, visit www.savebuzzardsbay.org/BayAdventures.

Winter Sports in Full Swing

The second week of winter sports at Old Rochester was interrupted by persistent winter weather, which managed to postpone a swim meet and a boys’ and girls’ basketball game, along with cancelling practices. Despite the storms, however, several of the teams had excellent performances. Here is a look at the second week of scheduled games for ORR winter athletics.

            Boys’ Track: Coming off of a narrow victory over Diman, the boys’ track team looked to prove their full value in their meets this past week. The boys successfully defeated Case, Bourne, and Apponequet to keep an undefeated record for the winter season. In the Case meet, where the boys won 58-28, the biggest story revolved around junior Kevin Saccone, who set a school-record time for the 55-meter-hurdles with a quick 7.8 seconds. Saccone would later go on to break his own record later that week against Apponequet, lowering it two-tenths of a second to 7.6 seconds. Saccone would also go on to win the 600 meter dash in a 1:36.1 to lead the Bulldogs to another 58-28 victory. Mike Wyman won the two mile run in all three meets, easily claiming victories by running times of 10:18, 10:18, and 10:07. Senior Colin Knapton dominated the sprinting events over the course of the week, claiming victories in the 55-meter-dash and the 300-meter dash in all three meets.

Girls’ Track: The girls’ indoor track team had an equally successful week. The girls easily defeated Case, Bourne and Apponequet with scores of 75-13, 75-11, and 79-7 respectively. The latter victory over Apponequet was an essential win for the Lady Bulldogs. Apponequet is usually in contention for the SCC title each year, and the girls entered the meet to find that Apponequet’s best runners had chosen to not compete during the indoor season. Thanks to strong performances by triple-winner Paige Santos (9.1 seconds in the 55-meter-dash, 47 seconds in the 300-meter-dash, 5’2”in the high jump) and double-winner Morgan DaSilva (7.6 seconds in the 55-meter dash, 1:50 in the 600-meter-run), the girls dominated Apponequet, and face their last major obstacle for the SCC Championship in Fairhaven High School later this winter. Nina Bourgeois (3:36.8 in the 1,000-meter-run), Sam Barrett (12:46 in the two-mile), and Sam Allaire (27’ 6.75”) also contributed key wins for the Lady Bulldogs, who remain undefeated for the season.

Ice Hockey: The ORR/Fairhaven ice hockey team suffered their first loss of the season against out-of-conference Whitman-Hanson with a score of 3-1 last week. Coming off of a season-opening victory against Somerset-Berkeley, the defending SCC Champions looked to continue their success against Whitman-Hanson. After two quick goals by Whitman-Hanson, Fairhaven’s Jeremy Lawton scored off of an assist by Cam Silvia to make the score a manageable 2-1 at the close of the first period. After a scoreless second period, Whitman-Hanson scored again to raise the score to 3-1, which the Bulldogs could never make up. Goalie Chris Nadeau played well in the loss, making 30 saves.

Girls’ Basketball: The Lady Bulldogs suffered heavy losses from graduation, and after losing their opening game against out-of-conference New Bedford High School, the girls looked for redemption against SCC rival Apponequet. Unfortunately, the varsity-inexperienced Lady Bulldogs lost to the Lady Lakers with a decisive score of 51-12. Junior Morgan Browning and freshman Alexis Parker were ORR’s lead scorers for the night, each grabbing 4 points apiece. Browning also contributed on the boards with 10 rebounds. Despite the large margin of defeat, it is still early on in the season, and the girls were missing three starters due to injury (Kaleigh Goulart, Olivia Labbe, and Sophie Church).

Boys’ Basketball: Thanks to strong performances by seniors Paul Graves and Jeremy Bare, the boys’ basketball team propelled itself to a 66-49 victory over SCC rival Apponequet this week. Graves and Bare were the only two Bulldogs in double-figures for the night, with Graves scoring 17 points and Bare netting 16. Graves also provided the game’s most exciting moment with a dunk in the fourth-quarter to solidify the Bulldog victory. Junior Raekwon Phillips also played well in the chippy game, contributing 9 points and providing key defense in the backcourt. The Bulldogs had nine players get on the score-sheet for the night, and shot 39% from the field to remain at an undefeated 2-0 record.

Below are the overall winter team records, followed by the conference records in wins, losses, and ties as of December 22.

Boys’ Basketball: (2-0-0) (1-0-0); Girls’ Basketball: (0-2-0) (0-1-0); Boys’ Track (4-0-0) (3-0-0); Girls’ Track (4-0-0) (3-0-0); Swimming: (0-0-0) (0-0-0); Hockey: (1-1-0) (0-0-0).

By Michael Kassabian

Marion Natural History Museum Holiday Party

The Marion Natural History Museum after-school group enjoyed snacks and craft making during our annual holiday party. Our next set of after-school activities are on the museum’s website: www.marionmuseum.org.  Happy Holidays from the Marion Natural History Museum and see you in 2014!    Marion Natural History Museum holiday party Photo courtesy of Vin Malkoski

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GYH Learn to Skate and Learn to Play

The Gateway Youth Hockey will hold its 2014 Learn to Skate & Learn to Play Session 2 for nine weeks. Sunday dates are as follows: December 29; January 5, 12, 19, and 26; and February 2, 9, 16, and 23 from 10:00 – 11:00 am at the Tabor Ice Rink, Marion. Cost for the session is $80 GYH Registration Fee and $48 USA Hockey Registration Fee (mandatory if your child didn’t participate in the first session) for a total of $128.

Rochester Holiday Trash Collection

Due to the holidays (Christmas and New Year’s Day), trash in Rochester will be picked up on Saturday, December 28 and January 4. Trash must be curbside by 7:00 am.

Walter Gaj, Sr.

Walter Gaj, Sr., 86, of New Bedford died Tuesday December 23, 2013 at Hathaway Manor after a period of declining health. He was the beloved husband of Gladys J. (Jaworski) Gaj; they had been married for 59 years.

Born in New Bedford, the son of the late Frank and Karolina (Hop) Gaj, he lived in New Bedford for most of his life.

Walter graduated from New Bedford Vocational High School in 1945 and later attended classes at New Bedford Textile Institute, now UMass Dartmouth. He served in the U.S. Marine Corps during World War II, having been stationed with the occupation forces in China.

After being discharged from the Marines, he worked as a machinist at the Continental Screw Company for ten years, participating in the Holtite bowling and softball clubs. He later served as a police officer for the New Bedford Police Department for 25 years prior to retiring.

He was a member of the Polish Benefit Club, the Massachusetts Police Association, the New Bedford Police Association, the Polish-American War Veterans Association, and the Retired State, County, and Municipal Employees Association of Massachusetts.

An avid gardener, he loved the outdoors and taking care of the many trees and bushes at his former beach home in Mattapoisett and at his home in New Bedford.

He is survived by his wife, Gladys; his children, Debra Ann Treager and her husband Jeffrey of Wausau, Wisconsin and Walter Gaj, Jr. and his wife Brenda of Fairhaven; two brothers, Mitchell Gaj and Stanley Gaj, both of New Bedford; five grandchildren, Adam, Eric, and Emma Treager, and Miranda Jean and Matthew Walter Gaj; and nieces and nephews.

He was the brother of the late Joseph and Edward Gaj and Genevieve Molleo Peltz.

The family would like to thank the staff of Hathaway Manor for their patience and kindness in caring for Walter during his illness.

His Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday at 10 AM at Holy Name of the Sacred Heart of Jesus Church. Burial will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery. Visiting hours will be on Friday from 4-8 PM at the Saunders-Dwyer Home for Funerals, 495 Park St., New Bedford. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Quick Work for the Marion ZBA

An easement issue concerning the Bay Watch Realty 40B project was resolved during a brief meeting of the Marion Zoning Board of Appeals on December 19.

Right away, despite mention of Bay Watch on the agenda, board members knew it would be a speedy meeting, with Chairperson Eric Pierce commenting, “We’re going to go for a world record short,” as he opened the meeting.

The board reviewed the language that town counsel proposed to address Bay Watch Realty’s comprehensive permit and how it related to a parcel of land adjacent to the 40B development recently purchased by David Croll, referred to as “Lot B.” Lot B has an existing easement that allows access for the Town.

“This is to make sure easements are still in force so the Town is protected,” said Mr. Pierce. “It’s actually a good thing for the Town,” he continued. “It will give access to little bits of land…and the railroad heading to Mattapoisett.”

The easement provides access for Town vehicles off Spring Street behind the Wave restaurant.

Arriving ten minutes into the meeting, even Marion-based architect, Anthi Frangiadis – in attendance for the only other item on the agenda that evening – reacted with surprise that the board had moved so quickly through the Bay Watch Realty matter and onto the next one.

In light of a recent Planning Board decision to remove an interior lot line between two commonly owned contiguous lots, Charles Blanchette of 407 Front Street now has ZBA approval to move forward with a two-story garage expansion on the property.

Before, with the lot line still in existence, the garage expansion would have made an already non-conforming lot “more non-conforming,” a problem for the board. The construction plans had the garage encroaching on the lot line.

Ms. Frangialis took the matter before the Planning Board for resolution, and the next step now will be recording the change with the Registry of Deeds.

The motion to approve the special permit for the construction was made, and Mr. Pierce’s more sophisticated version of the motion, “the non-exacerbation of a preexisting non-conformity,” elicited laughter and amusement from the other board members.

The meeting was adjourned in less than 20 minutes.

By Jean Perry

Singing in Christmas

When Christmas comes to Mattapoisett, it means that it is time for the annual Christmas carol sing-along at Tinkhamton Chapel, a tradition kept alive for over 100 years.

The candlelight shining out from inside the little chapel seemed to shine a bit brighter this year as it fell on this winter solstice night, the longest and darkest night of the year.

The singing from within was louder than recent years past, with almost a hundred souls filling the tiny chapel, cozying up shoulder to shoulder on the long pews, and others spilling out through the doors into the outside air of this unseasonably warm first night of winter.

It was toastier than usual inside the little chapel. The balmy, winter air let the old-fashioned potbelly rest this year, and the front door remained wide open to welcome the fresh air.

The spirit of Christmas was apparent as you looked around the room at the smiling faces of grown-ups embracing their children, and neighbors and family members greeting and offering to share their red-covered song books with each other as they opened the evening singing “Joy to the World.”

The children gathered at the front of the church and sat together on the platform, ringing jingle bells and holding signs, brand new ones this year, of the Twelve Days of Christmas as the crowd sang in unison, watching with delight as the children led the way.

Carolers sang “Good King Wenceslas” while the flames from the kerosene lamps cast soft, flickering shadows that gave life to the aged walls that have witnessed this familiar scene for over a hundred Christmases.

It does not get any more Christmassy than that.

Playing the organ again for another year, Gail Roberts welcomed the small ensemble of musicians who accompanied her this year.

“We have a band here because there are so many missing keys on the organ,” Roberts said as she laughed.

Louise Anthony played her violin, Jack Deane plucked his banjo, and Jim Bean strummed his guitar while Samantha Winter introduced each song and turned the pages for the musicians.

Although many commented on the temperature of the room and the heat generated by all the people who packed the chapel, most agreed that it was a perfect evening. Those who might have passed by and peeked in through the foggy windows of the chapel would have found inside the simple joy of a community gathering to celebrate together in the spirit of Christmas.

By Jean Perry

Photos by Jean Perry  & Marilou Newell

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The Reason for the Season

She didn’t know it when she first arrived, but Lindsey Atterton was destined to play the Virgin Mary during the North Rochester Congregational Church Christmas service on December 22.

Everything was in place for the live nativity, the highlight of the second annual event at the church, or at least that is what the coordinators thought until late that afternoon when they received the news that Mary, along with a few other key figures like Joseph and some shepherds and wisemen, had fallen ill and were not going to make it.

In came Lindsey, visiting from Boston and attending the service with friends and family. Deacon Patti Keller, one of the coordinators, singled Lindsey out and asked her to play Mary in light of the circumstances.

“We had to [pick] a Mary from the back row,” said Deacon Keller. “She (Lindsey) was the right height for the costume.” She said the first Mary who was chosen suddenly could not make it, and the alternate Mary was sick.

Reverend Paul Harrison told the congregation of about 35 people, “We thought we had everything set for the evening, but because of the sickness, we’ve recruited a new cast.”

The gatherers opened the service singing “Joy to the World,” followed by the lighting of the Advent candles, with Deacon Keller asking, “Is there a sheep in the back who would like to help light a candle?” Little sheep Isabelle Breton, age 6 of Middleboro, was excited to oblige.

Halfway through the service, it was time for Joseph and Mary to enter the scene. Smiling shyly, they quietly took their places in the front of the room, beneath a wooden-constructed stable as the audience sang “Oh Little Town of Bethlehem,” accompanied by Paul Sardinha of New Bedford on the organ.

One by one, the rest of the characters took their places. Steven Morrison, age 8 of Rochester, playing a shepherd, took his place beside Joseph as his little sheep Isabelle followed him. Little camel Camden Vallee, age 4 of Rochester, stood on the other side by Mary.

The congregation continued singing various Christmas hymns, like “Away in a Manger,” “The First Noel,” and “We Three Kings.”

Once the children were assembled, and the story of Jesus’s birth was told, the lights were turned out and each one in the room lit a white candle and softly sang “Silent Night.”

“Let us remember the less fortunate than us, in this season of giving,” Reverend Harrison reminded the congregation before concluding the service.

Vistor Morrison, age 15 of Rochester, a.k.a. Joseph, said it was great playing Joseph, even if it was last minute.

“I did it last year,” said Victor, “but I didn’t know I was going to do it again this year.”

Before leaving, Lindsey, age 25, a.k.a. Mary, said she was happy to help out at the last minute.

“I loved the opportunity to participate,” said Lindsey. “It was great.”

By Jean Perry

Photos by Felix Perez

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