Spring Agricultural Day at Acushnet Grange

Join us for our Agriculture Day on Saturday, April 7 from 10:00 am – 3:00 pm at the Acushnet Grange, 1121 Main Street, Acushnet. There is a full day planned with activities, agriculture products for sale, food demonstrations and displays by agriculture organizations. We will have a coloring contest and seed planting for children. There will be a draft horse demonstration in the afternoon. Wampanoag Dog Club will be holding an open house and obedience demonstrations. Free and open to the public. Please follow the signs for parking. There will be some handicap parking at the hall. For more information, call Caroline at 508-763-2795.

Annual Election Heats Up in Marion

The deadline for candidates to return their nomination papers for the May 18 Marion election passed on Monday, March 26, and the race is on for Board of Selectmen with two seats up for grabs – one three-year seat to replace outgoing Selectman Jody Dickerson and another one-year seat left vacant by Steve Gonsalves when he resigned in February.

While only Community Preservation Committee Chairman and Marion Open Space Acquisition Commission member Randy Parker filed papers for the three-year seat, four will appear on the ballot to fill the one-year seat.

William “Dale” Jones, Michelle Oullette Smith, John Waterman, and Joseph Zora, Jr. all opted for the one-year selectman’s seat, making this Board of Selectmen race the most contested on the ballot.

Jones has run several times for Board of Selectmen, including last year against four other opponents, but he never came in first. He was recently appointed as a member of the Conservation Commission and was also once the Emergency Management director.

Smith is a member of the Marion and Old Rochester Regional School Committees and is also a member of the Zoning Board of Appeals. She ran against Jones last year for Board of Selectmen, vying for former Selectman Steve Cushing’s open seat, but came in fourth place. Smith is also the only one running for the Marion School Committee to maintain her seat for another term.

Waterman has spoken publically against the current Board of Selectmen’s decision to jettison the new town house construction option article from the Town Meeting warrant.

Zora can often be heard speaking his mind as a concerned citizen on the Town Meeting floor. His father, Joseph Zora, Sr., was a Board of Selectmen member for 27 years, serving nine consecutive terms.

The three-year Assessor position – the only other contested race this year – is now between newcomer George TJ Walker, a former Planning Board member, and incumbent Ray Pickles, whose name has come up in recent local news after he was abruptly dismissed from his position as executive director of the Carver, Marion, Wareham Regional Refuse Disposal District. Pickles is also the current town clerk and a former town administrator.

The remaining uncontested races are as follows: Town Moderator, one year, incumbent Brad Gordon; Board of Health, three years, incumbent John Howard; Planning Board, two seats each three years, current appointed Planning Board member Andrew Daniel and Kristen St. Don-April Rios; Open Space Acquisition Commission, three years, incumbent Alan Harris.

Voting for the Friday, May 18, Annual Election is at the Benjamin D. Cushing Community Center located at 465 Mill Road. Polls open at 8:00 am and close at 8:00 pm.

By Jean Perry

 

Obstacles Trip-up Walkout Efforts

The March ‘Four’easters’ stole four and a half days from the ORRHS schedule, including March 14, which had been designated as National School Walkout Day. The memorial and protest was then rescheduled to occur last Wednesday on March 21 at the same time of 10:00 am. However, this meant students would have missed the last 12 minutes of second period, and thus the administration was said to have nixed the idea. In the end, the event was ultimately cancelled due to impending weather and incorrect information that spread throughout the student body.

“First we had been told we would only be allowed to go out at 10:17 am instead, which would have been during Bulldog Block,” said senior Madeline Scheub, the main organizer of the event. “We were warned that students would not be protected from any punishment if they went through with it. We did not want to go through with this, as we believed any discipline taken would overshadow the walkout itself and take attention away from the message we were trying to spread.”

Principal Mike Devoll gave this statement on the matter: “The students indicated to me that the weather was a factor in cancelling. I received an email from a student stating it was cancelled. We never spoke of any disciplinary action. I prefered 10:17 am to 10:00 am for a start time, and conversations were cordial and collaborative.”

Many of the students and parents who heard it had been cancelled said they thought it was cancelled because students now faced disciplinary action. Regardless, the fact that the walkout did not take place was disheartening to many.

“It’s stupid that it was cancelled,” senior Bella Rodrigues argued. “It’s a protest, and the administration had no power over it in the first place. Shootings are going to keep happening. This is about us and our safety so we have to make a change.”

“I think the student body shouldn’t be scared by the administration telling them not to take part in a national protest,” added senior Ethan Mort. “Them telling us not to participate in the walkout reschedule is similar to a factory owner telling his rioting workers to not go on strike.”

Freshman Spencer Perez-Dormitzer said he was sad it was cancelled, “Because I had been looking forward to it. My brother took part in the junior high walkout and made a speech.”

In contrast to the high school, the ORR Junior High School student body held a successful walkout.

Around two-thirds of all seventh and eighth grade students participated in the memorial, including several who made speeches to their peers.

“I thought our students handled the walkout in a mature and respectful manner,” junior high Principal Kevin Brogioli stated. “They used it as an opportunity to speak about each of the seventeen victims in Parkland, Florida before having a moment of silence in their honor.”

Sophie Martins was one of the students who led the organization of the junior high walkout.

“We actually learned about it during class, and as soon as I heard I was super excited,” Martins said. “Word travels fast around the school, and we also used social media to tell people about the walkout. We did negotiate and we flipped one of our class blocks with ‘flex’ so we wouldn’t be missing class. There were seventeen speeches made by students, and each was assigned one of the victims to talk about for our memorial.”

Martins also said, “We tried to make it clear that it was a protest in calling for gun control, but that it was also about remembering the victims and making sure for their sake it doesn’t happen again.”

As young people, Martins said, “Standing up and raising our voices is important because we are citizens of this society and we should have a voice in it.”

Back at the high school, the prior week was a busy one for the majority of students, on top of any walkout attempt. The entire 12th grade finished up and handed in the annual senior project articles, and the drama production took up much of the week for any cast members. As a result, a good number of students were not aware about the cancellation or about the change in dates at all.

“I didn’t know it was cancelled, but I also hadn’t heard about the change in dates at all,” sophomore Alexa McLeod commented. “I was waiting to hear someone talk about it.”

“There’s not much we could do about the weather, but the setbacks were really frustrating,” said senior Lauren Gonsalves. “Especially since it’s so difficult to accurately spread information through the school and many people were struggling to keep track of everything.”

The walkout wasn’t the only thing that students missed due to the original snow day cancellation of the event. The League of Women Voters had been scheduled to help students ages 16 years old and older pre-register online to vote during Bulldog Block.

“I think the most important thing that the walkout would’ve had to offer was pre-voter registration,” senior Alice Bednarczyk said. “The ability to let young people vote and understanding voting is very important and it’s something that adults should try and take the initiative to teach students about.”

ORR Update

By Jo Caynon

 

More Seniors Means More COA Funding

The trend has been substantiated by SRPEDD, borne out in census reports, and become a reality for councils on aging throughout the Tri-Town area – the population is aging. And with that follows the need for greater resources and more services geared to supporting senior citizens as they attempt to age in place.

On March 22, the members of the Mattapoisett Finance Committee met with Jackie Coucci, director of the Mattapoisett Council on Aging, to discuss the department’s fiscal year 2019 budget and to take a closer look at the needs of an aging population.

Coucci discussed a survey that was conducted between July and August 2017 – a time when the highest number of seasonal homeowners would have returned to Mattapoisett – that asked seniors a variety of questions in an effort to determine how the COA could help as senior citizens strive to “maintain a happy, healthy lifestyle.”

While the survey asked basic questions such as age, gender, employment status, and living arrangement, it also delved into functional habits of living, such as overall health and mobility, transportation needs, finances, housing issues, and enrichment programing.

Of the 227 surveys completed, Coucci found the greatest concerns were lack of transportation options, ability to remain at home, and lack of affordable housing.

Citing statistics from the Town Clerk’s office, Coucci said that the 2017 data showed a total population of 6,570 with nearly half – 2,955 or 45% – aged 55 or older, and 35% of that group aged 60 or older.

“The survey was not just for the COA,” Coucci told the FinCom members, “it is for the town, the Planning Board, the Finance Committee…. It’s the pulse of the community.”

Coucci said, however, that she was concerned about reaching those seniors who are homebound. “How do we reach those at home to find out what their needs are?”

While the COA assists both year round and seasonal seniors, its services also have the affect of helping entire family units as younger folks seek programs and expertise for their older family members.

“People ask us about handymen and other types of hands-on services,” Coucci said, adding that the COA does have a list that has been crosschecked with the Better Business Bureau and Angie’s List, but ultimately it is the responsibility of the individual to make good decisions.

FinCom Chairman Pat Donoghue said, “I worry about people making good judgment about who they hire … I get concerned that we need to have resources to protect our seniors … That’s the kind of service I’d like to see.”

Town Administrator Michael Gagne added that, during a meeting of the Massachusetts Municipal Association, a discussion on aging populations identified Mattapoisett as ranking No. 1 in the entire Southcoast for percentage of seniors versus all other age groups.

“We need to address senior services,” he said.

As the meeting shifted to discussion of the FY19 budget projections, Donoghue pointed out that school enrollment continued to decline.

“We have a big change in demographics,” she said. “This is an opportunity to say we move allocation from the schools to the senior center.”

Regarding capital improvements, Coucci pointed to wheelchair access to the senior center located in the annex of Center School, an awning over the entranceway, and other renovations that would bring the center up to the 20th century. She also said relocating the public health nurse to available space on the first floor near the Recreation Department offices would free up space in the annex area for COA use. Coucci said presently there isn’t a space to have private conversations with those seeking assistance.

Staffing changes were also discussed as Coucci asked to increase the part-time administrative coordinator position to full-time status and a salary increase of $6,073 for her position. The current salary for the director’s position is $55,927. In support of this request, Coucci distributed a study she had conducted on the average salaries of COA directors in other towns including Marion and Rochester. Marion came in at $51,123, whereas Rochester was $84,000. Coucci said Rochester’s personnel set-up was different in that the director reported directly to the Board of Directors versus the selectmen or a town manager.

Gagne said Coucci currently is not employed via negotiated contract.

“Her job should be a contract negotiation,” Gagne said.

Mattapoisett’s COA overall budget proposal from FY19 stands at $169,192.

The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Finance Committee is scheduled for March 29 at 6:30 pm in the Town Hall conference room.

Mattapoisett Finance Committee

By Marilou Newell

 

Sarah Adeline (Johnson) Gulecas

Sarah Adeline (Johnson) Gulecas of Marion, our sweetest mother, grandmother and friend, passed away on Thursday March 29, 2018 after a brief illness at the age of 87. She was the wife of the late Lazarus H. Gulecas.

Born in Viola, Kansas, the daughter of the late Robert O. Johnson and Adeline Katherine (Kraus) Johnson Werner, she lived in Marion for most of her life.

Mrs. Gulecas was formerly employed by Christy’s Market in Marion for many years until her retirement.

She was an avid line dancer and enjoyed walking and attending exercise classes with her friends.

She is survived by three children, James F. Gulecas and his wife Grace of New Port Richey, FL, Timothy J. Gulecas and Anne D. Urquhart and her husband Greg, all of Marion; and two grandchildren, Colin M. Urquhart and Mason A. Urquhart, both of Marion.

She was predeceased by her stepfather, Frederick Werner and her siblings, Bernard Johnson, Bonnie Johnson, and Charles Johnson.

A graveside service will be held on Saturday April 7, 2018 at 10 AM at Evergreen Cemetery in Marion. Visiting hours will be on Friday April 6th from 5-8 PM at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Charles T. Kelly

Charles T. Kelly, 72, of Mattapoisett passed away Saturday, March 31, 2018 at home surrounded by his family after a four year battle with brain cancer. He was the husband of Maureen E. (Craig) Kelly.

Born in Boston, son of the late Charles J. and Elizabeth (Cefelo) Kelly, he lived in Easton and Mattapoisett for most of his life.

He was a communicant of St. Anthony’s Church in Mattapoisett.

Mr. Kelly attended Worcester Polytechnic Institute where he earned his Bachelor’s Degree.

He was the owner of R.A.C. Services for over 30 years until his retirement.

Mr. Kelly enjoyed boating, skiing, family vacations and spending time with family, especially his grandchildren.

He is survived by his wife; four children, Kimberly A. DeLeo, Maureen K. Mullen, Michael C. Kelly and his wife Jessica, and Kevin C. Kelly and his wife Heather; ten grandchildren, Talia and Gianna DeLeo, Luke, Emma, and Caillaigh Mullen, Isabelle, Tyler, and Hazel Kelly, and Tanner and Declan Kelly; four siblings, Joseph Kelly and his wife Stephanie, William Kelly, Robert Kelly and his wife Patricia, and Jean Canty and her husband Thomas; and many nieces and nephews.

His memorial visitation will be held on Thursday, April 5th from 4-8 PM at the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home for Funerals, 50 County Rd., Route 6, Mattapoisett. His Funeral Mass will be held on Friday, April 6th at 9 AM at St. Anthony’s Church in Mattapoisett. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made toward Kim and Maureen’s ride in the Pan Mass Challenge, with checks being made out to P.M.C. and mailed to The Kelly Family, One Brant Beach Avenue, Mattapoisett, MA 02739. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

26th Annual Penny Sale on the Way

Parents and friends of Holy Family-Holy Name School will be sponsoring our 26th annual Penny Sale on Saturday, April 7. Come and buy some tickets and take a chance on winning one of hundreds of individual prizes being raffled off! They range from household items to children’s toys to gift certificates. There’s even a full kitchen to enjoy supper or some snacks while you play. At the end of the evening, the grand finale is our MEGA Raffle! Always a crowd pleaser!

The Penny Sale will be held at Holy Name Center, 121 Mt. Pleasant Street, New Bedford. Doors will open at 5:00 pm and food will be served all evening. For more information or directions to the center, call 508-993-3547. Please make plans to attend this exciting event with your entire family.

School Recognizes Success of Student Firefighters

Old Rochester Regional School Committee member Joe Pires couldn’t say enough positive words about the M.M.R. Hose CO. Explorer Post 343 cadet program, a collaborative effort led by Tri-Town firefighters committed to providing young people with the experience and training to be future firefighters.

Pires praised the program on March 26 before presenting the cadets and their leaders with certificates of merit and appreciation.

The program, Pires said, is a success due to the commitment of the cadet leaders, “The people who just give wholeheartedly to this program.”

“I personally have witnessed fine people in this community taking our children as if they were their own,” said Pires, whose son Matthew is a cadet. The skills the program has offered, the education, the experience, Pires said, “I can’t say enough.”

Out of the ten cadets in the program, eight were present for the ORR School Committee meeting to talk about their experiences so far as a firefighter cadet.

Josh Marcio said the cadet program is just like what one would encounter in firefighting academy.

“This is a real good career option,” said Marcio. “It teaches … team building, leadership, and I think that’s one of the most important parts – it’s just amazing.”

Amber Jones found herself facing her fear of heights, which she is sure she will get over eventually, along with any other fears she might have had before.

“They definitely push us to accomplish what we want to accomplish and help us to get over our fears,” Jones said. “And no matter what we have at home, we have a second family with each other,” said Jones. Having known many of the other cadets for years, she said the program has strengthened their friendships as they all seriously consider a future in firefighting.

Jones said she never even thought about firefighting as a career path, but once she became a cadet, “…And seeing how it works and the togetherness of everyone … I definitely knew almost immediately that I wanted to do this for my career, and my family is totally surprised by that.”

One cadet said the program has made him a better person, more open and outgoing.

“It’s an environment where kids can grow and learn … teamwork,” said Rochester Firefighter Tracey Eldridge. “And community is really important.”

The training is intense, and the experience as real as it gets in a controlled environment. Cadets have learned ice rescue techniques, worked inside rapid intervention mazes with wire entanglement props and confined spaces, high elevations, all to begin the recruitment process for the future firefighters of Tri-Town, said Rochester Fire Captain Jeff Eldridge.

“It’s really important that we start building our future firefighters and to see them all together – that’s what does it for me,” Eldridge said. “They take care of each other.”

“And to be able to watch these kids grow and come out of their comfort zone has been amazing,” Tracey Eldridge said. “And we only hope to build the program and a better place, a safe place for kids to do something different.”

After a video presentation showcasing the program, Pires continued praising the program.

“To see all of those images, it tells a story,” Pires said. “It is amazing to just witness and watch … you kids perform and do things maybe that you thought you couldn’t do.”

In other matters, ORR High School Principal Mike Devoll gave an update on some of the new courses the committee approved at the last meeting, as well as a list of additional courses slated for next year.

The first wave of new courses features Advanced Placement Latin, Lego Robotics, Computer Science for All, and AP Computer Science Principles.

“I’m happy to report that all have very strong student interest,” Devoll said. “…Huge.”

The committee approved some additional courses, including a themed English course called Monsters, Murder, and Madness, which Devoll said was a college prep level course. Other courses were technology-based, like Introduction to CAD design, Intro to 3D design, Advanced Robotics, and Intro to Game Design.

“The intent was to expand and grow the Technology Department at the school,” Devoll said, while touching upon an additional technology teacher position currently funded in the fiscal year 2019 budget. “I think the big takeaway is that whenever we decided to add a second tech position, it sounds great but it’s about marshaling the kids … and that’s always a concern. The kids have to show interest.”

Devoll said it’s possible he could be looking at a third technology teacher position next year if increased student interest in tech courses continues, with demand for computer science and engineering on the rise.

“I think these classes look great. I wish I was a student,” said School Committee member Michelle Smith.

Also during the meeting, Business Administrator Patrick Spencer introduced the one bid for the construction of a new security vestibule at the high school for $9,761, which the committee approved. The same company that installed the junior high vestibule will install the high school vestibule, and construction will start as soon as school lets out for the summer.

As it stands, the last day of school will be June 25.

The next meeting of the old Rochester Regional School Committee is scheduled for April 25 at 6:30 pm at the Old Rochester Regional Junior High School media room.

Old Rochester Regional School Committee

By Jean Perry

 

The Iconic Seahorse

There are 54 different species of seahorses in the world. They live along shallow edges of coastlines all over the globe, but they are rarely seen and are often described as the shyest creature on earth.

Seahorses vary in size depending on geographical location and can be found inside fishermen’s shrimp nets, dredged up while eating their favorite food. The smallest pygmy species is as small as your little finger.

Despite its features being visually similar to many other earthly creatures, including the head and neck of a horse and a tail of a kangaroo, the seahorse is classified as fish, having gills to breathe underwater, pectoral fins to navigate, and an internal bladder to swim in a typical upright posture. They also have interlocking body plates like a crustacean crab for protection.

What is called a ‘prehensile’ (adapted to hold or grasp objects) tail is flexible enough to wrap around its neck like a scarf and to even scratch its own head to wonder about how his curious creation ever came to be. Mostly the tail is used to reach out and latch onto a sea grass blade or coral finger to stabilize its location and position in a strong current.

The seahorse’s eyes can move independently, separately moving and focusing in different directions to both objects coming and going like a chameleon. Even more remarkable is the ability, like a chameleon, to change color at the blink of an eye to camouflage itself into the background of its surroundings to hide from predators.

Seahorse reproductive behavior is even more astounding as the male carries the fertilized eggs in a brood pouch placed there by a female. After an elaborate several-day courtship during with couples swim side-by-side holding tails, they both wheel around doing what is called a mystical pre-dawn dance lasting about six minutes. The female then releases her eggs through her ovipositor tube into the male’s brood pouch. He subsequently nourishes them by manufacturing organic compounds as well as hormones for development.

When ready to hatch in a week or two, he convulses his body frame and expels them through a single opening of the pouch. Almost immediately after that, he is ready to receive another brood of eggs from the female to populate throughout the breeding season. This repeated procreation leads to an estimated world population of millions.

Some seahorse populations in the world may be endangered as a result of overfishing, particularly in the Orient for use with Chinese medicine, where seahorse powder is ingested in pills, powders, and syrups to cure kidney disease, impotence, and induce labor. Seahorses are also a favorite delicacy, roasted and sold by street corner vendors impaled on a stick like a lollipop.

This is unfortunate for one of the oldest species on Earth, dating back in fossils 16 million years. This ancient creation came into mankind’s awareness much later, coming to life with Greek mythology and Egyptian art about the time of the Etruscan Empire. It was called hippocampus, (hippo for horse, and campus for sea monster). A favorite myth told how the seahorse steed pulled the aquatic chariot of Poseidon, god and monarch of the sea.

Since then, the seahorse was destined to emerge in the Renaissance movement of great works of art, paintings, woodcuts, carvings, sculpture, and statues. The most world famous is the fountain of Trevi in Rome featuring the winged hippocampus.

There’s one giant seahorse that calls the Town of Mattapoisett its home, known affectionately as Salty the Seahorse. This landmark greets residents every day on their way to work and school, and at night both eyes come alive to light up by solar power. Salty remains under the watchful stewardship of the Mattapoisett Land Trust, and the playground garden park is maintained to honor the generous Dunseith family donation to the town.

Let’s hope Salty continues to reign supreme and stand as a welcoming sentinel for visitors and residents, as well as a mystical silhouette of the real species for children of all ages.

By George B. Emmons

Building Acceptance, Dismantling Ableism

It’s April again, which means, as I flip my free Easter Seals calendar over to page April, I’m going to start talking about autism again.

April 2, World Autism Awareness Day, marks the start of Autism Awareness Month all across the globe. We included some bits on autism awareness in The Wanderer over the last three consecutive Aprils, but now as we face a fourth April – ten Aprils after the very first Autism Awareness Month – I’m wondering, are we ‘aware’ yet?

Because, really, autism ‘awareness’ hasn’t really changed very much for Autistics or their families. Services for Autistics are still underfunded, supports are still limited, and Autistics are still fighting for their rightful place in society and for their voices to be heard.

The neuro-typical (NT) world still in large part excludes Autistics, still perpetuates damaging stereotypes, still uses the r-word in mainstream culture, and is still dictating the futures of people on the autism spectrum in almost all facets of their lives, especially in schools and in the workplace with a lack of jobs and unequal and unfair wages.

Since last April I’ve learned that many Autistic people aren’t even fans of Autism Awareness Month. Autistic activists and bloggers say blue light bulbs, puzzle piece pins, autism walkathons, and more “awareness” propagated by NTs actually undermines Autistics’ efforts by perpetuating stereotypes, eliciting pity through anecdotes, and talking about autism like NTs are the experts and offering no forum for the true experts on autism – Autistics.

“We don’t care for ‘Autism Awareness Month’ because it focuses on the negativity of autism,” said Chuck McIntyre, a 26-year-old resident of Mattapoisett who is Autistic and active in the Autistic Community advocacy scene. “It follows the perspective of parents who martyr themselves as people who have to ‘deal with’ Autistics and often brings up ‘cure’ culture and increases stigma. But most importantly, it leaves us out of the conversation; it really pushes us out of the conversation.”

I’ve given all that a lot of thought, and I have no option but to agree with him.

The growing pains of personal growth have hallmarked my time between last Autism Awareness Month and this one. Accompanying that was the nausea that ensues when a new idea conflicts with one’s flawed assumption, and the jolt of self-awareness I drove into was like a massive pothole out of nowhere.

This year marked the chapter in my life when I faced the ‘ableism’ I never saw in myself because it didn’t quite look the way I pictured it.

As an advocate for my child and an ally of the disenfranchised, I never considered that perhaps inside me were some unwitting ableist tendencies. I knew they were out there, trying fad “treatments” to “cure” kids of autism and parents withholding vaccines essentially believing that a sick (or possibly dead!) child would be preferable to an Autistic child.

“There are multiple forms of ableism,” said McIntyre. “There’s the ableist that denies that these disorders or ailments exist, or those who call people like me or others ‘fakers.’ There’s the ableist who can say that you can overcome if you just ‘try harder.’”

And among a litany of other examples, McIntyre said, “There’s the ableist who is bitter about having their tax dollars go to special programs [that benefit Autistics],” and so on.

“And then there are ableists who are just bullies,” said McIntyre.

Ableism is also the crass concept that Autism is a defect of nature versus diversity in nature. Ableism is often unconscious, and so is ‘abled privilege,’ which is as simple as being able to look at the floor while talking to someone without being “redirected” to “make eye contact.”

We see ableism on social media videos of people acting kindly towards an Autistic person and being hailed a saint for attending an Autistic’s girl’s birthday party.

“The media in general will form a stereotype of the ‘helpless’ handicapped person,” McIntyre said. “A lot of their stories will be about these people who can’t take care of themselves or some unfortunate family who is living with this ‘Autistic version of the child they dreamed of.’”

This April is the perfect time for NTs to consider a new paradigm, one in which Autistics are accepted and not simply noticed as existing parallel to NTs. If you’re reading this and you are Autistic, I hope with all of my heart that some April we can achieve that. And if you’re NT and you’re reading this, autism acceptance must begin, not with awareness of autism, but with awareness of ourselves and our imbedded assumptions, discomfort with diversity, and reliance on labels that guide us towards preconceived judgments of how people are and how we should treat them.

Awareness means we know that Autistic people exist. Acceptance means Autistic people matter.

“You can be aware of women, and how their body functions,” said McIntyre as an example. “Or, you can be accepting of women and treat them respectfully. It goes the same for Autistics.… You can know everything about autism, or think you do, and still not accept Autistic people; you can still shun them. And if you shun them, Autistic people will still have trouble finding work, and in higher education … leaving room for a stigma.”

“If there isn’t acceptance, then there’s trying to control it, trying to change it,” said McIntyre. “And we’re saying it’s not okay, we’re saying that that lack of acceptance is itself unacceptable.”

Autism is a complex neurological “spectrum” disorder exhibiting disabilities in core areas such as cognitive functioning, fine and gross motor and planning skills, social development, and sensory processing. There is no one cause of autism, although researches suggest a combination of genetic and environmental factors may play a role. Despite exploitative claims, there is no “cure.” According to the Center for Disease Control & Prevention, one in 68 people is diagnosed with some form of autism spectrum disorder, ranging in number and degree of common symptoms that may affect communication, over- or under-sensitivity to light, sound, or touch, social skills, and repetitive self-soothing movements (‘stims’). Often other diagnoses correlate with autism, such as epilepsy and gastroenterological issues.

It is important that parents know the early warning signs of autism, because outcome is often more positive when intervention occurs earlier in development. Some early signs of autism, which can sometimes be observed in babies as young as six months old, are not babbling, not exhibiting gestures such as pointing, waving, or shaking head ‘no,’ repetitive movements, fixated with objects (e.g. ceiling fan spinning), little to no eye contact, paying more attention to objects than people, limited play with toys, not responding when name is called, aversive to cuddling, isn’t reaching milestones, and sometimes a sudden loss of skills such as speech and social skills.

McIntyre is recording a mini-series of hour-long episodes about autism with ORCTV, which will be aired throughout the month of April, to include topics like autism and the Autistic identity, Autistic rights and self-advocacy, autism stigma and ableism, Autistics and the economy, Autistics and politics, and Autistic allyship.

“This is my campaign to take back the narrative on autism and take back Autism Awareness Month and repurpose it for Autistic acceptance and Autistic appreciation,” said McIntyre.

By Jean Perry