Rochester Council on Aging

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There are a lot of upcoming trips in September. So please give us a call or come here in person to sign up in advance. A $5.00 donation is asked to ensure your spot on the van.

On September 18ththere is a day trip to the “Center for Adaptive Living” Showpoint 12,000 sq ft Showroom in Portsmouth RI. Free lunch, tour of showroom, and a presentation of Home Renovations to Grow Older with, while staying at home as safely & as independently as possible. Free! All are welcome! Home Adaptations Made Easy. The bus will leave the Senior Center at 9:30 am and will return around 2:30 pm.

There is a day trip on Thursday,September 20thto “The Big E” Eastern States Exposition in Springfield. Admission is $12. The bus will leave the Senior Center at 7:30 am and will return around 6:00 pm.

This week’s Friday Movie is canceled, so there will be no movie on September 14th. But there will be a movie next week.

The Fitness room program is open 5 days a week for 4 hours each day! The schedule is as follows: Mon, Wed, Thurs, Fri: 8:00 am – 12:00 pm. Tues: 10:00 am – 2:00 pm. There is a monthly membership fee of only $10 per person, due on the 1st of each month.

Hanna Milhench & team will prepare a delicious luncheon on Monday, September 17th, at 12:00 pm, here at the Senior Center. Anyone is welcome to attend, but MUST sign up in advance. Anonymous donation of $5.00 per person is suggested for the meal. If you would like a ride in, please call us at 508-763-8723.

The Quarterly Birthday Party for those who have or who have had a birthday during the months of July, August, & September, is scheduled for Monday, September 24that 12:00 pm. Anyone is welcome to attend. Birthday invites have been mailed to those who are celebrating! Please RSVP by calling us at 508-763-8723 so we will be sure to prepare enough food for all who attend! You do not have to be celebrating a birthday to come to lunch that day! The more the merrier! A suggested donation of $4.00 per person for the meal is appreciated; Birthday attendees receive a complimentary lunch! Entertainment will also be provided. Let us know if you need a ride in!

The Happy Hookers Rug Hooking Group will meet on Tuesday, September 18thfrom 10:00 am – 2:30 pm. Drop-in to see the beautiful work the “Hookers” do!

Mattapoisett Losing Mobile Pump-Out Service

On August 30, Mattapoisett Harbormaster Jill Simmons reported to the Mattapoisett Marine Advisory Board (MAB) that pump-out services provided by Mattapoisett Boat Yard (MBY) would end in 2018.

Simmons explained that MBY simply could not continue to provide the service as it wasn’t profitable. With that grim reality, Simmons said she hoped the town would plan to acquire a pump-out boat to ensure that mobile service could continue.

“People don’t want to take what limited recreation time they have to pump their boats out at the wharf,” Simmons explained. The convenience of having a mobile pump-out service has been one that boaters in Mattapoisett waters have enjoyed for years; losing that service will be a big blow to them, she said.

According to Simmons, David Kaiser, general manager of the MBY, had informed her of the situation, which prompted her to look into cost estimates should the voters decide to purchase their own boat, something that she had suggested and planned for during a previous municipal budgeting season. That plan, however, was nixed at an annual town meeting.

Simmons said the Massachusetts Division of Marine Fisheries governs a federal program that provides grants up to $75,000 to municipalities to purchase a pump vessel. These grants are part of the federal Clean Water Act, first enacted in the 1940s. Cost estimates for a pump-out boat were being investigated, she said.

The Town of Mattapoisett currently provides shore side pump-out service located at the end of Long Wharf. Simmons said the shore side equipment currently needs about $17,000 in repairs and upgrades, of which she said approximately $4,300 would be paid for through federal grants.

MAB Chairman Carlos DeSousa said, “We need to take this to Town Meeting.”

In other matters, DeSousa opened discussions regarding the need to consolidate mooring classifications that currently separate commercial and business status. He said that previously the local regulations scheduled 10 percent of all moorings to a business classification that allowed marinas to hold a certain number for their customers. That allowed marinas to provide mooring services to customers without the worry of what had been a historically long waiting list for moorings. Now, however, with the wait list eliminated through better grid planning and an increased mooring field, there were 30 moorings unassigned.

DeSousa suggested that both classifications could be melded into a singular business classification allowing the marinas to use them as needed for their business operation. Simmons said she believed that the two classifications were local distinctions versus anything mandated by state regulators. The commercial classification allowed marinas to rent moorings, while the business classification did not, it was pointed out.

“[The marinas] are in business: they know what they need,” DeSousa said. Simmons agreed, saying, “I’d leave it up to them.”

In attendance were representatives from Triad Boat Yard, Brownell Boat Yard, and Leisure Shore Marina. They were unanimously in favor of the rule change. While none said they wanted to be in the mooring rental business, having a few for rent would help their operations.

A cautionary note was lobbied into the discussion when MAB member Bob Moore said, “The Inspector General is adamant that these are public waters. Boat yards are not allowed to put anyone ahead of a town person. But with the extra moorings we now have, that might not be so relevant.” He added, “The Inspector General is concerned that everyone goes through the Harbormaster’s Office.”

That brought up a sticking point for Simmons who said that marinas were not keeping her fully informed regarding boats staying on moorings for more then 14 days (in the agitate) in a season. Any boat moored in Mattapoisett for that period of time is required to pay a permit fee, Simmons said. Lack of notification by marinas made fee collection nearly impossible, Simmons explained. The marina representatives acknowledged their role while at the same time wondering aloud how such notification would be managed on a day-to-day basis.

On the matter of another type of notification to the Harbormaster’s Office, Simmons reported that she had sent a letter to Leisure Shores Marina asking for a list of boats and owners per the Harbor Rules. She stated that 30 of the 54 boats noted were cited for not having Waterways User stickers.

In the end, it was determined that the selectmen would be notified that the MAB suggests a rule change eliminating the commercial classification for some moorings and that Simmons would draft a letter to them in that regard.

Simmons also reported that the two vessels used by her department were not suitable for the type of activities her staff is required to perform and was actively securing cost estimates for a new harbormaster boat. She said that domestic cost estimates ranged around $150,000. A source in Canada quoted closer to $85,000 per vessel.

Another issue Simmons raised was the use of private vehicles by herself and her staff for departmental activities. She said that municipal planning indicated the Harbormaster’s Office would inherit an SUV from the Police Department, but she wasn’t convinced it would be totally suitable, although she said she would be grateful to have it. She called this issue a “priority” due to the liability issues associated with the use of private vehicles for business purposes.

Simmons also stated in her written reports, “Since [May 10, 2018], we have issued 161 warning stickers for violations such as winter sticks not being removed … no boat stickers on moorings, slips, dinghy spots, or kayak racks, and failure to have a boat property registered.” She wrote that citation documents were now in hand, allowing “finable offenses under the Harbor Rules” to be issued.

On the theme of security in and around the wharves, Simmons said she has the capacity to add security cameras to Internet connections already in place. However, she said that to date, funds had not been allocated to purchasing equipment. Simmons said her plans would include live streaming so that those wishing to “see” in real-time what’s going on at this iconic location could do so. She said that people who have mobility issues could view the harbor side while, at the same time, would-be vandals and thieves – both real problems at this location, she stressed – could be videotaped.

Moore said that possibly the Lions Club could partner with the Town in providing webcam equipment for security purposes as well as community engagement. He said he would follow up with the Lions Club at their next meeting.

Simmons also offered a packet containing what she termed blog-like snippets of the daily activities of her staff. She said the wide-range of interactions and situations her staff encountered during the boating season might surprise the public. Some entries were the expected such as assisting disabled vessels to shore. Some were downright comedic like this entry, “Assist boater who thought he lost his boat. Boat on mooring; he just couldn’t find it.” Simmons hopes to make these logs available to the public either through print or social media.

The next meeting of the Mattapoisett Marine Advisory Board is scheduled for September 27 at 7:00 pm in the town hall conference room.

Mattapoisett Marine Advisory Board

By Marilou Newell

 

Sunday School Is Back

Sunday school at Mattapoisett Congregational Church resumes on Sunday, September 16. We invite all children and their families to Homecoming on September 9at 10 am for worship, Sunday School sign-ups, and a cookout! We will need a new registration form completed for each child, new or returning (forms have been updated). Forms will be available online on our website, at Homecoming on September 9, or by contacting the church office at 508-758-2671. Thank you for your cooperation and we hope to see you there.

Sippican Choral Society

The Sippican Choral Society is looking for quite a few new members to help us ring in the Christmas 2018 season. Rehearsals are starting on Monday, September 10, and we’d love for you to join us.

We are a group of local singers who love to lend our voices to this large and inviting group. The rehearsals are a lot of fun and are certainly an educational experience, as our new director, Mr. Darry Dolezal, leads us through the many ins and outs and nuances of the music he selects for our group. Our program this year includes a wide assortment of traditional and non-traditional Christmas pieces, which are sure to delight our loyal and beloved audiences.

The Sippican Choral Society is a volunteer organization and does not require auditioning; however, there is a select Chamber Chorus which requires an audition, should you choose to participate. There is a $35 membership fee to sing with the SCS.

Rehearsals start on Monday, September 10 at 7:00 (registration) – 9:30 at Wickenden Chapel at Tabor Academy in Marion.

If you have any questions, please call Nancy Sparklin at 508-763-2327 and leave a message, or you can check out our website at www.sippicanchoralsociety.org.

Library Assistance for Color Blindness

If you are someone who is affected by color blindness, new glasses you can borrow from the Mattapoisett Free Public Library might offer you a new visual experience.

Thanks to a generous donation from the Mattapoisett Lions Club, the library now lends a pair of EnChroma glasses, designed for use with a particular type of color vision deficiency known as red-green color blindness. Some users will benefit dramatically right away, while others may take up to two weeks to see results, according to the manufacturer.

Borrowing the glasses is a good way to try them out and see if you might benefit before purchasing your own pair because not everyone with color blindness will benefit.

For more information about EnChroma glasses, visit the company’s website at www.enchroma.com.

For information about borrowing non-traditional materials from the library, visit www.mattapoisettlibrary.org/libraryofthings.asp or stop by during library hours, see the displays, and speak with the staff. Many interesting and fun items are available, which will save you money, including cake pans and cookie cutter sets, fishing poles, an InstantPot, binoculars, and much more. Patrons need to present their adult library card in good standing to borrow library materials.

Trash District Finds Optimism in New Exec. Director

There was a renewed sense of optimism by the end of the Carver, Marion, Wareham Regional Refuse Disposal District Committee meeting on August 29 with the hiring of a new executive director with real vision, committee members remarked, after having fired its former executive director, Ray Pickles, in January after years of mismanagement and alleged financial fraud and embezzlement.

As Marion Town Administrator Paul Dawson stated earlier in the meeting, “This board has inherited a mess, quite frankly, and the next executive director is gonna have to help the board to right that ship.”

After three candidates were interviewed that evening, the committee, in a 7-1 vote, overwhelmingly chose Michelle Bernier as the one to “take the bull by the horns,” as committee member Marietta Maraccini put it.

Bernier said her experience has taken her all across the solid waste management landscape, from ‘bag-and-tag’ programs that are self-sustaining, to converting to ‘pay as you throw’ waste management, and has been all through Europe investigating alternative waste management practices.

“It’s my curiosity and the fact that I love this industry,” said Bernier when asked why she would be a good fit for the CMWRRDD. “I have a lot of experience that I can bring to your problem.” And it’s a huge problem, Bernier acknowledged. Carver, Marion, Wareham – “They’re very diverse communities trying to decide how to be served,” said Bernier.

“And I think it can be done,” continued Bernier. “I think it would be fun; it would be a challenge.”

Bernier said she has toured the CMWRRDD facilities, finding many similarities with the facility she has run. Right away she offered the committee a number of options for the future of the district, beginning by recommending that Carver and Wareham, like Marion, offer their own municipal curbside collection.

“This is my neck of the woods; I live here,” said Bernier. “I think I have direct experience to bring to your problem.”

Earlier in the meeting the committee lamented the imminent expiration of the CMWRRDD’s contract with Covanta that allows for waste disposal at its SEMASS facility in Rochester while reimbursing the CMWRRDD from 75%-100% for various aspects of the district’s operations and payroll. That contract expires December 31, 2020, and the committee was feeling the pressure to figure out in such a short time “what we want to be when we grow up,” a term that was repeated all throughout the meeting drenched in pessimism. Bernier, however, offered the committee a much more optimistic perception of those dwindling two years.

“You’re lucky,” Bernier said. “You still have a year and a half of Covanta, so you’ve got a life preserver; you’ve got a year and a half before you hit the wall. It’s not gonna be easy – transition is tough – but you have the money to cover it.”

The committee asked Bernier what her plan would be for the first six months as the district’s executive director.

“You need to figure out where you want to go and then, over the next six months, the executive director [would] present you with possibilities to get to where you think you want to be,” said Bernier. “I think washed hands is not good for any town – not providing any services,” Bernier cautioned. In contrast to prior suggestions of some CMWRRDD Committee members, Bernier advised, “I think you need to stay as a district. I don’t think any of you want to absorb your current trash collection into your [municipal] budgets.”

The key, said Bernier, is to make the operation self-sustaining by using Covanta funds as “seed money.”

“You may need to use [district trash] bags at some point,” said Bernier. Purchasing district trash bags would be the “fairest way” to cover the cost of the operation, she said. “It’s not the only way. Once you have some suggestion or ideas … then the next six months is to lay out the plan and then you’re going to have to start with the public.”

The public will likely resist the change, Bernier suggested, adding, “With pay-as-you-go, you make yourself self-sustaining.

“It’s gonna be painful,” she said. “It’s like taking a Band-Aid off.”

The district could continue with each town serviced according to their individual needs, while remaining under the umbrella of a district, Bernier suggested. “Whatever decision you make, you need the district. I think [the district needs to] stay and it needs to be a separate entity that handles that mess,” not the individual municipalities.

Bernier’s 6-month plan: roll it out incrementally, one town at a time.

“Whoever’s ready,” said Bernier. “If you’re going to do curbside, then it’s Marion first.”

The committee considered making a decision at a later date, but it soon became evident that the committee had enough confidence to make up its mind that night.

“She’s been through all of it and doing what we’re looking to do,” said one committee member.

As Maraccini pointed out, “She’s been coming to our meetings. She knows what the industry is. She knows our problem, our strengths and weaknesses.”

“And she still applied!” exclaimed several committee members all at once.

Committee member and Marion Selectman Norm Hills chose Bernier for the job, saying, “Without a doubt. She knows what she’s getting into,” said Hills. “She’s actually happy to get into it!”

“Clearly,” Hills said, Bernier is a “visionary.”

“She had a plan, an idea; it was clear in her head, a step-by-step process,” said Hills. “She is what we need.”

“I was very impressed,” said CMWRRDD Committee Chairman Steve Cushing.

Bernier will join the district pending contract negotiations, bringing her 17 years of experience in solid waste management in North Attleboro. In addition to her experience in solid waste management, Bernier was also the assistant to the town administrator and holds a Masters degree in English and was a teacher for a number of years. She was also a practicing paralegal for several years. Bernier lives in Mattapoisett.

The committee chose former Fairhaven executive secretary of 27 years Jeffrey Osuch, who was also the DPW director for ten years prior, as the alternative candidate should contract negotiations with Bernier fail. The committee thanked a third candidate interviewed that evening, John Healey, for his interest.

Carver, Marion, Wareham Regional Refuse Disposal District Committee

By Jean Perry

 

Echoes

The old photographs are all that remain. There are few family members, if any at all, who had firsthand contact with my long-deceased grandparents. Those of us who may have heard a story or two are getting older. We don’t spend much time talking about our ancestors.

Is it true that once the collective conscientious no longer remembers us, we are well and truly gone, only to awaken on those rare occasions when someone, somewhere in the gene pool, conjures up our name? After all, we are mere mortals of little repute. We are just average working-class people who came from immigrants.

My grandfathers were immigrants. I never met them. Their hard lives bore down on their bodies as they joined the legions of other family members I would never know. Growing up without grandparents meant that any history imparted to me was second-hand. I only knew what I heard from their children and my parents as I studied fading sepia images.

My mother’s father, according to her, came across the Canadian border illegally. “He may have been running away from the law,” she’d say. I’d look at his face in the photograph trying to find something there I could identify with, something that I could weave into my own narrative. What I may have taken from all those wispy conversations was that he was a rebel, skirting the rules here and there to survive. That I understand.

Ma said that his dark complexion made the family believe he might have had American Indian blood. He was handsome in a rough-hewn way, unsophisticated, earthy, and known to have a raging, explosive temper. His name was Martin Billard.

Some contemporary family members have tried to research his past through computer programs that warehouse public records. Ancestry research has produced sparse results. The few records available show a man who became a naturalized citizen in spite of entering the country as an undocumented worker. Martin married a citizen, my grandmother Mary Ransom, who then also had to be naturalized after marrying an illegal. The rules in the early twentieth century were much different than today. Between his marriage and his death, there are only the stories nearly obscured by time and distance. All of his children are now deceased.

Ma said that at Christmas time, he would travel to New Bedford, where my grandmother came from, bringing back rare fruits and nuts, items we take for granted today, like oranges. He’d bring his children another rare treat, rock candy. How clearly I see her face smiling at that memory.  It was precious to her.

The rest of Ma’s memories were filled with anger and the harsh realities of medical care of the poor before World War II.

Her father drank. He didn’t earn enough money to provide for his large family. His wife had to work, too. He had a stroke when he was only in his forties. People stepped over him in the street where he lain for hours thinking he was merely drunk again. He was placed in a bed on the first floor of the home that his wife had purchased. There he stayed, severely paralyzed, being cared for by my mother who was 12 at the time. He died years later in a hospital far from home. He outlived his wife who died in her fifties. That is the sum total of all I know.

My father’s father we know even less about. Dad was never predisposed to talk much about anything, least of all his family. But there the old man stands in pictures taken sometime in the late ‘40s or early ‘50s. In one picture he is standing with his wife, Nettie, and their oldest grandchild. Their clothing is very bedraggled. The grandchild is prim, tidy, and standing stick straight. Everyone is trying to smile.

Of this man, Nehemiah Newell, I was told the following: the family emigrated from England to Nova Scotia, they were fishermen, and they were a band of brothers who traveled to Cape Cod for the fishing opportunities. In another picture, the short somewhat squat man is standing in front of lobster traps stacked high against a shack. He was, indeed, a fisherman.

Nehemiah labored long and hard as a shore fisherman rowing a boat around Barnstable, Hyannis, and Yarmouth. Dad hinted that his father might have been a laborer working on the Cape Cod Canal at one point. I can’t confirm that detail. My paternal grandfather suffered from a “bad chest.” His wife begrudgingly cared for him. They lived their final years as they had lived all their years, in nearly abject poverty. End of story.

These were simple men in search of survival.

It is highly likely that, if there were rules governing the immigration of persons from Canada to the U.S. in the early 1900’s, my grandfathers avoided the paperwork. They could barely read. I wonder if my grandfathers would be allowed to immigrate now. My maternal grandfather may have had a checkered past, was uneducated, penniless, and did not have a sponsor. My paternal grandfather was uneducated, penniless, and also did not have a sponsor.

Of one thing I am sure: they were following the money, the opportunity, the hope of something better. They came to the U.S. to thrive. They managed that, but little more in their own lifetimes. But they set something in motion that continues today.

This I also know: their children scrambled up from the depths of poverty. Many of their grandchildren and great-grandchildren are college educated, or are tradesmen, have achieved economic success, are contributing members of this American story.

Given the success of their flock, no doubt my grandfathers would believe as I do – they had accomplished what they started out to do, a chance at something more then mere survival. If that is the case, then this is a happy ending for my family. It is a never-ending story of humankind’s drive, as real today as when my grandfathers skirted authority in order to live in the United States of America.

This Mattapoisett Life

By Marilou Newell

 

Marion Cub Scout Pack 32

2018 is a new beginning for scouting as we now welcome both girls and boys from kindergarten to grade 5 to participate in all the fun and learning that Cub Scouts provides. Scouts and adult volunteers are welcome! Marion scouts meet on Thursday evenings and have tons of additional optional events on weekends and vacations. (You do not have to have a child in scouting to volunteer with scouting.)

Pack 32 prides itself on combining fun with philanthropy. Our scouts work on STEAM projects and donate their time to organizations like Gifts to Give in New Bedford. From overseeing the Marion Town clean-up, racing Pinewood Derby cars, fishing derbies, family camp outs, monthly hikes to collecting food for those in need, Marion Scouts have an incredibly well-rounded program that offers something for every young person. The great thing about scouting is you can choice how many extra activities you want to join.

For more information, please contact Kristen Saint Don-Campbell at marioncubscouts@gmail.com or by calling 508-254-3605. We have a number of events in September as we start the year off. We look forward to meeting all interested scouts!

Fall Children’s Programs at the Mattapoisett Library

Family Storytime – Children of all ages are welcome to family storytime to be held on Wednesdays from 10:30 to 11:15 am beginning September 26. This eight-week series does not require registration, so drop in and join the fun.

Read to Breton – Lenore Everett and her certified therapy dog, Breton, will be back this fall to read with children. Sign up in the Children’s Department for individual 15-minute appointments during which children can practice their reading skills. All ages welcome.

Junior Friends of the Library – Students in grades 5 through 8 are invited to join the Junior Friends, a lively group that meets on the second Friday of each month at 3 pm to plan projects and events, to help the library staff, and to have fun. Stop by the Children’s Department for more information. The next meeting will be held September 7.

1000 Books Before Kindergarten – Families with children ages birth to kindergarten are encouraged to sign up for the library’s new program that fosters family bonding, school readiness, and early literacy. Read 4 books a week with your child, and you will have read 1000 books in 5 years! The library staff will provide each family with a free book tote, reading log sheets, and more information. Earn prizes and free books for each 100 books read together.

Story Walk – A back-to-school title for those new to elementary school is now on display around the library grounds. Follow each page to read the story, and let the staff know how you liked it!

Chess Instruction – Chess coach Jim Kegle is available every Wednesday between 5 pm and 7 pm to provide individual chess instruction to children of all ages. From beginner to advanced, children are coached in chess strategies and gamesmanship. Sign up at the Children’s Circulation Desk for a half-hour session. Free of charge to all.

Halloween Fun Coming Soon – It’s not too early to mark your calendar for some fun Halloween films to be shown at the library for children. On Saturday, October 27, younger children are invited to enjoy “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown” at 11 am. Older children are invited to view “Coraline” at 1:30 pm. Free popcorn will be available at both movies.

Need Reading Ideas? Many book lists have been prepared by the library staff for children of all ages. Many types of books and interests are arranged by subject and reading level. Lists are available throughout the children’s room in various displays. Please stop in and speak with the library staff for more reading suggestions.

Visit the Children’s Department online at www.mattapoisettlibrary.org/children.asp

Robert A. “Bob” Connelly

Robert A. “Bob” Connelly, 80, of Rochester, Massachusetts passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 23, 2018 at Vibra Hospital in New Bedford.

Born in Boston and raised in Milton, he was the son of the late Thomas G. Connelly, M.D., and Alice (Molzon) Connelly. Bob is survived by his dedicated companion, Mary Keating of Rochester; his brothers, Thomas G. Connelly and his wife Barbara of Braintree and Peter J. Connelly and his wife Clare of Watertown; and his sister Susan (Connelly) Finn and Richard Fahey of Braintree.

He is also survived by a niece; Moya Connelly of Manhattan; a nephew, Peter Connelly and his wife Ann of Winchester and their two children Neive and Liam Connelly.

After graduation from Boston College, Bob entered the United States Navy and worked on Church Street in New York City in the 1960’s in the Navy’s fledgling computer operations.

Upon discharge, he founded Connelly Computer Services, and counted as his clients several Fortune 500 companies. His successful technology career spanned over thirty years after which he retired to Princeton, New Jersey and later settled in Rochester, Massachusetts in 1998.

Bob had many diverse passions. He enjoyed boating, and Cuttyhunk Island and Martha’s Vineyard were his favorite destinations. He collected antique Bentley automobiles and acquired an array of Chinese porcelain pieces over the years. He was a student of history and enjoyed foreign travel, especially to South America and the Middle East. He followed the stock market closely and stayed current on world events and politics. Whenever guests gathered to play Trivial Pursuit, everyone wanted Bob on their team.

The family wishes to thank all of his caregivers and friends for their thoughts and prayers during his recent illness. A private burial ceremony will be held at the National Cemetery in Bourne.