What to do When Your Insurance Company Won’t Pay

We are living in an era, in the U.S., when the insurance company often overrides your doctors’ decisions. Less often with traditional Medicare but more with commercial health insurance and Medicare Advantage plans, you may find that a test or procedure your physician ordered is refused payment by your insurer and you are stuck with a huge bill.

            A recent report by the Kaiser Family Foundation found that in 2020, 18% of in-network claims were denied by commercial insurers. Don’t passively accept this decision! The denial letter is just the start of the process, not the end.

            It has been shown that many of these denials are arbitrary and unjustified. A well-know example is the physician reviewer who admitted in court that he never even read the documentation but rubber-stamped nurse reviewers’ denials.

            The denial may be based on a wrong diagnosis code being submitted or a failure of the insurer to consider changing medical standards.

            While very few people challenge these denials, almost half the appeals succeed.

            What can you do?

            First, carefully read the denial letter to try to understand the reason coverage was denied. Yes, the prose is dense, but the insurer must explain its reason for denial.

            You may find that before they pay for C, they want you to try A and B first and you have already tried A and B without getting any benefit. You may find that the test or procedure is not considered appropriate for condition X and you have condition Y.

            If they have the facts correct and simply refuse payment, you will need to get the ordering doctor involved. They will have to write a letter explaining why they chose to do the test or procedure.

            Your first point of contact should be the insurance company’s customer service line. Be sure to get the name of the person with whom you speak. For simple mistakes, they may be able to reverse the denial, but don’t count on it.

            Your next step is to write a letter or an email requesting the denial be reversed and saying why. The process should be outlined in the denial letter. If not, it will be on the insurer’s website.

            If the response is to still deny the claim, persist. Request an appeal. Indicate in your request that you plan to file a complaint with your state’s consumer protection bureau if the claim is still denied (and do so!).

            Finally, outside help is available through the Patient Advocate Foundation and similar organizations.

            Illegitimi non carborundum! Don’t let the bastards grind you down!

            Edward Hoffer MD is Associate Professor of Medicine, part-time, at Harvard.

What Does The Doctor Say?

By Dr. Edward Hoffer

American Revolution Patriot to be Remembered

At 11:00 am Saturday, October 26, the Cape Cod and Islands Chapter of the Sons of the American Revolution will host a ceremony honoring Revolutionary War veteran Thomas Bassett by installing a memorial marker at his grave. Thomas Bassett served both as a seaman and as a soldier in the Revolution. He was married to Lydia Mendall.

The ceremony, featuring the presentation of colors and musket salute by the Massachusetts Colonel Henry Knox Regimental Color Guard, in Revolutionary War period uniforms, and the Wareham Minutemen and Militia companies also in period dress, will be held, rain or shine, in the Center Cemetery, 26 Dexter Lane, Rochester. In addition, members of local Scout Troop 31 will participate.

Ms. Connie Eshbach, Chair of the Rochester Historical Commission and Vice-President of the Rochester Historical Society, will be the keynote speaker. The ceremony will also include the reading by various Historical Commission members of the family names of other patriots who resided in Rochester during the time of the Revolutionary War.

The Rev. Bruce W. Bassett, Jr., the 4th Great Grandson of Thomas Bassett and chaplain for the Cape Cod and Islands Chapter, SAR, will offer the invocation and benediction. All members of the public are invited to attend this colorful and dignified tribute to one of America’s first veterans. Members of the Bassett and Mendall families as well as other members of the Sons of the American Revolution and the Daughters of the American Revolution, are especially invited to attend.

The Sons of the American Revolution and Daughters of the American Revolution are national patriotic, historical and educational societies whose members are direct descendants of the patriots who earned our independence.

Ghost Stories for an Autumn Night Returns

For the fourth year, the South Coast will once again be haunted by Ghost Stories for an Autumn Night at St. Gabriel’s Episcopal Church in Marion. This atmospheric event brings spine-chilling Victorian and Edwardian horror tales to life in the candlelit chapel.

            Master storyteller Eric Fialho, who has been thrilling Boston-area audiences for over a decade, will deliver three eerie tales of suspense on Friday, October 25 at 7:00 pm. Accompanied by David Burnham on the organ, the night promises a haunting experience. Cheese, wine, and lively discussions will follow the performance.

            This event is not suitable for children under 14, but childcare will be provided for younger attendees. Last year’s event sold out, so be sure to purchase tickets at the church office or through Eventbrite at: www.eventbrite.com/e/ghost-stories-for-an-autumn-night-tickets-1041198481687?aff=oddtdtcreator. All proceeds support the parish’s youth programs.

Numbers, Letters, and More Letters

The Muppet character Count Von Count on Sesame Street must have been inspired by the federal government. Let me explain. The United States government is obsessed with numbers, just like the Count. There is the U.S. Census Bureau which is charged with counting every resident in the country, plus all manner of other data. With a country of 345,426,571 people at last count, Count Von Count would be in numbers heaven.

            When the Dracula-like Muppet finishes crunching those numbers, he can reckon with those of the National Vital Statistic System (NVSS), formerly known as U.S. Bureau of Vital Statistics (USBVS), which counts the number of births and deaths in the country. USBVS is part of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) which also includes the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) which also counts how many people are sick. The states are represented in the federal government by the National Association for Public Health Statistics (NAPHSIS).

            Got all that?

            As you can see, the government is also obsessed with letters. There is also the National Aeronautical and Space Administration (NASA), the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), the Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA), the Department of Energy (DOE), and the Department of Transportation (DOT). Not to mention (but I will) the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA), the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), and everyone’s favorite, the Internal Revenue Service (IRS), and many, many more.

            All of these come under the Executive Office of the President of the United States (POTUS), who is under the control of FLOTUS (the First Lady of the United States).

            Often, sometimes inadvertently, these acronyms spell words, like DOT (Department of Transportation), DOE (Department of Energy) and, in Massachusetts, the office of Public Safety and Security (PSS). Oops, that’s not a word, it just sounds like one when said out loud.

            Even our town government has its share of letter salads. In fact, our distinguished Town Administrator, Mike Lorenco recently presented a seminar on municipal finance terminology for newly elected Finance Committee (FINCOM) members.

            Lorenco started by explaining that the DLS (state Division of Local Services), a division of the DOR (Massachusetts Department of Revenue) provides important information to the public and municipal leaders. He went on to says that PILOT (Payment in Lieu of Taxes) is an agreement that require entities that are not subject to pay taxes to…well, pay taxes.

            Any money left over after budgets are completed…the amount of taxes refunded to the taxpayers (just kidding) …is known as “Excess Capacity.” It could be called EXCAP for clarity. If you are a retired town employee your “post-employment benefits,” like health insurance, are called OPEB’s. (Where did the “O” come from?). And BAN is a Bond Anticipation Note. I think that means money the town needs to borrow if the FINCOM thinks there will be a shortfall. But I may be wrong.

            I believe using acronyms for other town board would go along way to clarify government to the populous. How about we call the Selectboard SELBO (pronounced like elbow. They could use a nudge once in a while). The Capitol Planning Committee (CAPLA) and the School Committee (SCHOCOM) sound very bureaucratic, as does PLABO for the Planning Board and RESFU for the Reserve Fund.

            I think these would be a great addition to the municipal vocabulary.

            Don’t you agree?

            Mattapoisett resident Dick Morgado is an artist and happily retired writer. His newspaper columns appeared for many years in daily newspapers around Boston.

Thoughts on…

By Dick Morgado

Rochester Historical Society

The Rochester Historical Commission along with the Historical Society want to invite Rochester residents to attend the Sons of the American Revolution’s Gravemarking Ceremony at the Rochester Center Cemetery on Saturday, October 26 at 11:00 am.

            This will honor Rochester resident, Thomas Bassett, who enlisted and served in the new American army during the Revolutionary War. He was a witness to the evacuation of the British Army from Boston and marched to Rhode Island and West Point, New York. He also served on ships sailing the Cape Cod waters.

            Marking the graves of our Revolutionary War soldiers makes sure that these men are never forgotten for the part they played in the creation of our country.

Academic Achievements

Amanda Carreiro of Mattapoisett was recently initiated into The Honor Society of Phi Kappa Phi, the nation’s oldest and most selective all-discipline collegiate honor society. Carreiro was initiated at MCPHS University.

Returning To The Baile –Ireland

Local resident Anne Johnson’s voice was full of joyful lilt as she recently shared her immigration story with us. She stated several times how much coming to America in 1954 meant to the McEntee kids, twin brother Patrick, brother Brendan, and sister Bridget.

The family dreamed of coming to America, their mother’s country of birth. But let’s back up a moment on that point.

Johnson’s mother was named Mary Kearney. She was born in the US. She would immigrate to Northern Ireland where she met and married Patrick McEntee. The McEntees would live in Northern Ireland for a few years before Mary, her husband, and their four little children would head to the US and settled their clan.

That’s not where the trans-Atlantic journey ends. The siblings would travel back to the motherland many more times over the succeeding decades.

Johnson shared how thrilled they all were to be coming to the US and all the opportunities the family looked forward to. There was no homesickness or trepidation on the part of the little ones. She did allude to the economic difficulties gripping the whole of Ireland during the post-WWII years as a driver for the move across the Atlantic – as well as the brewing tensions that would come to be The Troubles

We asked Johnson if there were any strong first impressions remaining with her today, “Cornflakes!” She said they had been growing up on a diet of porridge, eggs, and “rashers,” (aka bacon), and that the less soggy breakfast mainstay of the US made for a welcome change.

Transitioning to a new school in a new country didn’t present too many difficulties for the wee babaí. “We had thick Irish brogues. My brother and I decided we needed to get rid of that,” Johnson said with a tiny chuckle.” She said they did not experience bullying or similar difficulties and that their neighborhood was home to people from many different places, “We were all facing the same challenges.”

Johnson recalled their enrollment in a Polish Catholic School. There had not been enough time to enroll her children in an English school so the mother did the best she could to give them an education. The following year found the McEntees enrolled in an English-speaking Catholic school.

One memory is still vivid in Johnson’s memory bank – seeing the Statue of Liberty for the first time.

Another memory crept in, how hot the country felt to the new commers, and experiencing a hurricane, something unknown in Ireland. Much later on, Johnson would be introduced to Mattapoisett by family member Ellen Flynn, a well-known member of the Mattapoisett Land Trust and other organizations. Johnson and her husband put down their roots in 1974. She can confidently call herself a townie!

Three of the four siblings recently took another trip to the old country, but at least for Johnson, that is the last. Confessing that the family is aging beyond a point where travel is easy, she was clear that they had a fine visit, even going to tourist areas. She noted how their Belfast home has changed but that the countryside was and is, “…beautiful and the people are lovely and welcoming.” Of course, going on the journey was a copy of The Wander.

By Marilou Newell

ORR Celebrates Two Wins and a Tie

Boys Football

The Old Rochester Regional high school football team played at Somerset Berkley on October 11 and won 49-35. Leading the way for the Bulldogs was Jack Leconte, who had 24 carries for 134 yards and 4 Touchdowns. Gavin Martin had 166 yards rushing and 1 rushing touchdown, as well as 1 passing touchdown. Devin St Germaine added a rushing touchdown of his own, and freshman Benji Baptiste had a touchdown catch.

“It was a tough-fought game against a good opponent,” said ORR Head Coach Bryce Guilbeault.

Their record is now 5-1, and they will play at Greater New Bedford Voc-Tech (3-2), on October 18.

Boys Soccer

Old Rochester played Greater New Bedford Voc/Tech on October 9 and won 2-0. Goals were scored by Grady Oliveir and Colin Mello. Goalkeeper Emile Joseph had his 8th shutout of the season. The Bulldogs have now won eight straight games and are 9-2-1 on the season. They were scheduled to play at Apponequet on October 16.

Field Hockey

The Bulldogs played Bishop Stang on October 10 and tied 1-1. After a quick goal by Bishop Stang in the first quarter, Gianna DeLeo scored off a pass from Addy Spencer to tie it 1-1. Goalkeeper Reilly Patraiko had eight saves. They are scheduled to play at Wareham on October 17.

Sports Roundup

By Aiden Comorosky

Upcoming Events at the Elizabeth Taber Library

Drop off your gently used books at our Friends of the Elizabeth Taber Library book collection event and pop-up sale, Saturday October 19 from 10:00 am to 1:00 pm on the library lawn. All proceeds benefit the library.

            Make your own monster puppets with Miss Macy’s Monster Puppets, Saturday October 19 from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm. A Halloween craft program for ages 3-9.

            Celebrate Halloweekend, Thursday October 24 to Saturday October 26. Check out a pumpkin with your library card all month long (while Supplies last). Return your decorated pumpkin by Wednesday, October 23 to be entered into our Great Pumpkin Contest. Vote for your favorites during our Halloweekend celebration activities. Are you brave enough to explore the library’s first ever mini haunted library? What ghouls will you meet as you wind your way through our haunted stacks? Visit Thursday- Saturday to find out.

            On Thursday, October 24 students ages for ages 9+ can make some Halloween Boba after school from 3:00 pm to 4:00 pm, then join us for costume karaoke starting at 6:00 pm for food, fun, and music for all ages.

            On Friday, October 25 from 3:00 pm to 4:00 pm kids ages 5-9 can make Halloween decorations that light up at Pumpkin Paper circuits with Miss Macy.

            On Saturday, October 26 everyone is invited to play at our Boo Bash Games event from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm for a Halloween Scavenger Hunt, spooky sensory bags, mummy races and more. At 1:00 pm join us for adult crafts with Emily to make Fall Book Centerpieces. This craft project is recommended for ages 12 and up.

            Join Miss Macy for story times every Tuesday and Thursday starting at 10:30 am.

            For more information on the Elizabeth Taber Library visit us at www.ElizabethTaberLibrary.org or call us at 508-748-1252

Mary M. Yankopolus

Mary M. Yankopolus, 104, of Clearwater, Florida, formerly of Bristol, CT, New Bedford, and Mattapoisett, passed away at home on October 11, 2024.

            Born and raised in Bristol, CT, she was the second of four daughters of the late Custas D. and Anna Mamatseo, proprietors of Bristol’s popular Palace of Sweets restaurant. Mary worked in the family store from a young age until she married. In 1938 she graduated from Bristol High School. Following graduation, she accompanied her mother to Kozani, Greece, to deliver a Seth Thomas tower clock manufactured in Bristol. A donation from her father, it was a gift to her parents’ city of origin and a symbol of gratitude to his humble beginnings. Installed in 1939, it continues to adorn the landmark city square bell tower. The nearly six-month stay was cut short by impending war in Europe. Her visit reinforced her love for family and Greek heritage. It was an experience that connected her in spirit to that city for life.

            In 1943 she married Konstantine G. Yankopolus, M.D. and moved to New Bedford, MA. There she began to raise a family and integrate into that community while her husband served in the U.S. Army during World War II. Eventually they would establish a permanent home in New Bedford where she would raise her children, run a busy household, manage her husband’s solo medical practice, and become an active member of local civic, charitable, and Greek cultural organizations. A lifelong member of the local St. George Greek Orthodox parish, she was a faithful servant to the community. She served with a core of ladies who devoted their time, skills, and treasure to prepare countless community dinners, organize Greek festivals and food fests, and conduct fundraisers for charity. Her efforts were a way to sustain cultural traditions and pass them on to younger generations. Like many Greeks, Mary had a zeal for cooking and baking, especially traditional Greek foods and pastries. That energy carried over to her tireless promotion of the St. George Generations of Cooking, Philoptochos Society cookbook. “It’s in the cookbook!” became her trademark retort whenever anyone asked how to make a dish.

            Mary expressed her love and commitment to others through her deeds, expecting nothing in return. She embodied the spirit of “philotimo”, a Greek concept for life that includes qualities of generosity and compassion. It guides one to strive for good, and in her, an obligation to do the right thing. It guided her life, her love for family, her relationship with friends, and the welfare of her community.

            Mary’s favorite place, after Bristol and Kozani, was her beloved oceanside Mattapoisett cottage. Every summer the house would come to life with what seemed like a steady stream of visitors. All were greeted by her generosity and philoxenia. The cottage was a place for tennis, the beach, lively conversation, anything outdoors, and for anyone looking for a good meal, homemade treat, or cup of Greek coffee. It was the place for a good life made possible because of her love and tireless energy. Often, she would say “Don’t ask. Give” when it came to serving guests. Mary also had a love for vanilla ice cream and every neighborhood kid knew where to find a Dainty Maid ice cream sandwich treat. Her spirit of giving created a community of love and kindness wherever she went that is fondly remembered still. The family is overwhelmed by the kindness, memories, and loving remembrances already shared.

            Mary lived her final years in Clearwater, FL to be with family and avoid New England winters. A seasonal resident for many years, she also joined Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church while still maintaining ties to St George. She established close connections with some contemporaries of the Greek immigrant community, as well as neighbors at her home. Marianthy, as she was known to the Greeks, continued to enjoy a rich cultural, social, and religious life despite her age. The family would like to extend a thank you to Father Jim Paris and the kind parishioners of Holy Trinity Clearwater for welcoming her to their community, and again to Father Jim for providing end-of-life spiritual care.

            Also, and without question, the family extends their deepest appreciation for the love and kindness expressed by friends and neighbors, especially the parish of St. George, Mary’s spiritual, cultural, and social home for over 80 years. The community was a source of great joy for her and ultimately the place that would welcome her to her final resting place.

            Mary was connected in holy matrimony with her beloved husband for 65 years until his passing in 2009. She is survived by her three sons, George, Konstantine and Demetrius; two daughters, Paula and Anna; nine grandchildren; and seven great-grandchildren.

            Viewing will take place at 8 am Saturday, October 26th at St. George Greek Orthodox Church, 186 Cross Rd., Dartmouth, MA. The funeral service will follow at 9 am, Burial will be in Acushnet Cemetery. The mercy meal will be held immediately after at the Century House, 107 South Main St, Acushnet, MA 02743.

            In lieu of flowers donations can be made in her memory to either St. George Greek Orthodox Church, P.O. Box 79411, North Dartmouth, MA 02747; Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 409 S. Old Coachman Rd., Clearwater, FL 33765; or the charity of your choice. For online condolence book, please visit www.saundersdwyer.com.