Carolyn (Skeie) Bendiksen

Carolyn (Skeie) Bendiksen, 78, of Mattapoisett, passed away Friday, June 9, 2017, at Tobey Hospital, in Wareham, after a long illness. She was the widow of Ole Jon Bendiksen.

Born in New Bedford, MA the daughter of the late Andrew S. and Ragnhild (Matland) Skeie, she was also preceded in death by her brother, Andrew Skeie of Waltham, MA. Carolyn spent most of her life Fairhaven where she graduated from Fairhaven High School and later New Bedford Tech.

She was a teacher at Bristol Community College and Fairhaven High School and retired from BearingPoint, Inc in 2004. Carolyn was a member of the Sons of Norway and the Fairhaven Colonial Club.

Carolyn is survived by her son, Carl Bendiksen and his wife Kelly of Fairhaven, an aunt, Millicent K. Matland of New York, NY; and her cousin Karsten Reinemo.

A Graveside memorial service will be held Friday, June 23, 2017, at 10:00am, Riverside Cemetery.

Arrangements are by the Fairhaven Funeral Home, 117 Main Street, Fairhaven, www.hathawayfunerals.com

In lieu of flowers, please send memorials to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 417005, Boston, MA 02241-7005.

One Boat, 50 Years, a Thousand Memories

In 1967, Bob Brack could not have anticipated that for the next 50 years he would return season upon season to the waters of Buzzards Bay aboard the same sailboat.

As David Kaiser of the Mattapoisett Boat Yard knows, most boat owners who spend any amount of leisure time with boats will go through several boats in a lifetime – not just one.

But Brack’s love for his 19-foot Sailstar Corinthian purchased in 1967 is much more than a passion for sailing – it is the tangible evidence of his love for family.

As a boy, Brack spent summers motor boating in the waters in and around Parkwood Beach, Wareham. “We had a family cottage there. My father had a small outboard,” Brack recalled.

Years later, it would be a suggestion by his first wife Joan that would inspire the latent sailor. Brack remarked to her, “I don’t want to golf.” He wanted something that would give the family time together. She said, “Why not take up sailing?” Thus began a lifetime of experiencing the joy of being with family and sailing.

As he sits on the back porch of his historic home located on Water Street in Mattapoisett, Brack looks out at the cerulean harbor and seems awestruck that 50 years have indeed passed.

Brack tells his story of a man, one boat, and a thousand memories.

The first boat Brack purchased was an 11-foot O’Day Sprite. “A close friend taught me how to sail.” That friend was John Flood who would become his sailing partner for many, many years. “It had a mainsail and a jib, but I worried the children might get frightened,” he said, given that the O’Day could at times be unstable in choppy water, “I wanted them to have a good experience.”

Brack acquired the Sailstar he named Embarker in 1967. The family business was in steel, and the business was called Barker Steel. Barker is also Brack’s middle name, so naming the boat Embarker was a play on words of sorts. Embarker was a boat that Brack believed would be more stable, a reasonable consideration given the moody nature of Buzzards Bay. “At two o’clock the air changes, you know,” he chuckled.

Carl Alberg created the Sailstar in 1966. Alberg (1900-1986) was a prolific boat designer well known in sailing circles, having designed 56 different types of sailboats especially crafted for Buzzards Bay and surrounding bodies of water.

Brack describes his boat this way: “It has a full keel, draws three feet. It’s the keel that gives it stability, so when the wind kicks up, the boat won’t go over – it leans.”

November 1967 his children began learning the ropes, thus the adventures of a lifetime followed. He recalled one particular season when they sailed an amazing 29 times, respectful of weather conditions but sailing nonetheless.

And then there were the end-of-season rituals. Sailing the boat back from Wareham where it was moored from 1967 until 1987 into Mattapoisett Harbor for the winter haul-out at the Mattapoisett Boat Yard he called a “right-of-passage” for his children. That trip, Brack said, almost always took place over the Columbus Day weekend.

Except for one year when he and his oldest child Ginny sailed it back through bitter cold conditions just before Thanksgiving 1977.

“The boat was at Parkwood Beach. The Sunday before Thanksgiving it was blowing twenty knots, it was thirty-five degrees, but I had to get the boat back to Mattapoisett,” Brack recalled. He said he knew that the boatyard would still have a launch running, but he called ahead anyway to ensure, “…someone would be there to get us off the boat…”

“The wind was coming off the west. We tacked in from Angelica Point … it was cold … we were wet … we loved it,” Brack remembers with a meaningful chuckle. Debarking from the boat, Ginny turned to her father and said, “Now that was a whizzer!”

“When you sail, you have to think safety,” Brack said. He knows how unforgiving Buzzards Bay can be, lessons learned first hand through the decades. “It takes your mind off everything…. You are focused on the changing winds and tides.” He has instilled a very healthy respect for the ocean in his family through sailing. He said oftentimes the swells in Buzzards Bay are a very choppy 4 feet high. “The kids loved it!”

Brack’s sailing experiences are not confined to the joys of sailing exclusively with family. In 1987, he became a partner, along with friends Jack Noble and John Flood, in a racing yacht, winning the Marion Bermuda Race, the highly regarded 645-mile race testing sailor against self, weather conditions, and other sailors. No doubt that was a “whizzer” too.

Also beginning in 1987, for the next 25 years Brack would participate in the Buzzards Bay Regatta as well.

On Monday, June 12, Brack’s beloved sailboat was launched for the fiftieth time. The memories of all the previous seasons docked in his mind, image after image, year after year with the voices of his children floating up from the froth of time calling, “Dad, I want to go sailing.”

“I’m at that point where the kids won’t let me boat alone,” Brack dryly announced, although he had often sailed alone up until just three years ago. He hopes to find someone who is willing to sail alongside him, someone with general sailing experience and, of course, a love for being out on Buzzards Bay.

Monday morning Brack was joined by his son, Ken. Together the two repeated what had been done for 50 years now after Embarker was lowered onto the water’s surface and fastened to the dock. Father and son moved together in motions they have done side by side for years and will continue to do so this fiftieth year. It was the hottest day yet of the year and a group had gathered to witness this golden anniversary of the annual launching of Embarker.

“It’s very, very, very special,” said former Mattapoisett Boatyard owner Art McLean, who had been assisting Brack with his sailboat every year. Art’s wife Alberta accompanied the group, snapping pictures with her phone. “This is probably the only boatyard who’s had the same customer with the same boat for fifty years.”

“Here’s to another fifty!” shouted out David Kaiser.

There are still quite a few sails yet ahead for Brack, but it is the memories from decades spent sailing with his three children that provide the aging mariner with bounty more precious than gold. “We’ve had some wonderful days. It’s been an incredible experience.”

By Marilou Newell and Jean Perry

ORRJHS Students of the Month

Kevin T. Brogioli, Principal of Old Rochester Regional Junior High School, announces the following Students of the Month for May, 2017:

Green Team: Emma Vivino & Kennedy Serpa

Orange Team: Alexandra Vanderpol & Tucker Figueiredo

Blue Team: Hailey Cohen & Robert Salit

Red Team: Sabrina Cunningham & Lucas McElroy

Purple Teams: Claudie Bellanger & Lucas Marcolini

Special Areas: Quinn Davignon & Evan O’Brien-Nichols

ORR Athletic Hall of Fame

The Old Rochester Regional Athletic Hall of Fame (ORRAHOF) 2017 Inductions/ Ceremony weekend kicks off on Saturday, June 24 in the ORRHS cafeteria at their Induction Banquet with a “Meet and Greet” all the Inductee Individuals and Team Inductee at 5:00 pm and an On the Go catered dinner at 6:00 pm.

The Induction ceremony will immediately follow to include in this order these 2017 outstanding athletes to be inducted: Susan Lake ”78”, Paul Tinkham “81”, Tiffany Jawor ”93”, Josh Mechler “00”, Patrick O’Connor “02”, Brian Tonelli “03”, Stephanie Reusch “07”.

This year’s “Team Inductee” will be the 1997-98 Massachusetts State Champion ORR Girls Varsity Basketball team. Lastly, the two “Significant Contributor”/“Coach” Inductees will be Ed Walsh and Andy Santos.

Sunday, June 25, concludes our Induction weekend with the ORRAHOF Golf Tournament at the Back Nine Country Club in Lakeville. A 1:00 pm start, please feel free to join us. All information on our Induction Weekend is posted on our Old Rochester Regional Athletic Hall of Fame website: www.orrahof.com or http://orrathletichalloffame.com.

The Garden Groomers Are Back

Do you enjoy sunshine, salt air and harbor views? If so, please join the Mattapoisett Land Trust’s Garden Groomers! We meet at Munro Preserve (just west of the Town Wharves) at 8:00 am each Tuesday morning to pull weeds and do light garden maintenance, while enjoying the sunshine and a cup of coffee. Join us on any Tuesday morning, or email us at info@mattlandtrust.org.

Clambake

An old-fashioned clambake will be held at The Knights of Columbus, 57 Fairhaven Road in Mattapoisett, on Sunday, June 25 at 1:30 pm for $40. For tickets, please call Jim at 508863-3496.

Rising Freshmen Get a ‘Step-Up’

Last week, what is hoped to be the first “Step-Up Day” of many to come was held at Old Rochester Regional High School. Students from the eighth grade at the junior high joined the rest of the current high school students to practice a run through of their academic schedules for next year. Over the course of two hours, ten-minute sessions were held of all eight periods of next semester, allowing classes to meet with their teachers and receive summer work in-person.

In the past, students found out their schedules during the summertime via the school’s online gradebook or during sessions with their guidance counselor. This year brought the introduction of the “Step-Up Day,” giving the classes and teachers a chance to prepare for the upcoming school year.

“The Step-Up Day was reminiscent of shopping periods at universities, and I liked it because everyone seemed a lot less anxious about their new classes,” commented librarian Allison Barker. “I also appreciated the opportunity for the English teachers to hand out summer reading homework in person.”

With the exception of a few teachers who were either absent or positions that have not been filled yet, students were able to meet with teachers for classes. In some cases, this included course additions or position changes; for instance, M.J. Linane has taught history for the past ten years but will fill the position of the technology teacher beginning next year.

“It went pretty smoothly. I think it was a good idea generally,” said Linane. “Personally, I had some trouble using the time most effectively because I had new preps and courses, but it was nice to be able to meet and converse with students.”

It was a general consensus among students that being able to see classes beforehand and understand the requirements of each course was beneficial, as it allowed time for last-minute schedule changes. Since the high school does not allow course switches after the end of the previous school year, the week between Step-Up Day and the beginning of finals meant that students could make more informed choices before it was too late.

“Most of the [eighth graders] are probably going to forget how to get to classes over the summer, but I thought it was useful to be able to get to know our teachers,” rising freshman Andrew Cucci said.

“It was kind of fun because you get a little taste of next year,” added fellow rising freshman Jack Caynon.”You get to see who you’re with.”

“It was informational,” rising senior Bella Rodrigues said. “I like to know what I’m getting into.”

While the Step-Up Day was successful for its inaugural attempt, there were several critiques shared between many of the student participants. One of the main comments revolved around the short span of ten minutes that was spent in each class, assuming all students arrived at the room on time.

“I thought it was okay, but it’d be better if it was longer,” said rising senior Hanil Kang. “I did like that we got to see our teachers for next year,” he added.

Rising sophomore Ryu Huynh-Aoyama agreed with this sentiment. “It would have been better if it wasn’t just ten minutes in each class and if the tables in the cafeteria were marked for the different classes, so if our teacher was not present we could still meet with our classmates.”

Altogether, the Step-Up Day was beneficial to many of the staff and students at the high school, and will hopefully run again in the years to come to better prepare students for the following academic cycle.

By Jo Caynon

 

Fundraiser to Simplify Back-to-School

Folks at Sippican School are hoping to raise a little money for extracurricular activities while making the back-to-school ritual for parents both easier and less expensive.

The Marion School Committee on June 7 approved a new fundraiser with “SchoolKidz,” a subsidiary company of Staples, which allows parents to purchase the entire school supplies list for each grade level in one kit.

Teachers from each grade submit their supplies list, as well as an additional “wish list” for extra optional classroom supplies such as tissues and other office-like teacher supplies to offset the teachers’ costs.

The kits, which are 100 percent voluntary for parents, are customizable and coded for each grade level, and will be sent to the school one week before the start of the next school year.

The benefit: not only does it make it easier to purchase all the list items in one fell swoop, but it also offers a cost savings to the parents and an extra boost to the school fundraising efforts.

The kits range in price from $25 to $35, depending on the grade.

School Committee Chairman Christine Marcolini said she loves the idea, since the school is always looking for ways to save parents money and make things more convenient for parents, students, and teachers.

“I like the idea of the cost savings for sure,” said Marcolini, but she questioned the logistics of establishing a fundraiser like this one so close to the end of the school year.

Although the service will be offered to parents under a tight timeline, said one VASE representative to the committee, it is completely optional and would still be delivered in time for the first day of school.

“I think that this one would really benefit the parents as well,” said committee member Kate Houdelette.

The next scheduled meeting of the Marion School Committee is September 6 at 5:45 pm at the Marion Town House and will start with a tour of Sippican School.

Marion School Committee

By Jean Perry

 

Center School Field Day

Students at Center School enjoyed a day of fun in the sun on Friday, June 9, during the annual Field Day. The last day of school for students in the district is Wednesday, June 21. Photos by Jean Perry

 

Florence Eastman Post 280

The monthly meeting of the Florence Eastman Post 280 will be held at the Post Hall at 7:00 pm on June 21. This meeting will cover the normal reports and will also review the Memorial Day program that, due to weather and road concerns, was held indoors at the Center School. A big “Thank you” to Mrs. Bowman and her staff.

Our special guests for this meeting as per our discussion last month will be Donald and Frank Linhares, Life Members of Post 280. They will lead a discussion as to their efforts to provide Flags and a Memorial Display for the Park. Please return your Proposal Kits to review during the meeting. Donald and Frank have spent much time in preparing their presentation and I hope we will have a large turnout for this meeting.