Wandering Wanderers

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Joe and Susan Francisao Mattapoisett took along the Wanderer on their trip to San Sebastian, Spain.

 

 

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Andrew Whalen of Mattapoisett recently went to willow creek California and visited the Big Foot museum. 

Board Erupts Over Minutes…Again

An intense argument over minutes overshadowed budget discussions, as the Marion Planning Board was divided 5-2 (a consistent number that night) in its opinion regarding how Planning Board Clerk Robert Lane should be taking minutes. The debate led to a motion by member Steve Gonsalves to keep meeting minutes limited to bare-bones information such as date, those in attendance, motions, and votes – a move board member Norman Hills said went against Robert’s Rules of Order. Lane disagreed.

Lane, Gonsalves, and Chairman Stephen Kokkins argued that the video recordings taped by the cable access channel could serve as a reference for those wishing to review the meetings, and Hills was adamant that it was unacceptable to replace meeting minutes with DVDs.

The argument on January 20 was continued from a previous meeting when the September 15 meeting minutes were first presented for acceptance. Board member Eileen Marum opposed descriptive language included in the minutes that she considered editorializing, specifically when Lane wrote that Marum “forcefully criticized” the Planning Board assistant, resulting in her leaving the room. Marum contested the description and objected to other references to tone.

Lane amended the minutes to reflect Marum’s supposed request for a verbatim transcript of what was said, and during the contentious January 20 meeting, Marum denied the claim.

Hills and Marum continued in their criticism of Lane’s September 15 minutes, relentlessly.

“In nine years never, ever, ever have I seen this,” interjected Gonsalves. “This is insane. This is never going to stop. Where do we go from here? It’s like a merry-go-round. It’s ridiculous.”

Gonsalves motioned to simplify meeting minutes, and Lane promptly seconded.

“What’s the problem with writing down what happened at a meeting?” Hills asked, questioning why Lane refuses to include in the minutes words pertaining to a motion Marum made during the September 15 meeting.

Kokkins, in trying to keep the discussion on track, suggested there was a philosophical difference among board members.

“There’s nothing to be gained by not putting the information in the minutes,” continued Hills. He said it was valuable information that people in the future might refer back to. “If you don’t like it, then it’s too bad. It’s the way it happened,” said Hills. He then turned to Gonsalves and called his motion for “skimpy” minutes irresponsible.

Nowhere in Roberts Rules of Order does it say cable access recorded DVDs can replace minutes, Hills pointed out.

“There’s nowhere that says you can’t,” replied Lane.

The vote to approve the “minimal minutes” passed 5-2, but even then the arguing continued. Hills brought up further issues he had with the minutes, with grammatical errors and misspellings like changing “tilted” to “titled” as it should have been written.

Marum alleged that Lane’s employment of a transcript service for the contested portion of the September 15 minutes had ties to his business, and thus had the appearance of a conflict of interest. Lane denied the claim. When Marum insisted, Gonsalves laughed, causing Marum to turn to Gonsalves.

“Excuse me,” said Marum. “It’s not funny.”

“Yes it is,” said Gonsalves.

Board member Rico Ferrari asked Marum if she was a trained attorney, and then called for the question, saying the meeting was getting out of hand.

“I’ve got more comments,” said Hills. Lane slammed his draft minutes onto the table.

The vote to accept the amended September minutes was again 5-2.

In other contentious matters, earlier in the meeting the board talked about hiring a transcript service to record past and future meetings relative to the developers of a CVS at the corner of Route 6 and Front Street. Not having the funds for the service budgeted for fiscal year 2015, the board voted, 5-2, to amend the FY15 budget by transferring funds from one line item to the consultant line item in the amount of $950 to record two past meetings with the CVS developers.

Hills and Marum argued that it was not necessary, given that no application has been filed yet and if needed in the future, the board could revisit the matter.

As for FY16, Ferrari suggested taking the $500 budgeted for travel and meeting expenses and moving it into the consultant line item for transcript services in the future, a move Marum opposed since she is the representing board member for SRPEDD and travels occasionally to attend meetings and educational sessions on behalf of the board.

Ferrari said he saw no return on the money and the board, as a whole, did not benefit from Marum’s continued education. Marum told Ferrari that he could “tap into [her] knowledge” at any time, but suggested that he was unwilling.

“It’s up to you,” Marum told him.

“Then I say strike it totally, with that attitude,” Ferrari said about funding the line item. He said he would “pass” on opening up that “can of worms” when it came to Marum’s knowledge.

Ferrari motioned to de-fund the travel expense line item, with no second.

“There must be some value there,” said board member Michael Popitz. He wondered if the board was taking advantage of the information Marum was learning and if she ever brought back informational pamphlets and such for the board to see.

“I have brought them here,” said Marum. “And nobody was interested.”

Ferrari then suggested level-funding the expense line, keeping it at the FY15 level of $290 and plugging the remaining $210 in the consultant line. The motion passed, 5-2.

The next meeting of the Marion Planning Board is scheduled for February 2 at 7:00 pm at the Marion Town House.

By Jean Perry

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Friends Write Letters for Justice

“They are prisoners of conscience … imprisoned because of their views … not because they are criminals,” Charlotte Purrington said as she sat quietly, studying the faces of people – those men, women and children who are suffering in jails or in oppressive countries – as she prepared to write another letter.

On January 18, the Mattapoisett Friends Meeting House was open to the public for a day of letter writing in support of those identified by Amnesty International in their annual ‘Write for Rights’ campaign. Purrington, along with several other members of the congregation, gathered to write letters to government officials, heads of state, even President Obama – letters intended to impress upon these leaders that the eyes of the world are watching, waiting, and hoping for justice.

Purrington, a former Peace Corps member, noted that several of the individuals or groups that Amnesty International has identified in their 2014/2015 letter writing campaign were simply expressing what others take for granted in open societies: freedom of speech. She also acknowledged that some of the cases that Amnesty has brought to public attention are not cases to which everyone will be sympathetic.

She pointed out the case of women and girls in El Salvador who have been sent to prison because they sought abortions after rape or because of dire health conditions.

Purrington also pointed out Murad Shtwewi, a Palestinian community leader who has been targeted and jailed for speaking out for Palestinian rights. Or Chelsea Manning, a United States Army soldier who tried to expose alleged human rights abuses by the U.S. military and has subsequently been found guilty of violations of espionage and imprisoned.

Purrington understands that these people might have a hard time gaining any support from some Americans, but she herself feels compelled to try to bring their stories to light by writing a letter in longhand that someone may read and understand.

Each year, Amnesty International identifies human rights cases around the world and reaches out to the global community to support their efforts in gaining freedom and justice for those who they believe are being oppressed. In this program, letters are written to heads of state, as well as to the identified persons and their families. Although digital communications are possible, the Friends believe that handwritten letters give humanity to the person being written about by the person writing the letter. They believe there is warmth in those types of communication versus the typed word.

The cases currently displayed on the Amnesty International website for this year’s campaign are: Murad Shtewi/Palestine; Raif Badawi/Saudi Arabia; Jorge Lazaro Nunes/Brazil; Liu Ping/China; Chelsea Manning/USA; Women – Girls/El Salvador; Rampyari Bai and Safreen Khan/Bhopal; Darrell Cammon and Anthony Holmes/USA; Moses Akatugba/Nigeria; Hadiya Pendleton/USA.

Those cases are as diverse as the names listed. Some are in prison, some are dead, some are struggling to bring equality, and others simply want people to be aware of causes that are negatively affecting lives. Some cases are about people who tried to speak out, others are about people who Amnesty believes were denied due process, and still others are cases that defy a distinct category.

On this day, in that quiet of the community room behind the Friends Meeting House, a handful of souls were trying to make an impact – one pen stroke at a time.

The Friends are reaching out in other ways. Deena Kinsky is traveling to Cuba on January 22 to meet the Friends in Cuba for the first time in decades. She hopes that she and her small group can establish lines of communication and help where needed. The immediate work at hand will be helping to paint the local Friends Meeting House in that tropical location.

“They told us to bring rollers and paint brushes because those are scarce,” Kinsky said. “Oh, and toilet paper also,” she added with a chuckle.

If you want more information on outreach programs with Amnesty International, go to http://www.amnestyusa.org.

By Marilou Newell

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Regional Bicycle Plan

To the Editor:

Everyone interested in better bicycling in the South Coast should make sure their issues are raised and addressed in the Regional Bicycle Plan. The plan is part of the process for getting funding through MASSDOT for bike-related projects. If we the people don’t make sure our priorities are heard, then resources will go elsewhere. Representatives will be available on January 28 in Dartmouth at the Southworth Library from 5:00 – 7:00 pm and also in Norton on January 29 from 5:00 – 7:00 pm. For more information and people to contact, please go to www.southcoastbikeway.com.

Bonnie DeSousa, Mattapoisett

Knights of Columbus Teen Dance

There will be a Knights Teen Dance on Friday, January 23 from 7:00 to 10:00 pm with Michael Rock of Fun 107 at the Knights of Columbus Hall, 57 Fairhaven Road, Mattapoisett. Sixth, Seventh and Eighth Graders only please.

Rochester Historical Society

The Rochester Historical Society will meet at 7:00 pm on Wednesday, January 21 at the East Rochester Church/Museum. After a short business meeting, Mack and Cathy Phinney will present a program entitled “Treasure Boxes.” All are welcome. Refreshments will be served.

A History of Plymouth County Corrections

Join the Mattapoisett Historical Society and Deputy Lisa Budge-Johnson of the Plymouth County Sheriff’s Department for her talk “Plymouth County Corrections: Then and Now” on Sunday, January 25 at 2:00 pm at the Mattapoisett Historical Society museum. Through photographs and fascinating historical facts, Deputy Budge-Johnson will give us an interesting look into the history of the Plymouth County jails, including stories of infamous county inmates. There is a $5 suggested donation. For more information, please contact the Mattapoisett Historical Society at 508-758-2488 or mattapoisett.museum@verizon.net.

Scented Memories

It comes through loud and clear, just as a voice easily crosses the water – the memory of a scent, of smell and all that it evokes.

How clearly I can recall the smell of fresh yeasty breads and pastries in that black panel truck of the Cushman Bakery as it pulled up to our house every Saturday morning. My Mother would send me out to the truck where the jolly uniformed driver would help me select the items I’d been dispatched to collect. There, lining the interior of the truck, were the boxes of chocolate éclairs, sugary cruellers, giant oatmeal cookies, or cupcakes with thick buttery frosting. There were pies, as well as soft, white, doughy rolls or black pumpernickel loaves. But that smell, that overwhelming scent of goodness accompanied by the resulting good mood in my mother’s kitchen, I can conjure up so richly still.

In keeping with the theme of food is the smell of pizza baking in large ovens on a summer’s evening when the seasonal pizza take-out window would be open in our tiny village. That flavorful smell would drift on the breezes and reach our noses as we sat on the porch listening to Ma’s records while eavesdropping a bit on the next-door neighbor’s heated conversation. For five cents, you could get a big, thick, cheesy slice. If we had the money, I’d do the running.

There was Besse’s Fish Market, long gone now, but remembered for that scrumptious odor of frying clams, fish, and French fries. A pint of clams and fried potatoes today is viewed as a dangerous meal choice, but back then it was the preferred choice when Dad’s wallet was thick. All the way home, as the grease soaked through the thin cardboard boxes and paper bags, my legs sprinted and I’d arrive on our doorstep winded, but so very happy.

Saltwater taffy being pulled by the electric taffy machines displayed in the window of the seaside shack known as “Kenny’s” was as mesmerizing to watch as the hot candy smell was mouthwatering as it oozed out from the cracked walls. They also made flavored popcorn bars in harlequin colors no kid could resist.

When you entered the fresh fruit and vegetable stall owned by a person simply called the “Greek Grocer,” the first thing you’d smell was the enormous juicy watermelon slices sitting in a tray of ice – another five-cent treat offering cool refreshment on a humid day, but now just a lip-smacking memory to be recalled 64 years later.

There were other smells from village streets that were less pleasant, but nonetheless memorable, such as walking by Sammy Queen’s barroom or the Union Villa. The mixture of spilled beer, cigarettes, and sweat linger in the mind by way of the nose. A blind person wouldn’t fail to know their position if standing near one of these venues; the sounds from within would add to the knowledge, for if you were a regular at one bar ‘where everybody knew your name,’ you wouldn’t frequent the other. Your stool was always waiting.

Suntan lotion and seaweed, even the heat rising up from the pavement on a hot summer’s day, are memories seated deep within my mind. It’s the smell of being young with a body that obeyed every command like running full-out into the cold ocean water or diving off the raft. Yes, feeling the eel-grass tickle your torso as you opened your eyes underwater looking up towards the surface and feeling so very good about it all because living was forever and always and fun.

Nothing felt better or smelled more of comfort than the talcum powder received as a Christmas gift, applied after a warm, luxurious Saturday night bath. Born into an age when daily showers or baths were unknown, those weekend soaks were a treat.

As a small child, bath time was playtime, with warm water reaching high to the collarbone. As I matured, it was the pleasure of easing into the steaming water, lying back as the household sounds ebbed away, floating legs as if in the ocean – oh, the simple joy of cleanliness and privacy. The bath was always followed by a dusting of talcum powder from a Bakelite container which held a fluffy, pink, powder puff. The silky smoothness of the puff and the delicately scented powder are a powerful childhood memory that all would be well, in spite of threats otherwise present.

Avon lipstick – bright red and thick with a perfumed fragrance you won’t find today in cosmetics – was a favorite of mine. Sometimes for fun my Mother would dab a tiny bit on my lips and show me how to blot it leaving a kiss outline on the tissue. The smell would linger on my mouth for hours as I pretended this or that fantasy, longing for the day when my pocketbook would hold my very own lipstick. Such things a child believes are important for a time.

I clearly recall bacon crackling in the pan announcing Dad was up, fueling his body for the day of work ahead and that soon he’d be calling from the bottom of the stairs that it was time to “Giddy UP!” I’d prepare the coffee and toast for Ma and deliver it to her bedside to encourage her to join the world of the living, if just for the day. Coming home from school later that day, the smell still hung heavy in the bedroom.

Fresh laundry … nothing smells better than fresh laundry that has been dried in the great out-of-doors. One of the few chores I didn’t protest against as a kid was hanging the laundry out and bringing it back in at the end of the day. The backyard was a spider’s web of clotheslines strung high above my head requiring tippy-toes. I’d pull the line down and pin the items in that precise way Ma taught me. Those rules of laundry management were a trademarked skill she only seemed to possess. At the end of the day, I’d bury my face deep into the folds of soft sheets and towels breathing deeply, so very deeply, filling my lungs as if my life depended on that smell of clean air, ocean, and home.

(In memory of Priscilla Lorraine Billard Newell (1923-2014), whose love of Onset was the narrative of her life.)

By Marilou Newell

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Ellen F. (Heuberger) Downing

Ellen F. (Heuberger) Downing, 96, of Mattapoisett died Sunday January 18, 2015 at Our Lady’s Haven. She was the wife of the late Harry B. Downing.

Born in New Bedford, the daughter of the late Helmuth and Ellen (Fowler) Heuberger, she lived in Mattapoisett all of her life.

Mrs. Downing was a member of the Mattapoisett Congregational Church.

She enjoyed bowling, playing cards, doing puzzles, and hosting family get-togethers at her home. She was a frequent visitor at the Mattapoisett Town Wharf.

Survivors include two sons, Harry B. Downing, Jr. of Wareham and David Downing and his wife Mary of Mattapoisett; a daughter, Nancy Fletcher and her husband Frank of Mattapoisett; seven grandchildren, Thomas and Stephen Fletcher, Bethany Sundquist, Lisa Thorpe, Rebecca Sears, Alex and Andrew Downing; three great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

She was the mother of the late Ruth Sundquist and the sister of the late Ruth, Albert, William, Chester, Milton, and Helmuth Heuberger, Jr., Beryl Roylance, Gladys Ellis, and Ada Moss.

Her Funeral Service will be held on Wednesday January 21, 2015 at 11 AM at the Mattapoisett Congregational Church. Burial will follow in Cushing Cemetery. Visiting hours will be on Tuesday January 20, 2015 from 4-7 PM at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Our Lady’s Haven, 71 Center St., Fairhaven, MA 02719. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Free Movie:Last Tuesday of the Month

The Hundred-Foot Journey (PG 122 min.) is being shown at the Mattapoisett Council on Aging, CoA Senior Center, Center School, 17 Barstow St., on Tuesday, January 27 at 12:00 noon. The free movie is sponsored by the Friends of the Mattapoisett CoA.

The Hundred-Foot Journey is a film about the cross-pollination between French and Indian cuisine. Papa Kadam, the patriarch of an Indian family, has been in the restaurant business for generations. He and his four children arrive in a small town in the south of France and set up Maison Mumbai. The smell of their spices and the sound of their music offend the sensibilities of Madame Mallory. She is proprietress of a venerable Michelin-starred establishment just 100-feet across the street.

The focus is provided by Mr. Kadam’s son, Hassan. He is a gifted and handsome cook, who exchanges recipes with Marguerite, a sous-chef in Madame Mallory’s restaurant. She lends Hassan classic French cookbooks, and he cross-pollinates their tried-and-true recipes with flavors and techniques from back home.

You get two pizza slices for only $2 prepaid. Pay for your pizza at the CoA Senior Center by Monday, January 26. Also, reserve your seat – so we’ll know how many chairs to set up.