Col. Robert Francis Paling

Col. Robert Francis Paling, Ret. USAF, 73, of Wareham, passed away on August 21, 2025, at Whittier Rehabilitation Hospital, Westborough. He was the husband of Yvette Renee (D’Harlingue) Paling.  They were married for fifty years. He was the son of the late William H. and Barbara K. (Marble) Paling.

He was born in Brookline, raised in Wareham, and retired in Nashua, NH before moving back to Wareham in 2018 to enjoy the beaches he grew up on with his family.

Col. Paling graduated from the Air Force Academy and received master’s degrees from Southern Illinois University and Rivier University in NH. He was a passionate lifelong learner.

He proudly served active duty in the U.S. Air Force from 1973 until 1998. After a distinguished career, receiving multiple awards including the Meritorious Service Medal twice, he retired as a Colonel. He served as navigator in multiple international conflicts.

Bob’s accomplishments and interests were far too many to list, but among the notable include: he belonged to International Foster Parents Plan for over 40 years, coached T-Ball for all three of his children, was a Boy Scout leader from Tiger Scouts to Eagle Scouts, and was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Nashua, NH. In 1979, he was recognized by the Jaycee’s in Dover, DE as one of the “Outstanding Young Men of America” in the military category. He loved travelling and visited all 50 states and 6 of the 7 continents.   He enjoyed fishing, golfing, gardening, and coin collecting. Above all, though, he loved spending time with his family and friends.

Survivors include his wife, Yvette Renee (D’Harlingue) Paling; a son, Jason Paling and his wife, Siobhan Kemezys of Nashua, NH; his daughters, Sarah Paling Cardoso and her husband, Tiago Cardoso of Nashua, NH, and Kathryn Donovan and her husband, Matthew Donovan of Mattapoisett; 2 brothers, David Paling and Richard Paling both of Wareham; a sister, Judy Santangelo of Wareham and their families; 4 grandchildren, Gabriel Buxton, Harper Cardoso, Eleanor Cardoso, and Jeannette Donovan.

Visiting hours are from 8:30 a.m. to 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, Aug. 28, 2025, at Chapman Funerals & Cremations – WAREHAM, 2599 Cranberry Hwy., Wareham, followed by a funeral service at 10:30 a.m. at the funeral home. Burial with military honors will follow at the Massachusetts National Cemetery, Bourne.

In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to Plan International (formerly International Foster Plan) or Disabled American Veterans (DAV).

Solar Federal Tax Credit Sunsetting Soon

Are you considering solar panels for your home? If so, delay no further. The whopping 30% federal tax credit available for home solar projects will set with the sun on December 31, 2025. Part of the Inflation Reduction Act, the incentive is being revoked by the federal government, just as many Americans are reaping substantial savings on their electric bills, thanks to free solar power from panels on their own roofs or backyards. Electric rates are expected to rise, making future savings even larger. There’s still time to receive this credit if you purchase and install your system by the end of the year.

            Not only is this subsidy disappearing at year’s end, so are rebates through the Energy Efficient Home Improvement Credit. This program offers up to $2000 savings on new heat-pump heating/cooling units and up to $1200 credit on modifications to make your home more energy-efficient. Again, it’s not too late, but you must hurry to take advantage of these substantial cost savings.

            Finally, if you have been contemplating the replacement of your gasoline-fueled car with an electric vehicle, the fuse is even shorter. The $7500 federal rebate for new EVs ($4000 for used ones) will end on September 30.

            For further information:

www.npr.org/2025/07/16/nx-s1-5462190/trump-tax-credit-solar-ev-heat-pump

www.irs.gov/credits-deductions/energy-efficient-home-improvement-credit

By Jennifer Francis, Marion’s Energy Management Committee

Mattapoisett Yacht Club Race Result

Tuesday Night Ensign Series August 12 – Three tie breakers tonight in the hotly contested Ensign Fleet. Odyssey wins the tie breaker over Black Ice for first place for the night. Uncle Fester beats out Brou Ha Ha in the tie breaker for third place and Hamburglar wins the tie breaker over Brass Monkey for fifth place for the night.

Odyssey and Black Ice remained tie for the August Series each with two firsts and two seconds, Odyssey holding the tie breaking edge.

            Five ORR Sail team 420s also raced, getting in 3 races. Each week the young sailors look better and better honing their skills for the upcoming high school race season.

            Wednesday Night PHRF, August 13, Restless led the A Fleet on this rocky night beating No Quarter Given for first place. Surprised placed third and Coconuts was fourth. This puts Restless and NQG in a tie for first place so far in the August series.

            In B Fleet, Lindisfarne beat Fir Na Tine by 41 seconds corrected time for their second win in the August series. Kinsail placed third and Chickadee was forth.

Paris – a Walk in The Park

            Second in a series exploring Europe’s diverse landscapes and gardens, from formal designs to wild, natural beauty…

            One of the greatest perks of traveling is enjoying beautiful gardens without any of the upkeep. You can love ’em and leave ’em so to speak.

            As we journeyed to Paris aboard the Eurostar, memories of London lingered like whispers in the air. Yet, before us lay fresh streets to wander, new skies to gaze upon, and the quiet allure of a city waiting to be compared, explored, and remembered anew.

            Like visiting any destination, you need a plan, but it’s often in spontaneous moments that the most memorable experiences happen. Such was our sojourn in Paris, where a stroll became an adventure at every turn – and also an opportunity for my eyes to relish this gem of a city once again.

            Paris on a Saturday evening met us with gorgeous views of summer in its splendor: people gathered along both sides of Canal Saint Martin, conjured a modern take on Georges Seurat’s painting “A Sunday on La Grande Jatte.” People seem to spill out from every direction in this lovely section of the city with cafes, boulangeries, shops, and the occasional kebabier.

            Trees line the rivers and boulevards everywhere in Paris, offering shade and relief to tourists in a world that’s steadily warming. The heat of early July took me back to my first visit to the city on a post-college trip abroad in 1980. My friend Suzanne, a few other college friends, and I went to Versailles, where we ended up napping in the gardens. The languor caused by the sweltering heat, coupled with the closure of the palace that day, gave us the perfect excuse to recharge. I still remember how satisfying the beer was at a little café that afternoon – super!

            Flash forward… this trip to Paris would be brief and light, with family arriving at different times. No grand plans but rather a relaxed prelude to the trip south, the location of our daughter’s wedding. Like proper Parisians, we visited the local Sunday open-air market, where vendors offered freshly picked produce, irresistible cheese, and assorted foods, spices and accoutrements. I opted for strawberries and a straw visor – perfect choices given the heat.

            My daughter, an adopted Parisian, led the way as we ventured to Île Saint-Louis, the serene island in the Seine River. Known for its elegant townhouses and upscale vibe, the island has long been home to Parisian nobility and wealthy businessmen since the 17th century. Today, it still exudes charm, with its quiet, residential streets offering a peaceful escape near some of the city’s most famous landmarks. We lunched at a lovely outdoor cafe watching the action of the street that included a photo shoot of a boy band – a sort of French-styled fabulous four – posing with instruments atop a Ford Mustang the same color as their suits: cafe creme.

            We walked along the Seine past book stalls. These booksellers, known as bouquinistes, primarily sell used and antique books, as well as vintage postcards and other paper goods. They also offer some tourist souvenirs, but the majority of their stock is literary. The stalls themselves are iconic, with their green boxes stretching for kilometers along the riverbanks where they have stood for centuries.

            In a short time, we reached the Holy Grail of monuments: the renovated Notre Dame, to which we stood and gazed (I’d visited that monumental structure way back in the day and would have to give it a miss until next time as the lines were just too long as I guess they always will be). Instead, we strode on stopping for pictures at the Louvre, my daughter in law Alisha smartly using a parasol against the sun’s rays like she’d stepped out of the Seurat painting. A year ago, I’d spent a day inside reacquainting myself with Winged Victory and Mona Lisa, among many other treasures. Now, we were content with the exterior view and avoiding crowds.

            Paris is widely known for its beautiful parks and gardens, and the city boasts a significant number of green spaces, from the grand formal types to the humbler neighborhood squares. It is wonderful to see people take pleasure in these spaces and the artful touches that are placed within – ranging from grandiose sculptures to gymnasiums for children.

            One of the most famous public parks here is Le Jardin des Tuileries between the Louvre and the Place de la Concorde. In 1564, Catherine de Medici commissioned the construction of the Tuileries Palace and its gardens near the Louvre. The palace was named for the tile factories (tuileries) that previously occupied the site. Renowned landscape architect Andre Le Notre redesigned the gardens in the 17th century, influenced by Italian formal gardens, including symmetrical paths, ponds, and sculptures, transforming the gardens into a grand, classical space. After the French Revolution, the gardens were opened to the public, making them one of the first royal gardens to be accessible to everyone.

            Today, the Jardin des Tuileries is a vibrant public space, a popular spot for walking, relaxing, and enjoying art. During the 2024 Summer Olympics and Paralympics, it was the site of the Olympic and Paralympic cauldron. The gardens are also home to the Orangerie Museum, known for Monet’s “Water Lilies.” The Tuileries Garden continues to be a place where history, art, and nature converge, welcoming millions of visitors each year.

            As we carried on our walk, we were stopped by a pair of hands. No! Not a pickpocket! But a pair of richly detailed bronze hands atop a granite stone. I later learned that French-American artist Louise Bourgeois created “The Welcoming Hands” to represent love and kindness. She created them for Ellis Island in New York Harbor, where millions of immigrants passed through. Beyond the statues and fountains and the distant view of the Eiffel Tower, people moved through the summer air. In the cool shade between two linden tree alleys, men played pétanque, tossing the boule with palm facing down giving it a little spin. These are some of the little moments that stay etched on the old memory.

            With all of the meandering and stopping to take photos and me wondering why Lindens are also called Lime trees, we came upon a fun fair (AKA, amusement park) known as the Fete des Tuileries. It happens every summer here and has all kinds of attractions. If you know me, you might guess what happened next. Handing our handbags over to my husband, Lori, Jane, and I promptly bought tickets to a flume ride named Konga and with a huge cutout of the giant gorilla. Forgetting our age and thinking only of a way to get cooled off, we belted up and took this fun ride up and up and up with a view of the gardens and then the restorative descent through the water. It made us feel ten times cooler (and younger).

            We made our way home, finally taking an uber ride but not before window shopping in the haute couture area of Place Vendome and Rue Saint-Honore. These streets are known for their luxury boutiques, designer flagship stores, and high-end fashion houses. In case you’re wondering, the price of a beer here is € 16 (Euro). A bit much, but totally refreshing!

            The next day we would again venture to the south of France and be a part of our daughter Olivia’s wedding. Again, we would experience a shift in temperature and environment aligned with the Mediterranean. I look forward to sharing that in a subsequent column.

            “We must cultivate our garden.” – from Voltaire’s Candide

The Seaside Gardener

By Laura McLean

New Lots for Old Slough Road

            On August 18, the Mattapoisett Planning Board heard from Mat Leone of the engineering firm of Schneider, Davignon and Leone regarding an Approval Not Required (ANR) filed by Laddy Properties for land located at 4 Old Slough Road.

            The applicant sought and received approval for a shared common driveway 356-feet in length and 31-feet wide with 16-feet travel lanes.

            No structural details were discussed at this time other than the five new house lots will meet all current zoning setbacks and that type of sewer equipment is pending whether or not the Board of Health and or the Sewer Department will grant municipal sewer connections. It was further noted that perk testing will be scheduled if needed.

            Also coming before the board was William Mansfield for property located at Harbor Acres Lane requesting a release of a covenant. After reviewing the built plans, the plans were accepted and the covenant released.

            The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Planning Board is scheduled for September 15.

Mattapoisett Planning Board

By Marilou Newell

From the Files of the Rochester Historical Society

The inspiration for this article was a 1977 Standard Times picture that I found in a file folder. It was on one of our hotter days this summer and the picture of Mary’s Pond beach crowded with sun worshippers and swimmers made me wish I was there, somewhere in that picture. Unfortunately, I couldn’t include the picture as it was copyrighted by the paper.

            Today, the 81- acre pond is as cool and inviting as it was in 1977, but as the picture I’ve included shows, the beach has a lot less activity than there was 48 years ago. Mary’s Pond is classified as an Atlantic Coastal Plain Pond and is protected by the Massachusetts Natural Heritage and Endangered Species program. Today, the state oversees the water and pondlife. They stock the pond in both the spring and the fall with brown, rainbow and tiger trout and brookies. In the deeper recesses of the pond there is a healthy population of largemouth bass. This makes it a fisherman’s dream (I talked to one man who said it was one of the main reasons he moved to town) and on any given day, you can see fishing lines in the water from shore, from kayaks or anglers in waders.

            However, the scene in that picture was of a sunny, summer day when people flocked to the pond’s beach. Particularly, in the 50’s and into the 80’s, the beach would be packed with sunbathers and swimmers, many from out of town. Families would come for the day, bringing towels, inflatables, grills, tire tubes and lawn chairs.

            For many years, there was a bathhouse, campground, store, lunch counter and even a ballroom along Mary’s Pond Rd. For most of those years, beach goers believed that the beach was owned by the County or the State. In the 1990’s when the town was getting ready to take over the beach to develop it, a search of the property records at the Plymouth County Registry of Deeds, showed that the property under discussion was privately owned. There were two deeds. One was in the names of Robert and Isaac Hiller and the second in the name of Edith Hiller.

            So today, Mary’s Pond is much quieter. Use is restricted to kayaks and other small boats (with parking off of Perry Lane) and fishermen ad women. There is a walking trail and an area to view the osprey who also enjoy fishing.

By Connie Eshbach

Our Country’s 250th Anniversary

There will be an organizational meeting to any Mattapoisett Resident interested in helping with a celebration of Our Country’s 250th anniversary. This meeting will be held at the library meeting room on September 3 at 6:00 pm. The plan as it stands now, is to celebrate this on the Flag Day weekend 2026, June 12 to June 14. It is our hope that we can enlist participants from town boards, organizations, churches and anyone who believes our town is indeed a special place in and of the U.S.A.

            Join us for a sharing of ideas, creation of event committees and a chance to show our patriotism. We sincerely hope to see you there.

Mattapoisett Dog Walk A Thon

The Mattapoisett Dog Walk A Thon will be held on Saturday August 23 from 8:00 am to 12:00 pm at Center School on Barstow Street.

            Come strut your pup at your own leisure. 1/2 mile or 1 mile marked Village walks. With your $20.00 Donation you receive a 2025 Walk A Thon Tee Shirt and water stations are provided. All proceeds go to the building of Dog Park.

Waste Collection Day on Saturday!

            At the Rochester Board of Health’s last meeting on August 6, they went over various health updates in the community. The threat of mosquito-borne illness is still a cause of discussion, though health officials are not necessarily worried about the diseases. West Nile was detected in Tri-Town mosquitos last month by the state Department of Public Health. The whole state is on some level of West Nile Virus and Eastern Equine Encephalitis watch; however, the Board of Health follows state guidelines and recommendations, saying to apply insect repellent, wear long sleeves if possible, and avoid dusk to dawn outdoors.

            On Saturday, August 23 from 9:00 am to 12:00 pm, Household Hazardous Waste Collection Day is in full swing. “It’s time to bring the skeletons out of the closet!” Residents can bring accepted items to the Rochester Highway Department at 200 Ryder Road. Items include things normally not accepted by trash pickup, such as paint and solvents, household cleaners, automotive fluids, pesticides and fertilizers, batteries and electronics. The program is open to all residents, with proof of residency required before the drop off. For a full list of acceptable and unacceptable items, you can visit the town website at: www.townofrochestermass.com/home/news/household-hazardous-waste-collection-day.

            The next meeting of the Rochester Board of Health is scheduled for Wednesday, September 3 at 4:00 pm in Town Hall.

Rochester Board of Health

By Sam Bishop

Japanese Knotweed Still Spreads

            Japanese knotweeds continue to plague the town, and the invasive species were topics of two hearings at the August 13 Conservation Commission meeting at the Police Station, 550 Mill St.

            Building Commissioner Bob Grillo, who presented it, received favorable comments on the town’s plan to demolish an existing, dilapidated home on 988 Point Road. The small ranch home is surrounded by vines and overgrown with weeds, including the Japanese knotweed. Commissioners only had concerns because the property has been discussed for possible parking. Across the street is a playground.

            Both Grillo and Town Planner Doug-Guey-Lee said right now the parking proposal has not materialized. Commissioners mentioned that there is a hill leading to wetlands so more discussion would be needed. However, both Grillo and Guey-Lee said the only plan in place is to demolish the property, which is not generating any tax revenue for the town, according to online data. The property is overgrown with vegetation, including vines and Japanese knotweed.

            Commissioners also responded favorably to homeowners at 24 Brook Lane. The owners reportedly had black tarps in the back, but they were not enough to control the knotweeds, which poked their way through the barrier.

            Commissioners had no issue with Old Rochester Regional High School’s plans to upgrade some baseball and softball fields and include an irrigation system. Sections of the land are in both Marion and Mattapoisett, according to officials. Applicants said there would be no expansion but just improvements to the field, replacing torn-up natural grass with new natural grass. The applicant also had to go before the state’s Natural Heritage division, which determined that it would not cause any harm to endangered species nearby.

            At a busy meeting, the Commission deliberated over many routine projects, holding hearings for them but learning most would not be an issue for nearby wetlands.

            Applicants at 13 East Avenue asked for modifications to a site plan that would make their boat ramp and deck parallel to the home, so neighbors would not have to face the site of boats being launched.

            Commissioners took no issue with that proposal.

            Ryan Burke, a member of a neighborhood association and a town official, proposed road upgrades to Dexter Road, Doran Way, Wilson Road, Cole Road, Harnum Way, Julian Road, Shady Lane, and Seahorse Way. Burke, representing the neighborhood and not the town, said that there would be no changes to the road grading or the layout. He said the purpose would be to rid the neighborhood of potholes and apply asphalt for smoother travel.

            Guey-Lee expressed no concerns and said the drainage path would not change.

            The next meeting of the Marion Conservation Commission is scheduled for Wednesday, August 27 at 7:00 pm in the Marion Police Station.

Marion Conservation Commission

By Jeffrey D. Wagner