Author To Speak About Being Prepared

No one is promised tomorrow, so what if something happened to you? Are you ready? All ages are encouraged to join What If … Workbook™ author Gwen Morgan as she discusses her comprehensive, easy-to-use guide to get all your affairs in order. Discussion includes, but is not limited to: Keep Track of Financial Data, Burial vs. Cremation, What Kind of Service (if any), Caring for Pets, Considering Special Gifts or Gratitudes to Loved Ones, How Do You Want to Be Remembered, and so much more. This discussion will take place on Wednesday, December 2 from 6:00 to 7:00 pm at the Mattapoisett Council on Aging, 17 Barstow Street (enter by separate entrance at Center School). This is a free session. The What If Workbook™ will be on sale; no purchase necessary. Please RSVP to 508-758-4110.

Library Hosts a Storybook Wedding

The library will always be more than just a building designed to house books. It is a place where epic love stories dwell, where romantic poetry lies peacefully, protected; it is the home to the tales of a hundred loves that live on, petrified and bound in paper like jewels kept secret inside unlocked boxes. Love is a triumph, love is a tragedy, love is what eternally burns within and sets the prose of passion aflame. All this, existing evermore, stands still on shelves inside a brick building that is the home of every literary lover you’ve ever fixed your inner eyes upon, breathed in, and held close to your chest.

Yes, those who can fully grasp the scope of the multi-sensory satisfaction of taking refuge in the library are indeed few. But, once upon a time, a girl met a boy who ‘got it.’ The couple that found the book nerd in each other connected, guided by the inner archetype of academia they both possessed, fell in love and began figuratively writing their own story of love, crafting a life together that would lead to a happy ending. They would begin their Chapter One with a storybook wedding within the sanctity of the Mattapoisett Free Library.

Shannon Devlin and Matthew Spelman knew they wanted to tie the knot in the library. It just seemed apropos, given their mutual love of books. The idea seemed romantic to the pair, the ideal setting to exchange eternal vows among the eternal works of the greatest loves of history.

When the couple approached the Millicent Library in Fairhaven, the town in which Devlin was raised, the library board was anything but enthusiastic about a wedding party, despite the couple’s offer to purchase multi-million dollar insurance, invite only adults, the promise of no food or beverages, and that guests would remain standing at all times. It was a resounding ‘no,’ with the consolation of allowing the wedding to be held outside on the library steps, out in the November cold.

“I was really sad and disappointed,” said Devlin, although she did not give up on her notion of a being a library bride. She sought out other venues, which led her to the Mattapoisett Free Public Library in the town where she was born. Devlin described the library as being cozy with beautiful rooms with arched windows, a gorgeous wrought iron spiral staircase, and interior brick walls – the perfect concoction of romance for a couple of bibliophiles in love.

Library Director Susan Pizzolato said she was touched a year ago when Devlin and Spelman first made their request. Devlin’s desire to be married in a library was sincere, and after some careful thought and permission by the appropriate authorities, Pizzolato allowed for a modest, controlled wedding ceremony inside the library to take place on November 7.

Devlin found Pizzolato’s response to be welcoming and warm like a fairy godmother of sorts granting a girl’s one wish of a library wedding.

“I think the warm welcome set the tone for the whole wedding experience,” said Devlin. “We are so very grateful and I think that our location was meant to be. Our ceremony was beautiful and filled with love and literature.”

On Saturday, November 7, the wedding party arrived at the steps of the library via school bus. No decorations were brought into the library that was standing room only; however, everything planned for the wedding reception – from the invitations resembling old leather-bound books, to the centerpieces of glowing luminaries with book pages, to the card catalog-style escort cards – encompassed the literary theme.

Devlin and Spelman chose a vintage color palette of sage and gold, “Which I think made the décor feel cohesive,” Devlin added.

The ceremony even incorporated the surrounding love stories that live at the library, with readings of excerpts chosen from Plato’s Symposium and Charlotte Bronte’s Jane Eyre.

            “We also had some whimsical and modern readings from William Goldman’s The Princess Bride, Robert Fulghum’s poem, ‘All I Really Need to Know I Learned from Kindergarten,’” said Devlin. “Some of these readings we actually incorporated into the vows.”

“Matt and I knew early on that we wanted to get married in a library,” Devlin said. “Libraries are places of learning and we’re both the nerdy, academic type. The stacks are also lined with books containing the most beautiful love stories and poetry ever written…. The Mattapoisett Public Library, and especially the director Susan, made it all possible.”

But readers beware: we must not get carried away, for this was the one and only wedding to be held at the library. Library trustees and staff have no plans to host another, only allowing for this one time. There is too much involved in hosting an event such as a wedding, and Pizzolato said she has no interest in opening up the library as an event hall.

“We agreed to host the wedding, but it’s not something that we want to do on a regular basis,” said Pizzolato. “We don’t want to interfere at all with the public’s use of the building.”

So it truly was a once-upon-a-time event – a storybook wedding for a couple to begin their happily ever after, but a definite “The End” for the Mattapoisett Library’s chapter as a wedding venue.

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Early Childhood Winter Playgroups

The Early Childhood Office will be hosting winter playgroups! Come and join the fun!

Our young toddler playgroup is open to children between the ages of 11 months through 3 years old. Children will take part in many fun activities related to the season that will keep your little one busy. You will learn fun songs, finger plays, and will take home many great ideas to do with your toddler. This is an eight-week event running on Tuesday mornings, 9:30 – 11:00 am, January 5 through March 1.

Our preschool playgroup is open to 3- and 4-year olds. Explore socialization topics such as sharing, taking turns, cooperative play, etc. Each class session includes music and movement, free play, games, educational activities, story time, and snack. Children must be completely toilet trained in order to attend. This is an eight-week event running on Friday mornings, 9:00 – 10:15 am, January 8 through March 11.

Both playgroups meet at the Old Hammondtown School and cost $35 per family for the eight-week session. Registration is required. Please contact the Early Childhood Office at 508-748-1863to register.

Tri-County Music Association Scholarship Showcase

The Tri-County Music Association will present its Scholarship Showcase 2015 on Friday, November 27 at 7:00 pm in the Lyndon South Auditorium on the campus of Tabor Academy, 85 Spring Street, Marion. Former and current Tri-County Music Association Scholarship and Summer Study Grant recipients take the stage to benefit the TCMA Scholarship Fund. This collection of solos and small ensembles features the favorite selections of each student. Tickets are $20 and can be purchased at The Bookstall in Marion, the Symphony Music Shop in Dartmouth, or at the door.

Gateway Youth Hockey

Squirts: Gateway Gladiator Squirts faced Walpole Express on Saturday for a battle on the ice. Both teams brought their best pressure and defense, keeping the puck moving. In the first period, Gateway was strong, but with the team fighting for the puck, a missed pass, and a bad bounce off the post, the puck went in their own net to give Walpole a 1-0 lead. Gateway soon regrouped and in the second, Ty David Ribeiro scored, assisted by Lucas DeMoranville. Then Matthew Paling, with an assist from Braden Hathon, found the net giving Gateway a 2-1 lead. In the third period, Thomas Leger made key saves but Walpole was able to get a goal, tying the game 2-2 which ended up as the final score.

Pee Wees: Gateway Pee Wee Gladiators faced the Cyclones in the Veteran’s Day Tournament Championship Game on November 11 and took the championship with a hard fought 2-0 score.

Over the weekend, Pee Wees dropped their first game of the season to the Walpole Express. The team did not go down without a fight in this competitive match that went back and forth during the first two periods of hockey. Walpole got on the board quickly with a goal within the first minute of the game, but Gateway tied it up later in the first with a goal by Ben Demoranville. Walpole then scored two more until Gateway’s RJ Vickery brought Gateway to within one, but Walpole sealed the deal with one more to win the game 4-2.

Bantams: The Gateway Gladiators continued their domination of the Yankee Conference Bantam division adding two more wins over the weekend. On Saturday, the Gladiators defeated Hanover, 6-0. Chris Cogan and Jack Martins each scored twice. Peter Pimental and Quirino doCanto also added goals. Zack Lovendale had two assists, as did Pimental. Beth Davis, Nick Snow, doCanto, and Martins also had helpers.

On Sunday, the Gladiators overcame an aggressive Walpole opponent to earn their second shutout of the weekend. Walpole totaled nearly 25 penalty minutes, including two game misconducts. The Gladiators kept their cool and capitalized on the undisciplined play, scoring four unanswered goals for the 4-0 win. James L’Heureux, Zack Lovendale, Robert Ramsay, and Jack Martins were the goal-scorers. Peter Pimental, Brian Gallagher, Chris Cogan, and Martins each had assists. Quirino doCanto had two. Zachary Pateakos and Jake Demoranville shared the shutout in net.

Ellen A. (Blythe) Basse Dietz

Ellen A. (Blythe) Basse Dietz, 78, of Marion died November 18, 2015 at her home after a brief illness.

She was the wife of the late Albert Basse, Jr. and the late Col. Arthur H. Dietz.

Born in Leighton, AL, the daughter of the late Eugene V. and Shirley (Preuit) Blythe, she lived in Easton and Marion for many years.

After the death of her late husband Albert in 1976, she successfully managed and ran the family business, Albert Basse Associates in Stoughton, MA, later joined by her sons.

She enjoyed spending time with her family, gardening, the beach and reading.

Survivors include her 5 children, Deborah Basse Ewing and her husband Michael Meachen of Marion, Lynda Basse D’Amico and her husband Pat of North Attleboro, Albert “Chip” Basse, III and his wife Deborah, Edwin E. Basse and his wife Angela, and Christopher J. Basse and his wife Pamela, all of North Easton; 4 step-children, Nonie Garvey and her husband Mark and Arthur T. Dietz and his partner Rhonda, all of Idaho, Peggy Pietig and her husband John of Laguna Beach, CA and Eric Dietz and his wife Renée of Washington; 4 siblings, Emily Lidikay of Birmingham, Gregg P. Blythe of Decatur, AL, Robert Blythe of Birmingham, AL and Richard Blythe of Hartselle, AL; a brother-in-law, David Merchant of Dallas, TX; 24 grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

She was the sister of the late Eugene “Sonny” Blythe and the sister-in-law of the late Nancy Merchant and Barbara Coffee.

Her Funeral Service will be held on Monday at 11 AM at Tabor Academy’s Wickenden Chapel. Burial will follow in Old Landing Cemetery. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday from 2-6 PM in the Saunders-Dwyer Mattapoisett Home For Funerals, 50 County Rd. (Rt. 6) Mattapoisett. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to the Community Nurse and Hospice Care, P.O. Box 751, Fairhaven, MA 02719. For directions guestbook, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.

A Bit of Heaven in Hell Week

Hell Week. Just the phrase itself is enough to strike fear in the hearts of the members of the Old Rochester Regional Drama Club. It means crunch time, and the cast and crew are working diligently together in order to put crucial finishing touches on this fall’s show, A Midsummer Night’s Dream by William Shakespeare.

For those of you who don’t know the plot of the show, Director Paul Sardinha summed it up nicely: “Couples who are in love that shouldn’t be in love have their love played with by the gods.”

The show, which starts each evening at 7:30 pm, opens this Thursday, November 19 and runs through Saturday, November 22. There will also be a Sunday matinee when the curtains will rise at 2:00 pm. On Friday morning, the drama club will hold a special performance for the school.

The ORR Drama Club runs like a well-oiled machine, and every person pitches in to make the show enjoyable for the audience. From concessions to the on-stage cast, every role is important to keep the drama club running.

It all starts with Director Paul Sardinha and Helen Blake, head of costumes. The dynamic duo have been working together for 23 years, donating countless hours towards making the drama club a place students enjoy coming to. Then there are the students involved in the productions, who give it their all, onstage and off.

The duty of the concessions crew may seem trivial, but do not be fooled. Without them, not only would there be no delicious popcorn and candy during intermission, there wouldn’t be a set on stage at all. Everyone in concessions is also responsible for helping create the set. They come on Saturdays for as long as they can and build a set that wows.

“There’s a good synergy and everyone is working together toward the common goal of making the set look nice,” said Emma Cadieux, a junior at ORR who is part of concessions. “And even if you don’t go to set construction one week and you go the next, you get to feel a sense of pride about what you’ve accomplished.”

And then there are the techies. As the name suggests, they do all the technical things that happen backstage. All the magical set changes that occur in (seemingly) record time are thanks to this dedicated part of the drama club. As followspotter Alex Wurl put it, “People don’t realize that there’s more to drama than just being on stage. Without the behind-the-scenes people, the show can’t go on.”

Costume people are yet another crucial part of the drama club. They work tirelessly with Helen Blake to create a unique costume for every person on stage.

“Mrs. B makes most of the costumes herself, but she has us help with the dying process, hand stitching the costumes, and adding pieces to each costume because each person, especially the fairies, have their own theme,” said Amberrayn Jones.

Helping with costumes isn’t only fun, it’s valuable, as Katie MacLean points out.

“You learn new things,” said MacLean. “Like, I learned how to stitch, which is a big accomplishment for me. You learn life skills – you need to know how to stitch. That’s kind of a life necessity, and you learn how to do that in costumes.”

As for the costumes themselves, the audience can look forward to the vivid hues and unique theme of each individual character.

“There’s a lot of very unique costumes. Paul and Mrs. B have definitely put a lot of time into each and every one of them, so each one’s different,” said Jones. “It’s not like costumes you can buy from iParty.”

The onstage cast is yet another invaluable part of the drama club. The audience can anticipate a magical performance from the fairies in the chorus. For this show, the chorus set up is unique in that almost every chorus member is a fairy, compared to years past where quick costume changes threw the chorus into a flurry of controlled chaos.

For this performance, the audience can expect bright colors and even a song from the chorus. Although this show is a little more lead-heavy than others in the past, the chorus is still excited to give it their all, and like Natasha Shorrock, they are excited to get the opportunity to interpret such a classic piece of literature on the Old Rochester stage.

“I feel like everyone sort of frowns upon Shakespeare,” said Shorrock. “Well, not frowns upon, but finds it a little boring. If you break it down, it’s hilarious.”

And that brings us to the leads – the ones who spend their nights memorizing the complicated Shakespearean English and picking it apart with Sardinha in order to perfect the inflections that were intended by the 16th century writer. All the leads seem to be in agreement about one thing – although being a lead can be stressful, it’s not as bad as you’d think.

Most of the challenges arise during the initial read-through and while memorizing the lines to try and figure out what they mean in modern day English.

Jack Roussell, who plays Demetrius, has a rather unique way to tackle the task of learning lines.

“Sometimes to memorize my lines, I’ll have someone hold my script, and I’ll say what I think the line is, and they’ll tell me if I’m right,” said Roussell. “It’s like flashcards, but theatrical.”

Although it can be a little intimidating to face such a classic play, the leads are enjoying themselves.

“It’s really just a learning experience for everybody, and I’m having a fun time with it,” said Roussell. “And I hope when you come to see it, you will too.”

Adam Perkins, who plays Lysander, summed up the general mentality of the cast in one simple sentence: “It’s given me an opportunity to do something that I’ll remember for the rest of my life.”

So, how does the show come together in the first place? Sardinha explained the process.

“I contextualize the entire show when I first read the script. I know what I think I want to do,” said Sardinha. “Then, as things get going, I finalize things. Plans get changed every now and then because certain things are not possible, but most things are possible.” He continued, “It’s always efficiency. I have to make sure things are efficient so that the scene changes happen quickly. We follow the script and figure out what I think might work for a high school show, and I always do these Frankensteinian sets for our shows, because they’re always way too big.”

The members of the drama club are excited to be performing A Midsummer Night’s Dream, even though Shakespeare poses a plethora of challenges, as Alice Bednarczyk acknowledged.

“It’s really great to be a part of Shakespeare because it was written so long ago and it’s still relevant today,” said Bednarczyk. “People don’t dismiss it; it’s a big part of our culture, and a lot of other great actors have done the play before so it’s really cool to be a part of that lineage.”

As an audience member, you’ve got quite a show waiting for you.

“The audience is going to be looking forward to an inexpensive night [and] a wonderful performance where they will see their kids, their neighbors’ kids, and kids that they don’t even know pouring their hearts out onstage and backstage,” said Sardinha. “It’s a night where they’ll be able to forget about what’s happening outside for a couple of hours.”

What else does the drama club have to look forward to? The most exciting thing is the traditional sleepover, which is on Friday night. All members of the club sprint to the cafeteria after the Friday show in a mad dash to get a heaping plateful of late-night breakfast. There’s singing and laughing and sometimes even longboarding.

After breakfast, everyone runs back to the gym where bouncy houses with their colorful plastic await them. Movies are played in the auditorium with pizza set up for those midnight cravings the members of the cast inevitably have. It’s called a “sleepover,” but between snow cones and the bouncy houses, sleeping is definitely not a priority.

Sardinha shared some wise words to keep in mind while watching any high school show.

“High school theater is some of the best theater you can see. It doesn’t matter which school, because all the kids at all the schools fall in love with their productions and everybody works very, very hard on them,” Sardinha said. “You watch these kids wear their hearts on their sleeves. And you know that it’s a genuine offering from them and they’re doing the best that they can.”

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Mary F. (Hathaway) Cruz

Mary F. (Hathaway) Cruz, 83, of Marion died Nov. 17, 2015 at Care One of New Bedford. She was the widow of the late Manuel J. Cruz and the daughter of the late Richard D. and Alice J. (Mitchell) Hathaway.

She was born in New Bedford and lived in Marion all of her life.

Mrs. Cruz worked at Cornell-Dubilier Electronics Company in New Bedford for many years before retiring.

She enjoyed word puzzles and square dancing.

Survivors include her brother, Winfred Hathaway of New Bedford and many nephews and nieces. She was the step sister of the late Burton E. Cloyd.

Her funeral service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, November 21, 2015 in the Chapman, Cole & Gleason Funeral Home, 2599 Cranberry Hwy., Wareham. Burial will follow in Evergreen Cemetery, Marion.

Visiting hours are from 5 to 7 p.m. on Friday at the funeral home.

Rochester Council on Aging

The Fitness Room is open and available for members to use. Become a member by paying $20 a month membership fee and use the equipment as many times as it is open in that month. The Fitness Room Schedule is Mondays & Wednesdays, 8:00 – 11:00 am, and Fridays, 1:00 – 4:00 pm. As membership grows, we will increase the number of times it will be available. A packet with required registration forms to participate is available for pick-up at the Senior Center Office at any time. Anyone is welcome to become a member. Call with questions to Tammy, group leader, at 508-763-8723.

Volunteers are desperately needed for the breakfast program. Do you have 3-4 hours to spare early on one morning of the week to commit to helping in our very busy Breakfast Program? All of a sudden, due to illness, snow birds leaving for Florida, and other various reasons, we find ourselves short-staffed lately on any given morning. We need Dishwashers. We need Cooks. We need Waitresses. We need Substitutes. We need Worker Bees!!! So please consider being a part of this very successful and busy program, getting our customers off to a great start in the morning, and call Lorraine at 508-763-8723 to find out when you can start! Today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year? No experience is necessary! We provide training. Please join us!!!!

Nasketucket Bird Club Meeting

During the winter months, a variety of sea ducks begin populating our ponds and bays. We will explore the basics of sea duck ID, behavior, and stories from Nasketucket Bird Club members. We will also talk about the Christmas Bird Count!

The event will be held at 7:00 pm on Thursday, November 19 at the Mattapoisett Public Library, 7 Barstow Street. The meeting is free and open to the public. For more information, contact Carolyn Longworth at bvm1290@comcast.net or visit the club website at http://massbird.org/Nasketucket/