Nellie Hoping on Kidney and Career Helping Kids

Nellie Zygiel has been in and out of the hospital for most of her life and was diagnosed with her third rare disease at the age of 10. Now 20, this Marion native wants to work at Boston Children Hospital and give emotional support to kids – remembering how therapy dogs and other supportive hospital staff helped her.

            Zygiel, a Fairhaven resident finishing up her sophomore year at UMass Amherst, is faced again with health hurdles and is looking for public support.

            “I was told I would need a kidney transplant and because of my age, most likely need multiple in my lifetime,” said Zygiel on her webpage, where she is seeking a donor for a kidney transplant. “Having doctors tell me ‘your body betrayed you’ and ‘to take time to grieve’ was not an easy thing to hear at 19. Naturally, this completely devastated me.”

            Ten years ago, Zygiel was diagnosed with vasculitis, her third rare and chronic illness. This left her kidneys permanently damaged. Her health turned the corner until she received bad news last year that she would need a transplant.

            During a recent interview, she said the donor list is filling up with people looking to help. She said that due to the Health Insurance Portability & Accountability Act, medical professionals cannot reveal too much.

            “I’m trying to be very hopeful. I have my doubts because it is a scary process,” Zygiel said.

            Zygiel was placed on the National Donor List in January.

            The downside to this is that being on the list comes with a five- to seven-year wait, so most people end up going on dialysis while waiting. “Dialysis takes a complete toll on someone’s life,” Zygiel said on her web page. “It makes people weaker, tired and depressed. As a 20-year-old college student, that’s something I am desperately trying to avoid.”

            Right now, if Zygiel can get the transplant before dialysis, the future looks bright.

            She has a 3.9 grade-point average at UMass and is a member of the Commonwealth Honors College.

            She is majoring in psychology and education and hopes to one day be a child life specialist at Boston Children’s Hospital and “help them cope when they are in the hospital and going through those tough times.”

            “I have always wanted to do something with kids and help them out,” she said.

            Because she is now over 18, Zygiel is working with a new team of doctors at Beth Israel and is happy with her team. However, she keeps in contact with her former medical team at Boston Children’s Hospital.

            She said she remembers support specialists coming in with therapy dogs, cards and games, helping support her emotionally through those long hours in the hospital.

            For information about donating or on whether your blood type is compatible with Zygiel’s, log on to KidneyforNellie.org.

By Jeffrey D. Wagner

Desousa, Cougars Battle for W’s

            On April 30, the Old Colony Regional Vocational-Technical High School girls’ softball team lost to Bourne, 11-6, in Rochester.

            Kayleigh Desousa pitched seven innings, only allowing 3 hits and striking out 12 batters. At the plate, Desousa went 1-for-3 with a run scored and a run batted in. Patty Spillane went 1-for-3 with a double, a stolen base and 2 RBI’s. Hunter DeSouza went 1-for-1 with a double and 2 RBI’s. Leah Robitaille went 1-for-3 with 1 RBI and 1 stolen base.

            On May 1, the Cougars hosted Cape Cod Tech and won 19-2, as Sharon Delancey earned the victory on the mound. Delancey and Desousa combined for a no-hitter. Desousa pitched three innings with 5 strikeouts. Emma Yelle made an over-the-head, running catch in the fifth inning to help preserve the no-hitter.

            Offensively, Desousa went 3-for-4 with 3 doubles, 4 RBI’s and 3 stolen bases. Lindsey Bacchiocchi went 2-for-3 with 3 RBI’s and 4 stolen bases. Spillane went 2-for-3 with 3 RBI’s and 1 stolen base. Faith Young went 3-for-4 with a double and 4 RBI’s. Robitaille went 2-for-2 with 1 RBI.

            On May 2, the Cougars finished their week at home with a 14-10 loss to visiting Norfolk Aggie. Desousa pitched seven innings, striking out 8 batters. At the plate, Spillane went 3-for-4 with 2 doubles and 2 RBI’s. Desousa went 2-for-4 with a double and 3 RBI’s. Yelle went 3-for-4 with 2 doubles and a triple. Bacchiocchi went 2-for-3 with 1 RBI and a stolen base.

Old Colony Sports Roundup

By Logan Hamlet

Little Library Greeted in New Home

On May 4, six-year-old Sippican Elementary School first grader Owen Excellent cut the ribbon to unveil the “Little Free Diversity Library” planted in front of the Rochester Women’s Club building as an appreciative crowd applauded a move that took months to come to a successful conclusion.

            Speaking from the club building’s front steps before the ribbon-cutting, Alison Noyce, president of Tri-Town Against Racism (TTAR), the group that donated the little library to Rochester last year only to have it rejected by its original hosts, said she was moved by the large turnout facing her for this relocation ceremony. She thanked the Women’s Club for providing the space to allow people access to the Little Free Library without any controversy.

            “Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for this incredible space,” she said.

            New Bedford High School student Elliot Talley then spoke, emphasizing the importance of having books on the subject of diversity available to the general public.

            “Not only are these books beneficial to those who are marginalized,” he said. “But to those who aren’t, it serves as a lesson on the experiences of marginalized people so hopefully they can learn from it and try to understand some of their struggles. These diverse perspectives make people more compassionate.”

            At its first Rochester location, the Joseph A. Plumb Library, the little library drew more criticism than praise from residents proclaiming it was redundant to have it right outside a big public library and that some of its books should not be accessible to children.

            In September 2023, the library trustees gave the library back to TTAR, saying they were doing so based merely on the fact the town library controls its own grounds and staff and must accept gifts such as the Little Diverse Library only under agreed-to provisions. No such provisions were agreed to when a previous library director and trustees board approved the donation in January 2021, the trustees said.

            The Women’s Club reached out to TTAR that December, and TTAR jumped at the chance to relocate the little library to a more suitable site. The Rochester Women’s Club is a private organization that owns the building there and leases to the town the space used as the Town Hall Annex.

            After Excellence cut the ribbon and the glass door to the mailbox-sized, little library swung open, TTAR Vice President Rhonda Baptiste emerged from the Women’s Club building with her homemade “Happy Birthday Abraham” cake decorated with an edible barber’s pole and snare drum.

            TTAR officials explained the event was also to celebrate the April 29 birthday of a prior champion of compassionate diversity, Abraham Skidmore, a black Mattapoisett barber who decades ago started that town’s annual Halloween parade and donated his time and money to many charitable causes and people in need. They noted TTAR soon will dedicate the “Little Free Diversity Library” located at Mattapoisett’s Ned’s Point in Skidmore’s name.

            As attendees began sifting through the books the little library contains on race and gay rights, Old Rochester Regional High School senior, town resident and gay rights activist Alia Cusolito was excited to see it open.

            “It’s important to have access to these types of books,” Cusolito said. “When I was growing up, these kinds of books were only available in my own home. My parents were very open to diverse ways of thinking. In school, it wasn’t the same story. We didn’t hear about people who were different. It’s important for people to have access to literature and experiences they may not have access to in their regular lives.”

            TTAR has planted two other similar little diversity libraries, in Mattapoisett at Ned’s Point and in Marion at Old Landing.

By Michael J. DeCicco

Run Like a Mother 5K

A mother’s mental and physical strength is so important to celebrate and support. This Mother’s Day, celebrate the strong women in your life with the Run Like a Mother 5K in Mattapoisett at 8:30 am on Sunday, May 12. While celebrating, you’ll also be supporting mothers in their postpartum journey. All registration proceeds will directly benefit mothers who may be struggling with postpartum depression or a lack of a support system in Southcoast Massachusetts, through gift cards and donations to local programs. Registration is $40 and may be made on line at Runlikeamother5k.weebly.com.

            Men, women and children of all ages are encouraged to register. This is all about having fun, empowering each other and enjoying Mattapoisett’s beautiful scenery, but there’s also a bit of friendly competition. The top three finishers of each age category will be awarded medals. Don’t forget our special stroller division. We’re Running Like a Mother this May 12.

            Run Like a Mother 5K is an organization created by Mattapoisett mother of four, Jennifer Pease who found mental and physical strength through running, especially with her fellow mom friends in Mattapoisett. On their early morning runs (because that’s how you Run Like a Mother), they’d brainstorm how to share this passion with others while supporting new mothers on their postpartum journey – a cause dear to all of their hearts. The hope is that this will become a cherished tradition in Mattapoisett each Mother’s Day while making a real difference in the lives of others.

Mattapoisett Congregational Church Scholarship

The Mattapoisett Congregational Church Memorials and Scholarship Committee is pleased to announce the winners of our 2024 scholarship awards. We had applications from 16 area students, all with impressive scholastic achievements.

            Rylie Coughlin, a student at Old Rochester Regional High School, is the recipient of the $2,500 Dagmar Coquillette Scholarship; Jaymison Gunschel, a student at Old Rochester Regional High School, is the recipient of the $2,500 Memorial Scholarship.

            We have also awarded a $1,000 Memorial Scholarship to Sophia Meninno, a student at Bishop Stang.

ORR Facilities

Dear Editor

            As the Mattapoisett representative on the ORR Facilities Subcommittee for four years, with over 20 years of engineering experience, I must address a critical matter concerning our district schools and community. Our recent subcommittee meetings rigorously reviewed a bond proposal for essential repairs and maintenance of school infrastructure, particularly focusing on HVAC systems crucial for optimal learning environments.

            Six exhaustive meetings, including facility tours, meticulously scrutinized every detail of the proposed improvements, emphasizing transparency and accessibility of information with a breakdown of evaluated systems available via the School Committee Website. The proactive nature of this bond is paramount, aiming to address aging infrastructure before costly emergencies disrupt education and strain finances.

            Consider the scenario of a sudden HVAC system failure during the school year, a critical component of health and safety – the repercussions would extend far beyond mere inconvenience. Lost learning days for our students and the logistical challenges faced by parents in arranging alternative childcare options serve as stark reminders of the urgency of our proactive approach.

            Regrettably, there have been instances of misinformation circulating within our community. This challenge was further compounded by a lack of representation at the recent Mattapoisett select board meeting, as I was not invited to attend to discuss this matter. Open communication and collaboration are vital in matters that impact our community, and it is disheartening to witness a lack of inclusion in such discussions. As your representative, I am committed to providing truthful, accurate information and welcome any concerns or questions directly.

Frances-Feliz Kearns

Old Rochester Regional School Committee

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Rochester Corrects Ballots

The Rochester Town Clerk’s Office is aware of errors on the specimen ballot that was recently released for the Annual Town Election to be held on Wednesday, May 22, 2024

To correct the errors the following actions have been taken:

  1. New ballots have been ordered and will be available for use on Election Day.
  2. To those voters who requested and were mailed early voting ballots, we are mailing out instructions as to how to proceed.  New, corrected ballots will be mailed in the next few days, if requested.
  3. Any voter who requested and Early Voting Ballot and has not returned it, they may choose to vote in person on Election Day.

We apologize for any confusion that was caused because of this oversight.  The integrity of this and every election is our highest priority, and we are confident that the actions we have taken will protect the voters of our community.

            Old Hammondtown School was the place to be on May 1 when the League of Women Voters of Southcoast held its Candidates Night in anticipation of the May 21 Mattapoisett Town Election.

            Starting with a “meet and greet,” each candidate was given time to introduce themselves and point to accomplishments, goals and other relevant matters before moving on to offer timed responses to specific questions being asked for those in contested races.

            First up was the contested seat for a three-year term on the Select Board. The two candidates are incumbent Jodi Lynn Bauer and former principal assessor Kathleen Costello.

            In their opening statements, Bauer pointed to her many accomplishments in the community from her 35 years supporting and working for Boys Scouts to sitting on the Tree Committee, Community Preservation Act Committee and her strongly held belief in representing all community members.

            Bauer also noted her lifelong residency in Mattapoisett and her passion to serve as the “voice of the people.” Bauer said she has demonstrated leadership skills and understands the importance of developing future leaders. She further noted that although it is very difficult, keeping the town budget on track is necessary.

            Costello began stating that her family chose Mattapoisett to settle in and raise a family with her children attending local schools. Now some 30 years on and after a decades-long career working in the Assessor’s office she held, she has a clear view of the town’s finances.

            Costello commented on the need for new housing units, which would benefit all taxpayers and her spearheading of PILOT programs (for solar farms) that has earned revenue for the town. She also shared that she is the executive director of the Massachusetts Association of Assessing Officers.

            Question 1 poised the following to the Select Board candidates: If elected … how would you address any conflict-of-interest issues that may arise in the course of performing your duties on behalf of the town?

            Costello responded, “Recuse yourself,” expanding on that core response but returning that main message at upon any situation posing complication or doubt.

            Bauer addressed the ethics Foo Par when she failed to recuse herself from salary discussion regarding her son Garrett Bauer’s position as the elected highway surveyor. She acknowledged her error and said she has “learned from it.” She also referenced occasions in which Select Board member Jordan Collyer has recused himself from matters related to the Fire Department, which he serves as a captain.

            Question 2: With the debt soon to come off the books for the Old Rochester Regional School District’s facilities, including Center and Old Hammmondtown schools, what do you envision as a priority for the town for capital expenditures pertaining to these buildings, as well as the library, and how would you propose funding them without overburdening the taxpayers of the town? (ORR had sought a $12,000,000 debt exclusion from the Tri-Towns that has been pulled from the May 13 town meetings after Rochester’s Select Board and Finance Committee recommended against supporting.)

            Bauer responded that large projects would require borrowing, while smaller projects such as renovations to the library building could be funded through free cash.

            Costello’s response included the need to evaluate projects of which there are many, such as town hall, and that she would work collaboratively with an eye towards sustainable construction.

            Question 3:  Our coastline and thus our community, is vulnerable because of rising sea levels and increased nitrogen pollution due to warmer temperatures. Do you believe we need to take action to address these issues as a coastal community and if so, what do you recommend?

            Costello pointed to the global problem faced by all people. She said that having worked with FEMA, she grasps the importance of working with government agencies while working on local solutions.

            Bauer’s questioned the state’s position that nitrogen in local harbors is the result of residential septic systems requiring expensive denitrification-technology upgrades and said she would first remove damaging fertilizers from the stormwater system.

            Question 4:  Road reconstruction on Main and Water streets is an important issue for our town. The February Tree Committee meeting was attended or watched by 200 residents. The 25% DOT design public hearing is delayed and project funding uncertain. Are you in favor of establishing a Road Reconstruction Committee as a means to bring consensus and understanding of the options available to the town?

            Given she sits on the Tree Committee, Bauer recused herself from answering the question. However, she encouraged people to attend the June 18 public presentation by MassDOT of the village street reconstruction project.

            Costello stated, “If the majority of the town wants it, my opinion doesn’t matter.”

            Closing remarks from Bauer pointed to her work with the Mattapoisett Select Board in hiring municipal employees, pursuing a community garden for all geared towards sustainability, the importance of budget management and her desire to continue in her leadership role for all the people as a “community servant.” If re-elected, Bauer said she would continue to perform with “passion and pride” for Mattapoisett.

            Costello said she believes in transparency, collaboration and would use her unique skill sets. She said she is a goal-oriented person, and as a former member of the town’s financial team would work towards informed decision-making.

            Other contested races find Mattapoisett School Committee member James Muse facing challengers Jack Lebrun and Kathleen McArdle-Leclair with two seats open after Tiffany Reedy did not seek re-election.

            LeBrun stated reasons why he should be selected, included his desire to help students staying involved in the school system as he pursues his own educational goals and growing up in the town.

            Muse pointed to his 12 years on the School Committee, the importance of parental involvement and the struggles teachers face teaching within prescribed frameworks.

            McArdle-Leclair said parents are concerned with grades, especially since COVID-19. She said, as her own children move on to college, she wants to stay involved with the school system.

            The other contested race is for the Board of Assessors with Alan Apperson challenging incumbent Leonard Coppola for one open seat. Neither candidate appeared on May 1.

            Uncontested races in Mattapoisett are: Trustees of the Public Library, two seats with William Osier and Elizabeth Sylvia both seeking re-election Lizanne Capper Campbell for town moderator, Albert Mennino Jr. for re-election to the Water/Sewer Commission, Garrett Bauer for Highway Surveyor, Thomas Tucker for re-election to the Planning Board, Charles McCullough for re-election to the Mattapoisett Housing Authority and James Pierson and Susan Wilbur for two seats for re-election to the Community Preservation Committee.

            The Mattapoisett Town Election will be held on Tuesday, May 21, at Old Hammondtown Elementary School.

Mattapoisett Voters Hear from Candidates

League of Women Voters South Coast

The Wanderer Sails On

            “Oh yeah, I’m the type of guy that likes to roam around, I’m never in one place, I roam from town to town…”

            With the famous rock-and-roll song, “The Wanderer” playing in the background, Mattapoisett Museum Curator Connor Gaudet strolled down the center aisle of the museum to the podium. He began his presentation at the April 24 annual meeting of the Historical Society members. His topic: the Wanderer, the whaling bark that is the featured theme for the museum’s upcoming summer season.

            But the history Gaudet intends to share is less a history lesson of the beloved ship and more how it has been cherished through the decades. First, however, a very brief refresher of Wanderer’s history.

            In 2018, Seth Mendell, the highly respected historian for all things tri-town, gave a lecture on Wanderer’s history. Mendell wove a true story that included the air at the busy shipyard being scented with pine and tar, the sounds of saws at work and the ringing of nails penetrating wood that would be nearly deafening.

            The Wanderer began construction 1877 and was eased into the harbor the following year, April 16, 1878, on a flood tide. It was the last of two ships built in Mattapoisett, Gaudet stated.

            It was surprising to learn from Gaudet’s presentation that when the Wanderer was set afloat, the whaling industry was already two decades past its prime. “The distillation of petroleum to create kerosine had been discovered by Dr. Abraham Kessner in 1849. Oil was struck in Titusville, Pennsylvania, in 1859. The proliferation of ‘rock oil’ combined with a fast and easy method to create lamp fuel was a pretty good indication that the whaling industry’s fate was sealed. Indeed, whale oil reached a peak price in 1856, topping out at $1.77 per gallon.

            “By 1896, that same gallon would cost only 40 cents. By the turn of the century, only a few vessels were still plying the seas for whales, usually with underpaid, green crews from the Azores, Cape Verde or West Indies, who saw the trip as a chance to emigrate to the United States.”

            Gaudet continued, “When she was built in 1878, the world seemed to be starting a slow transition into a more modern age. It was the year Edison patented the phonograph, and Edward Muybridge produced a series of stop-motion photographs in order to prove that all four feet of a galloping horse are off the ground at the same time, thus accidentally creating the first known motion picture. By 1915, the New England whaling industry was in such decline that Miss Emily Bourne announced her plan to build and give to the City of New Bedford a museum dedicated to keeping and sharing the history of its whale fishery, lest it be forgotten and slip away into the past. Now, when someone builds a museum to preserve the legacy of the profession you are currently engaged in, it might be time to start looking for other work.”

            Yet, right up until the day the Wanderer’s last moments sitting in salt water came, people wanted it. Gaudet says that the last crew gets a bad rap for losing the ship. “At least four of the 12 men on board had crewed on the Wanderer before. I’m sure with more research we can find the other crew members on other previous voyages. My point is that the crew has gotten a bad rap for losing the ship. I suggest that it was not a ‘green crew’ that caused her to wreck but one of the worst storms the region had ever seen to date. The Great Gale of 1924 not only wrecked the Wanderer but inflicted enormous damage across Rhode Island and the South Coast of Massachusetts. It was commemorated later that year in a photo booklet documenting the destruction. It was comparable to the Hurricanes of (19)38 and ’54.”

            “On September 30, another storm caused her to finally break up on the rocks she had rested on for 35 days.”

            As the years went by, the Wanderer has enjoyed notoriety, and people have created souvenirs and a variety of Wanderer-branded items, including the museum, which had ball point pens made from wood salvaged from the ship.

            The summer exhibit will feature items created and branded “The Wanderer.” Gaudet has a favorite memento, but he’s not telling.

            “With all the changes that have taken place in this town over the last hundred years since we supposedly ‘lost’ the Wanderer, one of the biggest constants, when you think about it, has been the overwhelming presence of the Wanderer. On T-shirts, the town seal, stores’ names, Christmas ornaments, yearbooks, souvenir spoons and a million other tchotchkes, the Wanderer has transcended the ages, a town mascot for five-plus generations.

            “We love our summer people, don’t get me wrong. But we’re proud of our working-class history. We built things that lasted. We built things that still last – even a hundred years after they supposedly left us.”

            One piece of the Wanderer that remains is a mast, now hanging in the museum’s carriage house, where memories permeate the structure. “They call me the Wanderer, yeah the Wanderer, I roam around around around around…”

Buzzards Bay Musicfest

The Buzzards Bay Musicfest will be returning to Marion this summer from July 10 through July 14 in the Fireman Performing Arts Center at Hoyt Hall on the campus of Tabor Academy. World-class musicians will grace the stage in a five-concert series that is completely open with free admission to the public. On Wednesday, July 10, there will be an open rehearsal at 2:00 pm. That evening, the first concert of the series will feature the full orchestra with works by Mozart, Beethoven and Schumann. The concerts that follow are a chamber music concert on Thursday, a jazz concert on Friday, another chamber concert on Saturday and the finale on Sunday will be the full orchestra. Start times for the evening concerts are new this year as the festival is changing to a 7:30 pm downbeat. The Sunday afternoon concert is at 2:00 pm. Please visit www.buzzardsbaymusicfest.com/ for more detailed information.