Ham & Bean Supper

The American Legion Florence Eastman post will hold an Old Fashioned Ham & Bean Supper at the Post Hall on February 21 from 5:00 to 6:30 pm. If needed, the storm date will be February 28. Call 508-758-9311 for reservations, questions or storm info. The supper will feature cole slaw, potato salad, dessert and beverage, as well as our signature baked ham and homemade beans.

Reservations are preferred but walk-ins are welcome. The cost is $10 per person or $25 for a family (Mom, Dad and small children). We need your support to continue our Community Service, and we look forward to providing our guests with a great meal and good fellowship!

Rochester Tries to Ease Trash Anxiety

Rochester residents need not worry about the ‘trash police.’ They aren’t coming to your house just yet.

As Rochester makes the switch to the new trash and recycling pick-up system on February 2, Rochester Town Administrator Michael McCue responded to residents’ concerns with a public service announcement to be aired on cable access to answer questions that go beyond what was sent to households in the form of an informational letter.

McCue stressed that inquiries should be directed to ABC Disposal and not to Town Hall. ABC Disposal will work with the Town, he said, to alleviate any further problems once the new system begins.

“The Town will, on a case-by-case basis,” said McCue, “consider the provision of an additional trash cart at no charge given the resident’s particular circumstance.” Again, McCue emphasized that inquiries should be made directly to ABC Disposal, who will inform the Town of the situation and allow the Town to decide if an individual resident should receive an additional cart free of charge or a larger 95-gallon cart in lieu of two 65-gallon carts.

“Regardless of this,” said McCue, “residents may purchase an additional 65-gallon trash cart at the cost of $65 each by contacting ABC directly.”

McCue said residents who live on roads that are not accessible to the ABC trucks should continue, as they do now, to place the trash and recyclables collectively at the end of the road. The Town website also has a link to a website where accessories can be purchased that are helpful in moving the new larger bins.

Residents concerned that they may occasionally have a larger item or extra trash that will not fit into the bin may, said McCue, place the extra trash alongside the trash cart “in extreme circumstances.” McCue added, though, that the trash must be bagged. “All trash must be bagged,” he emphasized.

Residents concerned about extra recyclables may use their old bins alongside the new 95-gallon recycling carts, leaving the recyclables loose and un-bagged.

“If capacity of a bin becomes an ongoing issue, an extra recycling bin (cart) will be provided for free by ABC,” said McCue. “Please call them directly.” McCue continued, “Those that wish to downsize a recycling cart from 95 gallons to 65 gallons may do so by calling ABC.”

“I hope this answers the majority of questions that still remain,” said McCue. “However, if your concerns have not been addressed, please call ABC at 508-999-2619 and we will work as best as we can to tackle them.”

McCue said after the filming of the PSA that he hopes residents will allow the system to begin and be firmly put into place before deciding what is or is not going to work for them.

As for fines for not following the regulations, McCue said that ABC is not authorized to issue fines directly, and the Town has not yet established a fee system at this time, nor is it in a rush to do so.

“We’re not going to send the rubbish police out to check on them,” said McCue.

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Healthy Relationships

Speeches and videos called attention to the themes of healthy and unhealthy relationships last week at Tabor Academy. Although awareness is beginning throughout the community, the issues associated with unhealthy relationships have been on Lauren Millette’s mind for a while.

Millette – a dormparent, teacher, and freshman class dean – began highlighting the issues associated with unhealthy relationships last year.

“It’s been on my mind for a really long time,” says Millette, but she thought about it even more after attending a gender project conference over the summer.

Millette believes that in a healthy relationship, “You should feel supported, as though you can be yourself, and there should be trust and mutual respect.” Most importantly, “A relationship should only enhance how you feel on your own, not complicate it…. The most important relationship you can have is with yourself.”

Last week, Malcolm Astley came to speak to the Tabor community about the issue. Astley, who lost his teenage daughter, Lauren, to breakup violence in 2011, has started a memorial fund that seeks to promote efforts to stop such violence. The speech was relevant in that their family is from Wayland, MA and some Tabor students experienced the tragic incident first hand or had heard about it a few years ago.

The speech was very emotional for students and faculty alike. Peer counselors, who are helping Millette promote awareness, were available throughout the day after the speech to listen to others who had strong emotional reactions of grief and sadness.

Dr. Mehegan, a school counselor, also gave a speech this month regarding what an unhealthy relationship is. Millette saw his speech as a perfect opportunity to start a project that she had been working on to start conversation before Astley’s speech.

Millette created a “Healthy Relationships” video that highlights some positive examples of relationships within the Tabor community. The pairs, which included a number of relationships featured siblings, friends, parents and children, husbands and wives, and many others. The video features the pairs together with whiteboards that state what each appreciates about the other.

Millette enjoyed the process of creating the video, saying, “There were so many positives.” She was happy that the community can “celebrate what we appreciate in each other,” and the project provided the perfect medium to do so.

Some of the pairs that volunteered for the videos found the process emotional as they reflected on what they appreciated in their partner.

The video was shown at the weekly all-school meeting a few days before Astley’s talk and received a positive reaction from the community.

Going forward, Millette plans to keep up the momentum of this awareness. Students have approached her with their own ideas, which are in the process of being implemented. Furthermore, students can sign a banner showing their support that reads, “Courage to Care, Courage to Stand Up,” which is a concept that Astley highlighted throughout his presentation.

Astley also believes that self-defense is an important skill for everyone to have, so Christopher McEnroe, an English teacher, will be teaching a class that is open to the community next month.

Students have taken it upon themselves to watch the documentary “48 Hours” about Lauren Dunne Astley, which has caused some to take action and plan more awareness events.

According to Millette, a future goal is the continuation of healthy discussions about relationships – whether they are friendships, teammates, romantic partners, or of any kind – in order to continue providing support to each other.

Millette’s video can be viewed on YouTube by searching for the title “Healthy Relationships SD 480p 3.”

By Julia O’Rourke

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Wellspring Farm to Remove Fallen Trees

James and Holly Vogel of 42 Hiller Road came before the Rochester Conservation Commission on February 3 to discuss the need to remove storm damaged trees and fallen logs on property that provides mental and physical health services to children of all ages.

Wellspring Farm Learning Center provides what James Vogel called “experiential therapy” in a natural farm setting for persons with a variety of health challenges. Vogel said that the trees in question are having a negative impact on the manner in which the property may currently be used for various therapies, such as hiking through the woods, which can be especially difficult for persons with mobility issues.

Vogel said that removing the trees is a safety concern and that only damaged and fallen trees would be removed. He required a Request for Determination of Applicability from the commission, as some of the trees in question are within the 100-foot buffer zone and 25-foot no touch zone.

“I know they are very environmentally sensitive and will only take those trees that need to be taken,” said Conservation Agent Laurell Farinon. The commission rendered a negative determination, allowing the work to proceed without the requirement of filing a Notice of Intent.

Also of significance during the meeting was a letter that Farinon said the Town received from FEMA advising them of its final determination on revised Flood Insurance Rate Maps.

The only additional flood area FEMA identified was a small parcel near the Freetown line situated next to the New Bedford water treatment plant.

Farinon said the Town needed to adopt the maps to avoid residents losing their flood insurance or the Town losing out on FEMA funding in the future. She will continue to work with the town administrator and town counsel to draft an article for Town Meeting.

Farinon also reminded the commission members that they need to complete conflict-of-interest law training, an online program, before the March 6 deadline.

The next meeting of the Rochester Conservation Commission is scheduled for February 17 at 7:00 pm in the Rochester Town Hall meeting room.

By Marilou Newell

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FORM Wine Tasting Fundraiser

Say goodbye to the winter blahs with wine tasting, hors d’oeuvres, a cash bar, and plenty of good conversation. Join the Friends of Old Rochester Music (FORM) at their springtime fundraiser on Sunday, March 22 from 12:00 to 3:00 pm. The event takes place at Turks Seafood Market and Sushi Bar, Route 6 in Mattapoisett. Tickets for this over-21 event are $30 per person, $50 per couple. Tickets are limited; please email Jill at orrFORM02739.org to order your tickets now. We look forward to meeting you.

Rochester Receives Grant for COA Health

Thanks to a grant, the Rochester Council on Aging will soon offer people age 55 and up the chance to take a 12-week health and wellness program free of charge.

“The goal of this program is to empower older adults to make and maintain small but impactful changes in health behaviors,” Town Administrator Michael McCue read from a prepared description of the offering during the January 29 meeting of the Rochester Board of Selectmen.

Topics will include physical fitness, communicating with your doctor, fall prevention, use of Medicare prevention benefits, medication management, healthy eating, planning your future, and sleep behavior. Educational materials will be provided at each class.

“This is a wonderful opportunity for older adults to participate in, and reap the benefits of, this cutting-edge wellness program,” the description reads.

Details of the program’s start date will be announced in the near future.

Also during the meeting, selectmen briefly discussed changes the Planning Board and the Bylaw Review Subcommittee propose to make to the Zoning Bylaws table of contents, with mixed emotions.

“Changing the table of contents doesn’t fix the problem,” said Selectman Naida Parker.

McCue stated, “I don’t disagree with that.”

The subcommittee sought quotes from a company to look over the Town’s bylaws and make suggestions on how to make them more cohesive and user-friendly to residents and town officials alike. McCue stressed that the point of employing the company was to make suggestions to the formatting, and not suggest changes to the bylaws themselves.

Town Meeting would have to approve any changes to the bylaws, including the table of contents.

Parker commented on how important it is to rectify the “leap-frogging” that the zoning and regular bylaws appear to do within the bylaw book, going from zoning bylaw to general bylaw and then back to zoning bylaw.

In other matters, McCue announced that new Governor Charlie Baker has released the remaining Chapter 90 funds to the Town of Rochester, totaling $150,000. The funds were already allocated, but former Governor Deval Patrick froze the funds temporarily instead of releasing them to all towns and cities in the state.

The next meeting of the Rochester Board of Selectmen is scheduled for February 9 at 6:30 pm at the Rochester Town Hall.

By Jean Perry

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Girls’ Swim Team Makes History

Many sporting events at Old Rochester Regional High School had to be postponed or canceled this week due to the heavy snowstorm that shut down the area. Regardless, many athletes had impressive performances later in the week. Here is a look at the eighth week of scheduled games for ORR winter athletics.

Boys’ Basketball: In their lone game of the week, the Bulldogs pulled out an impressive 70-42 win over conference rival Fairhaven, thanks largely in part to the performances of Noah Fernandes and Ryan Beatty. Fernandes continued his excellent debut season by scoring 22 points and recording seven assists, while senior Beatty scored 18 points. The Bulldogs got out to an early 25-10 lead after the first quarter and never looked back, staying ahead of the Blue Devils by at least 20 points for the remainder of the game. The win puts the boys’ record at 12-1 overall, with a perfect 12-0 conference record.

Girls’ Basketball: The Lady Bulldogs also had a big win over Fairhaven this week, defeating the Lady Blue Devils 40-18 to advance their record to 8-6 overall. The girls jumped out to a 23-6 lead after the first half and held on for the final two quarters to secure the win. Sophie Church and Olivia Labbe led ORR offensively, recording 11 and 8 points, respectively. Senior captains Ashley Pacheco and Morgan Browning also provided key defense, shutting down any offensive attempts by Fairhaven. This was a redeeming victory for the girls, as they lost to Fairhaven earlier this season by one point.

Boys’ and Girls’ Swimming: This week, the ORR swim teams competed in the SCC Championship Meet, where the girls’ team made history. Though the boys placed fourth overall and the girls placed third out of four teams, junior Cate Feldkamp became the first individual qualifier for the sectional and state meets in the history of the ORR swim program, qualifying in the 200-freestyle. Feldkamp also helped to lead the girls’ 200-freestyle relay, comprised of herself, Chloe Riley, Avery Nugent, and Julianne Mariner, to a sectional and state qualifying time of 1:52. This is the first time in the three-year history of the program that anyone has qualified for states, which is a great example of the progressing strength of ORR swim.

Boys’ Track: This week, ORR’s freshmen and sophomores had a chance to shine at the annual Janiak Freshmen/Sophomore Meet held at GNB Voc-Tech. ORR had three winning performances on the day, with sophomore Mike Morris winning the 300-meter (42 seconds), sophomore Eli Spevack winning the 55-meter hurdles (9.02 seconds), and the 4×400 team of Morris, Spevack, Mason DaSilva, and Will Hopkins taking home the gold in the lone relay in the meet.

Girls’ Track: The girls’ team also had several impressive performances by their underclassmen at the Janiak Freshmen/Sophomore Meet. Leading the way was freshman Carly Demanche, who won the 600-meters in a quick 1:54.9. Demanche was also a leg of the winning 4×400 team, along with Rachel Demmer, Brooke Santos, and Maddie Scheub. On the day, ORR boys and girls won five of the combined twenty races, which is a good indicator of the level of the talent the teams will have in the next few years. Both track teams return to action at the SCC Championship Meet held on February 7 at GNB Voc-Tech.

Below are the overall winter team records, followed by the conference records in wins, losses, and ties as of February 1.

Boys’ Basketball: (12-1-0) (12-0-0); Girls’ Basketball: (8-6-0) (7-5-0); Boys’ Track: (8-1-0) (7-1-0); Girls’ Track: (9-0-0) (8-0-0); Boys’ Swimming: (1-5-0) (0-5-0); Girls’ Swimming: (2-4-0) (1-3-0); Ice Hockey: (7-2-0) (7-0-0).

By Michael Kassabian

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Mattapoisett Woman’s Club

This meeting has been cancelled.

The Mattapoisett Woman’s Club will hold their February meeting on Thursday, February 19 at noon in Reynard Hall at the Mattapoisett Congregational Church, 27 Church Street. Our February program will feature a talk about the roseate tern by Kathy Parsons, Ph.D., Director, Coastal Waterbird Program Mass Audubon.

The Coastal Waterbird Program monitors and protects 180 nesting sites on the Massachusetts coastline including Piping Plovers, Massachusetts Least Terns, and Massachusetts American Oystercatchers. In addition, the program is instrumental in the protection of Roseate Terns during the months after breeding when the birds are preparing for migration. Today, the Coastal Waterbird Program advocates for the protection of the entire coastal ecosystem and serves as a model for integrated coastal resource management.

Please join us at noon for a light lunch and an introduction to interesting facts about our local coastal birdlife.

For more information or directions, please call Barb at 508 864-5213.

Fading Shadows

There was very little conversation about who he was, where he came from, or how and why he ended up living with my grandparents. He, along with every single person who had firsthand knowledge of his backstory, has passed away. Yet, for all of my young life, while he and they were still living, this person – the incomplete John Harris – was like a fleeting shadow.

On those extremely rare occasions when Dad would recount some childhood memory, John Harris was not mentioned. What I’m about to share is a combination of historical crumbs not yet turned to dust as I lose my grip on memory, and the historical fiction I’ve written of him over the years. I suppose the truth would be vastly more interesting, but in its absence the following will have to do.

My paternal grandmother, Annette Wilson, nicknamed Nettie, and her people hailed from New Jersey. It was said her father was a doctor. It was said that she had been educated, could read, write, and do sums. It was said she became a teacher. I know for a fact she played the piano because I saw her do so once six decades ago.

Nettie was married twice. Her first married name was Harris. That marriage had presumably been childless. Upon the death of Mr. Harris, she came into a little property, a small house, and a tiny general store on Route 6A in Barnstable.

But then there is this question. Who was John Harris? If her marriage to Mr. Harris was childless, then where did John Harris come from?

Nettie met and married my grandfather, Nehemiah Newell. She had two sons by him, my father, Brayton, and my uncle, Nehemiah (whose nickname was the rather odd sounding Pungo).

An elder paternal cousin told me a story. She said that when Nettie returned from visiting a friend in Connecticut, she came back with a toddler. That toddler was John. I recall asking her how the toddler had come into her life. I mean, a human being just doesn’t fabricate itself, now does it? The cousin said that a friend of Nettie’s had too many children and the family couldn’t support another. Being childless and, presumably with the financial means to take care of a child, Nettie ‘did her friend a favor’ and had taken the child to raise and care for as if her own flesh and blood. If that story is true, then John was not a relative by birth but a sort of adopted son.

My Father referred to ‘Johnny’ not so much as a half-brother, but as a person in the household who was simply there. He never called him brother as he did his beloved Pungo. Dad would say that Johnny was ‘smart,’ which equated to very high praise from him. Dad’s third-grade education was always a source of shame for him. Though he could read and do sums, he could not write more than his name, and he seemed to believe Johnny of superior intelligence.

In the very thin narrative of my father’s childhood days, this Johnny never factored in. Dad spoke glowingly of his grandmother, a woman I believe to have been his mother’s mother, another educated woman. It was she who taught him how to read. It was she who spent long lamp-lit hours in little more than a hovel heated by a wood burning stove; whose love and kindness he would reflect upon later in life. Not a word of an older brother named John.

Yet it was this person who bore my grandmother’s first married name – Harris.

I know that my father had rather frequent contact with John when they were adults. John became a banker. At what level in the banking world is not known; but suffice it to say, it was a position that my father would leverage.

Dad spent the lion’s share of his life self-employed. His limited education and total inability to accept the confines of reporting to another person made it necessary that he call his own shots. His talents lent themselves to fixing things, and as such, he became well known as the TV-man. But his ability to actually become a solvent businessman was frail at best. There were lean times.

The ebb and flow of his shop meant that, on occasion, money had to be borrowed if it was to be had at all. Before things got too desperate, Dad would take out personal loans from banks or lending institutions using whatever collateral he had cobbled together, oftentimes the house we lived in. A public records search of the homes he owned show numerous loans granted and paid, many from the bank where John Harris was employed.

One can assume that such dealings required Dad and John to speak to one another. One can also assume there was nothing resembling familial sentiments, but rather a business transaction shadowed by some vague shared history.

I never met John. At least I don’t think so. Shortly before the death of my Uncle Pungo, with whom I established a warm long-distance relationship, we discussed many things; but he never, ever mentioned John. Maybe I didn’t ask.

Pungo told me that the best we can ever hope for in terms of immortality is two generations; three, if we are lucky. After that, there is the nothingness. If that’s the case, I hope John has lots of family somewhere. I’m likely to be the only person in my family thinking about him at all in spite of having virtually nothing to share. That thought gets me to wondering … Perhaps when the Harris family thinks about John, they speculate about my family, my father, and my uncle – or maybe not. All shadows fade.

By Marilou Newell

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New Anatomy Teacher Brings Unique Experience

It’s been quite a year in the Old Rochester Regional High School Science Department, where a few retirements have led to new teachers being hired, and new classes being taught by familiar faces.

After longtime Anatomy teacher Mary Cabral retired following the Thanksgiving break, her existing Anatomy classes have been taken over by Colleen Foster, who also teaches Health, and Jeremy Kennefick, a new addition to the ORR staff. So far, Mr. Kennefick is enjoying his time at ORR, and he recently shared his thoughts regarding his new position.

When it came to applying for the vacant teaching position, Mr. Kennefick’s status as a local gave him the edge.

“I live in the Tri-Town, so I’d been keeping my eye on the district for a while,” he explained. “And when the position came up, I applied.”

Mr. Kennefick has a background teaching science at several different schools in the Southcoast area, at many different levels of learning.

“I’ve taught at UMass Dartmouth, New Bedford Public Schools, and Acushnet Public Schools,” he said.

Here at ORRHS, he is mainly teaching Anatomy, although he also teaches a Forensic Science course, a popular science elective among juniors and seniors.

Kennefick had nothing but praise for ORR’s student body. He also noted that the kids here are much different from those at other schools where he has taught.

“The students here are polite and ask lots of good questions. It’s tough to compare to New Bedford,” said Kennefick. “There are plenty of good kids there, but here the kids are more self-sufficient and college-focused.”

He also gave a rundown on a couple of different objectives that he hopes to accomplish during his time at ORR.

“[I hope to contribute] my knowledge in science and my background, become a member of the staff, get to know the students, and also get involved with any extracurricular activities if possible,” he stated.

Bringing his love for science, teaching experience, and local background to the school, Mr. Kennefick is set to make a big impact on ORR’s science students for as long as he teaches at the high school.

By Patrick Briand

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