ORCTV Kenneth J. Souza Memorial Award

Each year Old Rochester Community Television awards one graduating senior from our Old Rochester Regional High School video production program, its ‘Outstanding Student Award’. The scholarship is meant to assist the student as they move on to study video production or film upon entering college.

            The recipient of this year’s award is Chris Bell of Mattapoisett. Mr. Bell showed great commitment to the ORCTV/ORRHS video program during the past three school years as he balanced schoolwork, studio work, extracurricular activities and after-school employment. The staff and board of Old Rochester Community TV congratulate Chris on this well-earned award.

            Contributions from the community over the past year helped to fund this year’s award of $1000. If you would like to contribute to the Ken Souza Scholarship fund, please send a check to ORCTV at 135 Marion Road. Mattapoisett, MA 02739 and write Ken Souza Scholarship in the memo space. ORCTV is a 501c3 not for profit organization, making all contributions tax deductible.

Upcoming Events at the Elizabeth Taber Library

Lego Club Thursday. 4pm May-September – Lego club is back. Join us Thursdays at 4pm in the library courtyard for child-led play, open to all ages. This is a drop-in activity, we provide the Legos, you provide the creativity. Oversized-Legos available for young children. Lego club will be held indoors in case of bad weather.

            Summer Reading is coming – Sign up for the ETL’s summer reading program starting June 21. Your summer reading kit will include reading logs, badge, stickers, and a reading buddy. Return your reading logs to win prizes and help us raise money for Heifer International.

            Teens and Adults: Summer Reading is for everyone. Pick up your reading log bookmarks. Return completed bookmarks to be entered into our summer prize raffle.

            Summer reading kick-off event with Carabiner’s Portable Rock Climbing Wall and Oxford Creamery’s OxCart. Saturday June 25 11-2 pm – The summer reading adventure begins on June 25 with a visit from a portable rock climbing wall and free ice cream from Oxford’s Creamery’s Oxcart. Exciting for all ages. Little ones are invited to our summer splash event with splash pads & more.

            Wednesday June 29, 2-4 pm. Nailed it. Cupcake decorating event – Put your cake decorating skills to the test. We provide undecorated cupcakes along with a variety of decorating tools and edible design elements. Open to participants of all ages. Sign up for this free program by calling the library.

            Looking for a place to hold your book club, knitting group, board game club, community action group, tutoring space, or student meeting space? The Elizabeth Taber Library has indoor and outdoor accommodations available for all small group meetings. Call to reserve our meeting room space or to arrange for outdoor accommodations (shade tent included) or stop by anytime to check out our space.

            For more information on the Elizabeth Taber Library, visit us at www.ElizabethTaberLibrary.org

Busy Start to Boating Season

It’s been two weeks since the post-Memorial Day summer boating season started, and already the Marion harbormaster and staff are keeping very busy.

            “It’s just been super busy since the season began,” Assistant Harbormaster Dave Wilson reported to the Marine Resources Commission at its June 13 meeting in the police station conference room. “It’s been an absolute slam.”

            He told the board that at one point the department received seven telephone calls for assistance in a six-hour interval. “And we’ve had two mayday calls back to back,” he said. “But we are handling it.”

Commission Chairman Vin Malkoski asked if Marion Harbor’s fleet of fishing boats has diminished, considering the current rising cost of fuel.

            Wilson said no. He also said there were no reports of gas being stolen from a harbor boat or facility this season, at least not yet.

            The good news Wilson added is that Andrew Miller, a Massachusetts Maritime Academy graduate, has once again signed on to assist the department during the summer.

            The report highlighted a meeting shortened by the fact Harbormaster Isaac Perry and Deputy Harbormaster/Shellfish Officer Adam Murphy were unable to attend.

            “They usually run the meeting,” Malkoski remarked.

            The MRC set its next meeting for Monday, July 18, at 7:00 pm, changing its venue to the Music Hall.

Marion Marine Resources Commission

By Michael J. DeCicco

‘Dangerous’ Dog Ordered Put Down

            The 44-minute, June 9 public hearing was held via Zoom video conferencing, but evident was the heaviness with which Marion Select Board Chairman Randy Parker sought a motion that board member Norm Hills would deliver and board member Toby Burr would second to order humane euthanization for a Marion dog named Stella.

            The subsequent vote was conditioned at the advice of Town Counsel Jon Witten to take place no sooner than 14 days after Tuesday’s ratification of the decision in another special meeting of the board.

            The “dangerous dog” hearing was the result of a complaint filed by local Animal Control Officer Susan Connor alleging a May 17 attack by a dog owned by David and Jennifer MacDonald on a small dog in Watertown, Connecticut, during a visit to the Taft School campus.

            Based on an October 16, 2018, order of the Marion Select Board following a prior incident resulting in the death of another dog, Stella was already deemed dangerous, and conditions for her being kept by the MacDonalds included the stipulation that she be muzzled when off their 40 Spring Street property.

            Hills’ motion and Burr’s second were based on their conclusion that the conditions set in 2018 were “not being followed,” that “the owner had a responsibility” and “failed to comply.”

            “I will say that none of us here on the board in all of our terms have had to deal with any of these decisions. It’s just not easy,” said Parker.

            Upon opening the public hearing, Witten laid out for the Select Board three basic options: 1. take no action; 2. “amplify conditions” (increase the insurance requirement, plant a microchip in the dog or other steps such as install an enclosure); 3. order the dog to be humanely euthanized.

            Testimony at the public hearing came from David MacDonald, Maura Quatrano of Watertown, Connecticut (owner of the dog injured on May 17), Quatrano’s attorney Robert W. Galvin and the Marion Police.

            Given the floor, David MacDonald expressed regret for the May 17 incident and noted that Jennifer MacDonald shares in that regret. He said she has cared for 10 animals in her life, having adopted several.

            Transitioning into the matter of the town’s complaint and the impounding of Stella on May 20, David MacDonald took issue with what he considered one-sided information in the police affidavit. He acknowledged that Stella bit Quatrano’s dog Milo but said comparing the incident to what happened in 2018 is “just inaccurate.” He said testimony of a witness to the 2018 incident indicated that Stella may not have been the aggressor.

            Regarding the May 17 incident at Taft School, David MacDonald argued that since Connecticut does not have a dangerous dog statute and because the incident occurred there, it is out of any Massachusetts town’s jurisdiction.

            Describing the parking lot where the incident occurred as “nearly vacant” and maybe twice the size of that at the Tabor Academy hockey rink, David MacDonald did not consider Jennifer MacDonald letting Stella sit under a tree without a muzzle to be a reckless much less defiant act.

            He said that upon the attack of Quatrano’s dog that was walking by where Stella was sitting, Jennifer MacDonald immediately tried to restrain Stella and jumped on Milo in an effort to protect the smaller dog from further harm. He said Jennifer MacDonald reached out to Quatrano afterward and arranged to pay half of the veterinary bills.

            David MacDonald further stated that in the aftermath, he and Jennifer MacDonald had been looking into solutions at their home and at the possibility of moving the dog out of state to other family members.

            “We were trying to come up with a solution, but it seemed like decisions were already made,” he said. “We ask you to reconsider … we’re comfortable with very strict conditions.”

            Witten assured David MacDonald that no decision had been made prior to the “first substantive hearing” and that this was the Select Board’s first time addressing the May 17 incident.

            Witten also clarified that no Marion representative is claiming jurisdiction in Connecticut but that the conditions established in 2018 were that Stella remain muzzled when off the premises of the MacDonalds’ Marion residence. Therefore, he advised the Select Board that it could accept the police report emanating from Watertown, Connecticut.

            David MacDonald did not dispute the facts of the case that Stella was not muzzled at the time of the incident, but he reiterated his jurisdictional argument. He also stressed that a veterinarian’s written statement indicates that Stella is of no danger to people. Witten instructed him to submit that statement to the Select Board’s office. As of last week, Stella remained impounded in Dartmouth.

            Given the floor, Quatrano told the board that her dog will never be same after the attack that nearly took his life and emotionally asked Jennifer MacDonald why she ignored the restrictions placed on Stella.

            Galvin told the board that Quatrano by the time of the public hearing had accumulated $2,800 in veterinary bills with more still due and that his client has documentation of $2,600 in lost wages.

            David MacDonald said that he would provide proof that he acquired the insurance required of the 2018 order.

            It was not known on Tuesday if the MacDonalds planned to appeal the Select Board’s decision.

Marion Select Board

By Mick Colageo

Bindas Happy for Good Health, Great Team

            The MIAA’s decision not to hold an individual tennis tournament this year weighs more heavily on Brooklyn Bindas’ supporters than it does on the 16-year-old, high school sophomore.

            “I don’t mind, I still have two more years that I could try to play,” said Bindas, a Rochester resident who attends Wareham High School on school choice. “My team and I, we’re still in the state tournament. … I still find pleasure playing whether it’s playing individual or playing with the team in the state tournament.”

            Monday’s 4-1 victory over two-time (2019 and 2021) nemesis Cohasset in the Division 2 state quarterfinals advanced the second-seeded Vikings to a Wednesday semifinal against No. 6 Manchester-Essex Regional in Medway. The winner would advance to the Division 2 state final to be played Saturday at MIT.

            At first singles, Bindas can only provide one of three necessary points to win a dual match. Before Bindas decided to attend Wareham for its Baccalaureate program, Coach Geoff Swett had begun building a tennis culture that has taken hold. The Vikings are a threat to win on all five courts with a singles lineup of Bindas, Saige Galhardo and Giuliana L’Homme, an undefeated first-doubles pairing of Olivia Powers and MacKenzie Brodley and a steadily improving second team of Allison Sciaraffa and Fredi Gakidis.

            “This is the best team ever,” said Bindas. “We all get along very well. … Even our second doubles (team) has spin on their serves. … I think the whole team has come a long way.”

            The last time Bindas competed for the state high school championship it was in the state individual tournament when she was but a seventh-grader. Bindas still made the semifinal round. At 5-foot-6, she is much stronger than she was then, and 2022 seemed to be the year that she would contend in earnest for the individual title.

            That title is not there for the taking this spring, but Bindas is contented for now in being a stronger athlete and a better tennis player.

            “I think I’ve finally, like, solidified my entire game. I’ve gotten better with height and margin over the net,” said Bindas, who has developed a more attacking style of game.

            Net rushes are rare in high school tennis, but Bindas has the overall game and tennis acumen to understand how to sniff out opportunities to take the ball on the rise and in the air rather than staying back and trying to out-rally an opponent. She has worked relentlessly over the years with area professionals to shore up weaknesses and develop an arsenal of weapons.

            “When I was younger, I didn’t know quite when I should come to net, but I think I’ve gotten better at that,” she said.

            A player of Bindas’ caliber typically plays a lot more competitive tennis outside of the high school schedule, but a tightness in her back muscles has held her back in USTA competition to doubles. Rather than serving every other game as in singles, the doubles rotation means a player is serving once every four games instead.

            Bindas has nonetheless cruised through her 2022 high school season at first singles for the Vikings. Her matches more often than not ended 6-0, 6-0, and she face her top competition in the South Coast Conference while playing with an injured shoulder. Bindas served underhanded and still gave up only two games in the victory.

            “A couple of summers ago I practiced serving underhand because I had a shoulder injury,” she recalled. “As long as you put a lot of spin on it, it can be effective as long as it doesn’t float up.”

            Physical therapy has helped her maintain her tennis career and has been a game changer for Bindas.

            “Oh, 100 percent,” she said. “I feel good … it has come a long way. I think it’s been working. Especially, the first couple months, I think it’s really made a good impact on me.”

            The past two summers Bindas was not able to work on her singles game, but she says she’s ready to give it a harder go this summer. She has been working on her game with Brandeis coach Christo Schultz and at Sippican Tennis Club with Dustin Goldenberg. Soon college coaches will be following her from event to event.

            “I think it would be really nice to play Division I (women’s tennis in college), but I’m also okay with playing for a really strong D-III school,” she said.

            Because she started taking high school classes in seventh grade, Bindas will have an option as to whether she stays at Wareham High two more years or graduates a year early.

            “I think I want to go into the medical field. I’m not sure what yet, but I’ve looked at optometry, physical therapy, I looked at that a lot,” she said.

            Bindas is scheduled to go back to singles competition this weekend in a USTA sectional competition, but if the Vikings are in Saturday’s state final at MIT, that’s where she will be. That would be a welcome conflict.

            Until her singles competition ramps back up, Bindas wants to win the gold ball with doubles partner Isabella Camacho at the national doubles tournament this summer in Florida.

By Mick Colageo

ORRJH Students of the Month

Silas D. Coellner, Principal of Old Rochester Regional Junior High School, announces the following Students of the Month for May, 2022:

Green Team: Caroline Hudelette & Nina Pierre

Orange Team: Delilah Post & Jiya Patel

Blue Team: Katherine Guevara & Jackson Daniel

Red Team: Sophia Anesti & Belle Comorosky

Exploratory Team: Elizabeth Kilpatrick & Benjamin Wesoly

Joseph H. Plumb Memorial Library

The Board of Trustees of Joseph H. Plumb Memorial Library in Rochester are pleased to announce the hiring of Jennifer Woodward as the next Library Director. Mrs. Woodward, previously Assistant Director of the Falmouth Public Library, lives in Buzzards Bay and has many years of public library experience to her credit. She will be joining the staff of Plumb Library as of June 21.

Principal Rose Takes Bow

            The June 13 meeting of the Mattapoisett School Committee started off bittersweet, marking the end of Rose Bowman’s long and illustrious tenure as the town’s principal overseeing Center and Old Hammondtown elementary schools.

            Having gotten her start as a second-grade teacher in 1971, then in New Bedford Public Schools, Bowman first shifted into the Tri-Town area in 1986 when she started teaching preschoolers at The Music Room in Mattapoisett. But she didn’t stop there. Old Hammondtown School welcomed her as its principal in 1998, before Bowman shifting to Center School in 2008 and finally taking a joint role at both schools in 2014.

            The School Committee recognized her contributions to Mattapoisett Schools, noting her dedication and kindness. One committee member noted that calling her a hard worker was the “biggest understatement of the century.”

            Several members of the committee gave impassioned speeches reminiscing on their first interactions with Bowman, as well as the subsequent years they worked together. One fondly recalled earning the nickname “Batman and Robin” from how often the pair were seen side by side. Each declamation was met with hearty agreement and applause from the room.

            Bowman was obviously touched by the outpouring of affection, her reaction only strengthened by the revelation that there will be a mural painted in the school in her honor. The planned mural will take the form of the words “Be Kind,” a sentiment Bowman herself carried above all during her time as an educator.

            The dot over the “i” in “Be Kind” (officially referred to as a tittle) will be used to showcase students who exemplified kindness. If a student goes above and beyond in the ways of kindness, their photo will be placed in the “i” to recognize them for their efforts.

            This round of praise ended with Bowman delivering her Principal’s Report. She detailed how each year it was a pleasure to see the students in their graduation outfits, ready to move on to new challenges and great things. Finally, she ended by thanking the Mattapoisett School Committee members for their “leadership and support” during her time as principal. She stated that it was an “honor and privilege” to work with not just the committee but the Old Rochester School District Administration team and other staff, as well as families and “most of all the extraordinary students.” Bowman summed up her feelings with “my deepest thanks to all of the wonderful people with whom I have had the pleasure of sharing these years.”

            The committee reviewed the SMEC Lease for the 2022-23 school year, received an update from administration about the School Improvement plan which is moving slowly but on schedule and discussed an update to the Student Handbook that includes fees for damaged or lost electronics, as well as a $25 annual insurance plan that would negate fees for students that opt in. The committee discussed fee waivers for students and families that may need them.

            A more somber note was struck when discussing crisis plans for the schools. As each school building’s layout is different, the individual crisis plans will differ as well, being tailored to the individual schools. However, the core of the plans will follow the same protocols.

            The scheduled restructuring of the committee for the 2022-23 academic year resulted in no changes, as James Muse will continue as the committee chairperson with Carly Lavin in the vice-chair role per committee vote. Diana Russo of the ORR Central Office will continue as secretary, and she and Toni Bailey will split the duties of recording secretary.

            The Mattapoisett School Committee will not meet until the 2022-23 school year. The next meeting of the Joint School Committee will take place on Monday, June 27, at 6:30 pm in a hybrid format.

Mattapoisett School Committee

By Jack MC Staier

Students Recognized for Timely Projects

            The June 14 meeting of the Mattapoisett Select Board was truly inspirational, as young people demonstrated their interest, understanding, and ideas on a variety of timely topics that adults are struggling to handle.

            First, however, was the board’s heartfelt acknowledgement of Paige Mailloux, this year’s winner of the Tree Committee’s poster contest. The fifth grader stood proudly before the board to have her picture taken and to receive a certificate for her third-place standing in the statewide Arbor Day Poster Contest. The poster theme was Be A Cool Community, Plant Trees! This theme tied in nicely with a theme in another format.

            Old Rochester Regional students, as a school project, selected timely themes and conducted research and came up with ideas on how to manage and improve environmental issues, animal rights, infrastructure needs and other issues not only facing Mattapoisett but facing the world.

            The school project, titled Civic Action Programs, asked the students to select a theme and then expound upon it in a formalized presentation for the Select Board.

            Madison Dos Santos selected, “Global Warming, An Idea about Planting Trees in our Community.” Grace Custadio and Giada Gandolfi’s project was on the theme of “Littering Prevention.” Amanda, Emma and Delilah (whose last names were not made available to the board) developed a GoFundMe page for donations to animal shelters in the tri-town area with a goal of raising $5,000. Fixing roads and sidewalks was the topic worked on by Kent Spooner and Linden White. Taking on pollution were Nolan Blanchette and Blake Moreau. Bennett Goodwin selected water quality. And last, but far from least, was “Bad Sidewalks” by Andrew Oliveira.

            Select Board members spent time reviewing the submitted presentations and expressed their pleasure with the students’ work. It was determined that each student would receive a response from the board. Member Jodi Bauer said she would facilitate networking the students with the relevant town departments for further exploration of their theme.

            The board met with Andrew Nilson of Childs Engineering for a brief overview of the firm’s report on the current state of Long Wharf and options for repairs.

            Nilson said that a site visit was conducted in March, at which time it was noted that voids in the foundation and below-water structures required they list the wharf in “poor” condition.

            To summarize the project report, it stated in part, “…it was constructed in its current form in 1992 following a portion being damaged by Hurricane Bob. The current form … includes a dry stacked rock seawall supporting the fill that comprises the wharf interior. It is assumed that behind the masonry seawall the wharf is constructed of a combination of rock, soil, and concrete fill. With an asphalt deck.”

            The report stated that storms could impact the wharf to the point of making it completely unstable. “The structure as a whole remains stable…but lacked resiliency and is susceptible to overstressing or breakage during a storm event,” the report stated.

            Nilson noted that anticipated sea-level rise has to be one of the primary considerations when planning wharf repairs and improvements. Childs recommended “precast concrete with steel reinforcing modular block wall to encapsulate the existing wharf. The existing wharf behind the new concrete block wall will need to be excavated and backfilled to eliminate voids, and the utilities replaced.” That option the Marine Advisory Board, had been told in May, comes with price tag of $4,700,000.

            But board member Jordan Collyer said there were concerns over removing historic stone features and asked Nilson to try and come up with a cost estimate that would allow the stones to be removed temporarily while the interior is repaired and then reestablished to their original locations. Collyer was referring to rose granite that had been quarried and used for wharf construction possibly in the mid-1800s.

            Nilson reiterated what the report stated that the current condition of the wharf could remain stable for as long as the next 10 years but that any large weather event could cause damage to the deteriorating structure.

            In terms of long-term use of the wharf, Collyer said he couldn’t see any change in how the wharf in currently used for decades to come. He said industry simply couldn’t be supported and that recreational use was the primary function of the wharf.

            The board voted to establish seven boat-trailer parking spots at the Barstow Wharf parking next to the town beach as compensation for the loss of trailer parking at Railroad and Depot Streets due to the bike path contractor’s need to store materials and equipment at that location.

            Seasonal employees were appointed by the board to work as Deputy Harbormasters and Shellfish Constables. Those appointed are Luke Mello, Samuel Horsfall and Sydney Haskell.

            The board also met with members of the Mattapoisett Historical Commission Alex Murphy and Robert Spooner. The commissioners discussed designs for two new commemorative brick locations, possibly two at Ned’s Point. Information is available on the town’s website, Mattapoisett.net.

            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Select Board was not scheduled.

Mattapoisett Select Board

By Marilou Newell

Students Leave Words to Live by

Editor’s Note: Below are student graduation speeches, including Old Rochester Regional High School Valedictorian Amaya McLeod and Tabor Academy Co-Heads of School Olivia Justice and Percy Ackerman.

ORR Valedictorian Amaya McLeod

            Good afternoon parents, families, guests, school committee members, administrators, faculty, and most importantly, the class of 2022. Let me take you back in time for just a minute to when I was in Kindergarten. I would see the sixth graders walking by in a massive blob in the hallways and would press myself up against the wall for fear of being trampled by the kids who at the time seemed like they were all 6 feet tall. Then, all of a sudden, I was one of those sixth graders in the massive blob.

            Let me tell you, I was not 6 feet tall and I was still scared out of my mind. I was afraid of going to a different school and meeting new people. I survived middle school and in eighth grade, I was given a tour of the high school. I remember thinking there was no way I was going to get through it. The textbooks were too big, the syllabuses were too complex, and the hallway seemed like a maze specifically designed to confuse newcomers, especially since I couldn’t find the pool everyone was talking about.

            Now, you might be sensing a theme. My entire life I have been scared of what’s next. This doesn’t apply to just big steps like changing schools. I’ve spent hundreds of hours stressing about tests and projects. I’ve had nights out with friends ruined because I couldn’t stop thinking about a Spanish presentation I had the next day in class. I’ve stayed home because I was too freaked out about an exam I already studied for. I’ve wasted precious moments because I couldn’t get past the anxiety of what lay before me. And what I always failed to realize, and what I think most of us fail to realize when we are stressing about the next step, is that of course, we can make it through the next thing because this class has gotten through so much already.

            Changes in life always seem really scary and impossible, but we can make it through them. I am not going to lie to you, the idea of going to college terrifies me. Obviously, I’m excited and I can’t wait to go, but I’m also feeling this urge to curl in a ball and refuse to leave my house. College is scary because we have never experienced anything like it. But I believe in us because this class has faced so many unprecedented challenges and new ways of living and come out here on the other side. I mean if we can make it through the time everyone was doing Fortnite dances, watching Tiger King, and making slime, we can make it through anything.

            And we don’t have to make it through alone. I wouldn’t have made it this far without the love and support of my family. My sisters are the ones who taught me that it is important to stay humble. Whenever I get too self-inflated they do me the favor of taking me down a peg with a snide comment, like “well at least I can drive.” Love you guys.

            I wouldn’t have made it this far without the lessons taught to me by my amazing teachers. Ms. Barker taught me that being kind gets you farther than anything else. She is one of the sweetest people I know and, through her kindness, she has made the lives of hundreds of students better. Señor Bernardo taught me that it is important not to take life too seriously and to remember to laugh. Annoying him in class always made my day way better and made me 10 times less stressed. I could go on about how much the teachers in this community have influenced my life, and I’m sure every graduate sitting here today could do the same.

            And last but certainly not least, I wouldn’t have made it here without our class. This class taught me that the only way to succeed in life is to give it your all, even if that means throwing away all sanitary caution and eating food off the floor. Being in this class has taught me that friends can help you through anything. I’m not saying you need a whole entourage, even one good friend can help you through the toughest of times. My friends have always made my life better in so many ways, even when they hip check me into lockers and make fun of me for being a tad short.

            I am proud to be a part of this class because we have not only made it, but we have helped each other hit every curve ball thrown our way. We shouldn’t waste these precious moments worrying about how we will do in the future and instead spend them appreciating how far we have come.

            In the words of a very wise man named doctor Doofenshmirtz, don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. Congratulations Class of 2022. Enjoy your summer and your journeys. Thank you.

Tabor Academy Co-Head of School Olivia ‘Liv’ Justice

            I crave stability. In my life, I have attended five different schools, lived in five different houses in three different cities. In every new environment, I found new friend groups, new hobbies, new interests; I became a master of adapting.

            Adjusting to a new school schedule was easy. Learning the routine of car hums and barking dogs in new neighborhoods, or even the angry footsteps of the family that lived above mine, was nothing. Strategizing a plan on how to successfully navigate the social food chain of every school I went to even became monotonous. Figuring out who I am though, that challenge topped the rest. After repeating the cycle a few times, my personality and my aspirations became fluid.

            The only consistent part of my life was school. No matter how chaotic everything else became, my classes and my work were always there. Like that one parent who was always first in line at carpool, education became the calm in my life’s storm. The classroom proved to be my peace of mind and my safe space. Despite the comfort I find within writing, reading, and engaging in class discussions it has become increasingly difficult to maintain the stability I so heavily rely on.

            In a wider world in which there is so much hate in the air like a smog that makes it hard to breathe; no one should feel like they’re suffocating in an environment that was created to nourish our minds, body, and spirit. However, in some places that smog has inundated entire communities poisoning every ounce of safety and comfort that once lived there so freely.

            Most recently Salvador Rolando Ramos fatally shot 19 students and two teachers at Robb Elementary School. I think about them today because their safe place was violated in ways unimaginable for many of us. Those beloved children will never have the opportunity to grow into their own as we have. They won’t walk across the stage and earn a diploma as we will soon, and for the faculty, family, and friends they left behind, school may never be a safe place for them again.

            I’m reminded of the privilege we experience every day by not having to contend with such tragedies. So, I ask myself, what can I do with this privilege? How can I take advantage of this safe space and channel the skills this institution has taught me to do something meaningful? How can we as a people, who all bleed the same, show compassion for one another especially when it becomes hard to breathe? For these answers I don’t turn to Google or Siri or one of the million essays I’ve written over the past four years. Instead, I look to my classmates, my teachers, and this community as a whole.

            The solutions we so desperately need lie within us and our capacity to empathize. For so long, I found my peace in the classroom, and after four years of learning and living here, I realized that part of my peace came from the people I surround myself with. We lift each other up, we bring each other back down to earth, we wipe each other’s tears off our cheeks, and even though we get on each other’s nerves at times, we also ease each other’s minds when they’re racing.

            My mind is in 100 places right now. Between the joy and celebration I feel for my fellow graduates and the heartbreak that follows for all that I’ll miss here, I’ve been reminiscing about countless special moments I’ve shared with people on campus. These memories have been invited by the melting pot of emotions I’ve been feeling over the past week.

            I know many of you have been riding the same rollercoaster of emotions with me, and in bittersweet times like this I think we all crave stability. So, as I take my first steps away from this campus, I am taking a piece of that grounding force I found here with me. Whether it was in many ways or just one, I believe Tabor Academy and the far-reaching network of people it connects has grounded each of us. I ask that you think about how you center yourself and specifically to the graduates, how did you do that during our time here. Understand that is likely all of our answers differ.

            I preserved my sanity here at the Academy with Door Dash. Although I wish money grew on trees, it unfortunately does not. So, this means wasn’t sustainable. Most times, I protected my sanity by spending quality time with my friends, becoming more globally aware, taking as many humanities courses as possible, and learning the invaluable art of self-advocacy. To the rest of the Class of ’22, wherever the next phase of your lives begin, I hope y’all find your stability, too. And more importantly, I hope you all make an effort to create it for others. Thank you.

Tabor Academy Co-Head of School Percy Ackerman

            Thank you, Liv, and good morning.

            On Monday night at the senior faculty dinner, listening to Mrs. Young speak, enjoying a delectable M&M cookie, I found myself nodding my head. She’s right, things have been really hard for us. As she continued, I grew increasingly aware of just how much I agreed with her.

            Bite, chew, chew. And then she said this: “I am certain this class is going to move mountains.” This is concerning. UGH! She just gave my Commencement Speech. Thanks a lot, Mrs. Young.

            But I understand why this happened. It’s inevitable that people are going to stand up and give the same speech. We all question the purpose of life and try to make sense of ourselves. It’s just what we do. If we tried to do this every day though we would go out of our minds. So, we do it at milestones in our lives and on special occasions, like this.

            It also occurs to me that if we feel compelled to spend every group milestone we reach trying to make sense of life, then maybe the real message is that life doesn’t make any sense. What are we in school for? Explain COVID-19 to me. You know, how long has Mr. Becker really been at Tabor? But in this miasma of uncertainty there is boundless opportunity. Each of us gets to decide for ourselves what it means.

            One January afternoon I found myself in the most crucial role I’ve had at Tabor Academy: Tabor Hockey League (THL) goaltender with around 30 seconds left. I was getting peppered with shots. The red team special line was in front of my net, five on one, as the rest of my teammates were dusting the ice and toe picking on the other end. I made 1 … 2 … 3 … saves as the clock ticked down toward zero.

            Then, something unthinkable happened. Someone lifted the puck off the ground. I watched in awe as the game winning goal leapt over my pad, into the net, and down in intramural hockey history just as the good old hockey game was finishing on the speakers. Naturally a pig pile celly, which is hockey lingo for celebration, ensued for the red team, and I was left in the crease, still in shock.

            But for those of you who don’t know the THL, memory regarding wins and losses runs pretty short. Next thing you know there are a few black jerseys in the celly pile, too, because every time the THL plays a game, the THL wins. Together, we found joy, connection, and purpose. The joy I, and so many others, found in the Tabor Hockey League was not only the product of the goals we scored or the faces we planted, but from being there every day with 30 people who were just excited to be together. We were terrible. We were beautiful and we had fun, but mostly we were terrible.

            I found purpose in big cellys for bad hockey. Other Seawolves found their purpose in geeking out, in making art, in lending a hand. The limitations imposed by COVID-19 did not stop us, but instead forced us to push against our own limits and find our joy, our connection, and our own purpose.

            Learning to work hard and work together might be the most important lesson we learned here. As we move on, no matter what kinds of communities are in our future, we will enrich them with the strength and spirit we bring. We will move mountains … or hills or pig piles; whatever we decide.

            Thank you.