Create a Sailor’s Valentine

Join the Mattapoisett Museum and the Mattapoisett Land Trust on Thursday, February 20 from 10:30 am to noon for an exciting school vacation activity! Children will get to make Sailor’s Valentines. These gifts were made by sailors at sea during the early to mid-19th century using seashells and given to loved ones on their return home. The Museum is located at 5 Church Street.

            We will supply the materials and objects to inspire your child’s imagination and your child will supply their creativity!

            This free event for children ages 5-12 and space is limited so sign up soon at www.mattapoisettmuseum.org/event-info/come-create-a-sailors-valentine. Nut-free snacks will be provided.

Rochester Council on Aging

The Rochester Council on Aging’s full monthly newsletter and calendar are available at www.rochestermaseniorcenter.com. Special events (listed in the “Events” category), regularly scheduled activities/services (listed in the “Services” category), pictures and posts are available on our Facebook page, www.facebook.com/rochesterma.com.

            On Wednesday, February 19 from 12:00 to 2:00 pm, Senator Michael Rodriques will hold office hours at the Rochester Senior Center. Either the Senator or a representative from his office will be available to discuss your concerns and opinions. Walk-ins are welcome.  

            The kitchen at the Rochester Senior Center is getting a much-needed update. The highly utilized kitchen will get a fresh coat of paint, new stainless-steel countertops, appliances, and cabinets. The Senior Center staff and participants would like to sincerely thank all of the volunteers for helping with this much-needed renovation. 

            The Senior Center was constructed in June of 2002 and is hoping for a new refrigeration unit in the near future. A request was put forth during a Town of Rochester Capital Planning meeting held in January. The current renovations are being paid for by a $20,000 grant from the Commonwealth of  Massachusetts. Thank you to the Friends of the Rochester Senior Center, COA volunteers, and the office of Senator Michael Rodriques for coordinating this generous grant.  

            The Rochester Senior Center kitchen is used for the preparation of breakfast served Monday through Friday from 7:00 to 9:00 am, special Monday luncheons, senior congregate lunches served Tuesday through Thursday, various special dinners, fundraisers and parties, monthly Veteran’s Socials, and much more. Pictures of the volunteers hard at work on the new kitchen are forthcoming and can be viewed on the Senior Center’s Facebook page. If you would like to help with the renovation, please contact the Senior Center at 508-763-8723. Leave a message for Mike Cambra. The kitchen will be closed from Thursday, February 27 to Monday, March 2 for the renovation.

Robert B. Hiller II

Robert B. Hiller II, age 92, died is his home surrounded by his loving family on February 9, 2020. He was the husband of the late Dorothy M. Hiller, with whom he enjoyed 61 years of marriage.

            Bob was the son of the late Howard B. and Teresa (Marsh) Hiller. He lived and worked at East Over Farm in Rochester, MA his entire life. As a third generation Hiller Cranberry grower, he was a leader in the cranberry industry.

            Bob served in the Army Air Force during World War II, stationed on Adak Island in the Aleutian Islands. He was a communicant of St. Gabriel’s Episcopal Church in Marion and a 32nd Degree Mason. Bob also served as a Lieutenant in the Rochester Fire Department.

            Bob is survived by his son, Robert B. Hiller III, and wife Sandra of Rochester; Grandchildren, Tess E. Hedblom and husband Erik of Mattapoisett, Jacob W. Hiller, DVM, of Richmond, VA and Paige M. Hiller of Rochester; two great-granddaughters Sadie E. Hedblom and Adley J. Hedblom of Mattapoisett.

            At his request, a private graveside service, followed by a public Celebration of Life at East Over Farm will be held at a date to be determined in May. In lieu of flowers, remembrance may be made to the Rochester Council on Aging, 67 Dexter Lane, Rochester, MA 02770. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

Tabor to Retain Quirk

In the wake of charges brought against Tabor Academy Head of School John Quirk on January 31 in Bourne for driving a vehicle while under the influence of alcohol and driving at excessive speed, Tabor Academy’s Board of Trustees deliberated and came to a decision to retain Quirk as Head of School based on the institution’s “two-strike” policy and a belief in his ability to continue leading the prep school. On February 11 in Falmouth District Court, the case was continued without a finding, essentially leaving Quirk’s fate in the hands of the school’s Board of Trustees. On February 13, the board sent the following letter to the Tabor community.

            As you may be aware, our Head of School, John Quirk, was charged on January 31 with operating a vehicle while driving under the influence of alcohol and at an excessive speed. Many of us were with John for a trustee dinner on campus earlier in the evening, and we were surprised to learn of this incident in the following days.

            Thank you for your patience and support as we collected information and deliberated on the matter. The Board has met on multiple occasions and was guided by what is best for our students and our entire school community, as well as by Tabor’s mission and values.

            As you know, safety has been one of the highest priorities of our great school and we work tirelessly to reduce risk in our community through awareness, education and the enforcement of carefully constructed rules of conduct. Drinking and driving while speeding was a crime which posed an extreme danger and a violation of our rules of conduct, prompting the Tabor Board of Trustees to evaluate his ability to lead our school.

            After careful consideration, John will remain Head of School. Although gravely irresponsible, John’s recent action does not outweigh all that he has accomplished at Tabor or the continued progress we expect him to lead as Head of School. We believe that his legacy is found in the thousands of students who have graduated during his tenure and are now uplifting the world with the ability and purpose he has helped instill within them. John Quirk has contributed greatly to our efforts to fulfill the promise of Tabor Academy and offer students the greatest boarding school community experience. John has given his life to Tabor and, together with all of the faculty and staff, he has created a highly supportive community that values the experience of learning, one which includes the lessons derived from the mistakes, challenges and forgiveness along the educational path. Through the work of Tabor’s Disciplinary Committee and “two strike” policy, he has shown the students and families fairness including providing second chances and opportunities for redemption.

            John has expressed deep regret regarding his actions. As part of the goal of personal accountability which is embraced at Tabor, John will be addressing students and parents and all of our community stakeholders to express his apologies, and to share what he learned and continues to learn from this incident. John will also suffer the consequences of his actions as dictated by the justice system. In addition, although we cannot provide details, as would be the case for any human resource decision, the board has implemented a number of remedial and constructive disciplinary actions based on John’s transgression. The Board believes that these actions are tailored to, and appropriate for, the nature and gravity of the situation, and will ultimately make John a better Head of School.

            We wish to thank the many who have contacted us and provided input on how the news of this incident has affected you and your families. Thank you for sharing with us the importance Tabor has in your lives, and how John’s actions have impacted Tabor’s culture. An overwhelming number of you, while not approving of John’s actions, have been supportive of John and urged that he remain Head of School. Others have expressed concern and displeasure for his continued role. Although our decision was made based on our obligations as trustees, the overwhelming support for John helped to validate our belief in the value he has contributed to the school.

            It is our belief that John can continue to help Tabor fulfill its mission, and it is our commitment to you that we continue to monitor, care for, and protect all that we have built as Tabor heads into an extraordinary future.

Thank you,

Tabor Academy Board of Trustees

Academic Achievements

In honor of their outstanding academic achievement, Emmanuel College has named Sydney Teixeira of Rochester, William Santos of Marion, Maxwell Asker of Marion, Lauren Valente of Rochester, Vanessa Ortega of Mattapoisett, Ana Poulin of Rochester, and Madison Welter of Marion to the Dean’s List for the fall 2019 semester. To earn a spot on the Dean’s List, Emmanuel students must achieve a grade point average of 3.5 or higher for a 16-credit semester. 

            Ella Vercellone of Rochester was named to the Dean’s List at Framingham State University for the fall 2019 semester. To be selected for the Dean’s List, a matriculated undergraduate student, carrying a minimum of three course credits, must earn a GPA of 3.30 or higher for the semester. To be selected for the President’s List, a student must have been named to the Dean’s List for three consecutive semesters.

            Russell Noonan of Marion is among those named to the Dean’s List at Endicott College for the fall 2019 semester. Noonan is majoring in Finance and is the son of Russell Noonan and Kimberly Noonan. In order to qualify for the Dean’s List, a student must obtain a minimum grade point average of 3.5, receive no letter grade below “C,” have no withdrawal grades, and be enrolled in a minimum of 12 credits for the semester.

Conversation of Race

Most of us are aware of the rise in acts of racism, discrimination and hate crimes in our state and nationally. St. Gabriel’s is beginning discussions to better understand and respond to this trend. We extend the invitation to participate in an evening of conversation based on Debby Irving’s book Waking Up White: Finding Myself in the Story of Race on Sunday evening, March 1, 6:30 pm at St. Gabriel’s Parish Hall 124 Front Street, Marion. A limited number of books are available at the church for $18. For more information, please contact St. Gabriel’s 508-748-1507 or stgabrielsmarion@gmail.com.

Hannelore “Lori” Eleanor Maxim

Hannelore “Lori” Eleanor Maxim passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family at Brigham and Women’s Hospital on February 5 after a courageous battle with a long term illness.

            Lori was born in Innsbruck, Austria on October 31, 1941. She lived in Salzburg, Austria with her family before immigrating to the United States in 1957 where she settled in Marion for the past 62 years. Lori was employed as a technician at May Optical in Wareham, MA for many years. She also worked as a caretaker for seniors and was highly regarded, trusted and loved by her clients. In her later years, she participated in the Senior Work Program for the Town of Marion.

            Her love of family was exemplified through her graceful and warm-hearted demeanor. She would always find fun and creative ways to entertain her children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews while teaching a life lesson. Lori put others before herself and would face life’s challenges with calmness, courage and strength. Lori was sought out by family and friends alike for her honest and sound advice as well as her unparalleled wisdom. She enjoyed gardening and cooking and would diligently research the origins and care of her plants. Lori’s ingenuity had no bounds as she could fix just about anything or transform an unwanted object into a magnificent decorative piece. She loved the natural beauty of the ocean as personified by her stunning creations of sea glass and shells she collected over time. In her younger years, she enjoyed sketching and painting being particularly fond of seascapes and beach settings.

            Lori loved animals and adopted many abandoned cats over the years, each one treated by her with love and kindness. Her love of homeland was well known to family and friends through heartfelt stories as well as beautiful music and poetry of Austria.

            Lori is survived by her daughters, Donna Maxim of Marion, Lori Thibodeaux-Simpson and husband Shaon Simpson of Stoughton, grandchildren, Anthony Thibodeaux of Allston and Samantha (Thibodeaux) Segura and husband Alex Segura of Roslindale, great granddaughter, Audrianna Segura, and her sister, Rosita (Faber) Buckminster and husband Garry Buckminster of Marion, along with many other relatives and friends. Services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Champs Animal Shelter, P.O. Box 332 Marion, MA 02738.

Contested Selectman’s Race Coming Up

It’s been a long time since Mattapoisett voters have gone to the polls and found more than one candidate listed for an open seat, but the Selectman’s race in Mattapoisett is warming up with at least two potential candidates planning on submitting nomination papers. John DeCosta and Tyler Macallister have told The Wanderer they plan on running for election.

            DeCosta, 57, a lifelong Mattapoisett resident, said, “I come from a legacy of public service,” noting his father’s many years in town government. 

            DeCosta is a graduate of Old Colony Regional Vocational Technical High School, worked for fifteen years on the Mattapoisett Water Department, and is currently employed by the State of Massachusetts as a park supervisor for the Department of Conservation and Recreation.

            When asked why he wanted to become a selectman, DeCosta replied, “I want to bring a new voice to the Board of Selectmen.”

            DeCosta has been a volunteer member of the Fire Department for 17 years, a member of the Capital Planning Committee for 12 years, has one year on the Bike Path Committee, was co-chairman of the Open Space Committee for two years, and currently sits on the Community Preservation Committee where, until recently, he was the chairman for the last 12 years.

            Volunteerism and the importance of being involved in the community on many levels is the driving force that brought DeCosta to the decision to seek the open seat on the Board of Selectmen. “I’d like to get people back to being involved at town meeting,” he said.

            Regarding the future of the community, DeCosta said that the biggest issue facing the town was the lack of affordable housing. 

            “We are losing our kids,” he said.

            Other areas he noted as critical were careful consideration of capital needs, the school charter, and transparency in how tax dollars are spent. 

            “People don’t seem to feel we are transparent, in spite of all the information that is available,” he said. He empathized the importance of transparency at all levels.

            DeCosta said he was fiscally conservative. “We need to make sure when we add a long-term expense that it is on something we really need moving forward.”

            Macallister, 52, wants to resume his work on the Board of Selectmen. 

            “It was unfortunate that I had to resign to pursue the town administrator job,” he said of the protocol he was required to follow under the conflict of interest statute. Now with that opportunity no longer viable, he wants to return and pick up where he left off. “It was always my plan to try and return to the Board of Selectmen.”

            Regarding the 8.5 years he served on the Board of Selectmen, Macallister said he was proud of the work they had done. He said the trio brought different strengths and had made great strides in tackling difficult issues facing the community.

            Macallister was also on the Conservation Commission for five years and the Plymouth County Advisory Board. 

            Speaking for himself, Macallister said, “I tend to really pay attention, keeping an open mind before rendering an opinion.” He said that for the years he sat on the board he had worked with the Finance Committee bringing the town, “…a long way.” Of his return to the board, if that should come to pass, he was confident, “…we wouldn’t miss a beat.”

            On his list of challenges facing the town, Macallister said, “Our aging population,” was among the top priorities. He said that as the senior-citizen population increases, the role of the Council on Aging should be expanded. Other areas needing critical attention were the consolidation of town buildings and wharf repairs and improvement. “Our waterfront is a jewel.”

            Macallister was born and raised on Cape Cod and has lived in Mattapoisett for 20 years. He holds a master’s degree in Business Administration from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst as well as dual B.A. from UMass Dartmouth in Marine Biology and General Biology. Additionally, Macallister holds a Master Captain’s license. He said he was self-employed working in the renewable-energy industry and is a partner in a solar-business venture. He also owns and operates a charter fishing business.

            Town Clerk Kathleen Heuberger said that nomination papers for the May elections may be pulled between February 3 and March 27. 

            With six weeks before the closing date for filing nomination papers, there is still the opportunity for other residents to seek the town’s highest position. Time will tell if the field of candidates for Selectman stands at two.

            To learn about all open seats for all boards, committees and town offices, contact the town clerk’s office at 508-758-4100 extension 2.

By Marilou Newell

Jane W. (Deane) Ladner

Jane W. (Deane) Ladner, 90, of Marion, died Feb. 6, 2020 at St. Luke’s Hospital, New Bedford. She was the wife of the late Allen R. Ladner and the daughter of the late Jerome and Frances (Long) Deane.

            She was born in New Bedford and lived in Marion all of her life.

            Mrs. Ladner ran the office at Marion Garage for many years.

            She was a member of the North Marion United Methodist Church. She enjoyed going to Antique Car Shows with her husband.

            Survivors include her son, Russell A. Ladner and his wife Elizabeth of Rochester; a daughter, Jean “Jeannie” A. Gates and her husband Mark of Marion; 9 grandchildren; 14 great grandchildren. She was the mother of the late Edward Jerome Ladner and sister of the late Jerome Richard “Benny” Deane and Marie H. Bassett.

            A Celebration of Life Gathering will be held from 12:00 pm to 3:00 pm on Saturday, March 7, 2020 at the Community Center of the First Congregational Church of Marion, 144 Front St., Marion.

            Donations in her memory may be made to the American Cancer Society, 1324 Belmont St., Suite 204-101, Brockton, MA 02301.

            Arrangements are by the Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home, 2599 Cranberry Hwy., Wareham. For more info and online guestbook, visit: www.ccgfuneralhome.com.

Katherine (Lawton) Chaples

Katherine (Lawton) Chaples, age 81, of New Bedford, passed away on Friday, February 7, 2020 at Brandon Woods of New Bedford surrounded by her family. Born in New Bedford, MA she was the beloved daughter of the late John and Emily Lawton.

            Katherine had worked as a home health aide for Home Health Care. She loved dancing, listening to Elvis and was always on the run keeping herself busy. She was affectionately known by her nickname, Tootsie.

            She is survived by her sons, Charlie, Richard and Alfred and his wife Pamela; grandchildren, Matthew, Tommy and Timmy; 3 great-grandsons and 1 great-granddaughter; sister, Gloria Monteiro and her great friend, Jim Mendes. She was also predeceased by her siblings, Loraine, Virginia, Willy, Eddie, Alice and Lillian.

            In lieu of flowers, donations can kindly be made to Compassionate Care Hospice.

            Katherine’s funeral services are Saturday, February 22, 2020 from 12 noon to 2 pm. Relatives and friends are invited to attend.

            Arrangements are placed in the care of Perry Funeral Home 111 Dartmouth St. New Bedford, MA 02740. Please see our website: www.perryfuneral.com for condolences.