Holiday Greens Boutique

Did you know that you can purchase fresh greens, centerpieces, ornaments, wreaths, and garlands, handmade by local artisans and decorated with natural elements, at the Marion Music Hall next Saturday?

For a few short hours on the morning of Saturday, December 10, the doors to the Music Hall will open between 9:00 and 11:00 for the “Early Bird” Holiday Greens Boutique.

Created by Marion gardeners, the boutique is a great place to shop for holiday home decor. Centerpieces, ornaments, garlands, wreaths, and swags fashioned from native greens, shells, berries, and pinecones make popular hostess gifts and stocking stuffers.

The Marion Garden Group, which sponsors the event, turned 60 this year. Since its founding in the mid-50s, the group comprised primarily of local gardeners has made it their mission to meet on a monthly basis from September to June. They conduct workshops, invite guest speakers, take field trips, and participate in service projects that contribute to the beautification of the village. This year, the group purchased a Best Bees bee hive that is managed by volunteer members, and the club harvested its first batch of honey this fall. “The group is increasingly cognizant of the effect of certain pesticides and invasive plant species on our habitat,” says past president, Kristy Marshall who spearheaded the project. “We hope to continue to move in ways that support nationwide efforts to grow more native materials and to reclaim pollinator corridors to support the bees and butterflies on whom we are so dependent.”

Today, over 50 active members and 25 affiliates volunteer their time to plant and water the village window boxes and decorative planters. They conduct monthly flower arranging activities for residents at Sippican Health Care Center in Marion and Tremont Health Care Center in Wareham. They decorate wreaths for village businesses and create the holiday arrangements, ornaments, and decorative gifts that will fill the Music Hall Greens Boutique on December 10.

“Membership is made up of a variety of talented people as well as people who want to learn,” says Cassy West, the club’s current president. “We have seasoned volunteers working alongside new members; we have artists, master gardeners, bee lovers, young moms and recent retirees.”

With all the work that the club accomplishes, it’s important to have a cross-section of volunteers with different skills and interests, West says, “but a key element of participation is the opportunity to build lasting friendships and contribute to the beauty and welfare of our town.”

Recent collaborations with Sippican School and the Sippican Lands Trust have yielded big rewards for local residents. Elementary school students now have a solar-powered greenhouse on the grounds of the school made possible in part by a $2,000 matched grant from the Marion Garden Group. The 8-foot by 12-foot greenhouse extends the growing season for the school’s popular Garden Club and makes it possible for teachers to integrate lessons in science with the authentic learning that comes via hands-on experience.

Partnering with the Sippican Lands Trust, the Marion Garden Group has also helped provide not only the funds but the labor to establish mass roadside plantings at Lands Trust properties, including daffodils at Brainard Marsh and at the entrance to Pierson Woods on Point Road.

The group has supported the town’s tree committee and has helped with the planting of Bicentennial Park. “We have also donated to state and national causes related to gardening,” says former president Kitsie Howard.

The Garden Group relies primarily on dues from its members and income from the sale of wreaths and arrangements at the Marion Music Hall during the holiday house tour to finance the greening of the window boxes and planters in and around the village. Donations to help fund beautification projects are always appreciated. Send inquiries to phyllis.partridge@gmail.com.

Betty L. (Parker) Silva

Betty L. (Parker) Silva, 85, of Marion died December 9, 2016 at Royal Cape Cod Nursing and Rehabilitation Center.

Born in Berkley, MA, the daughter of the late George and Beatrice (Haskell) Parker, she lived in Marion most of her life.

She was a member of the United Methodist Church in Marion.

Survivors include 3 sons, Skip Silva of Mattapoisett and Brad Silva and Matt Silva, both of Marion; 2 daughters, Terry Bennett of New Bedford and Debbie Zine of Wareham; a sister, Beverly Wilson of Wareham; 17 grandchildren; 14 great-grandchildren; 2 great-great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

She was the mother of the late Timothy Silva, Robert Cathcart and Brian Silva and the grandmother of the late Richard Travers and the sister of the late Richard Parker, Frances Butterfield and Carol Chase.

Her visiting hours will be held on Monday from 4-8 PM in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6) Mattapoisett. For on-line guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Marion’s Music Hall Advisory Committee

Marion’s Music Hall Advisory Committee recently said good-bye to two devoted and loyal members at the time of their retirement. The Board of Selectmen created the Advisory Committee in 2001 following an exhaustive review of the historic building’s condition. The charge to the newly-formed advisory board was to provide recommendations to the selectmen on the management and maintenance of the Music Hall as one of Marion’s finest historic landmarks.

Sheila Converse was one of the original members of the committee, serving for 15 years. A renowned musician and advocate for the arts in Marion, Sheila was proactive in making the Music Hall a vibrant venue for concerts, lectures, historic films, and dramatic productions. She was very engaged in the staging of the Elizabeth Taber Gala in October 2015, called “Our Fair Lady,” which highlighted the life of the town’s benefactress. The Board of Selectmen and the Advisory Committee recently hosted a “Thank You” luncheon in Sheila’s honor.

Phyllis Washburn served as chairman of the Advisory Committee for the last 14 years, artfully overseeing many projects that included the renovation of the Elizabeth Taber Reading Room, painting and facelifting the interior rooms, the installation of the flagpole at the entrance, and a new roof. Phyllis hails from one of Marion’s oldest and most revered families. On Saturday, November 19, Phyllis was honored at a Reception at the Music Hall and she unveiled a bench that was installed at the entrance of the historic building to commemorate her years of service.

Tinkhamtown Chapel Annual Carol Sing

The Tinkhamtown Chapel on Acushnet Road in Mattapoisett will hold its annual Christmas Carol Sing on Saturday, December 17 at 5:00 pm. Go back in time as you join your friends and neighbors in singing the old favorites in a 19th century chapel, lit by kerosene lamps and heated with a wood stove. Children are encouraged to volunteer to perform a solo song or recitation and to join in the children’s chorus singing “Jingle Bells” and “The Twelve Days of Christmas.” For more information, email bookmama@pobox.com or call 508-758-9559.

Holiday Traditions Begin Again at Tabor

In the three short weeks between Thanksgiving Break and Winter Break, the Tabor schedule is filled with many long-lasting holiday traditions for all members of the community.

The traditions began on Monday night, when all the seniors were invited to the head of school’s house for a class gathering. Each senior decorated an ornament for the house’s Christmas tree, decorated (and ate) holiday cookies, drank hot chocolate, and took pictures together in front of the tree.

“This is a pretty hectic time for a lot of the seniors, and this was a great chance to relax and just be together,” said Student Head of School Joslyn Jenkins. “We’re almost too busy to realize that this is our last year here and it was so great to bond and focus on being a unified senior class.”

This upcoming weekend is packed with traditions, as the last full weekend before Winter Break. Saturday morning begins with what is for many members of the community a true highlight of the year – the annual Holiday Breakfast.

The Dining Hall will be decked out in full Christmas decorations, students and faculty will be dressed in Christmas garb, and plates will be filled with copious amounts of holiday breakfast food.

“I usually walk away with a food coma, considering the fact that I’ve probably eaten five Belgian waffles,” joked senior Duhita Das. “It’s during a time of stress and anxiety and allows me to get into the holiday spirit and eat.”

Immediately following the Holiday Breakfast, the entire Tabor community will gather again in Hoyt Hall just a few steps away and listen to the bands perform in the annual Winter Concert. At 10:15 am, Tabor’s Wind Ensemble and String Ensemble will perform selections they have worked on throughout the last several weeks.

Among the several pieces set to be performed, featured songs include “Waltz of the Flowers” from Tchaikovsky’s ballet The Nutcracker and Adele’s “Skyfall” from the String Ensemble, and a collection of music from the movie Mission Impossible and Leroy Anderson’s “Sleigh Ride” from the Wind Ensemble.

On Sunday, the musical traditions continue at Tabor with the annual “Festival of Lessons & Carols” at 7:30 pm in Wickenden Chapel. While it still holds much of the ceremonial structure of the traditional Christian celebration, it is exclusively a choral performance featuring several of the choral groups on campus, including the various Chamber Choirs and the Madrigal Singers.

One featured piece they will perform is “Gloria caritas, pax et amor,” a composition by Tabor’s choral conductor and organist David Horne, which will incorporate all the singing groups into the piece. The performance is free and open to the public.

On the final few days before Winter Break, students and faculty can expect more festive activities around campus. While they have yet to be finalized, in years past spirit days such as “Ugly Christmas Sweater Day” have been popular and are likely to happen again.

“You know it’s a good day when you can walk through the hallways wearing the ugliest Christmas sweater you’ve ever seen,” said senior Cailyn Garber.

By Jack Gordon

 

Selectmen Give Green Light for Aquaculture

Perhaps it was the agreeable location, or maybe it was the town Christmas party beckoning them from the table in the corner of the Marion Music Hall, but whatever it was, the Marion Board of Selectmen on December 6 swiftly approved Shea Doonan’s latest request to establish a half-acre shellfish farm at the end of Hammetts Cove in an area dubbed ‘Mitton Flats,’ only weeks after the board denied Doonan’s proposed aquaculture farm off Meadow Island.

Doonan is proposing to use floating cages to culture soft-shell clams, quahogs, American oysters, and bay scallops in an area he claims “no one ever goes,” a site diagonally across from the Harbormaster’s Office at 1 Island Wharf.

Assistant Harbormaster Adam Murphy told the board that the exact location of the shellfish farm would need to be fine-tuned; however, “That is an area that we’d like to see go on our end because of the lack of eelgrass,” Murphy stated.

“It’s already kind of a ‘dead’ area,” said Doonan, “It’s only a foot and a half of water. No one goes there at all.”

The meeting served as a “blessing of the board,” as Town Administrator Paul Dawson put it. Doonan still must proceed through the state’s application process for the aquaculture license, which entails a series of surveys including, but not limited to, the presence of eelgrass.

The selectmen denied Doonan’s last request due to their opposition to the location that selectmen and some abutters claimed would inhibit the recreational use of the area.

“I wish you the best on this,” Selectman Steve Gonsalves told Doonan.

After the unanimous vote, Board of Selectmen Chairman Jody Dickerson said, “This is one of many steps. We wish you the best, Shea.”

The board enjoyed a light agenda that evening due to the scheduling of the Town Christmas Party right after adjournment.

The next regularly scheduled meeting of the Marion Board of Selectmen will be December 20 at 7:00 pm at the Marion Town House.

By Jean Perry

 

Rochester Welcomes Holidays with Tree Lighting

Rochester. Those who live there refer to it as the “God’s Country” of Tri-Town for its natural beauty, wildlife, rural charm, and bucolic backdrop of everyday simple life.

When the holiday season comes to Rochester, you can feel it in the air. You can see it in the winter constellations that spread across the unencumbered cosmos above the wide-open spaces of farms, fields, ponds, and cranberry bogs. You can find it in the illumination of the usually dark and dimly-lit back roads with houses aglow with holiday lights, some of them elaborate enough to draw higher-than-usual crowds to some quiet corner neighborhoods of town.

This being my fourth Christmas covering the Tri-Town area for The Wanderer, I have become acquainted with each town’s annual traditions that townspeople return to every year, and I have come to appreciate the modest merriment of the Rochester tree lighting. Near the steps of Town Hall, the simple strand of white lights wraps around the evergreen tree that, like ourselves, grows and ages year after year with us barely noticing at all. The star on top compels us to look up and catch a glimpse of the bright crescent “Cold Moon” of December and the guiding light of Venus, second in brightness only to the moon, and looking up at the sky activates the wonder of what it is to be alive and the all too transient feeling of how small we really are and how insignificant it is to buy gifts of things that no one truly needs with money that we do not have.

I imagine the tree, like all of us admiring it, is a joyful witness to crowds that gather beneath it, the children of Rochester Memorial School singing the songs of the season with innocent voices and smiles captured on iPhones pointed at them by proud parents smiling back. The tree then merrily watches the grand arrival of Santa upon the Rochester Fire Department’s ladder truck, its flashing lights piercing the night and exciting the children with the hopes of a candy cane and a high-five from Santa.

I imagine the stilling of the night after the crowd has gone home and the tree spends its first silent night with boughs only slightly burdened by the weight of the lights, which the tree doesn’t seem to mind at all as long as the people notice them as they go about their Christmas around it.

I imagine the tree is happy as it remains a constant year after year, night after night, into the New Year before the lights are taken down and the tree dissolves back into the simple scenery of the quiet town center, the way people prefer it around there.

So, while the rest of the region is bustling from store to store, annoyed in holiday traffic and stressing out about how little time is left to prepare for the big day, there stands the simple, unostentatious Christmas tree in the center of Rochester – a symbol of how, just maybe, the holidays could use a little more Rochester.

By Jean Perry

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David Bent Barker

David Bent Barker, born in Taunton, MA, son of the late Humphrey Barker and the late Helen Barker, died in his 88th year.
Mr. Barker attended Providence Country Day School, Graduated from Tabor Academy in 1946, and received his B.A. from Williams College in 1950 where he was a member of Beta Theta Pi.

He was employed by Swift & Company in Boston and Chicago from 1950-1957; by Wilcox-Crittenden in Rochester, NY and Middletown, CT 1957-1962 as Marine Products Manager; and Robert Reiser & Co., Inc. in Boston and Canton, MA 1962-1994 as Vice President.

In 1979, Mr. Barker was elected to the Tabor Academy Board of Trustees on which he served for 27 years. During his tenure he held a variety of positions culminating with his election as Chairman of the Board from 1986-1990 continuing as a Trustee Emeritus until he retired in 2006.

An active sailor, Mr. Barker participated in many long distance and ocean races both on Lake Ontario and the Atlantic Ocean. He was aboard “Lady Linden” in three Newport-Bermuda ocean races winning Class C honors in 1962. On chartered or friends vessels he and his wife explored the Danish Islands, the Virgin Islands and the Lesser Antilles. Later years saw him cruising the east coast of North America with his wife on one of his vessels named “Barcarolle” exploring Chesapeake Bay to New England, Maine, New Brunswick, Nova Scotia, the Bras D’Or Lakes, the island of St. Pierre (France) and the south coast of Newfoundland. Mr. Barker formally belonged to several yacht clubs including Rochester, NY; Essex, CT; Duxbury, MA; Off Soundings Club; and the Beverly Yacht Club from 1976-1993.

Mr. Barker particularly enjoyed woodworking, making over 30 half models of sailing vessels plus coffee tables, step stools, children’s toys, book ends, and Christmas items.

A family man, Mr. Barker is survived by his wife of 66 years the former Jane Ellen Ford, two daughters; Hillery Barker Tura and her husband David D. Tura of Groton, CT; Wendy Barker of Marston Mills, MA; two sons, David Bent Barker, Jr. and his wife Lynne of Mattapoisett, MA and Charles Ford Barker and his wife Ann of Kennebunk, ME; five grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

Services are private. In lieu of flowers contributions would be welcome at Tabor Academy, 66 Spring Street, Marion, MA 02738 as additions to the “ Barker Family Scholarship Fund” designed to provide financial aid for middle class American families to allow deserving children to benefit from a Tabor Academy education. Arrangements are with the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6) Mattapoisett. For online guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Open Table

You are invited for supper on Friday, December 9 at the Mattapoisett Congregational Church. As always, something delicious and nutritious is on the menu and we can’t wait to see you. There is no charge, although donations are gratefully accepted. Doors open at 4:30 pm and the meal will be served at 5:00 pm. This is a community event and everyone is welcome.

Rochester Officers Shed Their Beards

Five Rochester police officers headed over to Old Colony on the morning of Wednesday, November 30, where some eager cosmetology students put an official end to the Police Department’s ‘No-Shave November.’

This year, six officers participated in the seemingly ubiquitous new tradition among men – No-Shave November, which originally began as an awareness campaign for cancer, in which men show a renewed appreciation for their facial hair, something that many cancer patients lose during cancer treatment. The movement has since taken off as an awareness campaign for a number of different causes and, like the Rochester police officers who let their beards and mustaches flourish throughout the month, it acts as a conversation starter and a way to garner donations for the officers’ chosen cause – helping veterans who suffer from PTSD.

Police Chief Paul Magee said the officers approached him in October about starting a No-Shave November tradition to raise money for Home Base, a charity that provides support and mental health treatment to veterans returning home from combat. And with a number of veterans currently serving on the Rochester police force, Magee called supporting the worthy cause “a no-brainer.”

“It seemed like a good idea,” said Magee, “and a lot a lot of departments in the area were doing it, so we gave it the go-ahead.”

Officers had to pay $100 for the privilege to grow out their facial hair, which under regular circumstances is not allowed for officers serving on the force.

So, Officers Nathan Valente, Jason Denham, Alex Malo, Rob Nordahl, and Scott Smith, along with the chief himself, embarked upon a journey of facial hair growing and grooming, something most of them knew little about since they need to shave daily to report for duty.

“I hate shaving,” Magee told Old Colony student Taylor Rowe as she approached him, clippers buzzing towards his goatee. “It’s a pain when you have to shave everyday.”

But growing a beard was no breeze, either. The main complaint amongst the men in uniform: itchiness.

“And it was a lot of work to keep it somewhat decent looking,” Magee said.

Valente took his seat in front of the mirror and laughed as cosmetology student Kirsten Galas draped a silken leopard print cape around him.

“Oh yeah, this suits me,” Valente joked. Valente, who if this was a competition among them would have won for fullest and bushiest beard, admitted, “Before I joined the department, I always had facial hair.” Clearly, Valente knew what he was doing.

The chief, along with the other officers, heckled Valente a little when Galas had to seek stronger clippers to cut through the density of Valente’s dark beard, which he credited to his Portuguese genetics.

“Same ones they use on the alpacas,” kidded Valente, who was still being “sheared” as the other officers were finished – even those who also enjoyed a haircut.

For Magee, asking the assistance of the Old Colony students seemed like the perfect gesture, as part of the department’s initiative is to participate in more community interaction, especially with the youth of the area.

“To be able to come in here and have a little fun and for the kids to see that these guys are all just regular guys who have a job to do,” Magee said, is a worthwhile experience.

Magee said almost every shop at the school has assisted the police department in one way or another thus far, “So this was just a natural thought to have cosmetology do the job.”

The officers declined the invitation for a manicure and hand massage offered by cosmetology shop teacher Vanessa Raymond, but a couple of them quietly admitted that they would consider coming back at a later time for some foot action – a time when perhaps the cameras weren’t pointed at them.

Magee proudly announced that Rochester Police collected a total of $1,500 for Home Base, and before the officers left with their fresh new faces, the cosmetology teacher announced the shop would be donating another $25 to the cause.

By Jean Perry

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